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StrongandMighty:
You're losing no interest bro... You're simply hurt!!

Either you break up with her or you live with it!!

Lol. No mind the guy he is just consoling himself.

holaxi:
No bro,its not about the sex... I just love this girl.. I know myself if I should get angry once it's over , but the girl has a lot of good attributes in her. I'm just trying to do everything to make her come back to her senses.

Good attributes like what nah? Forget talk my brother. Na sex dey cloud your judgement.

What you should do: don't try to negotiate any further because you will be selling yourself short by continuously nagging and you are pushing her further away.

Give her the two weeks and even more. Don't initiate contact with her even after the two weeks.

Trust me, once your female friend starts to behave like this...one thing is very certain: she has become bored with you and needs some excitement from outside I.e other admirers. And bro trust me..all the logic in this world cannot help you get her back to her senses. Just let her have that fun that she is longing for. After she is burnt, na she go carry herself come back.

Meanwhile, give your life to Jesus and stop yielding your bodies to sins and carnality. Get married and be focused in life.

metformin:
my brother, move on with ya life, think of how you can better your life.

Nice advice. But nawa for your moniker oo

Are you biochemist?

Wiseandtrue:
Lord have mercy oooooo

In this 21st century

With all the billions allocation

SMH oooo. Okay now, keep celebrating mediocrity

Modern day Nigeria

Be sensible bro. Which allocation are you talking about? Is the allocation for the army to repair roads? Hmmm

Around 2011 just before I went for my Industrial training in Lagos, the money I hustled and saved up was fast running out so it occurred to me to put it into something in order to preserve my money. I settled for photocopy business. I got the machine...an incredibly neat one that baffled and infuriated the other guys in the business around the area. My guardian(older bro) gave me fund to get a big gen. So spent around a hundred large(100k) for the entire setup.

I must confess that I'm a little slow in terms of picking up any skill and adapting so I never really made much progress in the business especially as I was running it and attending lectures at the simultaneously.lol. Week after week, it felt as thoug I was just wasting my precious time even though I was getting quite some patronage even for a new comer. I was wasting toner because I wanted to satisfy the customer.

I tried to employ a salesgirl once...but i found the one they brought for me to be too dull, too short, and too unattractive; I never bothered to look again. Also brought my nephew from home and after a while it was clear to me that I can't get anywhere with the young man so I sent him back.

Long story short, it was time for me to go for my industrial attachment and I packed my precious machine and went to Lagos for the 6 months training. By the time I returned, one evil human being destroyed the most sensitive part of the machine (cant remeber the name now)by rubbing it with petrol!!! So it leaves a big blank line in the middle of any photocopied work. Customers ran away as they couldn't take that.

I felt really sad. But I was almost going to be thru with school so I said....well, no wahala.

I cut my losses and sold both the machine and the gen for 20k each and used it to flex in school!!

Thankfully, that venture has validated the notion that one must never venture into an unknown territory if one is not ready to learn and adapt quickly.

Such a story.lol

Yoighaman:
Mine was around 2006 or 2007. I was working in a financial institution and nursed the idea of running a laundry business as a side gig due to an opportunity I saw. Prior to that time, there was a lady in the area I resided then, she worked at a business where I usually patronize, I observed she was a very good, decent and diligent lady, so I 'toasted' her (trust boys nau) but she was foot-dragging about my advances, so I decided to back- track.

Months later we spoke and she informed me she longer worked there, I was happy and she asked me why, I immediately told her my plans and offered her an opportunity to manage the new business I was about to set up to which she agreed. We launched the business, a sizeable one and I did a lot of marketing, so customers started pouring in, including my friends and church members.

The business went on very well for about 2 years and I was making money so comfortably that I wasn't really touching my salary where I worked except for the loan I took to start up, the lady didn't steal my money and even if she did, I didn't really care because I was happy with what she remitted, besides, I trusted her so much.

Then trouble started, she started giving me 'attitude', I was confused because we maintained a good working relationship, so on a fateful weekend, I took her out to have a discussion and the outcome shocked me!- She had been managing the business properly in my absence ( I only went there occassionally after I close from work in the evening) because she saw it as 'our' business, that she's been waiting for me to follow up on my earlier advances and start thinking of settling down with her, I was speechless.

To cut the long story short, she eventually left when she saw I was more interested in growing the business than having a relationship with her. Every manager afterwards was a sorry story, they stole so much that I wanted to close down the business, sadly, I encountered an unprecedented financial challenge at the time and sought investors, funny thing is that I even posted it here on Nairaland, that I was looking for investors....lol.........I eventually closed down the business and that experience remains one of the most painful in my life.

Conclusively, I'd say Human Resources was my bane. Without good and sincere people especially Managers, your business is likely to suffer.

And I hope you have fared better now.

Ginaz:
Thanks so much dear for your inputs . I intend to start this business soonest and since I’m a girl and I have small body with a small voice I won’t be taken seriously. but if anyone think they can intimidate me they should be ready for a rude awakening.

I intend to solicit the help of a lawyer .

And what do you suppose your lawyer will do if one idjiot just up and disappear with your motorcycle one morning?

I tire for Nigerians sha. Very wicked and evil.

4godsake:
Depend on the brand u want to buy, in my area, TVS cost N210,000 plus number plate and u give it out for N330,000 HP. Boxer cost N230,000 and u give out for N370,000 HP.

Note that the Boxer is mostly preferred as it has a better resale value compare to the TVS.

Cheers.

And you can find someone honest enough to keep to their own part of the bargain and actually deliver?

byna:
The point is, she offends you and doesn't e en care how you feel. She waits for her hormones to come up and she shows up for sex while am dying for an apology or ironing out.

How da hell am I suppose to substitute remorse with sex??

I'm sorry you asked for mature advice yet you are getting all these childish senseless talks about how you are lucky to have a wife that initiates sex while you both have an outstanding issue.

How do people believe that sex is everything in a marriage? Seriously? This is sad.

Dear sir, your wife is unnecessarily proud..and very selfish. Period. But with the amount you give her every month, she cannot but cook for you. If the condition is to change even slightly....trust me your wife will never Cook for you again after you quarrel.

You need to teach her to communicate. Too bad you didnt start earlier but better late than never, right? You guys still have your whole life ahead of you so its better you change things up a bit since you aren't comfortable with it.

Pls tell me how you guys go to church every Sunday...do morning devotion, possibly read the bible but still keep malice!!!!! That is so unchristian-like!!! The bible says don't let your anger linger till sun-down.

Pls take your issue to your spiritual elders if any.

All the best.

helinues:
Savings is for personal use while current is mostly for business.. They both have limits of depositing and withdrawing
With current account, you could get a reasonable loans compared to Savings account

What of salary account? Can I also get loan with that? Like say 500k

Wiseandtrue:
We go see first nau abi na audio rice

I would like to see how it can cater for those in Lagos not to talk of Nigeria

No be so Lagos State shout lake rice Wey the lake rice

No mind am. As if 1000 hectares no dey finish again.

telkevog:
Very correct! They never showed us their bare bum bum with tattoo, shape of their Virgina, porous cleavages, thick thighs that autoumatically attracts Vaseline to some people's palms. Things have finally fallen apart these days. Nonsense and ingredients!

Really? Try watch "harlots"... Omotola and segun arnze.

falcon01:
mcheeeeeew... I got 99 problems and a b*tch ain't one.

Yea but this is currently a murder case. What do you have to say about this?

omenka:
Are you sure you know what a prey is?

How could he possibly become the prey to such a snake?

Or the snake can just finish him off then he can become prey to whatever!

qualityGod:
its carpet Grass and I planted it because I was told it scares snake

Well, too bad it doesn't scare this one.

And come to think of it, how could you have killed a snake from behind a window? Do you have magical powers?

Chai. Inexperience will deal with lots of people in this world. And this op is very very very inexperienced unfortunately.

OK so bro listen, if anyone offers you a job anywhere, pls take it.

Don't make the mistake of naively rejecting a job offer because you want to enjoy the good life dat self employment affords. And let me even be more blunt with you bro: going by all you listed as your motivation for contemplating business, you will most likely be frustrated much sooner than later.

In a nutshell, take the job. Any job at all. And proceed from there.thank you.

I need to see her face before I draw any conclusion. But her skin fresh and smooth tho.

sonature1:
I am not hating but there's nothing impressive about the road.

If I am a billionaire and want to do something for my people, I will do something of world class. As a constant reminder to the government that they should stop settling for mediocrity.

Go and check out what that US-based Anambra-born doctor is doing in his state. That's exactly what I mean.

Like we say in Nigeria, half bread is better than chin-chin.

So, well done, Sir Ade-Ojo.

But the road I am seeing will start having potholes before long.

Thats your opinion sir. Keep it.

The man is a great man indeed. Committed to transforming not only his community but also his ondo state. I doubt that in your haste to show yourself, you mustn't have noticed that he even used a local contractor to do the job ( patronizing local content). Is it his fault if he trusts his own brother to do a great job and he disappoints?

And you are talking. Go and do your own man. How many times have you been to your village?

This fashola na okwulu o'kalia. He and fayose too tall.

What happens when something that should ended as a one night stand is being forced into a long term relationship. It must always end on a bitter note. Different expectations unmet. Pity.

destinie2019:
She won big brother. She has her own money. Gold digger, gold digger. Did she ask him out? Women are human beings and they have the same rights to happiness as men.

She may have her own money but certainly not enough to give her the sort of high life she yearns for. Only a deep pocket man can give her that...so forget all that your sob story.

sesaan:
Can any lady explain to me why almost every lady wants to be sexy and exposed their bodies? It is that woman are only good for sex?

Sex appeal is pretty much the only advantage women believe they have. Its a shame.

Rekhina:
Ur parents are wealthy that's y u relax and be serving ur God while the helpless ones from poor background live at the expense of an excruciating economy ,
A lady I look up to ,as a good woman back then in school has to sleep with 10managers just to get a job , me am not in Nigeria now but my life isn't giving God praise ,

Pls tell God ,since u are close to him , that people of good hearts has all turned evil just because of the evilmen n women he loved so much , he shud kill all of Dem and see me turn a saint , see am even a Moslem to put food on my table ,
..
.Hw I wish SMH

Dear, that man is not close to any god. What he is teaching is nothing but heresy. You on your can decide to serve God wherever you are. But the mistake we usually make is we want to serve God with condition. Eg, I will only serve God if he give me wealth. That is wrong. Can we just serve God for who he is? And watch him bless us?

The bible say seek first the kingdom of God and its righteousness....and every other good thing will be added unto you.

It also says Delight your lself in the lord...and he will bring your heart desire to pass.

Look beyond your present condition and think of eternity for instance. Where will you go from here?

I pray may his grace find you dear sis. Amen.

May the good lord save us from the hands of charlatans and fake prophets. And may he forgive you for this heresy and reveal his ways to you so you can see the light.

I feel sorry for you and those that take your satanic teaching to heart.

Sorry to dissapoint you sir but the road to salvation is very strait and narrow. Thats why very few are on that road. Its not all pomp and pageantry.

The bible said without holiness no eyes will see the lord.
In another passage it says be ye holy for the lord who also called you is holy.

Stop misleading people and sending them down the wrong way sir. I suspect you belong to one particular Christian organization I won't mention its name but I hope you people truly see the light because these thing they teach you people is not the gospel from God at all.

Now my question to you is this Mr op (assuming that when you pray for your enemy to die, that its actually Jehovah God that you are praying to):

Which one do you think is easier for God to do: to kill your enemy or to soften his mind and get him to change his evil ways?

Remember he does not desire that any shilould perish.

Of course, I know you might bring up the issue of pharaoh and the Egyptians when they refused to let Israel go. But Jehovah stated it clearly that he deliberately hardened the heart of pharaoh in order to display his sovereignty and his mighty power. So the destruction of pharaoh and his army served the purpose for which Jehovah made him in the first place.

So, let me hear form you.

AdeeT:
Abuse and curse me all you wished, the did is already done, the one I am not proud of, and never wished for to happen. I took all the blame, and only wanted a best idea/advice to safe landing.

My mind is pushing me towards visiting her to relate with her all that has happened. And again, another mind is telling me that all would be lost afterwards. I don't want to loose her, she's already an integral part of my life.

How best can I confront her without loosing her?

Tell her and damn the consequence. If she stays, you thank God and learn to value her more and make better decisions next time. If she leaves, then it will force you to develop discipline in case you meet someone else.

I know this might sound hypocritical but we must be able to live with the consequences of our actions and inactions.

Your wife- to- be trusted you with such a matter and you failed woefully. Thats the lowest any self respecting man can go. But I'm not here to judge you tho.

So for me, TELL HER. let her make decide what she wants to do.

adesbreath:
Am very happy about this...I went there talking to them about keeping their fruits and vegetables properly not on the dirty floor they said I was speaking Spanish..the whole market is terribly dirty...will miss buying fruits from there but our health is more important...
Lagos government this is the way to go. Thumbs up.

Do you just start consuming your fruits immediately you pick it up from the market? Then you must be a dirty person yourself.

ola33t:






Ya think na the music you sabi but unfortunately, you don't even sabi the music.
After seeing Burna suddenly sky rocketing like a shooting star, here he is, thinking a manager is the problem while the absence of a music talent in the first place is the problem.

What about the time he spent washing Drake's car every morning? All became a waste because his monotonous music talent couldn't earn him any favour from Drake apart from cleaning the studio.

I'd have expected him to stick to displaying his strippers at the back of vans and thank his star for making him blow in music with the absence of a musical talent rather than thinking he needs a manager, because in reality he should still be in the studio running errands for some upcoming artistes.

You are not serious.

Tekno is everything you will never be. Has gone everywhere you will never go. And his money is larger than yours. Get the strap.

You don't something. He co-wrote and produced Drakes and swae lee's song "won't be late". And you are here foaming in the mouth. Get the strap chief

tellwisdom:
So, it’s fair to say burna is fela’s child

Or step-child

Ishilove:
I see that these Cartels are even more powerful than Mexican security forces.

That's quite a shame, really.

Even worse than you can imagine.

Pablo Escobar negotiated with the govt to design and build his own prison by himself, before he surrendered himself to arrest!! Can you beat that?

Gistring:
Lalasticlala

Does he have something to do with this?

Juicyjuice:


I stopped taking freeze serious long time ago.

Dude is only out to make money from his YouTube channels by stirring endless controversies.

Wise decision indeed. The man should never be taken seriously.