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odiaero: How can u say Pep is Argentine?

Jeel: Barcelona are believed to have already identified Athletic Bilbao coach Marcelo Bielsa as his ideal successor, Goal.com understands.

The Argentine is out of contract in the summer and has the unanimous backing of the Barca board, as well as that of Guardiola, who considers Bielsa the best coach in the game today.

agiboma: Look i agree with you 100% on the above no doubt about it. So lets talk about this Nigeria for a minute ok.

1.) Nigeria where a man can LEGALLY have multiple wives
2.) Nigeria where men are the head of the houshold and usually have all the money
3.) Nigeria where woman are not empowered or recognised in the society as an equal
4.) Nigeria where the employment is scare unemployment is high

What are women to do in this society based on the above and so much more i did not mention, find a wealthy man and hold on @ all cost. Look i did not create the dynamics of this society. in short in my home country it is the exact opposite of life over here so this whole expereince has been a learning curve for me but i see a lot more these days that I have opened up my eyes to the realities of the society that i currently live in. Would i give this advice to someone in my home Country of course NOT. Am I a hyprocrite. The answer again is no. For example if OP was in Canada I would tell her to divorce if she wants and take her chances she will find a man, of course over their she would be entitled to half the husbands assets. So i would say go for it. But come on in Nigeria, 3 kids divorced and looking for a decent man that will make you happy. That request superseads a miracle ooo. until things change in this country like men only being able to keep 1 wife and women being able to sue and get half their assets upon divorce i dont see anything changing, in regards to men keeping their joystick under control. . Look i did not make the rules of this society, Im just living in it thats all.

agiboma: What I am saying is:

Op says she wants romance, intimacy, faithfulness etc. Her husband does not give it to her because he is a womanizer, and she knew this befor entering into the marriage. Now she wants to leave with 3 children OP needs to be realistic about her life in this Society. The chances of her finding prince charming and a loving partner and bright future together is very low. She should know what most likely awaits her divorce. People on here cheering her on to divorce ok, they wont be the one raising those kids alone and being some married man's girlfriend. The future for OP with 3 kids is not looking very bright in terms of catching a young, rich faithful professional. But all the best to her.

agiboma: I dont blame you she should leave. Then go to the Romance section put up an add single mature mother of 3, looking for a good man. ok oooo, good luck with that in this Nigeria i'm afraid the only thing she gonna find is married men looking for fun. Well all the best to OP.

Dondav: I would have been!!! ... But you ruined the surprise.. "Be afraid" ... It ain't what her man would say!! Actually, I don't think he would even respond with the word "Afraid"

Nayah: lol not so sure...suitors could be bad

Nayah: lol so you think I'll marry because of a declaration? hummm

991: sure you are a big joker, you need a lawyer and you come to NL? when you needed a clergyman for weeding did you come to NL?
by the way we just heard your own side of the story, and your immediate contemplation on divorce as a first choice of amending your broken home tells a lot about who you really are and what you are made of.
'any woman can make a baby, but it takes a real mother to build a happy home'.....991

coogar: that's not the point. the point i am trying to make is black, white, green, yellow, there are equal
opportunities in the uk. so tell your lazy-arse kinsmen to stop complaining about racism or discrimination.
if this young doctor can make it, why can't

yamakuza: ngbo, x-fire, na true?

Maybe EE has more maths at MSc level but while in school, my Chem Engr friends did the most Maths and my other tech friends agreed they did.