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Career › Re: Someone Working On The Island!!!... by jaybee3(m): 4:39pm On Nov 07, 2014
I like this
Car pooling should be encouraged as it's a way of reducing flow of traffic
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 4:35pm On Nov 07, 2014
cococandy:
it is not really a modus operandi per say because I didn't deliberately choose to be like that. It is a part of my nature that I didn't realize will be a problem once I began to share my life with someone else. Now I know and I'm working on it. I've come to a point where I say something or ask questions if I find that keeping quiet leaves me or him in the dark.(most of the time)

But I'm still to master the art of chitchat. How to have regular fun gist.
And that's the part he's more concerned about.

So help me God.
It's really easy ya know

Interest=>Determination=>Result

Show interest in the things he loves doing
Go with an open mindset because you are determined to achieve the desired result

If you enjoy cooking then invite him into the kitchen when you are cooking his favorite meal
If he enjoys soccer then endure the 90 minutes with him then ask questions about the game

Couples have to go extra length to make their marriage work and this is simply part of it.

Look at it this way, if you don't talk to him someone else will almost certainly keep him company be it online or work
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2014
cococandy:
True this. I'm not really good at sharing my worries or concerns. In a subconscious way,it is me not wanting to bother him or disturb him.

Maybe I should learn to put them in writing. Lol


On the flip side,it gives him good excuse to tease me. "How are you going to discipline the kids if you can't even raise your voice and talk"? grin
My worry is you create more problems for yourself in the long run with this your preferred modus operandi

What happens if he suddenly stops asking/teasing things out from you due to unforeseen outside stress?
Does that mean you going to start worrying about him not loving you?

If the absent of effective communication is one of the key problems in relationships then why not try to avoid it at all times
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 4:02pm On Nov 07, 2014
cococandy:
you know most guys don't talk too much. So when the woman in the house is not bringing forth gist and spicy conversation,it is like there's this silent pressure for him to try pull me out of my shell thereby making him talk more than he normally would.

In a way,I feel a talkative wife better pass this one but I can't help myself. People who have known me from childhood are used to it.

I just feel like guys should stop complaining about nagging wives. They don't know what they have until they are with silent janes like us.
There is obviously an extreme scale to each trait.
An extremely quiet wife could be dangerous. Restricting to your shell is counter-productive as you are most likely not going to share the things that bothers your mind.
Same goes for a wife that nags about every single thing. Noise and consistent interference can obviously lead to stress and in turn HBP for the man

Everything has to be in moderation
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 3:48pm On Nov 07, 2014
cococandy:
Gentlemen I've a question.

I've heard Everyman complain about wives who nag and talk too much like it is the worst thing a man has to put up with in marriage.

But my case is the opposite. I'm very very quiet and have this knack to withdraw into myself most times.
And he does complain.

Which is better? A constantly nagging wife or a quiet-as-a-mouse wife who let's you do all the talking.
The key is the personally trait of the other half
If he is extroverted then the balance is just about right.

You can't have effective communication with two raging parrots in the house. If the wive is a nag then the husband must be a good listener.
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 3:41pm On Nov 07, 2014
SAMBARRY:
yes o.that is because the year is fast running to an end and shewa needs to make lots of money for her baby and herself to make life comfortable for us and also have a fabulous vacation smiley
God go bless your hustle. Million Gbosas for all hard-working women out there
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 3:29pm On Nov 07, 2014
I see you cococandy
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 3:23pm On Nov 07, 2014
SAMBARRY:
ayam fine o wink
I don miss you oooo

Been a while
Family › Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by jaybee3(m): 3:23pm On Nov 07, 2014
Happy to share
Been married for X number of years

We met when i was 20 and she was barely 18
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 3:15pm On Nov 07, 2014
sambarry sambarry
kulyie kulyie

how na?
Career › Re: Between Master's Degree And Professional Course by jaybee3(m):
heatmeup:
c.eng as in?
Chartered Engineer

An Engineer with a BEng degree from an accredited University gets an automatic IEng (Incorporated Engineer) status on completion of the degree course.
Career › Re: Between Master's Degree And Professional Course by jaybee3(m): 2:42pm On Nov 07, 2014
majekdom2:
in uk you can do your masters straight it takes about 5 years in all .
4 years for MEng
Career › Re: Between Master's Degree And Professional Course by jaybee3(m): 2:26pm On Nov 07, 2014
SammyGreatone8:
Pls, fellow nairalanders I want to know what's preferable for a management graduate, either professional certificate or a masters degree.
Sincerely I have bagged a lot of professional certificate in various management sectors.
Pls I need your your unsetrimental advice
Experience

No amount of certification and/or degree will teach you the following:
Leadership skills
Effective communication
Negotiation skills
Managing difficult people
Delivering projects

Go for your MBA once you have valid/relevant experience
Career › Re: Between Master's Degree And Professional Course by jaybee3(m): 2:03pm On Nov 07, 2014
lovemaths:
true talk. I'm a computer scien
What do you plan to do with the degree?
What aspect of computer science tickles your fancy?
Education › Re: Does Undergraduate Course Of Study Really Matter? by jaybee3(m): 1:10pm On Nov 07, 2014
What matters most in this neck of the woods is the university attended. As a graduate from one of the Tier 1 universities, there is a an assumption that you must have gone through rigorous training to not only graduate but also come out with required minimum grade needed for employment.

Most graduates usually undergo tailored specific training programmes and the only prerequisite knowledge needed most times are the ability to :
Work in teams,
Logical reasoning
Flexibility
Analytical
A bit of technical skills
Family › Re: Married Women: Keep Your Marriage Intact Tutorial by jaybee3(m): 9:25pm On Nov 05, 2014
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 9:20pm On Nov 05, 2014
chaircover:
funny enough Ibadan airport is the most peaceful and calmest airport ive been to. So quiet and calm.
Because it's deserted

Thought they banned pomo
Family › Re: Married Women: Keep Your Marriage Intact Tutorial by jaybee3(m): 9:16pm On Nov 05, 2014
bukatyne:
Why did you ask? cheesy
Just asking
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 9:09pm On Nov 05, 2014
coogar:
i won't be surprised.
there's no type of food chaircover hasn't brought to the UK. very soon, she would drag a live goat to the british embassy & get a visa for the goat so she can bring it over. grin
I swear you don madt
That fucking cracked me up
Family › Re: Married Women: Keep Your Marriage Intact Tutorial by jaybee3(m): 9:06pm On Nov 05, 2014
bukatyne:
Nice thread
You married?
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 9:05pm On Nov 05, 2014
coogar:
is chaircover in ibadan again?
this time around, i would alert customs & immigration to search her bag & seize all the naija foodstuff she must have hidden there. grin cheesy
She is into importation of exotic bush monkeys shocked
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 8:57pm On Nov 05, 2014
chaircover:
Dont mind them jare grin
People hear Ibadan and conjur up pictures of eko leaves & Micra taxis angry
Flights leave and arrive at Ibadan airport 7 days a week

I even heard that Hajj flights leave from Ibadan airport too, so its actually an international airport.
Flown from Ibadan airport to Abj back in 2004 though.
Me wey no dey fear actually thought that was it on the day. Don't even get me started with the overland plane
Travel › Re: Funny Experience At The Us Embassy Lagos by jaybee3(m): 8:22pm On Nov 05, 2014
Mesef wan go yankee ooo
Autos › Re: Total Cost Of Clearing A Vehicle In Nigeria by jaybee3(m): 5:35pm On Nov 05, 2014
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2008 2.1m



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2007 will cost u #780000
2008 will cost u 950000
Respectively sir
Regards
Jaid
The price variation is too wide. Any explanation for this?
Autos › Re: July 31st, 2014:: Deal Of The Day!!!!!! 2003 Toyota 4runner Limited SUV *2.25M* by jaybee3(m): 5:25pm On Nov 05, 2014
Fhemmmy:
My Chairman at the top. ... I see you oh
I dey pray make God give me money make me sef come testify on any of your thread na.
Autos › Re: July 31st, 2014:: Deal Of The Day!!!!!! 2003 Toyota 4runner Limited SUV *2.25M* by jaybee3(m): 4:52pm On Nov 05, 2014
cool
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by jaybee3(m): 3:36pm On Nov 05, 2014
r231:
thats why nobody wants to play with him....

he should just retire and be a coach abeg

are the Nets in town?
Might be going NY

BTW: 'em things are due to arrive at some point today. Are they going to meet Friday's deadline?
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by jaybee3(m): 3:27pm On Nov 05, 2014
r231:
sad and bad......

when stup1d kobe refuse to pass the dammm ball grin
37 damn shots.

Geez

He simply can't do it alone

I'm moving about with my man KG though so i might go check him out at the barclays centre in a few
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by jaybee3(m): 3:20pm On Nov 05, 2014
0-5 !
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: His Wedding Or The Job Interview? by jaybee3(m): 1:17pm On Nov 05, 2014
christabeli:
lol see your face
Just like yours tongue tongue
Family › Re: Help by jaybee3(m): 1:14pm On Nov 05, 2014
Merlissa:
Thank You!
You're welcome

Do you guys have any guaranteed income?
Romance › Re: How Did You Feel After A Breakup by jaybee3(m): 1:09pm On Nov 05, 2014
jenoncam:
cheesy maybe
I know someone that can rise if not surpass your expectation sef

He claimed to be so good that he named himself born2fuck

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