₦airaland Forum

MJBOLT:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CHn2N5FnrZv/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

dontknownutn11:
So much violence in the land..*OPEN IF YOU GET MIND*..https://www.instagram.com/p/CHl9nKBl9Tj/?hl=en

MJBOLT:

He has gotten it already,his gf dumped him and he's broke and jobless

MJBOLT:

Grand patron

https://www.nairaland.com/6257517/man-lavishes-n2m-iphone-meant

Decryptor:
Wunmi!

While reading the story,i knew it must be a yoruba guy that would be this foolish because Igbo guys are not wired that way!

If we check now, the mumu guy is here on Nairaland abusing Igbos in Lagos

Rapmoney:
In as much as we always try to paint and re-paint realities, they still stare at us in the eyes with the greatest level of confidence or boldness you can think of.

I am using this post to offer a candid advice to Nigerian graduates within the 2.2 grade level, especially, those folks who graduated within the last 2 years. I said this because I should think most of the folks who graduated 5 to 10 years ago would have been able to create something for themselves, whether on a small or large scale.

Graduating with a 2.2 grade should not make you start dwelling on how you did it wrong and what you could have done and not have done.
Your 2.2 grade does not mean you are not intelligent or brilliant. Certificates from Nigerian higher institutions these days have lost their true value and relevance. There is little or no difference between university certificates and cardboard papers or wallpapers. Your 2.2 grade should give you the signal that the labour market is not friendly to you because even the first class and 2.1 graduates are not finding it easy as well. Except you have strong connections, you may never get that dream job of yours with your 2.2 cert. It is the truth. There is no proverbial Good Samaritan anywhere. Stop waiting and act.


ADVICE FOR 2.2 GRADUATES

1. Stop looking for that dream job that is almost nonexistent. Get productive in any small firm that employs you. Even if the salary is not big. Make sure you save aggressively like a mad man. Give yourself few years and start your own business in any lucrative industry you have interest in and passion for. Grow your business diligently and gradually. Make sure your eyes are wide open kokoroko like those of a hawk. No room for distractions from unserious friends. Business first.

2. Humble yourself and learn a good lucrative skill. Nigerian university education is almost like a scam! The country does not possess the industrial capacity to absorb graduates from most of the departments and faculties you fancifully look at in JAMB brochure. Again, without connections, there is no Good Samaritan out there. Go learn a good skill and TRY TO BE VERY GOOD AT IT; it should not even be related to what you studied in school. You should explore other career paths in life.


The Nigerian society does not always believe in 'practicalize what you can do for us to see'. So even if you are a very bright person who graduated with a 2.2 due to some unfortunate circumstances, you may never get that chance to prove your worth or knowledge to get employed in your dream industry. That is how the system is. Yes, it is all messed up you would say. And you are right. The system believes in connections laced with mediocrity and financial gratification.

My candid contribution...

Happy Weekend!

baiaon:
Feminism was and still is a massive shit test by women which western men failed completely.The younger generation of Nigerian women seem more stubborn than their past counterparts because the younger generation(even the older generation) of Nigerian men are failing the Nigerian female shit tests

Boydehot:
I have been thinking of this for very long time, how do a broke guy be in a relationship without any job, business or money.
I believe my girl friend is my responsibility to some extent. the last time I ever dated was in 2015.

Faboosuarez:
bruv sadly she will be in aquaman two, tha petition can't do shii amd Johnny Depp career is over, he resigned from fantastic beasts a d they already auditing this hannibal guy 4 dah role

Donchris3:
The link to this thread should be added to all university platforms... This is better than all school orientation

Dpsychologist:
Guys telegram group loading...

nwaezeemmanuel:
Great, some red pill communities preach self development for men and i love that - these are the things you should follow.

But if it's heading towards women-hating or toxic domination - please abort!

hustla:
https://www.nairaland.com/6253298/cultism-four-men-killed-isihor

E don start

IntersexSherry:
I met this rich white millionaire who is madly in love with me . Just as i thought i have hit the jackpot, i didn't know all that glitters is not good. He tells me how he likes having sex with underage age girls below 15, how he likes to lick menstrual blood, how he likes to eat ass. Even told me he wants to eat my shit and drink my pee. He also tells me how he has sex with his Dog. He licked his dog ass and put his penis inside his dog ass. Lot of disgusting fetish things he says.
Please i need the money but how do i cope with this guy No wonder this white people, na dem dey invent all these deadly disease like AIDS, SAS, CORONA

pansophist:
Her response in stressful situations. For example, going on a vacation with her, and due to feign emergency, the trip would change and canceled midway., how is her reaction? Also, testing if she is dependable. Like calling her in the middle of a night and ask for a quick favor. (not 2k favor lol) Also, ask her for cash, yep, a lot of it. Faking loss of financial buoyancy due to bad business deals and watch if her behaviors changed. Asking her about her ex and if she talks shit about them. Her relationship with her parents, especially her father.

Her kind of friends, if she is financially responsible by watching what she spends her money on. If she is religious, or submit to a sophisticated belief system. If she lives within her means. How she relates with people she gains nothing from (eg waiters), how she relates with the defenseless (animals and kids) if she can take good care of you when sick. Does she have it at the back of her head to be adorable and accentuate her femininity by eating healthy and keeping in shape?

Giving her handy crafted gifts and see if she appreciates it more or less than money. If she is a social media addict and attention seeker. If she respects things, events, and people that are important to you. Does she give you gifts equally during events such as your birthday? Does she try to impress you? Does she have the mentality that you should be lucky for having her? Is she submissive (not to be confused with being subordinate), can she cook and spice up the home with her feminine allure?

Is she egoistic? (not to be confused with healthy pride). Does she argue unnecessarily to win, or to make sense and pass her point? Is apologizing when she is at fault a big problem for her? Is saying "sorry" automatic or forced? Has she grown past mind games and cheap manipulations? Does she weaponize sex? Does she go beyond her comfort to make you smile? How is her childhood like? (to know people deeply, you need to study their childhood), Can you be vulnerable to her?

Do you find yourself pleasing her naturally because her femininity shines out the masculinity in you? or she makes you do the things she wants by force? Does she let you lead? Is she complimentary to your life and brings opposing energy that flourishes the relationship? does she contribute to the growth of the relationship by playing her own path? Can you be yourself in her presence even if you wear a mask navigating the outside world?

Most importantly, a woman will naturally do most of these things and be on her best behavior if she chooses you. Do not ever try to convert a woman that has not fallen in love with you to do all this, it will be a disaster. Go where you are loved, and the woman will naturally submit if you are playing your part right. So do well for yourself, develop yourself as a man, so you'll have female abundance and leverage to set standards.

For now, this will do. If she passes all, congrats. You got yourself a queen.

MJBOLT: