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Health / Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by James289(f): 11:18pm On Apr 06, 2023
i know exactly how you're feeling, you are not alone in having feelings of regret after this decision. it's a very tough spot to be in, and no matter which way you choose, there is no good answer. you and i chose the same route, and i also experienced regret for years after. here is what i eventually came to: the child-that-could-have-been (since it was too early for it really to be a child yet) did not cease to be in vain. I decided that the only way for me to move on was to make the most of my life and my opportunities, to never settle for a bad relationship, to never give up on my studies or my jobs. the only way for that decision to be meaningful is if i did not waste away in regret, but instead, if i moved forward. it's been about 5years since i came to that realization (a realization i came to about 2 or 3 years after the abortion). it's been hard at times, but knowing that every day that is spent in a positive way,every day spent moving me forward in my career, personal goals, and relationships, gives meaning and importance to the loss i suffered back then. it gives the death of the child-that-might-have-been meaning, something that has helped a whole lot.

good luck to you and wish you only the best.

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Family / Re: Help Save My Marriage by James289(f): 5:02pm On Mar 04, 2023
Show her much love. Wash her clothes and cook delicious food, she will respect you, even without money. don't forget to do fasting and prayers for her, she will change 🚶🏼‍♀️🚶🏼‍♀️
Romance / Re: What Ended Your Last Relationship? by James289(f): 12:20pm On Feb 28, 2023
Our lives were going in completely different directions and it was better to end it instead of trying to force it to work. We're still friends and keep in touch.
Family / Re: Today Is My Traditional wedding by James289(f): 12:15pm On Feb 28, 2023
I am so happy to say I will be finally marrying my soulmate please pray for us 🙏

I pray that your FWB can turn up to the wedding venue with a gun and shot you dead🖕


Family / Re: Friend On Benefit Has Contacted My Fiancee by James289(f): 11:35am On Jan 31, 2023
Don't forget to update when you guys break up


Foreign Affairs / Re: The White House Christmas Decorations 2022 by James289(f): 10:24am On Dec 09, 2022
Wow, so beautiful!
Crime / Re: I Killed My Friend, Sold Head, Heart For N200,000, Man Reveals by James289(f): 8:18pm On Nov 22, 2022
Wickedness of the highest order.
Crime / Re: Man Beats Wife To Death As He Seeks To Control Property She Built In Ogun (Pix) by James289(f): 8:16pm On Nov 22, 2022
He just poured his frustration on the woman for his incompetence as a man.
Celebrities / Re: Sophia Momodu Pens Down Apology Following Imade’s Birthday Post by James289(f): 8:14pm On Nov 22, 2022
It's well o
Family / Re: Woman Dies After Being Detained And Starved For A Year By Her Husband In Yobe by James289(f): 8:07pm On Nov 22, 2022
I hate this kind of story!!!! Mtchewwww
Family / Re: My Husband Won't Provide For Me And Children by James289(f): 8:02pm On Nov 22, 2022
Search for Justice Court on YouTube by judge funmi she will help you.

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Family / Re: Man Called Out For Serial Cases Of Domestic Violence by James289(f): 11:45pm On Nov 16, 2022
This man is a monster
Family / Re: Man Discovered He Is Not The Father Of His Children Through Wife's Chat by James289(f): 11:29pm On Nov 16, 2022
Jesus Christ!!! I fear my gender
Celebrities / Re: Tony Umez And Wife Patsy Ogochukwu Celebrate 23rd Wedding Anniversary (Photos) by James289(f): 10:11pm On Nov 16, 2022
Happy anniversary dorling


Family / Re: Girl Arrested For Faking Own Death To Avoid Financial Pressure From Mom by James289(f): 7:30pm On Nov 14, 2022
She should have change her phone number
Family / Re: When Was The Last Time You Sent Your Parents Money by James289(f): 7:28pm On Nov 14, 2022
Every month, even tho they don't need or ask for it. I think I'm repaying for the money I wasted in the name of education

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Family / Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by James289(f): 7:25pm On Nov 14, 2022
She's an adult. There is nothing you can do when an adult makes a decision about their own life. You may disagree with her decision, but that does not make it wrong.

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Family / Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by James289(f): 7:22pm On Nov 14, 2022
Don’t dwell on the past and move forward with someone who is going to value you and respect the relationship they form with you.
Health / Re: My Dick Use To Disgrace Me by James289(f): 7:17pm On Nov 14, 2022
Quit masturbating multiple times a day and see what happens
Politics / Re: Bola Tinubu And Atiku Meet At Abuja Airport This Afternoon by James289(f): 7:12pm On Nov 14, 2022
And their supporters will be killing themselves on the social media.
Politics / Re: Gunmen Threaten To Force Soludo To Resign by James289(f): 7:09pm On Nov 14, 2022
False news
Politics / Re: Soludo: Peter Obi Knows That He Can’t And Won’t Win by James289(f): 7:07pm On Nov 14, 2022
Bitterness is cancerous. Never knew Soludo is this bitter Tueh


Family / Re: To My Beautiful Wife. I'm Sorry For Being The Worst Husband Ever by James289(f): 8:11pm On Nov 13, 2022
I just hope this isn't another super story.
Family / Re: Does It Mean People Who Shares Same Surname Are Related? by James289(f): 8:03pm On Nov 13, 2022
What? No obviously not.
Romance / Re: My Ex Wants Me Back by James289(f): 7:59pm On Nov 13, 2022
Ex stands for an Example of what not to look for in your next gf.


Family / Re: Is My Father's Uncle Also My Uncle by James289(f): 7:55pm On Nov 13, 2022
Grand uncle
Family / Re: I Am Not Happy With My Dad Please Advise Me by James289(f): 7:54pm On Nov 13, 2022
Just face your life, some women are destined to die as GALLANT soldiers in marriage. You can't save her but you can save yourself

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Family / Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by James289(f): 11:56am On Nov 11, 2022
Lazy man. Typical poor mentality. He owes you nothing.
Family / Re: Between Your Mother And Wife by James289(f): 10:04am On Oct 26, 2022
Anyone who puts mom first needs to see a therapist.


Family / Re: GOD is Good by James289(f): 11:20pm On Oct 22, 2022
You need to get to the local police station and report him, it's that simple.


Family / Re: No Family Planning, No Sex by James289(f): 11:14pm On Oct 22, 2022
If you are done having kids, get your tubes tied. Vasectomy.

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Crime / Re: Man Impregnates His 13-Year-Old Daughter In Ogun by James289(f): 10:48pm On Oct 15, 2022
Lock him up and throw away the keys

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