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@OP
Please take him bag
What will it take for you to take him back abeg
Whatever you do please don't go into the forever hopefull drum.
13 years ain't joke. It's fine to be tired and even more acceptable to be fed up but your judgement should be based on how successful the 13years you guys ad together.
Please harbour just a lil more patience. God will surely give you the strength to pull through.

This is just another classic example of Swiftycool's thread. I think you need to read through the thread to understand what you have and willing to give up.
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=484727

@ Q
I don't mind going gong oh if it was pasta but as for noodles i'd def go light on it.
hehehhehe

Wow Wow Wow Wow Uju
This side of you is the bomb.
Thumbs/head/hands/feet up
GBAM GBAM GBAM

KK nice one
but ma preferred style would have been to make the sauce separately.
Diced hot dog (I normally use frankfutters)
king prawns
Chopped tomatoes
Chilli powder
olive oil

[quote author=Mrs. Eve link=topic=555766.msg7202281#msg7202281 date=1290528477]Jaybee,

It aint AMALA AND EBA! Did you see my recipe, try that and tell me what you think![/quote]Where is the recipe?
Caseroles?
cottage pie?
deserts?
Nigerian soups?

[quote author=Mrs. Eve link=topic=555766.msg7202237#msg7202237 date=1290528130]Jaybee,

Cooking amala and eba is not GOOD COOKING,[/quote]So what is?

Yes i can
I'm a good cook so i will def teach her

Fed express rolls on. Murray swept aside in straight sets at his backyard
6:4, 6:2

@zezyahoo
Why did she leave?
I think it's better if you start a thread in the family section.

hehehheheheeh
Iranian weapons?
hmmmmmmmmm
omo ke ke re ni mi
lmao

^^^
GBAM
Highly respected Mrs CC has spoken

Mind on a wandering bender

^^^^^
hmmmmmmm

Might help but benefits from 'em sort of courses are best realised in a structured environment.
You need to be able to show him how is lateness affects you. Maybe a comparative analysis of how things could be if he time keeping is high on his agenda.

@OP
Please listen to the above advice.
It's hard enough to be with a man without issues

@TKB
Seems Corky have finally infested us with his virus oh. truss me, no offieeeence

^^^^^
I so understand what you going on about.
How about you both starting a challenge on whoever makes the other person late buys that person a gift of their choice.
I can't tolerate lateness. It annoys me

@ OP
Do you still love him? If No, is it because he hasn't been performing his duties as a man hence him being a burden on you?

I'm a good listener

akossyy:
it is the duty of every woman to wash his man clothes whether married or not,

Because you own her or perhaps she is your employee and you pay her wages

I'm serious . Noticed all u do is campaign for the yorubas these dayz

yes i did miss u.
what happened?
you and king Eve went on another honeymoon?

since when?
hmmmmmmmm
ggggrrrrrhhhhhhhh
welcome back stilll

woooo woooo woooo
shez back
hehhehehehheheheheh

@OP
You gonna get good advice from the family section so moving your thread.

PS: Have you tried watching adult films with her? so many other things that you can do to get her aroused

chaircover:
BTW do you snap egusi seeds and sift beans too?

Easy pizzie. . . . I will even go further by cooking a mean/tasty spinach with lumpy egusi or just better still go light and do the plain egusi stew.
Don't even get me started with the beans.

dayokanu:
To me the most important is bedroom activity, Other responsibility we can always hire people if she puts up a good case for it.

Assuming she has a very demanding job, then I cant reasonably expect her to take care of the kids full time, We can get a nanny or househelp but Bedroom one make I no too yarn.

The General Randy himself. We know now. lol

chaircover:
Jay-bee Iranian missile ke . . . . . slander abi na libel sef be dis o!

Kila gbe Kile ju

Besides Mr CC is too busy sweating in the bathroom washing his boxers to even notice dis young dude who doesn't wanna die yet

@DK - Trust you to add another dimension to things

slender ke? who is Mr CC? Is like looking for Mr John Doe

^^^
I heard General CC had something to do with seized Iranian rockets
Who knows he may still have some stashed at home so dis young dude doesn't wanna die yet

It's a privilege that's supposed to be earned.
We are not supposed to marry women into slavery as asking women to hand wash clothes when we ourselves won't do it is a bit far fetched.

If and when i do get married, the only thing i would expect from ma wife is to take care of our children as that's her only responsibility. Everything else (house chores) will be shared.
Offcourse I'm going to help with the children as well but it's her primary responsibility as a mother

How long did you guys court before getting married?
Being friends with someone is totally different from being in a relationship with 'em
Have you discussed all current worries with her?
Are there anything you can do to get her in the mood? You can always romance before going straight for the kill

Some people don't like kissing so that's not uncommon but it appears you guys have a broken communication so i suggest you open your heart out to her first. Explain how her actions are currently affecting you and your preference of a workable solution for you both.

@Ileke
What has gone into you? We seriously need the old Fl gators

hmmmmm Air france

@Ileke
What a competition

korrect:
i forgave her cuz i love her and i tot dat she will change.i will give her d bleep of her life before breakin dat heartless heart.

And what will you gain from that/
Can that even be equivalent to your alleged hurt that she has caused you?

The point is ask her why she has cheated on you so you can know what works for your next relationship.
You need to close that chapter in a matured way