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COOLEST MASCULINE NAME: MrBrownJay (MBJ), wish it was mine!!

[quote author=LaurelP][/quote]@your d.p...
Jeeezzz!! you must be Peter of Psquare .
Can I get an autograph?
#winks...

@Op.. me thinks, if ever you wanna get some dude as a male friend sometime soon, you guys should both fully understand from the outset that it's just friendship and nothing more.
This is important because, most men always have this mindset of believing in the possibility of being friends with a female, developing into something more intimate with time and proper nurturing, so they appear all nice and understanding for as long as they can, before revealing their true intent.
However, though quite few, there're dudes out there that can make good friends without any 'ish.

OBIORAA: It depends on the kind of guys you mingle with.
That is what happen when you mingle with guys who are not mentaly and emotionaly matured.
We have boys.
Boys who think that they are men.
We also have men
And men among men.
Op I think the group of guys you mingle with are boys who think they are mentaly and emotionaly matured to be men but in the real Sence they are just boys with over grown body.
When you mingle with MEN you will know.

Save your 2cents Bro.. all males (men and boys) think with their third legs, once in every while!!!

austine4real: u cari all these u tell me say make chat dcent?? afta round 6* i go chat dcent

Exactly Bro.. it's gonna take strong self control not to allow the mind to wander when faced with all these assets she's endowed with.

Exjoker: I cant be unclad while a female doctor is examinin me...never! God forbid

I'll love to do just that, especially if she's pretty. #winks. #confidenceinthesexualityofyourbody.

@Koonbey..
in my humble opinion, I think you should have a day for cardio. Probably weekends, why you use week days for lifting, focusing on a particular set of muscles each day.
Why this is important is because, if you do cardio (especially high intensity cardio) before lifting, you'll feel depleted after the cardio session and your weight lifting session we suffer, because you won't be able to push yourself 100%. On the other hand, if you lift before cardio, you might also not be able to give your all during your cardio session. So assigning a day to each workout and each muscle group would be better.
Alternatively, if you have the time, you can do cardio early in the day and lift later on that same day.

Normal local meals are okay, just make sure they contain complex carbohydrates and large quantity of protein. meals such as rice, beans, eggs, wheat, cornmeal, semovita etc. Try to avoid bread and anything made of flour, junk food, sweets, soft drinks, alcohol etc.
Most importantly drink water, don't wait until you're tasty or when you want to eat, drink a glass of water every 2hours. A good way to stay hydrated is to look at the color of your urine, ideally it should be straw(colorless) or pale yellow, a deeper color means you're dehydrated and you should take water.
About your workout.. you should variate your workouts, don't restrict yourself to just crunches and sit-ups, do some hanging-leg raises, decline crunches, double twisting etc. As these exercises become easier you could then do weighted crunches and sit-ups.

ABS are made in the kitchen. So, reduce your meal portions to smaller meals every 3hours, that's eating 6 times per day, instead of 3 large meals per day. Also, you gotta avoid processed food, junks and refined sugar.
NB: there's no fast or easy way to build abdominal muscles, it'll take time, consistency and dedication, but it'll be worth it.

I would feel "unclean" if I bathe without scrubbing!!

You've found your Miss Right!!

okparaugo: She dislikes being monitored.

BTW... are you a monitor-lizard? #winks

okparaugo: Aint letting it slide. I define what I want from the onset.
I am very transparent and don't keep unnecessary relationships that I cannot explain to my parents, siblings or partner if need be..
An act can only be considered selfish and offensive if you can't divulge it to another.

Calm down bro.. you sound like you're gonna tear her open with words when she finally comes around!!
You don't need to appear so insecure, no one is gonna steal your woman from ya.. okay?

prophetone: She's actually posh and naturally pretty.

If she's cute without make-up, then you shouldn't be complaining.
Personally, I don't like all that 'gibberish' when we're making out, those red lip sticks, pancakes etc gonna stick to me after a kiss or a tangle and it's kinda weird.
And.. me thinks, she's actually much more sexier on just your T-shirt than on any lingerie I can think of.
To each, his own sha...

Generally, women possess a softer heart than men. They're capable of forgiving wholeheartedly.
However, putting other factors into consideration...
Both gender are capable of forgiving equally!

Olly barbie219: Lobatan!...see confession. Jst wat i thought,u prolly stared too mch!

It's called RAGING HORMONES!! Can't go dangling baits to a fish and expect it not to react.

Elli-dude:
Too bad my heart has got securities..

Elli-dude:
Too bad my heart has got securities..

Securities, no matter how well organized, can be bridged!!

I never agree with peeps who propagate the existence of platonic relationships. You can't keep spending lots of time with a particular individual of the opposite-sex and sharing your worries and fears with him/her without developing some kinda feelings for the person.
It's a good thing you guys have been friends for a while, you must've developed some kinda understanding for each other which could help in the long run.
However, please don't rush into anything just yet. Allow yourself time to heal(like he said) and be sure of what you're going into before taking a step.
Wish you the very best and lots of love.

Elli-dude:
Lol..Whispering# I'm done with love so i don't get attracted to ladies anymore..

#bites his ear and whispers...
There's no such thing as being done and over with love.
That feeling called LOVE is like a thief that creeps into your heart unsuspectingly and steals your heart away...
Any which way, concentrate and fully engross yourself in something important, and the lady and her body will fade off.

Elli-dude:
Thanks man...I don't wanna be stripped nak*d..

Hahaha.. trust me, you won't be #winks
Seriously though, you letting this 'ish bother you exceedingly!!
Just get over it, and let her fade from your thoughts.
Except if, you kinda attracted to her!!

Next time you run into her scantily dressed... stare and stare unblinkingly until she get really uncomfortable.
Watch her reaction and what happens the next time your path crosses. 

Dyt
lovely, saxy, yummy.. lady. once had a crush on her.. #winks
She's Not so active on here these days, dunno why, she's probably getting old...lolzzz!!!

Idowuogbo: Wow! Oldie! Waddup? Longest bro! Warrido mehn

I'm fine and have been fine.
It's been a while, missed you loads. How have you been, hope you're fine and still your sweet self

pendo89: I feel horrible right now, but I will mention Cuddlemmi, she of love thread poems.

When VC registered I suspected her to be Cuddlemmi because they sounded so alike.

nway... life.

Hey Pendo..
whatsup with Cuddlemii, what are you trying to say about her?
Hope she's good

Foxybone
Great great writer. if you frequent se-xuality section, you won't miss his work.
I think he needs to write and publish his works in books and probably magazines.

Idowuogbo
You just have to love her. she so razzed and funny. I just love reading her post, always gets my rib cracked.
she strikes me as someone with the personality of Funke Akindele.
Though she's slowed down a bit these days. probably busy with work

Sijo
don't know where she's been hiding. Great nairalander with a great personality and a good sense of humor.

Cuddlemi
She's got a huge love for poems. She must be a poet or something..
was once active on here (romance section) but suddenly eloped.
she's a very nice lady when you get real close to her.

Freecocoa
She's sweet, intelligent, hilarious and could be very controversial when ever she wants to get into e-fights.

Thanks for the compliments dear.
Am blushing.. lolzzzzz.
Of course, there are so many lovely people out there that you're yet to meet, so have fun and
make new friends.

Gifted scholar: See y I love looking for u, cos u hav somethin tangible to say, although d guy eventually broke up wit me even b4 I did sef! He said am takin him away frm God dat he needed sumtyms...I was seriously heartbroken! I still love him, am jst tryin my best to heal up nd move on, it is well

Wowed...that's a weird turn of event!!
Please give him plenty of space oo, so you won't become a stumbling block to his spiritual progress and his closeness to his God.
Time, they say,heals all wounds. so give yourself time to heal completely, try staying away from relationships for a while and concentrate on understanding and developing yourself into a much better and stronger person than you already are.
However, one common problem with people who have experience heartbreak at one point or the other is that... they find it difficult to open their heart again when someone else comes along in the future.
I hope that doesn't happen to you. it'll make you lose your Mr Right, if you become too rigid and closed. So keep your heart as well as your eyes open and you just might find a better lover.

Gifted scholar: Tnx so much to all does who hav contributed one way or d other to my story, am very grateful!!..ve been away a while naw nd jst got back, I listened to ur advices nd talked to him abt his attitude nd hw its kills me he said he ll address dat he was sorry....recently! I had bleeding for 5days constant I told him, he said I shuld go to check up my self...I asked wit which money?..he said ok oo!!..nd dat ends d matter he didn't even cum to see me all thru d periods I was seriously ill nd didn't cal frequently...nt even a txt msg nd he knew I had heavy bleeding nd was seriously sick bt he did nthing...I sent a msg to him dat if he knew hw sick I am nd he didn't try to cum see me den he didn't love nd I made a very big mistake gettin involve wit him!....

With this, I think it's very obvious.. he's got issues, he'd keep hurting you and he doesn't love you as much as he claims or in the way you want to be loved.
You've made your decision, and I think that's what's best for you.?
However, I noticed you've got a problem... you seem to have a soft heart. If he comes begging with teary eyes, you might be tempted to yield and give him another chance. (you could consider doing that only if there's a valid reason to do so).
So... I pray you would be able to stick to your decision and save yourself from so much heartache.