drnoel: Did u just ask us what she should do. Where we with them when she was opening her nyash 4 another woman's husband, why do ladies alway like thinking they can eat their cake and have it. The man is married so she should deal with that on her own. When they were doing it for 18 good months, did she come gossip 2 us, no. So she shouldn't expect a worthy advice. Am out of here, what effrontery.
For Bleep sake, OP has already stated that she was conned and it was rather too late to back out when she finally discovered he was not who he proclaimed to be. He has to pay
vivika: I really hate it when people open their mouths and instead of giving reasonable, sound advice, they spew nonsense out of it. All of you that are saying i am dumb, are you smarter than me? what kind of retards are on this thread bikonu! if you are about to start talking rubbish, CAN IT ! to answer your questions, no i am not dumb, i am studying International Business Management and Accounting at NYU with a GPA of 3.52/4 so i am probably smarter than most of you posting on NL, secondly, my family isn't lacking, they are a somewhat influential in Nigeria *i have a diplomatic passport *, why a celeb? because i want to! now wetin concern una with this part now? I am not desperate, believe it or not, i come from a very religious family, so i don't plan on getting pregnant outside wedlock, if i sound desperate to you, maybe i should consider a paraphrase, "I NO WAN MARRY POOR AND UGLY MAN "
vivika: All of you who are critiquing prayers, its just because you have never been or seen anyone who has been in this position. My brother died abt 10yrs ago, 4yrs after this my mother was in the hospital for almost a yr, a yr after this my father died, 2yrs after this my aunt died. Why i am bringing this up is because in all of thiis drama, my mother was in the center. One thing i know for sure is that my mum's prayer and her faith in her God kept her from loosing it. It depends on the kind of person, i mean everyone copes with pain differently. if prayer works for her, let her try it out, if prayer doesn't seem to work let her see a therapist. Now all of you suggesting therapeutic care, its not enough for you to suggest but also tell him good and credible drs he can take her to. REMEMBER: GOD WILL NEVER GIVE YOU A PROBLEM THAT YOU CAN'T HANDLE
violent: OK i agree, maybe my statement was in the absolute. Yes, they have the power to do so, but it will only happen in very unusual once a blue moon circumstance. I haven't heard of any other case outside of this stratford scenario!
It will particularly be unwise to think the UK border force or even the Police could accost a specific group of peaceful protesters who have in all likelihood obtained permissions ahead of the protests, if they do so, they run the risk of being reported or embarrassed for harassment. There's a report on daily mail that the Police are often very careful about asking a detained suspect about his/her immigration status, cos they are careful of being embarrassed for racism and what not.
you may have mistaken me, my argument is not that only bad comes from Nigeria, my argument is that Nigeria is a fcking hell---the devil's own personal abode!. . .tell me just a single thing that is civilized about Nigeria, just one!
Trust me unannounced raids by UK border force agencies happens from time to time but it definitely wouldn't be appropriate in the protest scenario as it would be classed as unlawful.
It's like they turning up at a Nigeria vs Ghana match at Wembley knowing fully well that they are guaranteed to arrest tons of illegal immigrants. I think Carlton Cole actually got reprimanded for cracking a joke on tweeter about that
I'm afraid ain't nothing she can do about it now. The simple advice for her is to tighten her belt and work on being a good mother/father to the child that never asked to be brought into the world. If she wants financial support from the man then she can obviously get that through the court system
violent: It will be insane to assume that civilized security outfits just go out and "pick" people up like fruits!. . that's only possible in one place in the entire world--> NIGERIA!!
People don't get accosted in the street for their immigration status, unless such a person is involved in something illegal or the Border force have specific information.
They actually do ya know. UK border force are known to turn up unannounced at major transport hubs. Their was a particular case in one of 'em recent UK border force series on tv whereby some dude was picked up at stratford station
You want some American babies? [/quote]I'm happy with british babies for now I might just try next year Should i look at your side when ready? I heard you churning 'em out like they are in fashion
AjanleKoko: ^^ Oh okay. I get you. That aside, i hope you get the general idea of what I've been on about, relating to individuals and career.
Off course i do. I always look forward to reading your posts on NL. I'm sure I've asked you this down the years before but do you mentor peeps? I think you should
Passing a night at someone you barely know's house is highly suggestive from the view point of us men.
Anyhoo, next time insist on him providing accommodation at a separate hotel or something if you know you aren't ready to dance ball with whatever he may throw at you.
0-14 years: 40.9% (male 32,476,681/female 31,064,539) 15-64 years: 55.9% (male 44,296,228/female 42,534,542) bulk of the workforce is drawn from here 65 years and over: 3.1% (male 2,341,228/female 2,502,355) (2011 est.)
So going by your aggregation and factoring students and unemployment figures then surely public sector workers will be > 50% of the total workforce. It's so sad that we don't have proper publicized payroll data
0-14 years: 40.9% (male 32,476,681/female 31,064,539) 15-64 years: 55.9% (male 44,296,228/female 42,534,542) bulk of the workforce is drawn from here 65 years and over: 3.1% (male 2,341,228/female 2,502,355) (2011 est.)
So going by your aggregation and factoring students and unemployment figures then surely public sector workers will be > 50% of the total workforce. It's so sad that we don't have proper publicized payroll data
AjanleKoko: The bulk of that 66% is in the private sector workforce. You are right about inflation of course. But isn't that the same everywhere? That's not limited to Nigeria. Even in the developed world, as growth plummets, the wage will hold less value. Already some of the European countries are trying to raise taxes and cut social spending, like Spain.
But remember, we are talking about individuals. Nowadays, people tend to spend big on education, not only in Nigeria. The expectation is to earn premium, which won't necessarily be the case anymore. I am saying, be conservative but be focused, and you will see the career growth you are seeking.
AjanleKoko: Let's look at the economic, rather than the emotional impact of your statement. The truth is, nothing every stays the same.
Teaching profession 20 years ago was mostly government, and they fixed the wages. Now, population is growing, more private schools up to university level are being opened. Wages will continue to grow in this sector, as the private sector boom will continue. More teachers will be needed.
Oga, Nigeria is rumoured to have over 150 inhabitant in which 66% of that headline figure is in the labour force. What percentage of that 66% is attributed to the private sector workforce and even when you factor in the growth rate of private sector on a yearly basis you will still be left with a bigger percentage geered towards the public sector.
If we look at the macro economics even, wage growth will bring wage inflation which in turn will mean less money to play with for the prospective middle class that you are suggesting will boom in the coming years. In my opinion, we will still be left in the same both as more money wouldn't necessarily mean more disposable income as prices will skyrocket and Naira will probably lose it's value.
AjanleKoko: Medical profession: With the coming of managed healthcare and health insurance, healthcare in Nigeria is growing. Even in the public sector, wages have grown, as some have attested to on the medical doctor's thread. More HMO subscriptions, more money in health insurance, and demand for health care professionals, even if government does not open new hospitals. We saw this a couple of years back when a South African Healthcare group invested around $250m to acquire Total health Trust, a local HMO.
In fact, I predict that specialist doctors will soon start to return from the US to Nigeria, over the next 5 years. If Obama gets re-elected and nothing happens to his Obamacare bill, I wonder how lucrative healthcare practice will be in the US. Already a number of UK doctors are back to Nigeria in one capacity or the other.