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You peeps should chill a lil about mumu this that comment as te OP obviously love the girl in question and it's not always as easy as it seems with the naked eye
What was the reason given by her for cheating 3 times?
Did you try to find out?

First thing you have to do is STOP buying love from her.

I'd already chosen village girl on the first page based on the strict definition of the OP.
So what's your choice madam? City boy?

^^^
why? wetin i do you?

Heart pleading for you to stay => You are finding reasons to stay <= Your head has stopped working in tandem with your heart so constant counter-arguements going on in your mind

Heart screaming for you to leave => Communication between your head and heart is now asynchronous so leaving is the best thing you had be doing for yourself.

Neither of these 2 situations is any good so once you start having the doubt then it's best you start listening to your head more often than your heart

^^^
The OP asked people to choose from the strict choices she advertised in her post,
Offcourse most people will either choose a cross-breed or city girl that they are comfortable with in real life.

The girl is super daft Why go to the tabloids when her best bet was reporting it to the cops.
hmmmmmmmm publicity stunts

would have taken the hague as well

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Yugoslavia

Name five countries that Pan American highway passes through

Locked Down

KG

Country duh
Scotland or Romania was what i was looking for.

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Genoa

The capital of the Netherlands?

Unstoppable

Russia

In what country is the people's palace situated?

Go for the ship girl

thought this was a thing of the past and most def not common in Nigeria.
Oh well, you are in a very difficult situation as u currently aren't buoyant enough to soldier her responsibilities and going against her parents at the moment would be a very dumb thing to do.

why are u dating two guys at the same time? Your current action is what's leading to your indecision. Comparing people can only lead you to nuff troubles. Make up your mind and stop running the risk of loosing it all.

nite nite

doesn't matter who . focus on the message misus

[quote author=star* link=topic=553883.msg7178752#msg7178752 date=1290200714]Jaybee, please tell me your source? Just out of interest [/quote]I don't need validation from relationship magazines. A grown man like me should know what works

Omolola1:
b4 u lure her in2 dat while she is still boiling, u av work 2 do

simples
touch the right places and kiss the sensitive places. bingo lottery has been won by omolola

who told u that? Just try it and come give me feeback. All the anger will immediately start disappearing once you get the first thrust

I heard sex when being angry is the shitzo so give it a try.

Plucked out from outer space i suppose

^^^
What you have is Trust Issues not anger issues.
Deal with that first and see how free you gonna be

It's annoying that i'm gonna be sleeping under me duvet alone again. It's cold mehn

Not again

serial joker

Babe as long as the obedience is a 2 way thing then we won't have to worry abt dictatorship.
At the end of the day people only set out to look for people that complement them not necessarily people that tick all the boxes.
Village or City don't matter when looking for a bride. What matters most is the person and what she has to offer.

googles:
Yay ! wen you always expect obedience from someone without any sort of argument dats controlling

one who always obey yuh is under your control.

Obedience <=> Respect
Which in ma books is reciprocal

work is kinda hectic
one of me staff is been on long term sickie so more work for moi.
you shouldn't be a stranger still though. No excuse madam

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=13428.msg7175758#msg7175758 date=1290172635]
How can he really love me if the dude is wrecking his brain over the fact that I don't wanna take his last name? I wouldn't give up on love but I still wouldn't wanna change my name. If he wants to walk away from me because of that, then that's on him. I'll go down the hyphenated route if his name is hyphenated as well.[/quote]OK that's a worthy compromise.
It's no biggie for me anywayz was just trying to find out why u r so adamant about keeping yours.
U been good though? been a while

what if ma spirit goes along with someone being obedient?
Obedience is a 2 way thing so how could i possibly be controlling?

Village bride then cos it's far easier for her to attain all the goody things accustomed to a city bride but far difficult for a city bride to learn how to be obedient

I agree that one has to discuss that before taking the step if it's going to worry them so much.
Would you give up on love if your dream man happens to be adamant about you having his last name?
What about considering the hyphenated/mother's maiden names as a compromise.