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Politics › Re: Boko Haram: Top 8 Worst Decisions Of President Muhammadu Buhari by jaybee3(m): 11:07am On Jul 21, 2015

1)They clarified this position that the order was for non-essential military checkpoints

2)So you are comfortable with allegations of thousands losing their lives to extra-judicial killings or is it acceptable for the military to just kill innocent citizens just because of the way they look or where they live?

3)Again, they relocated the control centre not military headquarters. There is a clear difference in the two and there are obvious benefits to this directives:
•Speed of Information and its dissemination

•Boosting morale of the gallant officers

•Ability to react to changing/fluid intelligence without having the need to wait for commands via communication medium that may be intercepted

4)Who would have been left to fill the vacuum if he had proceeded to sack them from the get go?
How would he have been able to screen his new comrades without take his eyes of the ball as far as BH is concerned. He needed continuity so he can buy himself some time to understand the issues before taking effective actions.
His strategy would prove to be in Apt in the long run

5)This is laughable and more like a bear parlor gist. Any serious country will romance with the United states because of obvious reasons. They are the biggest and most powerful nation on earth so there is more to learn and gain by aligning with them

6)Where did you get this from? Hasn't it been proven time and time again that the VP was always present whenever he wasn’t on official duties elsewhere within or outside the country?
Just because the camera usually focuses on PMB doesn’t mean he is the only one present at these meetings

The VP is also the president and you will expect him to be privy to every single Info

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Family › Re: Where Can I Find A Baby Mama by jaybee3(m): 10:47am On Jul 21, 2015

eeBairotciV:
sharrraaap dere yuh fool
Victoriabee iz obsessed wit me
and d feelin iz mutual
tell ha to kip lolaredvelvet out of ha
stinkin moufff

You can always restrict your obsession to a dedicated thread don't you think so?

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Family › Re: Where Can I Find A Baby Mama by jaybee3(m): 10:40am On Jul 21, 2015

eeBairotciV:
Victoriabee is an expert at
1. Callin modz
2. Using alternate monikers to lyk ha own commentz

Yo! what exactly is your problem?

why are you trying to ruin this thread?

why don't you just open a dedicated thread for your gibberish if you have a problem with the girl

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Politics › Re: Pictures Of Governor Okorocha In Washington With Obama And Others by jaybee3(m): 10:34am On Jul 21, 2015

falseman:
E be like the wife use fry pan smash the head

The kain ray wey go bounce for that head go be like wow

Just check out that contour sef... The guy head dey there i tell you

But you are one mean fvck though

see as you take circle that head......

evil man na him you be tongue

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Family › Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by jaybee3(m): 10:07am On Jul 21, 2015

MixedMan:
Please I really need your advice my fellow nigerians.. My brother in law is breaking my family and my marriage..

I got married with my husband 2011, it was going all well and lovely.. I really loved my husband,he's the most caring man on earth and gentle,gives me listening ears and take care of the family.. By. Sept 2014, he's immidiate younger brother visted us, I was thinking it was a short visit only for me to discover he wants to stay with us pending on when he gets new job within the city.. I learnt he lost his former job at abuja due to some personal issues he never want to revealed to us.. And he's 38 not yet married.. As at jan this year, he made some funny moves with me.. That shows he's interested in me.. I gave no room for that,just recently only for me to discover he's helping my husband to arrange other women outside.. According to some of the people telling me.. This is not the first time nor even the sixth time.. He will arrange girls for my husband in hotels,clubs etc
Just last two weeks,I decided to stalk them, when he told me he wasn't coming back tonight.. Just for me to see them at a popular club at ikeja with some girls.. I have confronted my husband and told him but till now he's stll haven't changed, this past friday it repeated itself again.. Right now I'm confused,I don't know what to do.. I need your help my fellow nigerians.

Patience from Lagos.

Your husband isn’t being forced to do what he isn’t comfortable with. Yes it’s possible for the younger brother to ignite the devil in him but you can’t ignore the fact that he has always had that devil in him.

It appears you don’t really have much say in your marriage evidenced by the fact that your husband singly took the decision to accommodate his brother without your consent.

Going forward, your options are extremely limited and the best you can do is to ask him to address the issue of his brother staying permanently with you guys. Just let him know you need your own space and you are starting to feel like a stranger in your own home.

Also, I will advise you stop stalking your husband all over the place so you don’t give yourself unnecessary HBP over a man that will most certainly continue his life should in case the worst happens to you. Be wise, live for yourself and children not a man

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Family › Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by jaybee3(m): 9:58am On Jul 21, 2015

freecocoa:
Your stup1dity is indeed legendary, do yourself a favour and get some education, tufiakwa!.

You are beyond disgusting, even cavemen would be ashamed to associate with you, I pity the unfortunate people who have to endure your level of 1diocy, such a twart.

Relax coco... mbanu

Family › Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by jaybee3(m): 9:37am On Jul 21, 2015

ddami:
dude forget it a white lady does not give a damn about sex,, when a Nigerian girl is still singing her regular rhythm of "I am still a Virgin",,
and a chorus of "I am kinda scared" ,,
and hymn of " my friend told me its painful"

ddami:
It takes a Nigerian guy,,
*One week to have sex with a white lady,,
*One month to have sex with a Nigerian Lady,,

Which one do you want to stick to cos it appears you are actually confused and almost certainly pulling the conjectures from your southern region

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Family › Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by jaybee3(m): 9:24am On Jul 21, 2015

ddami:
It takes a Nigerian guy,,
*One week to have sex with a white lady,,
*One month to have sex with a Nigerian Lady,,

You couldn't have been so wrong

Reverse is actually the case

ddami:
IF u cheat,,
*All a white woman needs is a Gun
*A Nigerian woman is still planning on how her gang will beat the girl,, and will report you on Twitter..

I guess both suffering from some sort of emotional ish doesn't count to you or does it?

ddami:
In The CaseOf Divorce,,
* A white woman will leave you Half-bankrupt,,
*A Nigerian woman, you walk away freely with your money..

Educate yourself!

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Family › Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by jaybee3(m): 9:19am On Jul 21, 2015

sinaj:
M Nigerian

i dnt deny d fact dat some girls can be demanding, but u guyz dnt av to generalise.

evn d white gurls u guyz are running after, m sure de demand too unless de r cougar

what u should know iz dat...

A girl dat truly loves you will not be xo demanding.
coz ur presence iz enof for her.

u guyz shud quit judging from d xperience u had frm hoes

Experience they say is the best judge and it helps form opinion

Yes our experiences may be skewed by the environment we live in but it should not be out-rightly dismissed as inconsequential

I personally don't believe women (Nigerian girls in this context) would only date for their personal gains as majority of the people i know that are females are hard working and would almost certainly afford material things.

I'm also aware of the important factor of peer pressure and societal norms have on young ladies hence the need for them to go all out so they can fit in.

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Family › Re: Where Can I Find A Baby Mama by jaybee3(m): 9:09am On Jul 21, 2015

drake99:
Good morning friends, I wish you all can see through my heart and know how important this issue is for me

I opened this thread sometime last year but I was slandered so I gave up,now I'm here again hoping to get a better solution

My name is drake,I'll be 32 in december,there's something eating me up which is how to get a girl who can give me a child,this sounds immoral but I know its possible,I don't want to do it in a crook way,which is impregnate a girl and refuse marrying her,I'm religious and I know that curse do work if she utter them bitterly

So I need someone I can have a chat with,agreed on it and I promise to take care of her through out her pregnant days and I promise to keep sending money for her and the child's upkeep

I know you may be wondering why I'm taking this path,well the reason is that I have a loooooong way to go in this life and marriage may be a stumbling block for me,am leaving this country next year to brazil and what am going there to do is a game of life and death,I may die in the process or end up in prison,(which I pray not to)so I need a child now so I won't loose out in every aspect of life if anything happens

If I said ok let me marry now before leaving,it'll be very bad for her and myself,because we'll feel emotionally indebted to each other,I'll always feel she's lonely and that'll lead her astray,all these may affect my sailing in this ocean of struggle,or if I said ok let me go and marry when am back,that means I maybe thinking of marriage when am over 40 years

I've spoken to few girls and they are all interested in marriage,one of them told me that she can live with my parents and wait till am back which is not what I want,infact I've come to realize that I can't see anyone here in igbo land because marriage is so valued to igbos

Now my aim of opening this thread is not to ask if this is something I should,I opened it to ask where,I mean which town or tribe can I see women that are not so keen about marriage,who can give me a child,bayelsa?warri? Calabar?uyo? Where?

Note:this child will be hers forever,because he/she will grow up in her custody,I can even marry her if things work well and I came back early,I'm only planning this because tomorrow is unpredictable

Mod pls help me push this to FP,this issue is for mature mind pls

Health › Re: Please help this 4 Year old little blind boy - He has no one else to turn to by jaybee3(m): 9:07am On Jul 21, 2015

We haven't even called for donation and yet Tomiwa has received his first donation.
The little boy is definitely blessed

£50 donation received from Mr/Mrs Anonymous

God bless you

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Family › Re: Where Can I Find A Baby Mama by jaybee3(m): 8:47am On Jul 21, 2015

drake99:
there's a misconception here,I never said I'm bringing a child for me to be absent,No o, am doing it incase anything happened

People pay for life insurance,are they planning to die? They did that incase anything happens

I'm coming back in few years but for the fact that everything is possible so I think very big

How else do you define absent if not by being away from your primary responsibility?
You are planning a death trip to brazil and never stated anything about taking them along with you anywhere in your write up.

So you hope to be sending them money from brazil even though money isn't the single most important factor in parenting

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by jaybee3(m): 8:38am On Jul 21, 2015

kini big deal

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Family › Re: Where Can I Find A Baby Mama by jaybee3(m): 8:30am On Jul 21, 2015

drake99:
when I can actually make a woman pregnant and father a child

The terms would only benefit you and why would you bring a child into the world so you can be an absentee father?

Your quest is a very selfish one Sir

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Family › Re: Where Can I Find A Baby Mama by jaybee3(m): 8:18am On Jul 21, 2015

You can always preserve your sperm if your worries are centred around leaving a legacy behind in the likely outcome of you not making it out of the drug game.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: British Police Force Demands Anyone That Wants To Join Must Learn Yoruba, Italia by jaybee3(m): 6:23am On Jul 21, 2015

That's probably because they are trying to infiltrate the yoruba gangs

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Politics › Re: Pictures Of Governor Okorocha In Washington With Obama And Others by jaybee3(m): 6:10am On Jul 21, 2015

danpaul1:
I expected to see the likes of fashola, kwankwaso and other intelligent Nigerians on the entourage..rather, buhari chose his fellow dummies (rochas, oshimole etc). I wonder what those lot have to offer Nigeria! Those are d kind of men that say 'yes' to what ever obama demands. They must have represented us wrongly at d meeting.

Are you privy to what's on their agenda?
Each one of them have their strengths and weaknesses and the agenda usually decides which subject matter expert to take on board

Fashola and kwankanso aren't the only intelligent Nigerians. Besides, how would they have been able to proffer solutions or better still give first hand experience about the boko haram menace if they haven't been directly affected by the insurgency?

Politics › Re: Pictures Of Governor Okorocha In Washington With Obama And Others by jaybee3(m): 6:02am On Jul 21, 2015

falseman:
Who's that lol

Walahi, i swear down you don craze

Lwkmd

Family › Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by jaybee3(m): 9:37pm On Jul 20, 2015

manie:
Nigerian men and their ancient mindset, once a lady earns money she needs to be involved according to her ability in the financial responsibility of the home.

I hope you heard the case of a woman in Lagos whose husband was 100% responsible for the house expenses even-though the wife was making her own money as a trader. The man thought he was a superman and always resisted any assistance from his wife.

When the man could not cope with the rent at Festac where the family stayed, they had to move down to Ketu. They lived in Ketu for 6 years before he got to know through the estate agent, that his wife owned the house. Imagine paying 6 years rent to your wife, the man moved out of the house and filed for a divorce. The wife said she built the house to secure the future of her children.

Help me tell the man oooo!

Politics › Re: Buhari's Article: His Misinformation, The Facts And His Records by jaybee3(m): 9:29pm On Jul 20, 2015

Here you go => https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/nominations-and-appointments

Romance › Re: I'm In A Relationship With A Muslim. by jaybee3(m): 4:56pm On Jul 20, 2015

youngdoctor:
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most people believe with money you can get love or get ladies..I'm trying to tell you.it's a lie..they might be available.but wife material is not by money.

Still doesn't have any correlation or bearing whatsoever to the inter-religion union

I'm lost here ya know

Health › Re: Please help this 4 Year old little blind boy - He has no one else to turn to by jaybee3(m): 4:41pm On Jul 20, 2015

softandmoist:
Please pardon me for the delayed responses.
No ophthalmic consultant on Tuesday. Can we do Friday, so all parties involved are ready?
The boy will have to be brought in by someone who knows as much as possible about his own medical history, and his family's too.
I'll advice that he's brought in early, like 9am. There may be preliminary tests by an optometrist, but I'm not so sure.
If TEHN is responsible for the funding as I suspect, a member may have to come along to pay for consultation/ registration.
I'm sure he's in good hands from this point on. If you tell me what area you're coming from, I'll give a detailed description of how to commute to the clinic.

How much is consultation and registration?

Health › Re: Please help this 4 Year old little blind boy - He has no one else to turn to by jaybee3(m): 4:33pm On Jul 20, 2015

Ralphlauren:
Guess there's no point for me to contact metro eye again then so we won't end up making multiple enquiries on the same issue. Correct?

Cc: tearoses

Yes bro

Health › Re: Please help this 4 Year old little blind boy - He has no one else to turn to by jaybee3(m): 3:00pm On Jul 20, 2015

softandmoist:
Good afternoon Tearoses.
Weldon.
First, the boy has to be brought in to see an opthalmologist to see what can be done. If a surgery is needed, it will be arranged.
Second, Pacelli School for the blind, located at Ogunlana in Surulere is the available option for the kid. I did a story on them for a publication last year so I can find out about enrolment and all. It's free as far as I know, run by the Catholic diocese. It's a boarding facility too.
Opthalmologists only come in Mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays, and its based on appointments.
Let me know if you need further clarifications.

Over to you Tearoses

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Romance › Re: I'm In A Relationship With A Muslim. by jaybee3(m): 2:56pm On Jul 20, 2015

youngdoctor:
I'm a Christian that earns a decent salary as a doctor*(nearly 7 digits)*.have had plenty relationships with christain ladies..(my immediate Ex is a chorister in a catholic church)*.but things fell apart..now I'm in love and in a serious relationship with a Muslim lady..can this impede our progress??..

What has your income got to do with the subject matter?

It's simply not going to work IF either of you hold strong religious views

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Health › Re: Please help this 4 Year old little blind boy - He has no one else to turn to by jaybee3(m): 2:37pm On Jul 20, 2015

A friend of mine works at metroeyes so i will see if she can help arrange an appointment (This is in my own private capacity and has nothing to do with TeHN)

cc: softandmoist

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Health › Re: Please help this 4 Year old little blind boy - He has no one else to turn to by jaybee3(m): 1:53pm On Jul 20, 2015

Fhemmmy:
TheN... thanks for these great options BUT would it possible to raise funds for the cute boy and maybe option of medical to the fullest and rehabilitation for him might be possible ....

It's hard to commit to that since we don't know if corrective surgery is possible and its cost if at all possible.

Best approach is for any willing volunteer to investigate the surgery route before we can consider cost and other ad hoc requests

Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland/General Section Chatroom by jaybee3(m): 11:12am On Jul 20, 2015

Mynd44:
Can't find it

send me an email

Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland/General Section Chatroom by jaybee3(m): 10:39am On Jul 20, 2015

Mynd44:
*grabs popcorn*

This is hawt!!!!

You've got mail

Family › Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by jaybee3(m): 10:22am On Jul 20, 2015

Toks2008:
Trust me pal,i don't even know if you are married and the reason why i had a bad marriage is a topic for another day but the truth is that you are not communicating and i really hate it when people fail to be intellectually sound in articulating their opinionated views without a dint of vulgarity or social decorum.

I would have never brought it up for scrutiny if your sense of reasoning wasn’t all that different. Not like marriages don’t break up for the flimsiest of reasons but one wonders why you will work your butt off to solely provide for your family and still end up heart broken. Yes we need to view it with a microscope.

I wouldn’t even challenge you intellectually cos surely if you have any iota of intellect, you would have been able to deduce that it’s almost impossible for those living beyond the shores of Nigeria to depend on one source of Income in order to experience the quality of life they deem fit.

Toks2008:
I am a man who was brought up in a whole different way and not one daddy's boy or mummy's boy who gets the toys he wanted or get that chocolate pack whenever daddy or mummy comes back from work. I did not school in those eyebrow institutions but today i am who i am and i can stand in the office of the number one citizen of this country or in any other exalted position with my face held up and i know my worth and my place and that is because of the inherent virtue that have guided me.

So you were brought up with values but it’s obvious common sense wasn’t one of them. The world we live in as evolved and women are empowered. You can’t compare the world where men had exclusive rights to all opportunities to the world we currently live in. The beauty of a family is when they share common goal and both actively participate in reaching the goal.

Toks2008:
I am a goal getter,an achiever,a man in every aspect and please do not expect me to be on the same page with your school of taught that believes that a woman MUST have a sharing formula in financing the home front.

A woman is not a or the bread winner neither was she ever designed to be one but a help mate,a succor,an assistant and these sums it up. Now here is my strong opinionated stands... No man should force,cajole or make it a responsibility for a lady to part with her money but if she will need to spend even a dime on the home front,it must be optional.

I am not making reference to a sudden twist of financial status for a man who now finds himself helpless and at the mercy of his wife but even in such situation please be dignified.

No one is forcing them to do something they should freely do as their contribution to the household. It’s as simple as that.
It’s not like I’m saying it’s a mandatory requirement for them to get married. An empowered woman with equal footing should normally contribute her own quota to the success of the family as a unit.

Toks2008:
I would rather borrow 50k in a whole month from my wife and from that 50k provide for her and the babies even if it means we will be eating beans all the way and in such cases if she decides to contribute more,it will be at her discretion but how can i be so broke and the next thing i do is start spending my wife's money as though its mine or go to her for money today and money tomorrow?

This is what I sincerely don’t get and can’t seem to comprehend. You will borrow money from your wife to run your household? Makes no damn sense and it’s extremely shameful for you to even do such cos that makes you less of a man. You should always ensure you meet your mutually defined obligations as the husband not treating your wife as a bank.

Now if you took care of all the essentials bills and she used her own funds to provide the food that y’all eat, surely you won’t have the need to be borrowing to provide beans for the family.

It just doesn’t makes sense that you had to choose to suffer just so you can massage your almighty ego

Toks2008:
Please i need reasonable guys in the house to feel my point. A financially buoyant lady should be a plus for a man but not what a man should clamor for or strive to have and even when im really compelled to run from financially dependent lady for now due to present situation,i still believe that it is indeed the duty of a man to provide for his woman even if she is the richest woman in the world and of-course for his family with WHATEVER HE HAS and if the woman in his life decides to help out fine,after-all they are our HELPERS but once a man consciously and officially starts sharing or delegating his manly duties tyo his wife then he should watch it because he is crossing that crazy line.

Because it’s the duty of the man to provide for the family doesn’t make it less of a duty for the woman to contribute towards the success of the same family.

Toks2008:
IN MY PERSONAL OPINION,IT IS SICKENING,BARBARIC AND TOTALLY DEMEANING FOR A MAN TO EVEN THINK ABOUT THIS LET ALONE PUT IT INTO PRACTICE.

If you have problems with this please note..IT IS MY OPINION.

I put it to you that it’s stupid and outright ridiculous for you to continuously be stuck in the 19th century way of thinking. How can any sane man restrict his family some sort of necessary privilege just so he can massage his little ego.
Would you insist that your kids go to rubbish school because that’s all you can afford and your ego wouldn’t allow your wife contribute something that will benefit you both?
Do you think it’s only the father that has to provide everything financial towards the raising of your children?

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Jokes Etc › Re: . by jaybee3(m): 9:00am On Jul 20, 2015

This dude needs help... I mean serious help!

Geez!

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Family › Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by jaybee3(m): 7:53am On Jul 20, 2015*

Toks2008:
NEWS FLASH: I have been technically married for 11years and officially for 5 years until 3years ago and why the split? 70%FINANCE so you sit your ass down no matter how old you are and be objective enough to learn from people and even the unmarried because we can learn one or two things from anyone.

A MAN DOES NOT OFFICIALLY SHARE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY WITH HIS WIFE

First and foremost, you aren’t the only one with years of marriage experience so get that straight. Second of all, I would like to know the reason why your marriage didn’t work since you’ve claimed on this board weeks back that it had nothing to do with infidelity. Perhaps it had something to do with your egocentric nature?

You can’t go into a marriage with a superman mind-set and expect it to work.
Obviously, It’s safe to assume you had be the type that will demand she does all the manual jobs in the house because you’ve made yourself the sole breadwinner.
Obviously, it will be difficult for her to have an opinion when it comes to finances and/or decisions on major projects because it’s your money which you have singly earned with outright right to spend as you wish

Toks2008:
It is unmanly and shameful. Even if your wife suggests it be quick to let her realize that you appreciate but should rather save up the money while you try your best to still provide for her and the children if any.

It’s simply idiotic and outright stupid for you to consider a position with just one possible outcome. So you will basically continue working 24/7 just to prove you are the man even if it’s clear your wife can support the family where possible?

Toks2008:
Now get this clearly, a man can lose his job or suddenly finds himself broke and there is nothing wrong in a lady helping her man out in this ituation nevertheless its not by asking her for 2k today and 5k tomorrow. If she is a very low income earner or money monger then GOD help you.

This is just plain ridiculous to be honest with you. How can you establish a mind-set that you will always provide then suddenly expect her to support you when you can’t ?
Why sell a lifestyle that you know won’t/can’t be sustainable since you’ve rightly agreed that there is the possibility of you being incapable of fulfilling your responsibility

You are simply a perfect example of those men that will cry foul that their woman ain’t supportive even though you’ve done this that for them. Why would they I ask if all you had be trying to do is introducing a new phenom into an already established agreement

Toks2008:
The subject matter is about a man practically going into sitting agreement with his wife to share financial responsibilities.IT IS TOTALLY ABSURD.

How is it absurd if the contribution is entirely going towards the household?

Toks2008:
If i make 100k monthly and my wife makes 400k,i will plan my family with 100k and if she decides to bring in any other stufs i will appreciate but rather advice that she saves up that money.

How stupid of you, so you had deliberately restrict your family from life of luxury just so you can massage your ego?
You had basically send your kids to public school even when it’s clear that investment in good quality education almost certainly yield desired results in the long run

Toks2008:
I agree to financial transparency as in knowing how much she makes and i will never abuse that privilege. While i was still with my ex, i set her up in business,and she was making some money yet I STILL GIVE HER WEEKLY ALLOWANCE not minding and i make that a top priority even when there are times i had good reasons not to give her due to financial constraints.

I’m interested in why it didn’t work despite being a superman

Toks2008:
Look if you are a man reading this, NO WOMAN RESPECTS A MAN WHO ASKS A WOMAN FOR PETTY CASH OR DEPENDS ON HER FOR FINANCIAL SUCCOR.

Good righteous women won’t see it as such since they had be seeing whatever contribution they make as their shared responsibility for the success of their marriage

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