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honestly, been a man isn't all about muscles and beards or whatever, why are you feeling like a failure because you couldn't satisfy a lady who I guess doesn't care about your life.
firstly: there's no love in yur so called relationship, shes all about the benefits she has been getting from you.
secondly: from your write up, you are a typical dull guy and respect pussy more than yur life. how could you manage to be negotiating food at a point where your life is not really save.
lastly: you should be the one to call off the called "relationship" before she even think about it. just look at it from this direction' if you have been victimized or shot during the tragedy, is she gonna die of hunger that night?
bro sit up and accept the fact that you wasted your time and resources with her. move on but go along with your brain.
peace.

hmm. found myself duin same job i wished I changed since september. actually didnt plan to end 2018 still working there. all to no avail.

Dear 'Amakavula' in response to your post and the comments attracted, honestly. you dont really need to be discouraged and brought down by everything you read here. some say it "to follow the trend" some as well say it 'out of frustration'. take things easy and dont be tagged a bitter soul or whatever. you are beautiful and deserves the best of your wishes.
#ilikeamakavula

your opinion. I miss Amakavula, hope everything is ok at that end!!

I still couldn't derive a valid reason why people punish themselves on relationship/love matters. I ve dated more than 5 ladies and I can't even define what love is no to talk of loving anyone.
@OP. you are not alone neither its not a strange or new encounter. you just didnt have space in your heart to nuture unworthy feelings. for me, I lose interest quickly in ladies/relationship cos expectations aren't met or things ain't what I supposed it is and that may as well be yur case. so chill and dont cause yourself unnecessary trauma

a very good day to everyone. I won't like to bother you on random issues on this but I need valid and genuine reasons for every point raised.
I work presently with a health facility and you all can guess what the income ranges. a college of health graduate to be precised. I wish I proceed for my Degree. with my survey, close to 300k will be needed to run the first yr (DE) and I have that intact. trusting God and my Parents for the other yrs. but my concern is: Is it advisable I do this or there are other things I can venture into that'll save me from future downthrows. thanks!!

introvert, snub.

I am a health practional in service and i've seen a lot of cases of unwanted pregnancies. its sincerely on the increases these days. but let's think about this: what's your mindset when you were mating with someone you can't carry his baby. the victim in this story need not to act sorry in any way, she shouldn't be adviced. did you seek advice before going to the man? did you seek advice before opening your legs? obviously you were expecting something from your first lover or you can't take your eyes off what you usually get from him (coveteousness) and thats the reason for your hacky game. what was your expectations when you opened your legs for him? you are just about to reap what you sowed.

I must firstly say bravo to the married ones. I know its not easy. God will uphold your home.
but for me: I can only cater for myself for now with my income so I have no reason for a serious courtship not to talk about getting married.

help a brother. I structly fall in the category.I spend 25% on Transport, food is minimal. and rent has already taken the savings after the year. no joke.

she was forced to travel out of naija, its so sad we aren't of the same social class but her humility is from heaven.
me: jewel,I want you to move on and get a man who can take care of you.
she: hmm,why.
me: you can see I can't afford to care for you in the right proportion and our background are two parralel lines.
she: am I dating your background? I'm disappointed with your thinking, do you know what the next 24hrs will bring, do I complain, let's commit things to god hand while we do our best.
she was sent out to England by her parent. I pray God guide you. life goes on

I only want to call your notice to the pink suited guy. the trouser isn't abnormal. check the kneel. you will the trouser folded somehow, no one can be daft to the extend of making such mistake. gracia

even at this point, pur agencies, tv channels still indulge in hypocacy. what a pity! I was at the otedola close yesterday some hours after the incident, a primary school bus was burnt down, a commercial bus (danfo) burnt, different tricycle (keep) was burnt with passengers, individual cars amidst other. may God have mercy.

ChiefAzubuike:
In Igbo land you can never see such occurrence. We live in harmony and watch out for ourselves.

god will strengthen yu and give una brain.
wat do you gain in dividion I lives next flat to ur so called lunatics here in lag, they are widely known to be mentally unstable wit d way they fight neighbors...

reѕpecт тo wнoм ιтѕ dυe. тo тнe vιrgιnѕ oυт тнere, ĸeep υr prιde and leт тнe wнoreѕ conтιnυe proмoтιng ιммoralιтιeѕ.

BeardedTraveler:
Check this thread. Raise ur budget to around 22k and you'll get this https://www.nairaland.com/4453889/china-mobile-a3s-thread

good, how can I get it

needs to get sibling phone, wish I could get him an android product with 18k, pls help with good products

[color=#990000]its obvious NL is loosing it to this trash...

its obvious NL is loosing it to this trash...

JUHABACH:
so you base a your value and dignity on your virginity?
smh. I weep for your self esteem.

[quote author=JUHABACH post=66815322]so you base a your value and dignity on your virginty
weep for yourself

babatee90:
So now you are indirectly telling us you are a one minute man baa

laaaa.

babatee90:
So now you are indirectly telling us you are a one minute man baa

laaaa.

babatee90:
So now you are indirectly telling us you are a one minute man baa

laaaa.

[quote author=aflyingbird post=66813579]The way some of you men boys on this site hype virginity is becoming sickening, like some fetish shiiit.

Before anyone quotes me, my hubby met me as a virgin. But I can tell you that after the marriage, a woman being a virgin on her wedding night isn't what's going to hold the marriage together. Once you're pregnant and have a child virginity becomes a thing of the past too. You people on here shouting virginity are just immature little boys living in a dream world. Ironic most of you are prob sleeping around but shouting you want to marry virgins, hypocrites. My hubby has told me even if I wasn't a virgin he would've still married me because it's not virginity he cares about. Y'all should be encouraging girls to be productive citizens and go-getters doing something with their lives... this is what's going to attract a real man.

Lots of successful marriages out there where the woman wasn't a virgin when she got married. More to life that a woman's hymen. Stop making girls feel like their virginity status's all there is to their worth!

b
y did you kept it.
lies falling from yu like #

Gracia op. let them know what exactly they are.
(second hand). guess you all enjoyed the 60 seconds pleasure that took away you value and dignity. no respect for you if you the Virgin team.

stop comparing African with American and let's all face the fact.. its our norm in this part of the world for a lady to keep herself till her wedding. the fact that you ladies are semi-prostitute on the street with borhole Virgina doesn't change it. only Virgins deserves respect and dowries. get it right you hoes..

hmmm.. let's call a spade a spade. you all are running mouth about modernization, get it
right.. we are African and nothing can change it. it will forever be a pride for a lady to keep up to the norms. some semi-prostitute are ranting. keep your virginity and stop comparing yourself with americans.
(only virgins deserves respect)

wtf is this for

soko

I was in a relationship with a girl during my school days and honestly the girl really tried and was there for me (financially). we graduated and as life will bring it, she left for other country, I accepted it and moved on. I met with a girl and I won't deny the fact that she's doing so much in supporting me. now school girlfriend is back and she insist we continue since we were good together before she left...I don't want to be an ingrate.

team light skin babe

hmmm.... don't even have 5k in my acct, I pray I get a job to sustain living.