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i know exactly how you're feeling, you are not alone in having feelings of regret after this decision. it's a very tough spot to be in, and no matter which way you choose, there is no good answer. you and i chose the same route, and i also experienced regret for years after. here is what i eventually came to: the child-that-could-have-been (since it was too early for it really to be a child yet) did not cease to be in vain. I decided that the only way for me to move on was to make the most of my life and my opportunities, to never settle for a bad relationship, to never give up on my studies or my jobs. the only way for that decision to be meaningful is if i did not waste away in regret, but instead, if i moved forward. it's been about 5years since i came to that realization (a realization i came to about 2 or 3 years after the abortion). it's been hard at times, but knowing that every day that is spent in a positive way,every day spent moving me forward in my career, personal goals, and relationships, gives meaning and importance to the loss i suffered back then. it gives the death of the child-that-might-have-been meaning, something that has helped a whole lot.

good luck to you and wish you only the best.

Show her much love. Wash her clothes and cook delicious food, she will respect you, even without money. don't forget to do fasting and prayers for her, she will change 🚶🏼‍♀️🚶🏼‍♀️

Our lives were going in completely different directions and it was better to end it instead of trying to force it to work. We're still friends and keep in touch.

mrrobz:
I am so happy to say I will be finally marrying my soulmate please pray for us 🙏

I pray that your FWB can turn up to the wedding venue with a gun and shot you dead🖕

Don't forget to update when you guys break up

Wow, so beautiful!

Wickedness of the highest order.

He just poured his frustration on the woman for his incompetence as a man.

It's well o

I hate this kind of story!!!! Mtchewwww

Search for Justice Court on YouTube by judge funmi she will help you.

This man is a monster

Jesus Christ!!! I fear my gender

Happy anniversary dorling

She should have change her phone number

Every month, even tho they don't need or ask for it. I think I'm repaying for the money I wasted in the name of education

She's an adult. There is nothing you can do when an adult makes a decision about their own life. You may disagree with her decision, but that does not make it wrong.

Don’t dwell on the past and move forward with someone who is going to value you and respect the relationship they form with you.

Quit masturbating multiple times a day and see what happens

And their supporters will be killing themselves on the social media.

False news

Bitterness is cancerous. Never knew Soludo is this bitter Tueh

I just hope this isn't another super story.

What? No obviously not.

Ex stands for an Example of what not to look for in your next gf.

Grand uncle

Just face your life, some women are destined to die as GALLANT soldiers in marriage. You can't save her but you can save yourself

Lazy man. Typical poor mentality. He owes you nothing.

Anyone who puts mom first needs to see a therapist.

You need to get to the local police station and report him, it's that simple.

If you are done having kids, get your tubes tied. Vasectomy.

Lock him up and throw away the keys