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shymmex: That's for nerds - I'm not a nerd.. I'm a normal guy!

Not necessarily
BSc @ 21
MSc @ 22
That's the norm
Nerds achieve these <22 yrs

Thought MSc @ 22 should be the norm
What do i know

manheem: thanks for all your response and advises so far, i'm not perfect at the end of the day, and have my faults, i also realize how lies or hiding the truth for the greater good sometimes could cause issues, like i said she is a sweet girl and has good character, but above all this the ability of a man to provide for his home comes first or else the sweetest lady could turn to a monster, and also the pressure of our society, families on women esp at her age and coupled with distance is bearing on her, but i would take not of all that has been said.

bla bla bla bla be a man ok.
What you've narrated above shouldn't have warranted her comparing you to her ex except you aren't telling us the full story.
You give a woman an inch she walks the mile.

Make una leave Dr Ayettymama alone oh

joeydozzy: Sorry. No ban me ooo

It's all jokes homeboi. Nothing serious


@Nayah sweet potato
I didn't get the memo hun. How long you been pregnant for moi? I deserve to know don't u think?

joeydozzy: Like I said she never gave any positive statement to marriage. You just gotta understand. Must it be written directly?

BTW: I'm just playing with ma friend so stop taking it too serious

pendo89: Hi Nayah,
It's a guy's questn I understand.
If the relationship ends,then the baby's has just began so why cut it short?
Whether he assumes responsibilty or not, I will do my best for baby cz it was conceived in love.

joeydozzy: No abortion, maybe marriage depending on the guy

Where in her post did she say that?

Nayah: read again she did

What option did she go for?

pendo89: Hi Nayah,
It's a guy's questn I understand.
If the relationship ends,then the baby's has just began so why cut it short?
Whether he assumes responsibilty or not, I will do my best for baby cz it was conceived in love.

Nayah: Habari my dear, always on point...

She didn't answer the question though

Why not if you can rival the sensory organs in a dog

Order a change without adequate consultation
Can someone please remind me what democracy is all about again

looooool
I ask, who is a cretin/person?

AyoJames: @Gbawe I don't think they really need an enclosed bridge, we want to develop like those advanced countries but somethings needs to be take care of before some, I think the main motive is the FIRST syndrome and another means to embezzle money, and you know that our maintenance culture is very low here and there's no adequate security, so it might finally resulted to waste of money and sabotage may also set in.

Double GBAM
What's the point of innovation when it ain't going to be maintained
Simplicity should be at the core of each development in Naija

fesse: Have a rethink before it is too late. Muslim girls are naturally lazy, bad cooks (they don't like cooking at all, they prefer fast food joints), too materialistic, half baked education (except the south westerners), unproductive. Am not hating but that is the naked truth. You can get some of your qualities in the south west muslim gals: thank God no neatness mentioned above....

Seriously shaking my head. What's the correlation with what you've said above and religion? Do you have any iota of sense?

Thread Closed => Duplicate thread

https://www.nairaland.com/859269/how-u-handle-issue-complex

Are those the only two options?
I'm not against having a child outta wedlock so keep the pregnancy whilst we further develop the relationship which in time might lead to a wedding.
Men are too smart these days to be coerced into a wedding just because she got pregnant.

You guys have communication issues that needs some serious sorting out. Trust me you don't want to start having these sort of issues before you guys start living together.

She has absolutely no right to compare you with her ex. The last boyfriend is tagged an ex for a purpose so if she can't forgive you for being somewhat economical with the truth then she had better go back to him.

@OP
What do you think would be the typical reaction from us men if the scenario was reversed?

Iyalola19: jay boogie
please revive my mamalola19 handle
i believe u forgot u banned it
i am not part of the troublemakers
what would u like to eat this public holiday
jollof or fried rice
i am concern for the belly of my MOD

Done.
Please do not post any more indecent pictures. Thanks for your anticipated corporation

prommy12: @ temmytanny and odas, pls my sis won d lottery but d age she used is d same with her marriage certificate, she's bin using 1988 all dis while(4rm primary - tertiary) some weeks b4 her wedding she discovered she was born 1987.... Don't know wat 2 do concerning dis! Pls help me. Thanks

I believe so. At the end of the day, the fact that they have very few to choose from ain't helping either. My sincere advice to the eligible ladies is for them to be open minded,not resticting themselves to a particular nationality/tribe.

@dondav
What's with the head warmer in a room with limited ventilation?

This is some serious fun.
Thnx guys

Will they now make the ptdf thingy redundant?

what's the koko?

What's going on in here?

DaGirl: hi!
hi!
Pls, How can i hide my post like all the ones i see here?
Is it the MOD that gets 2do dat?
I need mine hidden, as a matter of fact i need my thread deleted.
I just came in, was bashed badly & i had like 2delete my record wit nairaland & now dat i hav taken time 2go thru som other threads, i see how pple relate here.
I wud - prefer- to delete my account & reopen in a new name or just change my username to anoda.
Any hint on how i can do dat? Pple? Jaybee?
Pls... No abuse abeg. Just help if u can.
Thx!

I've already actioned your initial request

Are you sure you aren't running away from responsibilities bro?
I can't understand how you can comfortably live with a gf for months but yet afraid to live with one tagged as a wife.

Marriage is anything you decide to make off it so absolutely nothing to worry about as long as the two concerned parties are cleared on each other's expectations of what marriage is all about.

Been wearing it monday to thursday since '03 so kinda use to it

@OP
You should be getting some sort of help from the government based on your stated combined salary (tax credits/child benefits et al)
What sort of experience do you or your hubby have? Can you share, if yes send me an email as we might be able to work something out on the job front as long as you guys are legal residents.