DenreleDave: My fellow guys, I know how it feels when a lady turns down your request.... I have been in your shoes before and I can tell how its hurts
Nevertheless, don't be bothered because a lady turned you down, what you should focus on is how to improve your self so that when she sees you in the next coming years, she will envy you and want a comeback with you...
Example: I have an ex that I loved so much then.. I did everything to please her and she still fvcked up later... That was 2015... But now, I can't see her naked and get erection.... She Don fat and look less beautiful than b4.....
2ndly, there is this lady I like so much during my ND days, she was in business admin, I was in banking and finance but our lecture hall is beside each other... Very beautiful and nice shape..
Today, I saw her in the bank... I think she is married and she Don fat small... I began to wonder if this is the same lady I trip for then in school.....
So guys, focus on getting better than b4... Don't feel sad bcox she turned u down.... U may see her 3 years later and thank God that u never approached her......
Note: all I'm saying is don't waste ur useful life wanting to please a lady.. Develop ursef and see ladies striving to please you.
Be wise... Focus on ur life rather than shaping ursef for a woman to accept u
You Monika indicate female, and you said you're a guy.Pls be honest
Corporate2020: Obaseki is a clown. He used the Court to suspend Oshiomhole only for Ajimobi to take over. Oshiomhole and Ajimobi, two sides on the same Coin which is in Tinubu's pocket. Tinubu imposed Ajimobi as Deputy Chairman, South despite opposition. So, Ajimobi will not go against Tinubu's interest as long as both interests do not clash.
That is why Tinubu is miles ahead. Obaseki, Oyegun and other clowns in their camp had only one Strategy which is to remove Oshiomhole. They had no Plan-B nor Plan-C. It took them so long to remove Oshiomhole such that Oshiomhole already did too much damage to Obaseki's camp. Tinubu had several plans, while Oshiomhole was fighting suspension, Tinubu picked another loyalist who recently failed and has no followership and position him to take over from Oshiomhole temporarily.
When it is time to select another substantial party Chairman, I am 100% sure that it is going to be handpicked by Tinubu just the same way he handpicked Bisi Akande (Acting) John Oyegun, Adams Oshiomhole and Ajimobi (Acting) despite opposition from political noise makers and kindergarten. The Jagaban does not make noise.
Guy remove Abaseki from your mouth. He has successfully removed Osho which is his target,not tinubu...
chinjo: This Obaseki matter go kill Oshiomhole o. This fight is getting more interesting by the day. Now it is Oshiomhole 1 - Obaseki 1. This is really an Elclasico match.
Osho was just too foolish to start a war he ought to know s bigger than him.Thats why i keep laughing out his nairaland support because they dont really know the true situation of things in Edo state.He was supposed to learn his lession when he survived the lower court ruling that sacked him,i was expecting him to go and make peace in Edo state,no he rather chose to be foolish.foolish man
LibertyRep: Sure, this is politics but is there anything wrong in infusing some morals into it?
Joining PDP is one thing but snatching the ticket is another. How would PDP give their ticket to the same person they've villified and opposed in the last three years. Don't they have competent persons in their folds again.
And Oshiomole is supporting the same man he vilified in 2016,how about that?
Gundel001: Hi good day my fellow Nairalander please I will really need your experience about this issue. Please help me read to the end as it is a little bit long.
My junior brother is 14 years old and to be sincere I haven’t seen anybody as dull as him. I don’t know if it is natural but I just can’t understand why someone at that age could still be struggling with very simple arithmetic. My brother can’t write 1 – 150 correctly at 14.
He seems too dull; note he attends one of the best private school around our area, though I know you might say maybe education is not his way but even if you want to drop out from school you should know some basic things like money, time, multiplication and so on but my brother doesn’t know anything I must say, even to write his name correctly is a problem. It is making everyone unhappy lot of money is being spent on lesson teachers and other things for him still no improvement.
I am a student of one of the top federal University in Nigeria same as my other siblings even at both secondary and undergraduate level we were always above average so I can’t say his problem is genetic. I really wants to know what is the problem with him nairalanders. After I finished secondary school I once taught some pupils in primary school though there were dull ones too there but with time I could see improvement unlike my brother i always try to teach him from time to time but it kind of frustrating as he doesn’t even seems like he will ever grab anything and he doesn’t behave like he wants to learn anything.
He makes it seems as if he is not interested book or arithmetic at all …we all tried talking to him endless time to always read any time he his less busy but he never does except he is being forced.
He rarely talks, he loves to keep to himself always, he doesn’t have interest in anything unlike we the others that are die hard football fans, most times my mom will tell him to even go out to play and mingle he will not still want to go, he prefer to stay at home seating all day without reading or doing anything, even if it is to draw or play football he wont.
This matter is not making everyone happy at home we don’t even know the solution to his problem again, as in imagine having a child that is 14 years old that doesn’t know the difference between 17 and 71 it is just so bad…..
We don’t know if his case is mental or spiritual. please nairalanders I know there are child experts in the house or anybody who have experienced something like this before what do you think is the problem and possible solutions to the problem your contributions are welcome.
Please help me push this pleaseeeeee
pls download and watch an India movie called "like star on earth".. Your brother may be a genus and like someone up there said,he may be more intelligent than all of you..Comeback to me after watching the movie.
Yungmil: naija hw u see am. I tell you the truth and I lie not, the problem of Nigeria is the north....very backward.
Don't take my comment serious pls. Its the fault of MTN who are giving me daily free mb, and I don't know what to do with it.
anyway FTC for me. thanks 2 MTN
Over 70 people killed, and you had to celebrate you being the first to comment.why are u this insensitive? So sad we have lost every sense of humanity.
ValCon888: The one that looks like a woman has a penis, while the one that looks like a woman has a vagina and is pregnant. Even the child will be confused. I'm sorry to say, but I see nothing beautiful about this.
It's like saying Frankenstein is handsome when we all know he's a monster.
Seekness: Please permit me to bring my marriage issues here for the very first time. Its true I've been on this forum for almost 10 years, I'm not very good at opening threads. But because of the necessity, I had to create a new Moniker so that I can briefly share my worries to ease off the pains in my heart.
Though she is very hardworking, generous and kind, but she has some very negative traits that belittle whatever admirable ones she may have.
This marriage has lasted a little over half a decade. But the problems I've always complained about right from the start is what I'm still talking about.
(1) My wife bottles up her anger a lot. If I offend her, she will never (hardly) tell me about it, I will only get to know about it through her facial expressions or her response to conversations, and if I ask her if anything was the matter, she will simply say "there is no problem".
(2) She takes too long to forgive. I can plead with her for forgiveness till "Thy Kingdom Come", yet she is not moved by my pleas. She will continue to wear a sad face for a very long time, (sometimes hours or even days) before she will grant me forgiveness, sometimes even in minor issues that I sometimes overlook if she was the one that did it.
(3) My wife hardly apologizes when she wrongs me. Even if she does apologize, she will expect me to accept her apologies immediately she said "I'm sorry" but she will not do the same if it was the other way round. That's pride!
All of these I have dealt with in silent pains with no hope of improvement in sight.
As I type this message, she is all alone in the room because of a situation we could not resolve. For over a week, she has carried a long face for reasons I do not know. I have asked severally, she keeps telling me "its nothing".
For over two weeks, she has not allowed me to touch her, neither have I had sexual intimacy with her. She keeps refusing all my advances to the point it was so painful after I pleaded with her for over one hour she still did not yield that I almost forced it on her tonight, but I exercised restrain.
All effort to have her talk to me in sincerity has not yielded any positive result for the past eight days.
I've told her of my suicidal thoughts (I'm not joking) but it fell on deaf ears because whenever she crosses her mind over something, bros, forget am! She can't be convinced to take up a contrary view.
Modified: As a result of these, I have relapsed once again to masturbation which I had overcome in the past. Since cheating on her is not an option for me, at least for now. Though thoughts of it are on my mind, but I can't just do that.
Please help a brother. Depression is gradually setting as my thoughts are going wild.
I need good suggestions please...
Seekness!
Things I really hate in woman.She has pride.if I may ask you op,what's your financial status?
Bola146: As for me, I can't wear it too if a man give me, yes. I'll just be faithful to him till he do the main thing. Ring is nothing but transparency and integrity are the main things. But a wedding ring is a must for me to wear
jawalis: 2017, I lost 73k to MMM and I felt it’s over, I entered forex stuff last year I lost 125k to it. I’d better invest my money on buying documents and getting tools then I search for better site and client with confirm GPS. You can’t lose surfing internet.
You entered forex stuff and lost,how long did you learn the forex before you started trading with your real money?u went to gamble with your money and now you think forex is bad..SMH
Donbabaj: I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.
Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.
For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.
Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.
Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.
I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...
Please advice. This is happening right now.
So you thinking of breaking up with her now?do it quickly and search for a real Angel.But I hope you are perfect too?
Rexojie: there could be other underlying factors. your signs may not be directly linked to masturbation
my brother. Masturbation is dangerous. I believe in science so much but on the issue of masturbation I must tell you the truth,science hot this wrong..I started masturbating when I was very young. I never knew there was any side infect whatsoever. But I almost got blind. See en,make I non talk wetin masturbation cause me..
Rexojie: People has said so many things about masturbation, masturbation is as old as man, as it is one of the first sexual manipulations humans usually get involved in.
90percents of adults have masturbated in one time or the other.
A study conducted in the united state finds out about 74 percents of males and 48 percents of females between the age of 14-17years do masturbate and about 63 percent and 32 percent of females do masturbate in adulthood.
American Academy of Pediatrics and the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology recognize masturbation as a normal component of child and adolescent development and recommend that health care providers educate their patients that they are perfectly normal if they finds themselves masturbating.
There are no medical side effects of masturbation except it may become an unbreakable habits, which may linger on even in marriage, it could led to guilt because of our belief, it may results to penile skin excoriation if harmful substances are used as lubricants.
The females however may use instruments which can cause cervical injury and introduction of infections to the uterus, some may react to Dildos.
Outside this people believes masturbation causes the following: 1. Infertility: this is absolutely not correct as the commonest cause of infertility are PID, PCOS hormonal imbalance, noona syndrome in males and there is no journal pointing masturbation as a cause of infertility.
2. Premature Ejaculation: masturbation has no connection with premature ejaculation. in fact, people who masturbate tend to last longer in sex.
3. Body weakness: this is also no correct as masturbation also releases natural body endorphins which helps to cushion pains relaxing the nerves.
4. Blindness: another lies the commonest cause of blindness today is refractive errors, diabetic retinopathy and uncontrolled hypertension
5. Poor memory: this is another big lie masturbation doesn't make you have difficulty in recalling if you are dull see a neurologist.
6. Penile curvation: many men have penile curvation and its not because of masturbation although a more serious one called peyronies disease exist still its not caused by masturbation.
7. Low sperm count: its doesn't cause low sperm count however if you want to do sperm count you are even required to abstained from sex, but your testosterone will replenish the sperm.
8. Mental illness: masturbation has no connection with illness infact masturbation even elate individuals and relieves stress. If you hear people talking to you or you hear voices see a psychiatrist.
9. Cancer: masturbation is not carcinogenic and research has it that men who ejaculate frequently has a lower risk of prostrate cancer.
Next time you are about to discourage someone from masturbating use Religion Either Islam or Christianity to discourage the person and not using unfounded medical myths. For image illustration on Masturbation, check source
Op.This is a complete false.Masturbation is beyond science to be honest.I don't understand how they claim it's harmless. I almost got blind as a result of masturbation,I am not talking any research but my personal experience. Back pain,depresion low libido,poor eye vision and swollen eyes are some of the many medical conditions I suffered as a result of masturbation. If I dare masturbate today the next few days will be hell for me,from nervous breakdown to many other pains.Forget science,masturbation has serious side effect.
yanabasee1: I said sometimes ago that Oshiomole will deal with Obaseki and someone quoted me to tell me how Obaseki will rubbish Oshiomole at the poll.....
Obaseki who said god-fatherism in Edo politics must be abolished went to plead with Tinubu who is a god-father to many in the West land....To help him fight Oshiomole....
I don't like Oshiomole, but Obaseki played a child's politics in today's game.....
When did he visit tinubu?don't say what you don't know.
Kobojunkie: Zinc deficiency is characterized by growth retardation, loss of appetite, and impaired immune function. In more severe cases, zinc deficiency causes hair loss, diarrhea, delayed sexual maturation, impotence, hypogonadism in males, and eye and skin lesions https://ods.od.nih.gov/factsheets/Zinc-HealthProfessional/
zinc also responsible for smell and taste,do more research.
I noticed I lost my sense of taste and smell two days ago, but I feel it started since last week Monday. I don’t know what the problem is though I put salt in my mouth and I could taste it and also pepper but I can’t taste any other thing everything just seems to be plain.
I have tried inhaling fuel, perfume but I couldn’t perceive it.
I am really worried �
Maybe you have zinc deficiency. Go for proper check up.
Politics › Re: Trouble Looms As High Court Says No Party Must Field Obaseki As Its Candidate. by jasent(m): 3:11pm On Jun 17, 2020
