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ijebabe: Yeah figured. It will be nice if the mods took classes in effective communication so that people can be informed before these changes are made.

That's the job of the admin and i believe he has threads on other sections of nairaland where he communicates these various changes to his clients.
You ought to get outta romance section just a lil bit more.

A section attracting more traffic doesn't mean you should start posting every single thoughts in your mind on it. Romance section is clearly defined so stop being lazy and start using appropriate sections for your various threads.

PS: You didn't have to open a thread to reach out to me. The romance section complaints thread is there to serve a purpose

shymmex: You get that for Postgrad courses as well..

My bad... we didn't use to get those back in da dayz

Thought peeps only get unconditional offers when applying for undergraduate courses.
Are we talking about the same UK educational system?

Tgirl4real: Don't get me wrong. When you deny your spouse se.x, love and affection, and he/she cheats, are you not also to blame?

I hope you know men cheat regardless of being denied or what not.

queensmith: The norm here? Or someone coming from Nigeria?

Plus you have to pay, getting an msc at 22 isnt at all average even in this country, imagine those that have to scrimp and save to get the cash.

Abeg.

The norm here
You could have done a straight 4 yrs MEng course
Postgraduate loans are also offered to those that wish to pursue it straight after uni exactly the same way they get student loan for their undergrad.

shymmex: Fresh out of Uni graduates work as account assistants - I hate when people argue what they don't have any clue about...smh

Dude, it's not the norm for accountancy graduates to work as account assistants. In statistics you ignore anomalies.
What's the quoted average starting salaries for graduates in the UK?

shymmex: Stop quoting Universities - quote the real world... Universities sell degrees - so, you expect them to post anything they like on there..

Is that attainable in the present job market??

You would even be lucky to get an account assistant job fresh out of uni... Most people end up in carphone warehouse, and phones4u.

Your assertions aren't based on facts Sir

shymmex: You're talking about professionals with CCNA...

I referenced Account Assistants - which is where every BSc. belongs...

Wrong

http://www.kent.ac.uk/careers/accountancy.htm

@Shymmmex
Accountants with BSc's start from a more generous starting salaries than what you are quoting. Check prospects.ac.uk

Accounts assistant is different from accountants
same way engineering assistant is way different from engineers
One is a technician whilst the other is a professional
Spot the difference?

shymmex: That's for nerds - I'm not a nerd.. I'm a normal guy!

Not necessarily
BSc @ 21
MSc @ 22
That's the norm
Nerds achieve these <22 yrs

Thought MSc @ 22 should be the norm
What do i know

manheem: thanks for all your response and advises so far, i'm not perfect at the end of the day, and have my faults, i also realize how lies or hiding the truth for the greater good sometimes could cause issues, like i said she is a sweet girl and has good character, but above all this the ability of a man to provide for his home comes first or else the sweetest lady could turn to a monster, and also the pressure of our society, families on women esp at her age and coupled with distance is bearing on her, but i would take not of all that has been said.

bla bla bla bla be a man ok.
What you've narrated above shouldn't have warranted her comparing you to her ex except you aren't telling us the full story.
You give a woman an inch she walks the mile.

Make una leave Dr Ayettymama alone oh

joeydozzy: Sorry. No ban me ooo

It's all jokes homeboi. Nothing serious


@Nayah sweet potato
I didn't get the memo hun. How long you been pregnant for moi? I deserve to know don't u think?

joeydozzy: Like I said she never gave any positive statement to marriage. You just gotta understand. Must it be written directly?

BTW: I'm just playing with ma friend so stop taking it too serious

pendo89: Hi Nayah,
It's a guy's questn I understand.
If the relationship ends,then the baby's has just began so why cut it short?
Whether he assumes responsibilty or not, I will do my best for baby cz it was conceived in love.

joeydozzy: No abortion, maybe marriage depending on the guy

Where in her post did she say that?

Nayah: read again she did

What option did she go for?

pendo89: Hi Nayah,
It's a guy's questn I understand.
If the relationship ends,then the baby's has just began so why cut it short?
Whether he assumes responsibilty or not, I will do my best for baby cz it was conceived in love.

Nayah: Habari my dear, always on point...

She didn't answer the question though

Why not if you can rival the sensory organs in a dog

Order a change without adequate consultation
Can someone please remind me what democracy is all about again

looooool
I ask, who is a cretin/person?

AyoJames: @Gbawe I don't think they really need an enclosed bridge, we want to develop like those advanced countries but somethings needs to be take care of before some, I think the main motive is the FIRST syndrome and another means to embezzle money, and you know that our maintenance culture is very low here and there's no adequate security, so it might finally resulted to waste of money and sabotage may also set in.

Double GBAM
What's the point of innovation when it ain't going to be maintained
Simplicity should be at the core of each development in Naija

fesse: Have a rethink before it is too late. Muslim girls are naturally lazy, bad cooks (they don't like cooking at all, they prefer fast food joints), too materialistic, half baked education (except the south westerners), unproductive. Am not hating but that is the naked truth. You can get some of your qualities in the south west muslim gals: thank God no neatness mentioned above....

Seriously shaking my head. What's the correlation with what you've said above and religion? Do you have any iota of sense?

Thread Closed => Duplicate thread

https://www.nairaland.com/859269/how-u-handle-issue-complex

Are those the only two options?
I'm not against having a child outta wedlock so keep the pregnancy whilst we further develop the relationship which in time might lead to a wedding.
Men are too smart these days to be coerced into a wedding just because she got pregnant.

You guys have communication issues that needs some serious sorting out. Trust me you don't want to start having these sort of issues before you guys start living together.

She has absolutely no right to compare you with her ex. The last boyfriend is tagged an ex for a purpose so if she can't forgive you for being somewhat economical with the truth then she had better go back to him.

@OP
What do you think would be the typical reaction from us men if the scenario was reversed?

Iyalola19: jay boogie
please revive my mamalola19 handle
i believe u forgot u banned it
i am not part of the troublemakers
what would u like to eat this public holiday
jollof or fried rice
i am concern for the belly of my MOD

Done.
Please do not post any more indecent pictures. Thanks for your anticipated corporation

prommy12: @ temmytanny and odas, pls my sis won d lottery but d age she used is d same with her marriage certificate, she's bin using 1988 all dis while(4rm primary - tertiary) some weeks b4 her wedding she discovered she was born 1987.... Don't know wat 2 do concerning dis! Pls help me. Thanks

I believe so. At the end of the day, the fact that they have very few to choose from ain't helping either. My sincere advice to the eligible ladies is for them to be open minded,not resticting themselves to a particular nationality/tribe.

@dondav
What's with the head warmer in a room with limited ventilation?