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shugaboy6102:
Really am not talking even based on the new lady I met, what am asking is are we legally married? and if so do we keep enduring each other and for how long. Should I stay with her out of convenience because of what people in my church will say, my neighbours, friends, colleagues etc. Do we keep tolerating when we both know it was out of passion and youthful exuberance that landed us both in this. Oh God help me because my life is in a mess I hope someone understands me

Sometimes sin/passion/youthful exuberance can land you in more consequences than you bargained for. I'm sure when you were having frequent premarital sex you were feeling like the champion of your days. Now look where it has gotten you.
I'm sorry I have never been married so I don't know how to advice you on this.

What's up with all these Yoruba guys sudden obsession with Igbo girls?? I don't understand o. Una no fancy una Yoruba women again?

Beosten:
Have the spiritual eyes and marry someone at par with your destiny.

If I tell you this, you may see it as fiction: exact house where my wife lived and her office's exact location were revealed to me in a dream.

But I didn't go to these locations in search of her. We met somewhere else. It was when I visited her for the first time that I declared myself a seer par excellence. Then, I was to pick her up at her place of work later. I became dumbfounded upon getting to the place.

Can you pls see a wife for me

Kenneth4u205:
The movie is wrong but I'm against apostle seleman solution.we Christians produce movies every day in nollywood showing how evil and wicked satan is .the church of satan never complained .so if the choose to produce their own movie portraying Jesus as a gay ,then we must ignore them also because the holy spirit in our heart bears witness that Jesus wasn't a gay .there is a lot of good christian movie in neflix .You don't cut off the head because of broken nose .there will always be evil around us as long as we are still on this earth .You don't stop driving your car or using electricity because someone died from using it .the last prayer of Jesus was for God to protect them in this evil world .not for God to take them out of the evil world .evil is a necessary tool to help Any serious christian to mature spiritually.what we need is more of the Holy spirit .how can you save a sinner if all you do is to avoid them and delete their app ?.and point of correction ,we don't have up to 2.5 billions Christians.their is a big difference between a church goer and a christian.genuine christian that are born of the holy spirit is not even up to one tenth of that figure

God bless you brother. It is good to condemn it as it shows you are not in support of it but you can't order people to do anything they dont want to do. You can delete your own app if you like but just dont tell anyone what to do with theirs. Jesus christ single handedly chased the traders out of the synagogue he didnt recruit anyone. So....
Besides vengeance is of the lord to begin with.

madridguy:
She went into our room and locked the door , she was in there for a long time and the next morning , her mother and older brother was at the house and she came out of the room with her and our baby stuff and she said she was leaving me for good. I told her how sorry I was but her mother told me to get out of their faces and they left the house.

Bros, this may sound somehow but you never get wife.

F- that bruh!!!
The OP failed it by hitting her in the first place. I'm sure that a part of the marriage agreement was certainly not to hit their daughter at will...and thats why the mom showed up immediately to send a clear message.
Op I suggest you calm down, sleep over the whole incident, send her a Text message of your apology, give her a day or two and call her. Then maybe get a trusted friend to accompany you to their place. By then she would have calmed down. But if she insists she isn't coming back, well, you can let her be for now till further notice.

Nofap.com
Check it out. Also, google sexual addiction and see what you come up with. Also, repent and ask God to help you. You can start your healing process by fasting for some days. God be with you bro. Sex addiction is evil.

Beremx:
Like Play like play, Kim Kardashian don born 4.

This life sha.

Cute family

She used surrogate for some of the kids.

pickatyou:
Kim with 4 kids still hot as ever. Thats how star do

She is constantly under the surgeons knife bro. Besides, her bum bum is not that attractive anymore due to excess silicon.

hooha:
Dealing with seductive spirit is good for a lady suffering from the crisis of people eager to sleep with her, but never wanting to date her. Some ladies go through this issue, and it could be heartbreaking at the later stage of their life; when they are set to marry, and all what guys want from them is sex.

I don't even mean sex while dating, which is wrong, but I mean people wanting to sleep with you alone and never wishing or wanting to date you. So no matter how you cook, dress, even dress decently, behave nicely, and so on, every guy or most guys see you as someone that will be sweet in bed. It is indeed terrible!!.

I will advise such ladies to pray and fast against the spirit of seduction in them. This kind of fasting may be for 7 days, with reading of the Bible and much prayers.

And when God delivers them they should proceed and have sex while dating abi?

Richnerd69:
I know right...Almost same thing her elder sister asked, "how long have you known my sister?"... And some other stuffs you're pointing out. I realized everyone was once a stranger and most times we isolate people and observe them from a distance before bringing them close, but I've tried that and it didn't work... For days now she has been thanking me consistently for everything and she's trusting that I wouldn't fail her...


I was more convinced when her elder sister's husband told me things about her and how she handles things. She is very humble with a teachable spirit... She's a good girl, I was told and I have come to see that in a short space of time. But I know people do change, I just hope I'm not making a mistake. I know I might be making one of the most stupid decisions of my life, but I want to believe in certain people and give them the chance to try to prove themselves. I really like this lady, I must confess.

I've informed my younger sister that I would be bringing someone I barely met, over. She's not having it with me tho...lol

OGA HERE IS THE TRUTH: THERE IS NO WAY TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE MAKING A MISTAKE TILL YOU ACTUALLY LIVE WITH HER.

NOW YOU ARE ASKING PPL TO ADVICE YOU. SO THAT YOU CAN DO WHAT, IF I MAY ASK? TELL HER THAT YOU ARE NO LONGER TAKING HER IN?

OGA GO AHEAD AND TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS. ITS PRETTY MUCH THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE AT THE MOMENT. STOP ALL THIS PITY PARTY.

HigherEd:
Please keep quiet.

Why?

This sango is quite muscular in physique. Nice.

ursullalinda:
Is she not the Face book lawmaker......the slay queen house member?.....was wondering how she got to the house in the first place

Speak to the issue under discussion and don't digress.

BeLookingIDIOT:
Purchase Innoson cars if you just feel like wasting money.Aside their outrageous prices for low quality products,they still don't last.
Why give their brands Igbo names
That's rude!
Hope igbos are his only targeted market.

Is seriki also Igbo? Bigoted tribalist.

Racoon:
No need for sorrow dear family. "PRECIOUS IN THE SIGHT OF THE LORD IS THE DEATH OF HIS SAINTS"

So it's Glorious!! Hallelujah!!! A saint has gone to be with the Lord.Lord I am also coming to join him in the fullness of time.

Amen !!

I wonder how long it will take her to realize that she will never really "blow" by all these senseless shenanigans she is pulling here and there.

Sensible people looking for fame are doing sensible things. I hope her parents are still alive cos they need to call her to order before she eventually self-destructs.

partnerbizn5:
Nigerians have God on their lips every day but wickedness in their hearts every second.

This country is the most hypocritical one in the world.

They hold bible in their hands after bathing with holy water and using olive oil vaseline yet will dupe you without let or hindrance.

They sing soapy song yet use same tongue to praise the Lord

Go to customs, Immigration etc and see the level of corruption and bribery. All are Christians oo.

Repent now! Good deeds are better than eye service to the Lord.

The

Is not only in Nigeria sir. Christianity all over the world these days is more of lip service.

englishmart:
You want to pay which debt?
He once begged for a photoshoot with you, you turned him down.
10 years later when Kylian Mbappe became an established world class player, you begged for a selfie and Mbappe humbly accepted

He is clearly the bigger man.

Farmerguy:
Sure, I do coded giveaways randomly on this site too tho

With money or some of your farm produce?

GrabHisBalls:
If at 35 and I am not married, na to bleep one guy born sure pass.

Hahahaha

FactBoyz:
OP SOMETHING MUST BE WRONG WITH YOU? DID JESUS SET PASTOR KUMUYI OR HIS SON AS A STANDARD? NO ONE IS TO BE LOOKED UNTO APART FROM JESUS.. THAT IS WHY WHENEVER I HEAR A PASTOR DID SOMETHING EVIL OR BAD, I WON'T START BEING SURPRISED AND START RANTING; I'LL RATHER PRAY FOR THAT PERSON AND ALSO PRAY FOR GRACE TO OVERCOME AS NO ONE IS PERFECT EXCEPT CHRIST.. NO MAN IS YOUR STANDARD PERIOD!

Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith.. For the joy that was set before him he bore the cross, despising the shame. Now he is seated at the right hand side of the father.

Nikeballer:
Theist are about to tell us how he is human and this and that....

I thought he was suppose to be under the anointing,should be under his father's special grace and realm higher than normal humans and atheist that would stop committing sin, he no suppose crave for toto thoughtless of being Hot and committing fornication....

Theists are the least reasonable,intelligent and logical creatures that have ever EVOLVED....

God uses the foolish things to confound you, the so called wise.

anonimi:
Is there anything wrong with living life as a single person?
Are there not many accomplished people whose legacies live beyond them who were single and childless

I never said anywhere in my comment that there is something wrong with being single. As a matter of fact, being single affords you the opportunity to truly live out your potentials cos you have zero worries. But most people are not comfortable with the loneliness. Thats why I asked the poster if she can do it.

GrabHisBalls:
The thing is that you have raised a standard for yourself. Perhaps, if you're patient enough, he'll come around. I'm in same shoes as you. Infact, I have one that has been disturbing me of marriage but he's just not my type. He knows he's not and has confronted me citing not being up to what I want but I refused to state the major reason why I won't accept to date or marry him 'cause I don't want him feeling less. I just believe that with time, things will fall in pleasant places.

Yea, but the thing about time is that it doesn't wait for anyone. Now I'm not suggesting you lower your standard or anything. But if the man you are looking for doesn't come, will you be willing to live out your life as a single person? This is the question that needs to be asked.

doggedfighter:
What's miraculous about living. Want to know

That you sleep and wake. You think you are in control of that too?

seunmsg:
I only pity the gullible members. They would all go home with nothing but false hope after all the drama orchestrated by the pastor who would of course go home fulfilled with a huge pocket.

Inside this life, everybody na scam. We just dey scam each other.

Doubting Thomas that doesn't believe in miracles.

The life that you are living, is it not a miracle?

pocohantas:
I want to rant!

They tell you they are hungry. You rush into the kitchen to prepare something. The minute you are done with cooking and serving it- that is when they will enter toilet, say they wanna have quick shower or have an important call to make/take.

What is your problem?
Why didn't you do all that since?
Did they send you?

If you know you are guilty, pls stop it.

Hi poco, do you mind communicating me via this e mail:::classiq87@gmail.com. I have something for you. Will be waiting.

gloriaunobi:
O lord, you know I need Samsung A90, I have been saving since 3 months ago for the device

Why is it very special?

Kobicove:
He deserves what he's getting from this government!

No one deserves to be so unfairly treated by his own government for whatever reason.

purples25:
i blame myself for going back. I was trying to be humble making no real deals. My fam said just for little money that im risking humiliation. I blame myself really. And to a large extent you are right.

Your so called boss is an evil person. Don't take it personal because it is not your fault at all, though I think you ought to have called her on phone just to confirm the appointment after your confrontation by those two good for nothing male teachers.
Put everything behind you and think of how to move forward with your life. The incident has nothing to do with your capability or adequacy as a person..I know you are conflicted because a part of you is forcing you to believe you deserve the treatment because of your many mistakes whilst still working with them.
Forget about it and move forward with your life baby.

pocohantas:
You are very correct. Surprising I never read about it till today. I am sure it would have been different if it contained some nudity.

I hear the commissioner of police in the state has asked his men to arrest them but my question is why do they always have to wait till there is public outcry before they do the right thing. This thing tire me

pocohantas:
They should go continue their thuggery at home. They can also decide to join NURTW, where they would be mentholed on how to be an agbero with a difference.



No Sir. We have a menthol for such.
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Modified:I have seen the video HERE, those students deserve to be jailed. What da hell?

I must commend the girl. Despite the beating and being outnumbered. She didn't bend or show fear- a QUEEN, I stan!

Exactly my view. Expulsion is not enough!! They should be arrested like last yr!!!! There is a video evidence. What is the police doing sef