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Family › Re: Married Men In The House Please Advice Me by JayB11(m): 11:53pm On Jul 21, 2021

Bro if you are really very sure that you will manage your family very well, you will keep providing food, and that you will bear the patience from your wife, and also of those burden that matters most in your home, then go for her. This days, people are sentimental and selfish to realise when their own does something wrong, but your lady, based on what you claimed here, seems to be different. Try to understand her mom, i mean some people may want you cos of material benefits, and mothers actually play big roles on such (either for or against). I am not saying it may be so, but there is always a chance for such likelihood. If it is just her brothers, her Dad should assist by talking to them, but that should be when they seem constantly persistent over your resources.

One last advice but very important. Pray a lot and carry your Pastor or Priest along, let them pray for you, let them guide and counsel you continuously cos parents may be biased but these men strike at a balance. Finally, too many advices are dangerous, you may end up helpless.

I wish you the best.

Romance › Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by JayB11(m): 9:26am On Jul 20, 2021

simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.

Haaahhhhh!!! Aunty why naaa? If i say all men are not equal, you will argue it as a mere "clichè". But what baffles me is that, how on earth could it be that it is normal for one to believe that men below 35yrs are insensible?

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Romance › Re: 18-Year-Old Boy Buys BMW For His 25-Year-Old Girlfriend As Birthday Gift (Photos by JayB11(m): 12:25am On Jul 20, 2021

danny56:
Not surprise! He's a Chelsea fan...

How far bros, wetin we do u naaa��

Celebrities › Re: Photos From Chacha Eke's 34th Birthday Party by JayB11(m): 12:06am On Jul 20, 2021

tillaman:
yeah this lil girl

Hahahahahahaha!!! You are a rich dude i see...

Celebrities › Re: Photos From Chacha Eke's 34th Birthday Party by JayB11(m): 7:58pm On Jul 19, 2021

tillaman:
That girl in white though

U mean the little girl right? Yeahhh she is a cute girl.

Crime › Re: 8 Men, 2 Women In Police Net For Hacking People’s Accounts In Kano by JayB11(m): 1:20pm On Jul 19, 2021

fabiano09:
so aboki don dey bomb

Yes they learnt from your people.

Christianity Etc › Re: 'So Critics Are More Important Than Bandits?'- Apostle Suleman Asks by JayB11(m): 1:09pm On Jul 19, 2021

donbachi:
Stop reminding us of his accusations.rather,remind GOD of it.he is the only judge,cos he called him not you and i.
As regard his statement.he is 100% correct.

Was it not a swift response that caused the Nigerian Army into an accident at Yobe last week there about? It cannot be 100 percent true.

Celebrities › Re: People Fight For Leftovers At Obi Cubana's Mother Burial (Photos, Video) by JayB11(m): 12:36pm On Jul 19, 2021

Greatzeus:
So who are the real people with poverty mentality? Imagine people's parents and grandparents scrubbing for food scraps. God forbid,I reject such for myself, generations unborn and anyone I ever cared about.

Pls include even us that you don't care for......this prayer may be an answered prayer�

Celebrities › Re: People Fight For Leftovers At Obi Cubana's Mother Burial (Photos, Video) by JayB11(m): 12:34pm On Jul 19, 2021

Henry651:
Those persons there are the hausa guys who killed the cows, it was a giveaway for them. Am still at Oba presently...#igboAmaka#

When it is good, it is Igbo or anything other than Hausa. But when it is worst, it is Hausa....Nairaland has bred a lot of negativity.

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Celebrities › Re: People Fight For Leftovers At Obi Cubana's Mother Burial (Photos, Video) by JayB11(m): 12:32pm On Jul 19, 2021

Clearly, this is depicting the condition people are battling through. Don't just pray, make a move, we will never remain in same location.

Politics › Re: Air Force Wings 6 New Helicopter Pilots, Assures Of Sustained Air Power Delivery by JayB11(m): 8:09am On Jul 18, 2021

Plomo:
What is the logistics behind training pilots that a whole nation is graduating just 6 in one batch

The thing is that Airforce don't even have sufficient planes and helicopters. So training more Pilots without exploiting their capacity is another wahala.

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Politics › Re: Air Force Wings 6 New Helicopter Pilots, Assures Of Sustained Air Power Delivery by JayB11(m): 8:06am On Jul 18, 2021

eagleu:
Just make sure that they are all Fulanis.

Hahahhaha....Fulanis have suffered ooo.

Every time will come and go, reason why i don't even bother myself. Buhari will not last forever, likewise the problems this country is facing.

Family › Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by JayB11(m): 6:24pm On Jul 17, 2021

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

Bro....let me be very honest with you. Your parents have you at heart, you are 19yrs old, it is not an age for financial lavishness as you think. Try to focus on school and make the best results. My dad had money to pay for my University at a Private University but i ended up in a State University. Through out my University days, i can never remember been given 30K as pocket money if not for rent, fees or errand. Today i am a graduate, fully employed (thanks be to God). Now i don't have to play bet (i did and regretted), i choose what to buy.....JUST BE PATIENT AND THANKFUL TO GOD IN AS MUCH AS YOU ARE NOT LACKING WHAT TO EAT.

Politics › Re: General Hassan Ahmed killed In Abuja, Wife Abducted by JayB11(m): 5:17pm On Jul 16, 2021

Earlystar698:
What did you say when these terrorist are killing Igbo people?zukwanu ike

Mr. Man, i am not a bigoted Northsider....i say things plainly. I can tell how Boko Haram kicked off till it escalated beyond containment. What i always say about South East is they should pray that those killers don't get obsessed with blood-like Boko Haram here cos it may likely turn out to a point where if they don't kill, they will draft modalities to suck blood, just as we are battling here.

I am a Catholic (Church with the highest Igbos) you may not be one (asin a Catholic), but i must tell you that i have no reason to hate Igbos for once except if they disrespect people i represent, even at that, i don't react with hatred but i try as much as i can to be objective. This life, na only u go face Jesus las las......

Politics › Re: General Hassan Ahmed killed In Abuja, Wife Abducted by JayB11(m): 11:46am On Jul 16, 2021

Earlystar698:
Terrorist killing each other

Is this how u intend to keep being useless and hopeless? Even if the Military is compromised, do u think it is everyone that is involved? You just seem to extremely love it when you see a Northerner killed. Death will eventually reach every doorstep, even if you run to the Mountain top to avert it, rapture is inevitable. CHANGE Sir.

Education › Re: Ezeunala Ekene Franklin, Others Offered $4.35M Scholarships To Study In US by JayB11(m): 11:27am On Jul 16, 2021

Ogbuefi2020:
you will never see northerners in that kind of list

Must you mention Northerners, what is your problem young man? People are minding their businesses, you are here with your derogatory mentality. People who achieve in the North do it silently, go hang your lousy, flippant, sorry ass on public, we don't care.

Celebrities › Re: I Welcomed Triplets, One Died — Kizz Daniel Says As His Twins Become Homeowners by JayB11(m): 12:11pm On Jul 15, 2021

mayklef:
i tap into this blessing oh Lord, for myself, friends, family and every nairalanders working/praying towards this kind of blessings....

Amen Sir, may God answer all your prayers.

Politics › Re: Why We Raided Lekki Parktonian Hotel: EFCC Story by JayB11(m): 8:38pm On Jul 14, 2021

hedonido:
How do you determine that a hotel owner "knowingly" permits his premises to be used for cybercrime.... A type of crime perpetrated strictly via electronic devices, operated within the confines of hotel guests' private rooms?

You see what lack of exposure causes? Don't just study and stay in one place....

Moreover, you have no capacity, asin u have not been trained to crack some crooks and hoodlums, so leave the job to its Masters, they know how to roll it.

Politics › Re: Why We Raided Lekki Parktonian Hotel: EFCC Story by JayB11(m): 8:29pm On Jul 14, 2021

stanley000:
I learnt they broke the whole place down like robbers, a reliable source told me last night. Who would think those small small young Efcc operatives would have enough strength to hold even a duck.

Big body na signboard.

Politics › Re: Police Close Roads In Katsina For Buhari’s Thursday Visit by JayB11(m): 7:39pm On Jul 14, 2021

C in C.....

Education › Re: Fintiri: Graduating Students Of America University Of Nigeria Pose With Governor by JayB11(m): 1:50pm On Jul 13, 2021

ModelLook:
I was just laughing while watching their Convocation Ceremony on Saturday.
I was shocked as I was hearing the announcer say repeated...
"Bachelor of ARTS Economics"

He kept on saying this for each Economics Graduate as they came out to collect their Degrees. I just dey my parlour dey laugh.

I never knew Economics was an Arts Subject with the entire Mathematics wey dey inside.

American University of Nigeria, Yola, I raise my yansh for una

Laughing at a University that jas more Standard than yours huh

Education › Re: Fintiri: Graduating Students Of America University Of Nigeria Pose With Governor by JayB11(m): 1:49pm On Jul 13, 2021

Bobby001:
Issa fat lie, Adamawa issa Muslim majority state don't decieve ur self.

To say Adamawa is a shared state is more reliable.

Education › Re: Fintiri: Graduating Students Of America University Of Nigeria Pose With Governor by JayB11(m): 1:44pm On Jul 13, 2021

lazkizz:
Do you know that, 65% of the people in adamawa are christians.... But today fulani Controls all Top Government post in the state

While the people are Busy Drinking Burukutu

Like the southern Nigeria People are Busy Drinking Ogogoro

People of southern Nigeria must get sense by force,
They head over your sea,
Education is in their hands despite being region of less enrollment in school,
The wealth of your land is in their hands,
Tell me Southerners are we not most foolish?
Let's wake up.

Bros calm down, Governor Fintiri's late mother was a Christian, she died last year. Fintiri is from a Christian dominated Ethnic Group, till date, his domestic staff are mostly Christians many who are his relatives. That is by the way.

Adamawa politics is based on performance not Religion. We have grown out of that Religion stuff....

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Literature › Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 12:24pm On Jul 13, 2021

[quote author=Babathanks post=103621859][/quote]Yes it is unarguable that in the East, Catholicism is too deep rooted, and it has a different form in the level of Church Governance, compared to other Regions.

Literature › Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 12:20pm On Jul 13, 2021

Chukwuzobam89:
My dear, it happens, l am a witness. My dad was a knight, my brother went through seminary school right from Jss1 till when he entered higher level (apostolate or something like that) though he left.
Why would l lie with something like that has to do with God and my Faith? l was a devoted Catholic, just like she rightly stated, l fought for my belief in catholism against Protestant students then in secondary School.
Up till now, that practice is still on in my village, my junior sister had to drag her non Catholic husband to Catholic church for their wedding to avoid what happened in mine.
I have nothing against them, l am still a Catholic at heart but not a fanatic.

If you are coming from the South East, i will like you to please read onjectively here. The Catholic Church is said to be the Largest Church in the South East (if i may be right). Now, with that kind of large population as Catholics, you have to understand that their exist a Minority Denomination (comprising of other non-Catholics).

Passing through ages with that large number of Catholics in the South East, it is permissible to say that it is very very easy and likely that a Catholic could grow up in a Catholic Community, attend Catholic School, play around with Catholics, have Catholic Neighbours, and a lot more to say. However, this may not seem to be the case today (considering the growing number of protestant Churches). But my point here is that, it will never be taken as a normal thing for any Catholic from such kind of extraction (large Catholic population) to deviate from Catholicism or to associate with that minority populace of non-Catholics after been bred out of a life surrounded by such obsessive Catholicism.

The reason is simple, Catholicism has become a deep rooted Culture (as in it has extended beyond what should have been regarded as a personal and willful obligation). Similar thing applies when it happens that someone is been threatened if he expresses desire to convert from his Religion to another, especially if his Religion is dominating that region.

Honestly, i have never taught before, and i am not sure if i am making a point here, but this is partially what i have understood about practicing Catholics from the South East.

Meanwhile, i am a Catholic from North East.

Literature › Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 11:52am On Jul 13, 2021

GiantParrot:
Knowledge is quite difficult to seek. It takes a certain level of humility to question all you have heard about something and approach learning with an open mind. The kind of humility that enables one to throughly appreciate their own intellectual frailties. This kind of humility is hard to find in this generation. Many anti-Catholic apologists who accuse the Church of being unbiblical have not even developed the consciousness to x-ray their own beliefs and practices using the Bible they claim to regard in high honour. They are so clueless about how well the Holy Scriptures are regarded in the Catholic Church. There's so much to

You have said it all Sir.

Literature › Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 8:14am On Jul 12, 2021

Orc13:
I believe from experience that the same Catholicism we profess in Nigeria us entirely different from the one obtainable in South East Nigeria.

The points Ms Adichie raised are just typical of the excessive nature of South East Catholics.

I'm a Catholic from the North. The treatment I receive from Priests from the Eastern stock who were raised & ordained in the North is different from those typically bred in the South East.

Bros, you say no more. I am also a Catholic from the North. I attended a Catholic Minor Seminary too, and they knew that my dad isn't even a Catholic, he still attends ECWA. Chimamanda had an encounter with a Priest who is independent with his ruling. So why would she tag it Catholic, asif it was an encounter with the Holy See.

Even if my GRANDFATHER was born & raised in South East, he can NEVER be a Cathecist, talk more of becoming a MINOR Seminarian, worst a Priest! Who born am well.

Our Igbo brethren have their own version of Catholicism. Shikenan!

Literature › Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 8:09am On Jul 12, 2021

samuelevans:
I'm sorry to say, i hate this church because they worship Mary and not Jesus. what makes you people think Mary the Mother of Jesus is different from other women in the Bible? because she was a virgin when she gave birth? Matthew 12 vs 47-49. Says Someone told Jesus Christ, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside, and they want to Speak to you. But Jesus replied, Who is My mother, and who are My brothers Pointing to His disciples, He said, Here are My mother and My brothers. For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother" So why do you bow and worship the image of Mary after the Lord God has also warn not to bow down for any other gods (Exodus 20 vs 5), am not a born again Christian but not pleased with their doctrine.

You may need to ask the angel who visited Mary with these words "Hail Mary, full of grace". To "hail" is to "honor"..... we honor Mary, not "worship".

We also do not worship images nor idols....you need to visit the Church and understand how it rolls, you cannot judge a book by its cover. Find any Catholic Church and get knowledgeable ideas from the Priest or Members there....cos we won't finish it here.

Literature › Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 8:01am On Jul 12, 2021

Babathanks:
Bleep this woman, using your own Igbo ideology to judge the catholism is disgusting because everybody knows that igbos like money pass human being. "Bleep you again madam" proudly Catholic ��

I am not happy with the fact that you called out that "bleep"......LOL, forgive me. But you are so right. They use "Igbo ideology" to judge in the Church. I have never seen "Holy See" giving such terrible directives. It is rather their Priest or Church Council.

I attended a Catholic Minor Seminary for six years, and my Dad is not even a Catholic. They know he attends ECWA.

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Literature › Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 7:56am On Jul 12, 2021

Chukwuzobam89:
So true, my parents were almost ban because l married an Anglican. My parents didn't even attend my white wedding for the fear of banning them.
It was so horrible that the priest in charge of our then church, queried me about my plans to marry a non Catholic and how l was choosing darkness over light for agreeing to marry an Anglican.
My late dad wasn't given a full burial rite because of that but God pass them.

I have been a Catholic ever since i was born, i studied at the Catholic Minor Seminary (for 6 good years), and i am still a Catholic. I have never seen this horrible encounter where the Church did all these things.

Lets be frank here, it is best to say "Your Priest" or "the Church Council" was responsible for that, but i doubt if it was a compliance in regards to Holy See.

When i was at the Minor Seminary, my Dad wasn't even Catholic, but i was admitted, my Dad attends ECWA and the school authority knew. If the Church were strict as you sounded, i would have been withdrawn.

Again, i have a friend who also attended a Catholic Minor Seminary different from mine, he graduated there and applied to become a Priest. However, he was declined the opportunity cos his Dad had two Wives. Here, the Church was fair. Infact, we both know that Christianity frowns at a Man having two Wives. But even when my friend's Dad passed away, more than 2 Priest were at his burial, accordingly.

Priest are Humans too, they have tendency of being a Fanatic or Extremist. So i will tell anybody again, it is the Priest.

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Literature › Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 7:37am On Jul 12, 2021

godlessmind:
Lol I'm happy you will remain a slave to the foreign religion that was used to enslaved your ancestors. Black ppl will never get sense

If you don't believe in God entirely, I DO. We are two different persons here; i don't have a problem if you worship the Moon, but i will have a problem with you when you don't get rid of me.

Pack and go.

I BELIEVE IN GOD THE FATHER ALMIGHTY, CREATOR OF HEAVEN AND EARTH, AND IN JESUS CHRIST, HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON OUR LORD.......

I BELIEVE IN THE HOLY SPIRIT, THE HOLY CATHOLIC CHURCH, THE COMMUNION OF SAINTS, THE FORGIVENESS OF SINS, THE RESURRECTION OF THE BODY, AND LIFE EVERLASTING.

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Literature › Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 9:42pm On Jul 11, 2021

Her personal opinion, though.

CATHOLIC I REMAIN
CATHOLIC TILL I DIE...

WE MOVE.......

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