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She wants you to concentrate more on your studies so you can make something outta ya life bro. no offence

Too late now

Crown Prince: @jaybee,the old sheriff succeeded because he is a friend of the criminals in his precint. The criminals would gladly hand over to him any member of gang that contravene the rules Extremely. If the new chief dont enjoy community policing,he will soon be celebrated a HERO.

Ask yourself the simple question, Is the romance section functioning the way it ought to be?

Let me give you a pointer. I believe the section was created for like minded people to discuss relationship issues and in turn offer valuable advice to one another. Most of the traffic that ought to be diverted to the romance section are now being transferred to the family section simply because we are deemed to be a group of peeps whose only purpose is to have FUN. I'm not saying having fun is a crime but you have to agree with me that we have a dedicated section for that.

It's in our own vested interest as key stakeholders to get the romance section back to the state it used to be where people had be guaranteed to receive solutions to whatever romantic situations they find themselves in.

Y'all should just lay off Sexkillz mehn. No one gets banned for exercising their rights to free speech. Peeps only get the banning treatment for going against forum rules.
If you've been banned for a reason and have evidence to the contrary then please continue using the complaints thread.

Derailing threads is seriously frowned upon and because I usually aren't around all the time to enforce the rules doesn't mean the rule should now be flaunt willie nillie. We have a new sheriff in town so please abide by the simple rules.

Why give up something you love for uncertainty?
You love intimacy but she doesn't = Red flag 1
You told her about your shenanigans => Expect her to be edgy when the issue of trust is played out
You guys fight all the time => You guys are somewhat incompatible which will only become worse if and when the relationship takes the next gear

Above all, follow your heart and make sure you use your head

jackpot: sexkillz, i'll tell you for real that you act more like a virus. . .

Why hiding most of people's complaints?

Are you insinuating that those hidden complaints are not worth seeing or what?

The hidden posts aren't complaints.. This thread was opened as another channel to ONLY report events in the romance section that's in contrary to the rules set by the site owner.

Any correlation between some Nigerian men turning to fraud because of this your reasoning bro?
Respect in marriages should be a dead cert and reciprocal regardless of the financial sharing formula.
The other worrying side of your coin that you've failed to ignore is, most men that believe in the 100% sharing formula tend to have the archaic mentality of sole ownership of the woman which in turn makes them treat the wives as a property rather than the a co-pilot that they ought to be.
Women are empowered these days and with equality laws being championed all over the place makes it easier to have good relationships were both parties have equal stakes in it.

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I was the one that changed the title and my rationale for doing so is because, IMO the previous title wasn't descriptive enough even though it was correlated to the message the OP was trying to pass across.
Sorry if you feel offended OP

Wow wow wow, i'm so glad to be part of the kind hearted nlers. You guys rock. Thanks for answering Ayomide's plight

Abegi make una free killz mehn. He def ain't editing your posts. I'm highly suspective of NL word filter malfunctioning

This is how another tragedy got averted in the UK
http://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/teenage-girl-took-overdose-of-pills-live-on-internet-chat-room-7843750.html

maclatunji: What if I have analysed her shortcomings and find them rather fatal to a successful relationship between us? You are saying that I cannot successfully analyse the person without getting to interact with them further. I tend to disagree, my margin of error isn't that big.

Then again, there are few things I hate more than to say 'X is my ex-girlfriend'. I will be like 'was I blind to enter a relationship that didn't work'? I can sense a lot of you are shaking your heads. Look at it this way, I only need one woman to put-up with my wierdness- hehehe.

It's somewhat impossible for someone to display all there characteristics on the first day or by the what they write. You have to get to know someone and be equally willing to give the whole thing a chance.
You really have to stop being a pessimist bro, having a successful relationship requires one to be flexible in nature. Being rigid and overly insistent on my way or the highway ain't gonna do you no good in the long run. This is the time for you to make mistakes, learn from them so you are able to deal with any curve balls thrown your way once married.

It's good to be careful when dealing with love but it's also very important to have realistic expectations

[quote author=V_Official®]Mr. Seun.
You can help this young lost man. He may never open this account again but i'm sure you can know other accounts he has opened from the device he used in opening this. Scan through all his post in case he has put his personal phone number on any. Call him on our behalf and probably give him a temporary job (that spam cleaner job might not be bad). His email might also help.
Thanks.[/quote]Makes sense to investigate further if indeed he does have another Id on nairaland. He needs serious help and giving him a temporary/permanent job ain't necessarily going to solve his problems.

maclatunji: ^I know and understand what you are saying but believe me, I can read extremely well a person's character with just a single sentence they post online talk less of if I observe you with your friends or in an environment you are comfortable with. I just do a quick mental analysis and I will be like - 'Nah, not the one' . I know it seems weird but I have somewhat always been different.

Now, this thing about me is not cast in stone, I just love it when a lady is sincere, it gives her a high station in my eyes. Secondly, if she can be bold enough to let me know she's feeling me, I may just be touched and stop being so practical a bit- I find courage or is it bravery attractive.

In short, I can accept one who loves me more than I love her if I am convinced that I will be faithful and fair to her even if by some miracle, my ideal prototype of a woman comes later- I would just say ''too bad, you came late'

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Here lies the problem Sir, you can't go on analysing every single person you meet and then judging their respective characters without actually getting to know them.
It almost impossible to find that perfect person because frankly they just don't exist. Your mindset should be one that is opened to meeting someone that will complement you vice versa. Two people coming together in a relationship are supposed to be tolerant to each other's short comings in order to have a successful relationship.

hypeman: @Jay_bee

Can you please unban [b]shymmex [/b]on the romance section?

Killz banned me for no reason.

You got banned by seun for posting a pornographic image. Ban expires on monday

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]How is it not romantic?

I was professing my love for you guys.[/quote]Most if not all previous threads with similar sentiments has always been moved to the culture section so it's only fair if yours was treated the same way.
No vex abeg

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Jaybe, se ko si?

Kilode ti o fi fa threadi mi lo si celebrities? Ta lo so fun e pe awaon celebrities nukan ni mo n post?

Jor bami fi threadi mi pada o. I was actually trying to wake up this boring section, see how I'm being paid [/quote]Ko si oh. Didn't move the thread even though it ain't got anything to do with the romance section. Should have been moved to culture or something.

hmmmm

ijebabe: Was that a jab?
Whatever works for you

Nahhh. Not even close

ijebabe: Don't you get headaches attending to all of us? or are you invincible?

I do have a very good life outside of NL (A job & fam) so i guess a lil spice ain't doing me no harm

ijebabe: Is it possible to close the complaints thread?

Why do you think it ought to be closed Sir/Ma?

queensmith: you can kiss my arse!

kool then
phew

queensmith: kmt

Can i kiss something other than the teeth?

queensmith: no, it's only after i made that comment that you deleted the rest.

The last post you left was still of him insulting both shymmex and c.fours. You obviously think its fine for him to insult everybody, so long as nobody responds. and that encourages his coonery

I give up already since it seems your mind is pretty much made up despite the fact that both post was removed simultaneously.
Oya no vex ayetty, truce?

queensmith: Am i the only person he insulted on that thread? you deleted the lasts posts but you left the rest, why? so it's ok for him to insult people but for someone to respond is a problem?

I censored you guys posts and shymmex's posts on the page in question. It's not OK for members to insult one another hence why the moderators have been clamouring for those that feel insulted to use the report to moderator route.

queensmith: if you aren't going to analyse his posts, don't analyse mine. Turn the same blind eye when you see my posts.

I censored both posts on the page in question so it wasn't like I was taking sides or anything. Did I censor all your posts on the thread in question? Try and be fair would ya. I encourage/welcome constructive criticism but common they just gotta be fair

queensmith: Why would you not think so, after shootin his disease ridden mess up your arse you clearly won't be able to reason properly. You intentionally overlook the fact that his character on this forum is purely unsavory?

You are very very stewpid for this statement, very stupid. When you clearly ignore that foul mouth tramps post (simply look at his post history, he has never had anything of quality to say he just throws about words he hears on tv) you dare quote your nonsense and incoherent rules to me? You having a laugh?

If you are going to say you are following the rules, follow them properly, and justly for everybody, don't delete my posts alone and make noise about nonsense rules. If you are really a man of your word you should be deleting that tramps account, his whole life has violated the soo called rules of this forum.

ah, again you are very silly, jay bee o ma jekin woju ee bai? Do the rules only apply to me? Seriously what can that tiny dycked tramp offer in the bedroom making you soo unreasonable? Are you listening to yourself.


Do not patronize me, so you observe with your eyes when queensmith is washing the floor with your boyfriend but not when he's bouncing about the gaff chatting absolute crap to others? You are pathetic! mshew

Okies i will go ahead and warn my bf to stay clear but you gotta agree with me that engaging in e-fights is so not the way to go.
One more thing though, don't you think i will be termed a dictator if i single out a member and delete all their posts simply because i don't agree with them? Besides, you are not suggesting i sit down and analyse all his posts are you?

Just take it easy ayetty abegi

@Queensmith
I was the one that hid the back and forth unsavoury remarks from both of you and i don't think it constitutes to me taking sides as posts with attacks on the said page were all hidden by myself.

On the issue of him disrespecting everybody, the only advice to that is for everyone that feels disrespected by him or any other person to report the offending posts to us so we can take appropriate actions.

On a side not though, isn't it also a Nigerian thing to be taking laws into own hands? Engaging him with the e-attacks shouldn't be the way when the forum rules clearly frowns upon such.