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freecocoa:
And any girl with the above characteristics is promiscuous? Before we go any further,how would you define promiscuity?

Most certainly
You tell me cocoa

freecocoa:
And you are clearly in agreement with that belief,in as much as I'd love to say I understand what OP is saying or trying to say,I don't think"promiscuous is the right word to use.

It depends on the angle you are looking at it.
I'd say yes if as a man i was looking for a girl with the following characteristics:
Above average sexual experience,
Great fashion sense and not shy to flaunt the assets if she got it,
Not overly religious and somewhat free spirit
et al

duhhhhh
we are definitely oil rich with testament to our proven oil reserve.
For crying out loud, Nigeria owns 3% or there about of world's total oil

however, Nigeria is not a rich country due to her population and over reliance on oil.

Dubai had how many reserves and how have they managed to transform the kingdom with the little they had/have?

freecocoa:
so if I'm not promiscuous I can't ooze of self confidence or know how to hook a man?

My assertion wasn't meant to be highly exclusive

The OP's general believe is that the group stand a better chance of getting hooked

They ooze self confidence and most probably in the know on how to hook a man

How about your village so as to gain valuable experience.

stiyke:
What percentage of ibadan and lagos came out for the protest??

You joking right?

https://i51.tinypic.com/33ts8li.gif

Did you see fat ronaldo?
Is he sick?

Life commitment needs even greater scrutiny hence the birth of prenup et al

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For real?

toba:
Jaybee, she isnt any kinda Sugar mama.

shes young. its oyel money that made her look old. I heard she's 38 just about your age

Do I look 38? I need to start using anti-ageing cream.
I'm way younger than that. Besides what has she got to offer other than her wallet? Dating someone for the wrong reasons is about the worst thing you can do oneself.

Using your Pareto's analogy pendo, he still has to determine which ratio will provide him with the best return/satisfaction.

Would he as a grown up man continue going to his dad to choose his bride for him or would he rather just follow is heart as most well informed people do.
Would he continue dating the girl knowing fully well the family has reservations and potentially can provid them problems in the future?

If we all believe the general saying that love conquers all then it's a simple decision for him to go with the girl as long as he ain't doing so because of the guilt he had be dealing with if he didn't.

IMO, parents should only be there to give blessings not to be a determinant factor when choosing a bride as they won't be their 24/7 throughout the marriage

I can't and won't do a sugar momma

Cos I'm still waiting on you to give me the green light

Nah cos my third leg will frankly refuse to get up.
Money ain't everything

Mynd_44:
^^^
I never knew UNILAG was offering degree courses in women engineering

He has two lingering scenario weighing on his mind so the best thing he can do is weight the risk of whichever action he decides on and offcorse chose the one with the lowest risk.

You are an engineer so you are supposed to be able to weight risk appropriately and in turn apply it to make informed decision.

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Don't you even try any revolution whatsoever. It's not your fight, you weren't there when they was humping and doing lovey dovey. I'm sure you don't ever want to be in the middle so please let her deal with the man and if she ain't brave enough then advice her to go via the court

Not necessarily has leadership skills doesn't have direct correlation with certificates but having said that, having a well educated/eloquent leader is more beneficial as they had be able to get their message across effortlessly

You can only make a fair comparison if you know Nigeria's monthly payroll data
However, USA can't even be compared because they have a much larger GDP

Game destroyed

4 possessions conceded by giggs already. . . . .
Just saying

naijababe:
Kats, i'm not the one talking about woman borrom, i just dey ask innocent kweshuns nao

Did you get my PM?
Happy new year

Mrs, Chima:
Easy killa.

Found a bf for ur cutie. Check the other thread

drnoel:
Did u just ask us what she should do. Where we with them when she was opening her nyash 4 another woman's husband, why do ladies alway like thinking they can eat their cake and have it. The man is married so she should deal with that on her own. When they were doing it for 18 good months, did she come gossip 2 us, no. So she shouldn't expect a worthy advice. Am out of here, what effrontery.

For Bleep sake, OP has already stated that she was conned and it was rather too late to back out when she finally discovered he was not who he proclaimed to be.
He has to pay

@Inked
Did you get my fb msg?

Empty chairs dey for here?