₦airaland Forum

kingchi32:
My sis told me that Edo men are not good and are selfish, that he may have changed his mind because of financial gain though that doesn't mean he doesn't love me and also that its not easy to be involved with inter tribal marriage..

please i need your advice..

Your sister don sample all Edo men to come to that conclusion?

There is obviously some sort of communication gap that needs urgent attention. Why don't you just tell him you want out instead of pussyfooting about the place.

So?

Gimmick

freecocoa:
Ok then, I gat you.

UjSizzle:
Lol
Too many competitions these days joorh.
Btw I need a favour, will send you details via whatsapp


About that gift who says people would have voted her eh?

PDPng still dey fashion na

nothing dey happen

freecocoa:
Jaybee let me ask you something, if the reverse were to be the case, can the woman demand such?

Absolutely

I wouldn't expect a wife to just sit down and pray to God for divine intervention if her husband is a chronic gambler. In applying common sense, she has to deny him funds period

freecocoa:
You are right, though I still wonder what a woman would that to warrant such.

All in all, we agree to disagree.

You need to stop looking at this from an holistic view point

The woman is not single... She is married

The man must have had reasons to demand such when it's not like there is any suggestion that their relationship has always been like that.

freecocoa:
It's a partnership alright that's why you don't force her into doing what she doesn't want, you forcefully take her money, she grows angry and resentful, your marriage suffers.

See eh, I'm not married but if the things I read here on NL are what happens in a marriage then I don't want to get married, thank God its not all like I see here sha.

Married people are adults and should behave that way, do things the way it would favor the both of you.

I mean how can you tell a grown woman "you must submit your salary to me before there'll be peace" c'mon jaybebe, that's not how a man should talk to his wife.

We don't know the full details so it's premature to start concluding what the man said was wrong.
Don't be quick to judge because some things aren't always clear cut.

Like i said in my earlier post, there are some extreme cases where such actions can be justified.

freecocoa:
If she's a careless spender sef, is that how to talk to an adult, by giving conditions especially with money involved?

HELL YEAH!

Marriage is a partnership and if the co-captain's lack of financial discipline is impacting on the financial health of the union then the sensible one must take drastic action period.

At the end of the day the impact of financial failure is going to be felt by the two not just the culprit

What if she was using all the money on drugs or addicted to buying bags or what not

UjSizzle:
She's not contesting

She should have....

Would have given her a special gift for wearing the coverted crown

MichaelSokoto:
So wit d long tabloid u wrote now, are u a progressive (APC) or a saTAN (PDP)?

I'm a concerned bystander

UjSizzle:
Who's your candidate?

Ujsizzle and yours?

Is she extremely bad with money?
Has he always been like that from the get go?

Obviously something must have triggered such reaction to the extent that he had made that as a sole condition for their reconciliation.
She needs to own up first before you can give a balanced advice.

barcanista:
My friend Chief Jaybee3, I don't know why you are talking like this. The PDP in their bid to give the APC a bad name have been going on with propaganda. We need to set record straight for Nigerians to know which party appoints/elects/selects Oldies and which focus on competence. The Oldies in PDP are never competent. Abia and Ebonyi States are eyesore. Abeg, allow us to deal with their propaganda

Propaganda wars will only make you guys look desperate
Stick to educating the populace and feel/see the much needed fresh wind blow their respective minds away

This is kinda childish though IMO
So they come up with a ridiculous suggestive connection between age and governance then you turn around and play them at their own game?

I would have expected you guys to focus your counter argument on how Age has either contributed to sorry state of the entity called Nigeria or perhaps the irrelevance of Age when it comes ruling party.

You could have also done a comparative Age analysis of the politicians. Common sense tells me that PDP will most certainly have more career politicians meaning they will have an higher percentage in the older age bracket

At the end of the day, PDP as a party isn't being governed by the few listed middle age goons.

Please see attached image and data for age analysis of our current legislative arm (Senate).
There isn't much difference in either party and it's quite worrying that the largest age-group irrespective of the party is 51-60. These of course are the clueless folks ruining your daily lives and to be honest i'm not surprised as they are expected to be out of touch.

One word "Practice"

I can't over emphasize how important that single word is.

Here are some pointers that might help:
1) Make sure you are sat in a comfortable position
2) Drink some water before the start of the interview
3) Write down the questions as you are being asked. (This will hopefully help you remember your prepared answers)
4) Make eye contact
5) Don't talk too fast
6) Enjoy the interview

UjSizzle:
Nawa o. I hope hubby doesn't like pounded yam sha

I do and it must be pounded before 7am

cococandy:
Na wa. What if he wasn't guilty?
I understand d father's rage sha. Still......

What's good candy?

UjSizzle:
Easy boo

olatunji21:
I offended her which i admitted i did... av bin apologizing for 30days nw bt she insisted its over btw us for "Ever"..it painful, i can't seems to live without her.. i av an awkward feeling dat she's irreplaceable...
I went to her aux 2day(against her wish) in a bid to beg her bt met her on d road with a frd of her's.. Though we exchanged pleasantries bt she ignored me immediately afta dat ..i Felt embarrassed bt stil can't let go..

Porkies

olatunji21:
Baba Na HOUSE i mean... jst abbreviated

That's a bad habit and you deserve some slap for that bro.
Restrict your abbreviation nonsense to your text messages.

So not cool

Could have sworn that's a traffic warden

For fucksake, what's an aux?

What does auxiliary have to do with your ply?

Grow some balls dude... Life goes on... IF she doesn't want you then surely someone else will find you attractive and worthy enough.

No girl likes a cry baby though

#Just saying

Here is my take, if your friend has suddenly unearthed the African man in him then he should simply ask his wife to resign so she can become a full housewife and he automatically gets an upgrade to becoming the breadwinner.

You can't simply hide under the African Man mentality when he suits you.

Fairness should be uphold at all times

O'boy you funny ooo
Dem no dey write am for forehead na and it's hard to know someone's intimate desires except they categorically state them.

Just be a good responsible parent by paying close attention to your kids shikena

UjSizzle:

Are we honeymooning there?

Question is, do these dumfucks have evidence of past Governors compromising their executive position due to their faith

Politicians are all the same irrespective of their faith. They are all in it for themselves so what fucking gives?

myhappyhome:
Hmmmm okay am sorry sir, I will Try and Get the Pictures before this week end.

Good man you are

All the best

breadplanets:
Oh oh.... Now that is scary.

Did you in your wildest dream think temptation is a one way thing?
What if the other girl he jokingly chats up is equally tempted?

You do not play with matter of the heart. I'm not asking you to be jealous but don't go validating and/or instigating dangerous games either

All the best

myhappyhome:
Yes sir, I don't Have the Pictures but am Assuring You on this House if Very Perfect with Good finishing.

You are funny oooo shey you know

You are advertising a >3M property for rent but yet no pictures to tickle potential customer's fancy.

Na real wa

No pictures?

50?