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wellmax:
With these guys going to jail, where will Obi see votes now. Is there a polling unit in Prison?

The vast, logical, peace-loving, and non-criminal majority of Nigerians are there to vote for him.

Lightbest777:
What Really Makes Someone “Wife Material” Or “Husband Material”?

These days, people throw those words around too casually.

A woman cooks well — suddenly she is wife material.
A man has money — suddenly he is husband material.

But is that really enough?

Many men are silently suffering in relationships because nobody talks about what makes a woman truly peaceful to live with. Some women are beautiful but disrespectful. Some are caring outside but toxic in private. Some only love a man when he is winning.

The same applies to men too. A real husband is not just someone who pays bills. Character matters. Leadership matters. Emotional maturity matters.

So let’s be honest:

What qualities truly make someone wife material or husband material?

Men especially, speak freely:
What do you look for beyond beauty?
What kind of character makes a woman worth marrying?
What habits destroy marriage potential no matter how attractive someone is?
Ladies can contribute too.
Let’s hear real experiences, not just sweet talk.

What makes men "husband material" and women "wife material" is very simple.

IGNORANCE.

Ignorance of who else they really are, beyond what you can see.

A beautiful, quiet, polite lady can be dull.

A gentle, kind man can be lazy and complacent.

A successful, principled man may be a dictator in the home., while a quiet, peaceful man may be unable to raise disciplined kids.

Try building a life with a "good" wife who has no ideas of her own. You'll understand what frustration means.
Meanwhile, that saucy girl might be excellent in business, and will easily turn her husband into a millionaire.

That beautiful, sexy, well-endowed girl might be borderline frigid and sex becomes a chore. Sexual satisfaction may turn into some quest you need to fight to achieve.

See.....every individual has his or her own downside. Outliers exist that are totally unmarriageable (for example, cheaters, batterers, gossips, and selfish people), but most people can get married, as long as there is understanding, acceptance and some sacrifice between the couple.

What people call "spouse material" are just normal, ordinary people who catch their fancy.

Hungrychicken:
Togo - Lome
Benin Republic - Cotonou

Yeah. I'm talking about Togo.

Beautifulday:
Are you mistaken Togo to Cotonou? They are neighbours but not the same.

Both countries practise it.

NOETHNICITY:
Who else thinks this manner of announcing your husband’s demise is soulless?

‘My husband died’

Were you waiting for him to die

Those words are very difficult to say, yet it's absolutely necessary to say them, sooner or later.

If you've lost a dearly loved one, you'll understand. It took me time to be able to say my Dad died. It was just too hard to say, but I needed to, to accept the reality. I lost a very close, childhood friend, 2 years ago. In our school WhatsApp group, it was as if we were dreaming, until some of us attended his burial (myself included), and I came to the group and declared "John (not he real name) is dead and buried". We needed it to move on. The shirt I wore to his burial, I just took it again now, that I want to start wearing it again.

E no easy to lose loved ones, o, but it's best to admit it to yourself ASAP.

jpmoriarti:
I didn't know she was married.

Which is exactly how it should be.

Now, if only all these so-called "celebrities" didn't spend so much energy putting their private lives in the public space..........

Anywhos.......it's too bad the man's dead......may the Lord comfort her and the family.

Blunt99:
Going there to get a wife...
I don't think any Africa lady can be worse than the ones in Nigeria.

E be like say you never hear of Vodoun......that's what was turned to "Voodoo" in Jamaica.

The HQ is in Togo.

Togolese ladies are dangerously diabolic, o!

If den like make dem give 1,000 years visa!

Na only stopover I dey do for Lomé.

Flame333:
If you watch that bombing, you go believe say its true...

I wonder why Gummmmi nor dey there

The Gummy Bear won't be there, naa.....people like him just lecture the block-headed terrorists on how fighting and dying for their god will guarantee "jannah", then leave them in the bush and retire to their plush mansions in some city.

Juliette5803:
Bournemouth did well for arsenal

Man City did, as well.

How will ègbón (senior brother) keep packing the mangoes without letting àbúrò (younger brother) even lick small?

Even though they wanted the EPL again, subconsciously, they had to give Arsenal.

Anyways......well done to the Champions. They deserved it.

PS: I no join anybody do club fan, o.....I just enjoy the game. Try it. It saves one a lot of heartbreak. Betting men will even bet without sentiment!

Exousiang01:
Why own concern is How come Soworw has the time to move from court to court everyday.
I mean the last few times I have seen him in the news na different days for court.
Just curious tho
Waooh interesting.
You mean every day a prominent Nigerian is in court a human right case always coincide with it right?
You children eh

It's like you don't know who Sowore is.

Trouble is his middle name. He loves trouble, and he loves going around looking for it.

From protest grounds, to court, he's at home.

He was our most prominent SUG Presido in the 90s, when Nigeria was shaking. How Abacha no end the guy, sef......me no know.

HacheNoire:
Let me wait for team “In saner climes” and read their input.

Read the story in detail while waiting.

Sonnobax15:

Informants come trust kidnappers pass Nigerian police

Cuz you fit pass important information to police,make the same police later label you an accomplice to the crime itself,say how you take know

Instead of you as an informant to dey wait for your compensation after giving information to police,na handcuffs you go later see as reward

What important information?

People fed terrorists information on how to infiltrate a community to carry out unspeakable evils on their fellow human beings, you're saying it's because they don't trust the Nigerian Police?

Are these guys not actually accomplices?

What exactly are you trying to say?

SirWhiteFish:
So what's the use of the TIN tax identification number we registered back then.
That aside, you can't be taxing us without giving back... How do you intend to give us back?

Money wey den don borrow tay-tay?

Na debt wey den owe for our head we wan dey pay back so!

Basic123:
This people behind this thing really want to deal with Tinubu

What is this?

Because Tinubu cannot deal with them, or what kind of illogical drivel is this?

Hmmmm.....I need to look into this.....🤔

omenka:
It's shocking to see Obidients who claim they want the best for the country, and know what's best for the country, overtly express their anger over the elimination of a global terrorist!!

Suddenly, Trump, whom just yesterday was a hero they looked up to, has become an arch enemy. They've found corn and barrels of oil in his pocket, and need video evidence to believe what he's said.

The day anyone these people support becomes the president of this country, is renounce my citizenship.

God bless Nigeria and protect her from all enemies within and without. Amen.

Something's obviously not right with you.

You need to see a doctor, or a psychiatrist.

Better still, see a doctor AND a psychiatrist.

In fact, see them both at the same time, like a three-some, only medical, so they can compare notes on your head, like......on your matter.

A diagnostic three-some.

Pessin we go collect waybill message wey e turn out say na Beretta pistol, police shoot am in public.

See these ones with AK.and confam ransom money, den still dey stand, police still dey protect dia identity!

Issokay naa!

Politicstoday:
Cc nlfpmod mynd44 Dominique seun ishilove fergie001, please edit the heading. It's Honourable Wole Oke that spoke it on a television programme in osogbo.

Wole Oke, such a perpetual HOR member that even APC is tired of him. He is free to vomit whatever.

Where are his "constituency projects"? He's busy building a big, empty "Lead British" school in Oshogbo.

Politicstoday:
Adeleke is been governed by proxy, he's been governed by his elder sister and the Chief of Staff, Alhaji Kazeem Akinleye. APC governorship campaign DG, Mp Oluwole Oke-BOO speaks.

Video credit: Western spring television 📺

Adeleke is been governed by proxy, he's been governed by his elder sister and the Chief of Staff, Alhaji Kazeem Akinleye. APC governorship campaign DG, Mp Oluwole Oke-BOO speaks.

Video credit: Western spring television 📺 pic.twitter.com/chRewh7mBJ

— Adegbola John (@AdegbolaJohn3) May 15, 2026

Workers are not owed salaries or collecting ½ salary.

Their pay has even been "touched up" a bit.

Projects are going on without hassle.

If na proxy, na better proxy oooooo.....better than Bulabaa and Oletola

ceetowl:
Lady who rejected suitor twice seeks advice after he married her younger sister

If only the story was real....I'd say it serves her right!

"The man was impatient"....

"She (sister) accepted so easily"....

Blaming everyone else except the real person to be blamed....Herself!

dawnomike:
As cruel as it may sound, just know that a Lion will not spare it because of it's baby.
In a much as you do no wrong to no man, you and your family's survival comes first!!!

While you are correct, I would add a twist.....take it home, feed it, let it bear the young, then see if the young can be reares and eaten as well.

Islie:
It is better I remain a fan” — Dangote explains why $20bn refinery stopped Arsenal takeover dream

The billionaire admitted that prioritising those businesses over football ownership became the only realistic option

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/sports/football/879683-it-is-better-i-remain-a-fan-dangote-explains-why-20bn-refinery-stopped-arsenal-takeover-dream.html

Bàbá Olówó,

Abeg, ehn......refinery better pass Arsenal. Arsenal no go supply fuel.
Arsenal no go produce fertilizer.
Arsenal no fit generate 20GW wey you wan do now.
Arsenal no epp any ody except Arsenal fans and gamblers we bet on Arsenal.

blamingthedevil:
Fight don start be that and we surely know who will run away

Whatever.

If people read the post through, they will understand that Obi was not throwing shades at Kwankwaso. He was actually talking about his qualification, compared to others in the race, including a certain "someone" who, seriously, nobody can even say for sure if he has any real certificates, or living classmates, for that matter.

Personally, I would vote for either Kwankwaso/Obi or Obi/Kwankwaso. Dr. Kwankwaso is a highly capable Civil Engineer who will make a huge impact in Nigeria's huge infrastructure deficit, but only as part of a pragmatic government that doesn't just want to "share money". Mr. Peter Obi, being a real businessman, will not just take loans to spend, and he will be careful not to sign away Nigeria's future in the shape of "deals" that are more exploitative than a help to the Country.

Watianoengineer:
I would rather vote for a goat than vote for Peter Obi. Peter Obi as president will pardon that terrorist in sokoto prison and by so doing all the victims of Kanu's madness will not get justice. Let's not even talk about the failure of Obi as governor of Anambra state.

The ones currently "rehabilitating their repentant 'brothers' after committing mass murders with no consequences are doing far better.

Wehdone.

E clear say bandits never hold your family member.

Meanwhile, na the same Lagos get jobless agbero miscreants wey dey streets dey obtain transporters.

DrTee1:
I'll wait for Reno Omokri's response to this.
There's nothing Reno cannot do.
Then Taiwo Oyedele's rebuttal.
More importantly however, macro economics is clearly a lot bigger than "he who goes a borrowing goes a borrowing".
You borrow to start a business. If you are really knowledgeable about finance, the bigger your ideas, the bigger you borrow.
The only problem is that you should truly invest what you borrow.
I think that's why Tinubu desperately needs to win his second term and also install a successor who would follow through his economic ideas.
Who remembers Obasanjo for anything remotely economic, beyond debt relief that he virtually bought? What's the fate of his NEEDS & SEEDS of 2003-2007? A man who sold Refineries in a process that his successor saw as fraudulent and reversed?
This CIA agent Obasanjo should understand that it is another CIA agent who wants to keep a legacy as tall as Awolowo that is also in power now.
A were laa fii wo were situation.
OBJ isn't Barrack Obama and Tinubu isn't Goodluck Jonathan.

If you were to be truthful, wouldn't you express the sincere wish that Dangote actually bought said refineries?

Instead, all we hear is "turn-around maintenance" costing billions of Dollars (yes, that's TRILLIONS of Naira now!).

I read that so far, Tinubu's FG has spent more in three years on turn-around maintenance than Buharu's did in eight, so please forgive me if I don't accept the bolded as a real basis for criticising OBJ. He was right on that one.

Gotocourt:
“Let us be brutally honest: Nigeria is under siege, and this administration appears either overwhelmed, indifferent, or dangerously incompetent in the face of this national emergency.”


Nothing will change, Arm rural communities with automatic tools and watch Banditry die a natural death.

Just elect a totally unsympathetic President, who then appoints security and service chiefs who are totally hostile to bandits and their sponsors.

We, the people, can do this!

SlavaUkraini:
And he would not be lying if he was asked to work with the Drug Baron abi ?

You dey whine yourself

Wow!!

I love this answer!

FreeStuffsNG:
SW retains the prime spot as the centre of academic excellence.

70% of the top 10 scorers chose universities domiciled in the SW states of Lagos, Ọsun, Ondo, Ekiti and Ogun states.

50% of the top scorers are Yoruba. Ogun(2), Ọṣun(2), Ọyọ states(1).

JAMB has sent criminal 'miracle centres' out of business.

Congratulations to the 10 top scorers

Well.....since you're categorising, guess what religion ALL of them belong to?

femi4:
Local champion..move to epl

He should just jump on a canoe and paddle to England, abi?

Even if a team wants him, there may be a cheaper option, and they will go for that other guy 90% of the time.

It's not like he can move anytime he wants to.....abi make e come join newly promoted club for £150,000?