I only saw phone messages. I don't get it

Enjoy. Life as a man is annoying

as I get money for my pocket, balances. I go just de do anyhow a, balances

Please find a marriage counseling place.
When you get married and have some kids a max of 3 kids please. I am talking from my heart here, and experience. If you see your son or daughter having bad breath and body odour, don't wait for them to tell you. You tell them and rush them to hospital. That is part of what it means to be comforting
I have parents who are not comforting and I hate them getting in my way of happiness.
I am suffering of anger and depression too. Sometimes my mood is extra high and sometimes extra low. I do want revenge on them, I hate them, I doubt if they are my father and mother, the only reasonable explanation I could come up with is that I was human trafficked into the family, but at least they are my parents, not father and mother, I only call them that so that they won't kill me. They are my parents so I only forgive them.

oldienavie:
I know you have only written just a few from what you have passed through.
Let me tell you some things.
Nigeria is an evil place, majority of people in Nigeria are evil too, therefore the average person grow up in the midst of abuse, torture, pain etc.
95% of people in Nigeria are traumatised from the pain and evil they grew up with, the worse thing is that this has now be normalised and the result is a country lacking in empathy, desensitized to pain and evil in all its fabric.
You see police men, killing people without remorse, swapping inmates for the highest bidder and allowing the guilty walk free.

I have written all this so that you know you are not alone, some people on this group have been abused by their own parents sexually for years, how do you heal that kind of trauma, no justice nothing.

Every body expects you to man up and move on.

Now this is my little advise from someone who also had a traumatic childhood like you, but in my own case, people would argue that I should be grateful cos some people have it worse.

The fact you are alive is a priviledge, try to forgive yourself, move away from anything, family, friends that triggers the thought of the past .
This might sound somehow but try to look for a lady that loves you sincerely(this might be difficult but still possible considering the average lady out there is a gold digger) and pour your love into her.

Lastly, dream of having your own family and have a plan to raise your kids and family with the opportunity that you did not have.

The joy you get from a beautiful family will make you forget the past.

I wish you all the best.

and one more thing... He should learn how to be comforting. His parents made a mistake of not learning it, but he should learn it, gradual by gradual. It will be a beautiful journey I promise.

underpinna:
My little sister has a boyfriend who writes her love letter.

She is learning computer in another village and always comes back home late. A journey of 30mins back from her training center will take her close to two hours.

I am not always home and just visited the first time this year. After the numerous complaint from my mum I decided to check her school bag and found four letters from a guy. All come came from him. I will be showing it to popsi. My little sis not not the biological daughter to my parents. Her mother was good to us hence we are returning the favor. She just finished secondary school and will soon pick jamb form to further her education on my father's financing.

I just fear pregnancy. She should be within 15-18 can't really tell though.

I'm just afraid popsi might sent her packing.

rule no 1: don't promise any woman marriage. My parents always tell me that. If her boyfriend don't have money, please kick him out. Report the letter to your parents as fast as possible.

How do you smoke your cigarettes?

odutolu1:
Someone asked me a question and although I gave my advise, I wish to throw it open to see if we can get more opinion. Would you take a FinTech job or a bank job (not as a contract staff)?

The thing is, he's already employed with one of the traditional commercial banks in Nigeria. But he recently saw an opportunity to start with a FinTech company. The FinTech company is into payments, cryptocurrency, and uses blockchain.

He's worried of the job security of being in a FinTech company due to the political climate – Nigeria's stance on cryptocurrency. But the company is diversified into all forms of payments.

He has been working with the traditional bank for years and it's much like wasting one's career.

Would you continue with the bank job till maybe when you find a better offer at a secure place or take the FinTech job which offers better pay but has low job security due to the country's aggressive political climate on cryptocurrency?

if Fintech pay well more than Banks, then he should find one abroad.

@slawormiir

Hi
Everyone please listen. I am going to be starting a tobacco smoking. By God's grace, tomorrow.
But are some people vulnerable with one stick of tobacco? Am not asthmatic. Slawormiir could you update us on the market, please.

Jacksparrow7:
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shey me?? don't worry you will make heaven

Let her explain her story and grievance first, before I have anything to say. Don't come and dump bad news here. Bad news bad news bad news, but nothing to learn. The truth is many people don't know how to be comforting. Just now as my father came to parlour he just started complain in low voice, am sure you will like it, right?

The question is what will you do if you don't get school this year

zaynie:


Mine lasts all through pregnancy.
Nutri C was always my go to. Couldn't drink water.
But it leaves about a week after having my babies.
It was worse in my first pregnancy, but subsequently I knew what to expect so e no too pepper me.

hellooo.
How long did you take to recover after delivery?
Was it CS?

Rekhi:
What i experienced was different with each of my pregnancy,but the common experiences were
Fatigue.
I became too emotional - shed tears unnecessarily.
Increased appetite.
Frequent urination.

Hello.
So after delivery what happened to your daily routine for going out?

Hathor5:


Third trimester is long. It's 12 weeks. If mommy-to-be feels like it, she can work until the end of the pregnancy but I'd guess that most women will find it difficult in the last 6-4 weeks to perform like they used to before baby grew big and almost ready to come in their belly.

After delivery ... It depends on the nature of her job, how quickly she heals after delivery and a number of other factors. I'd say that it's good to have a span of two months to recover and to adjust to the new situation. But then, who is going to look after the baby if she gets back to work after two months?

Why all these questions? Are you people expecting?

I want to come up with my own answer to walk with. It's like I have to be competent and dependable. If I can't take care of wife and one child, I shouldn't marry. That's what I learnt so far

Nicepoker:
But in actual sense those trees produces the oxygen we breath.

it can't be. Oxygen is just their by-product

Omoo see titan

Just say plant what you will be breathing at home. What nonsense, like as if I will carry it and go out and be using it to breath.

cococandy:

hello cococandy

Hathor5:


Depending on where you're based there are laws that allow parents to stay at home for longer than 3 months without risking to lose their jobs.

my third trimester babe cannot be going to work o. I can't risk it . The other day a woman couldn't climb bridge to cross road she had to use Keke. I couldn't even see her pregnancy till her cloth shrink small. Can she be okay for work after a month of delivery?

What a way forward. Humans can never be 100% rational. Even Jesus had small irrationality for him head.
He knows what is good for him. He didn't do anything stupid.
Infact am doing mine tomorrow

Wow. Makeup bam oo

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Hathor5:


I haven't. Why the question?

some employers won't let you stay away more than 3 months. How long did you stay away from work?

Hathor5:


You were born to have many kids.

hello
Do women loss their jobs during pregnancy?

It's like something happened to you long ago before marriage. A kind of pain you haven't gotten over. Check well

verybadmouth:
Big lie. My wife has been adorable. We've together been taking care of my baby. We manage our business together and also learn new things together. She advices me when I get stuck in ideas and she's also financially supportive.

during pregnancy did your wife get fired from work?
Or she quit herself?

Please don't come back to Nigeria. I have good intentions in saying that. This country's news de give me afternoon cold

Kriss216:
A Nigerian girl with halitosis is a recipe for disaster.

You think she will tolerate you if you find yourself in that situation? If yes, help her look for cure, if No, disembark from that useless relationship.

no de read my mind. Make I cruise

hahahahaha5x:
I shouldn't stress myself writing epistles.

I met a girl recently where I went to chill. I got there and ended up not spending a dime for myself. So when I approached her she asked for a plate of pepper soup which I got for her 500 naira. Lol

The next day while we were chatting she told me she was out of data so I transferred 500mb to her from my SIM since I subscribed 40 GB.

PS that's how I transfer data to people daily. Both guys and girls. It depends on the first two people who ask me since there's a limit.

When I went there later she was singing that she was hungry. I didn't wanna answer her because she was beginning to piss me with her beggy beggy attitude lol. After much consideration I gave her 2h to buy snacks and she got it.

Today she told me she's always bored whenever she's at work so I felt I should go check on her. I started taking some bottles of beer while chilling with her. Not long she started telling me how she's damn hungry lol. I jokingly told her she hasn't come to know my house yet o yet she's always telling me to do this or that for her. She just told me "I nor dey come person house". I then asked her "yet you bill people abi?" She said she'd return all I've spent on her. Las las I've collected my money and she has stood up from my table to be alone. In her presence I've bought drinks for two guys.

Nb: For those who would come here to tell me today is a working day. I make my money online. I'm a crypto trader. I can trade and make money anywhere.

Bros you fμck up. How could you send data to someone who didn't ask you (woman for that matter). Na that time she take loss respect for you and start to do the things. You send am big Data bundle just like magic