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Gifted scholar: Where is james?

sorry dear, like you, I have been away. How have you been?
Heavy bleeding? That's bad, so sorry, hope you're better now... Please take good care of yourself.

Nice, innovative mind you've got there @Op!

QueenR.A.W:
As for your constuctive criticism, who made you the relationship guru? I don't see where your input is to be taken to heart or to take heed to.

Quite RAW!!

otijah: It is very very wrong, cause while cooking the food the guy maybe staring at her ass, which can nw lead to kitchen s*x, which means s*x be4 marriage and is a sin in the sight of God

This guy got me cracked-up...
Hilarious reasoning!!

I like them all...

I know how difficult this is for you, considering the fact that you love him.
However, you would only keep hurting yourself if you keep trying to love someone who doesn't return it...
Thinking of how it would hurt to let him go despite your love for him, might be one of the things holding you back.
But...think of this, would it be wise to refuse surgery on a gunshot wound, letting the wound fester, simply because of the the pain surgery would cause?

Gifted scholar: hav complained severally, I complained sumtyms nd tell him its over...hw calls ceaseless nd beg dat we need to see nd talk nd wen I see him he bcomes speechless he cnt say anytin...he is naturally nt a pesin dat talks, bt den he jst stare @ me witout a word nd den I jst let it go nd keep enduring...truly james its pretty difficult nd frastratin to love some1 who doesn't love u!!

Gifted scholar: I try to assist him d little way I cn! U jst dnt get it...u cn giv witout lovin bt u cnt love witout giving!!...

I entirely agree with this. Love moves one to share the lil' one has with one's lover.
I do understand how you feel, it could be very fustrating to love and not to feel loved in return.
If what you typed up there is entirely true, then i think it's time for you to have a heart-to-heart, no-hold-back talk with him, after which you could decide on your next line of action.

Can you answer the following questions honestly? It might do you some good...
1) Is he financially, in a situation to help? (would help you see if his actions are intentionally uncaring)
2) Do you guys discuss personal problems in your relationship? (he might not know the extent of the difficulties you're going through)
3) Do you, sometimes, outta the blue express your love for him? (do onto others what you expect from them)
4) Do you ask about his own personal problems and how he is dealing with them? (if you do, he would also be concerned about yours)
5) Doesn't he support you financially in any way, no matter how lil'? (he might be doing what he feels is his best, but to you, it isn't enough)

freecocoa: Chei my Enrique Iglesias, I'll smother(in a good way) him with wet kisses, I'll love to kiss Kaka, Darren Criss and Tuface, then there's morris chestnut.

Though Cory monteith is dead, I loved and still love him dearly, won't mind kissing him when I cross over to the afterlife which will be after I've grown old and die.

The way wey I go take slap Mr Ibu, Tonto dike and Miley cyrus eh, them go dey wonder wetin them do me.

Did i miss it, or did you actually skipped ma name? #winks

Annie2gud: I'm a huge Fan.

Woww..that's so sweet!!
I love everything about modelling, am into fitness models and Ryan Terry is my favourite.
Someday, in the distant future, i might go into it, for the fun of it!!

<< can we derail a lil'?
Your signature suggest you into modelling, or atleast got love for it... No?

How can someone be rated sexy, just by his long, pink face?
I had hope to see some hard, ripped, masculine physique and a killer face, sporting a heart-melting smile...
Not this shiiiitt!! #lolx

Annie2gud: Adam was a beta lover.

Sure he was... And look where he got us.

dinachi: Easy! As the slap dey land my face I dey lock my mouth to yours in a hot unexpected kiss. The suddeness of the whole thing is the appeal. Before you know what is happening you are shouting baby please don"t stop!

Badt guy!!!
Nothing works better than a... SHUT-THE FORK-UP-KISS.
BTW: I just don't gerrit, what's with ladies and pretense?
He wants it, you want it (ok, maybe not as much as he does), so why not cut the bullshit and get down to business?
I think most girls are unduely concerned with their pride and reputation.. Wouldn't want to be considered slutty birtches!!!
But then, nothing is as sweet as giving free reins to raging hormones.

My mamma told me: ''Never hit a woman''!!
Jesus said: ''if they strike one cheek, give 'em the other too''.
Buh all na wash. . . You hit me first (be you male or female, lover or foe) you're asking for it, and sure as hell, i would give it right back to you with INTEREST sef!

Winnie1950: For someone like me who is already short, its impossible. Wetin u want make we born? Dwarf?

If your fear is just the height of the kids resulting from such a union. . . . you need not worry, it's genetically proven that short parents could actually give rise to tall offsprings!!
(It all depends on the genetic make-up of both parties involved).
BTW: Me thinks the OP is not on the tall side... #winks

acidtalk: Area!!!
Where all my customer dem?
Make una show oh! We don pay our rent and landlord don reopen beer parlour.

#strolls in...
Bros, how far, you remember me?
Abeg gimme 1bottle of heineken with a plate of suya!!

yusufogrin: how cn i get d tombrown. .and how much is d cost?

It's a common local delicacy, mostly made for children. Ask a few women around, i guess you would find one who know about it.
You could also make it yourself, if you have the time to fry/roast/toast the components and then ground them to a powdery form.

movmentish: thanks,hope you wont mind if i send you an email bout my problems?

No p.
I would help with the lil' i know.

movmentish: you did not answer the rest of my issues....thanks

Bro.. i think all of your issues is really a single issue, YOU WANT TO GET BIGGER THAN YOU ARE RIGHT NOW.
To acheive that you need to get:
1) Get registered to a program at the gym.
2) That program most definitely would include lifting heavy weights, which would be increased progressively.
3) You would have to work every part of your body with weights, you would do bench presses, squats, dead lifting etc
4) The intensity would increase as well, you might start from a beginner level, to intermediate, and then to advanced level. Each varying in the intensity of the workouts.
5) You would have to pay attention to what you eat. You would need to eat like a giant before you become one. Your meals should be highly proteinous.
6) If you can lay your hands on steriod-free supplement, you would need to use them.
7) As an alternative to supplements, i would suggest you use tom brown. It's made locally and is highly proteinous, it's made with fried soya beans, groundnut, maize, millet etc. I was introduced to it by the guys in the gym i first trained. These guys are quite big, one is a professioner judo fighter and trains like hell. He uses just tom brown. When making it (tom brown) i suggest you add a tin of full cream milk, it increases it's richness.
After all said... getting bigger is all about eating big and training till you bust!!!

movmentish: 3)i do atleast a hundred press-up and 50 sit-up everyday but i've stopped seeing the benefits (i have a really nice 6 pac tho but no chest)

Ugosample: This thread is very informative. But i'm not close to any gym at the moment, so my question: Is push ups as effective as bar bells? And secondly, i've got to a point where further expansion is not forthcoming (so i think) which protein supplement is steroids free? And is it advisable to use them?

Push ups can't be compared to bench presses with barbells in terms of results.
Push ups utilizes only body weight, which isn't enough to build that big, broad, meaty pecs most guys dream of. Push ups only help build endurance, so if u can do 100push ups, it means you've got great endurance, but that won't help you get bigger.
The key to help build bigger pecs is to bench press heavy weights and progressively increase the weights as it gets easier. The heavier you push the bigger you get!!!

It's a Thursday morning...
Time to work those legs and abs.
leggooo!!!!

samilokuta: we are men.we are naturally attracted to that thing.he's just too small to know the diff btwn the real deal and a mere plastic.

One of the bad results of early exposure to explicit media!!!!

Sometimes, ladies who fall victim to such wicked and cunning schemes, do not know they're been videoed or snapped. Could be a hidden cam.
So pathetic that some dudes will fall so low to such cheap revenge ploys.
And to think, this is a woman you once love.
Grosss!!!!!!!

Once a 'BROTHELIST', always a customer!!!!
Once tasted and you just have to keep coming back for more.
Wanna quit?
1) Gotta have a rock solid determination
2) Strenghten your resolve after each relaspe (for there would be few)
3) Avoid reflecting and playing back erotic encounters at the said brothels
4) Most importantly, keep in mind that it would take time to break this addiction. Like all addictions, it's easy to form and difficult to break. So never give up.

Awwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!
Why am i just seeing this?
Happie lollipop-filled buffday switie, may u hv many more happy returns.

Too longer and boring to read. most are inpractical in a typical African setting.
Just be urself and the questions we come flowing naturally.