Career › Re: Someone Working On The Island!!!... by jaybee3(m): 4:39pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
I like this Car pooling should be encouraged as it's a way of reducing flow of traffic |
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 4:35pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
cococandy: it is not really a modus operandi per say because I didn't deliberately choose to be like that. It is a part of my nature that I didn't realize will be a problem once I began to share my life with someone else. Now I know and I'm working on it. I've come to a point where I say something or ask questions if I find that keeping quiet leaves me or him in the dark.(most of the time)
But I'm still to master the art of chitchat. How to have regular fun gist. And that's the part he's more concerned about.
So help me God. It's really easy ya know Interest=>Determination=>Result Show interest in the things he loves doing Go with an open mindset because you are determined to achieve the desired result If you enjoy cooking then invite him into the kitchen when you are cooking his favorite meal If he enjoys soccer then endure the 90 minutes with him then ask questions about the game Couples have to go extra length to make their marriage work and this is simply part of it. Look at it this way, if you don't talk to him someone else will almost certainly keep him company be it online or work |
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
cococandy: True this. I'm not really good at sharing my worries or concerns. In a subconscious way,it is me not wanting to bother him or disturb him.
Maybe I should learn to put them in writing. Lol
On the flip side,it gives him good excuse to tease me. "How are you going to discipline the kids if you can't even raise your voice and talk"?  My worry is you create more problems for yourself in the long run with this your preferred modus operandi What happens if he suddenly stops asking/teasing things out from you due to unforeseen outside stress? Does that mean you going to start worrying about him not loving you? If the absent of effective communication is one of the key problems in relationships then why not try to avoid it at all times |
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 4:02pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
cococandy: you know most guys don't talk too much. So when the woman in the house is not bringing forth gist and spicy conversation,it is like there's this silent pressure for him to try pull me out of my shell thereby making him talk more than he normally would.
In a way,I feel a talkative wife better pass this one but I can't help myself. People who have known me from childhood are used to it.
I just feel like guys should stop complaining about nagging wives. They don't know what they have until they are with silent janes like us. There is obviously an extreme scale to each trait. An extremely quiet wife could be dangerous. Restricting to your shell is counter-productive as you are most likely not going to share the things that bothers your mind. Same goes for a wife that nags about every single thing. Noise and consistent interference can obviously lead to stress and in turn HBP for the man Everything has to be in moderation |
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 3:48pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
cococandy: Gentlemen I've a question.
I've heard Everyman complain about wives who nag and talk too much like it is the worst thing a man has to put up with in marriage.
But my case is the opposite. I'm very very quiet and have this knack to withdraw into myself most times. And he does complain.
Which is better? A constantly nagging wife or a quiet-as-a-mouse wife who let's you do all the talking. The key is the personally trait of the other half If he is extroverted then the balance is just about right. You can't have effective communication with two raging parrots in the house. If the wive is a nag then the husband must be a good listener. |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 3:41pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: yes o.that is because the year is fast running to an end and shewa needs to make lots of money for her baby and herself to make life comfortable for us and also have a fabulous vacation  God go bless your hustle. Million Gbosas for all hard-working women out there |
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 3:29pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
I see you cococandy |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 3:23pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: ayam fine o  I don miss you oooo Been a while |
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 3:23pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Happy to share Been married for X number of years
We met when i was 20 and she was barely 18 |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 3:15pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
sambarry sambarry kulyie kulyie
how na? |
Career › Re: Between Master's Degree And Professional Course by jaybee3(m): 2:44pm On Nov 07, 2014*. Modified: 3:13pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
heatmeup: c.eng as in? Chartered Engineer An Engineer with a BEng degree from an accredited University gets an automatic IEng (Incorporated Engineer) status on completion of the degree course. |
Career › Re: Between Master's Degree And Professional Course by jaybee3(m): 2:42pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
majekdom2: in uk you can do your masters straight it takes about 5 years in all . 4 years for MEng |
Career › Re: Between Master's Degree And Professional Course by jaybee3(m): 2:26pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
SammyGreatone8: Pls, fellow nairalanders I want to know what's preferable for a management graduate, either professional certificate or a masters degree. Sincerely I have bagged a lot of professional certificate in various management sectors. Pls I need your your unsetrimental advice ExperienceNo amount of certification and/or degree will teach you the following: Leadership skills Effective communication Negotiation skills Managing difficult people Delivering projects Go for your MBA once you have valid/relevant experience |
Career › Re: Between Master's Degree And Professional Course by jaybee3(m): 2:03pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
lovemaths: true talk. I'm a computer scien What do you plan to do with the degree? What aspect of computer science tickles your fancy? |
Education › Re: Does Undergraduate Course Of Study Really Matter? by jaybee3(m): 1:10pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
What matters most in this neck of the woods is the university attended. As a graduate from one of the Tier 1 universities, there is a an assumption that you must have gone through rigorous training to not only graduate but also come out with required minimum grade needed for employment.
Most graduates usually undergo tailored specific training programmes and the only prerequisite knowledge needed most times are the ability to : Work in teams, Logical reasoning Flexibility Analytical A bit of technical skills |
Family › Re: Married Women: Keep Your Marriage Intact Tutorial by jaybee3(m): 9:25pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 9:20pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
chaircover: funny enough Ibadan airport is the most peaceful and calmest airport ive been to. So quiet and calm. Because it's deserted Thought they banned pomo |
Family › Re: Married Women: Keep Your Marriage Intact Tutorial by jaybee3(m): 9:16pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 9:09pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
coogar: i won't be surprised. there's no type of food chaircover hasn't brought to the UK. very soon, she would drag a live goat to the british embassy & get a visa for the goat so she can bring it over.  I swear you don madt That fucking cracked me up |
Family › Re: Married Women: Keep Your Marriage Intact Tutorial by jaybee3(m): 9:06pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 9:05pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 8:57pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
chaircover: Dont mind them jare  People hear Ibadan and conjur up pictures of eko leaves & Micra taxis  Flights leave and arrive at Ibadan airport 7 days a week
I even heard that Hajj flights leave from Ibadan airport too, so its actually an international airport. Flown from Ibadan airport to Abj back in 2004 though. Me wey no dey fear actually thought that was it on the day. Don't even get me started with the overland plane |
Travel › Re: Funny Experience At The Us Embassy Lagos by jaybee3(m): 8:22pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Mesef wan go yankee ooo |
Autos › Re: Total Cost Of Clearing A Vehicle In Nigeria by jaybee3(m): 5:35pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
couvaninigLtd: 2006/2007 1.850m 1.950m 2008 2.1m
Kindly contact us for a reasonable trust worthy transparent and reliable licensed customs clearing agent. ±2347035864656 ±2348183057775 7F32F5C7 fdevico2004ng@gmail.com oliverjiad: 2006 will cost u #650,000 2007 will cost u #780000 2008 will cost u 950000 Respectively sir Regards Jaid The price variation is too wide. Any explanation for this? |
Autos › Re: July 31st, 2014:: Deal Of The Day!!!!!! 2003 Toyota 4runner Limited SUV *2.25M* by jaybee3(m): 5:25pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Fhemmmy: My Chairman at the top. ... I see you oh I dey pray make God give me money make me sef come testify on any of your thread na. |
Autos › Re: July 31st, 2014:: Deal Of The Day!!!!!! 2003 Toyota 4runner Limited SUV *2.25M* by jaybee3(m): 4:52pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
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Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by jaybee3(m): 3:36pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
r231: thats why nobody wants to play with him....
he should just retire and be a coach abeg
are the Nets in town? Might be going NY BTW: 'em things are due to arrive at some point today. Are they going to meet Friday's deadline? |
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by jaybee3(m): 3:27pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
r231: sad and bad......
when stup1d kobe refuse to pass the dammm ball  37 damn shots. Geez He simply can't do it alone I'm moving about with my man KG though so i might go check him out at the barclays centre in a few |
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by jaybee3(m): 3:20pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
0-5 ! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: His Wedding Or The Job Interview? by jaybee3(m): 1:17pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
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Family › Re: Help by jaybee3(m): 1:14pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Merlissa: Thank You! You're welcome Do you guys have any guaranteed income? |
Romance › Re: How Did You Feel After A Breakup by jaybee3(m): 1:09pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
jenoncam:
maybe I know someone that can rise if not surpass your expectation sef He claimed to be so good that he named himself born2fuck |