₦airaland Forum

Omojudy:
As painful as this will sound, I will ask the girl what she wants to do, clearly giving her the right over her own body. She is my relative not his and I will support her while watching my husband prayerfully without a quarrel.
If she does keep the pregnancy, I will request her to give us custody of the child and voila we have another child.
Whatever she decides, I will stand by it. Anything other than him and her continuing their affair.
Yes, I will also have the baby’s DNA tested when born if we have to accept the liability.
Life is not that hard, it’s betraying and hurtful but we will always take the right decisions putting emotions aside.

helinues:
NDDC is just a cash cow to Niger Delta elites

Sirvingeo:
this is really funny and the hubby is even smiling .

StrikeBack:
This law applies to religious Africans/ extremely gullible Nigerians

Magiciann:
We usually don't discuss it because it will look like fiction. If you're a Christian, keep asking for the fullness of the Spirit, and the gift may be bestowed upon you. If you delve into mysticism, it's disastrous. You will need to renounce Christianity first before you continue. If you turn back, and remain in one piece, you should thank your star.

Magiciann:
I'm also a Christian. I took it further, and then came back to Christianity.

NLSavage:
I know of a girl who keeps telling me this. please enlighten me

Every light skinned person is white to Nigerians...

chudez0147:
Some people fake it...... and it sounds funny to me. Me: I can't speak in tongues .... I always end up laughing at myself each time I try ....✌�

GraGra247:
Brainless entitled oaf. Bunch of extremely selfish greedy lots.

Do you women ever ask yourselves when you'll start showing some kindness and generosity to men too.

Or you think kindness and generosity is exclusively reserved for women alone.
Abi oo they think they're entitled to everything

Homeboiy:
Bros na money go solve the issue

Go police station, dash Dpo 10k ,reason with am why you sieze the phone...


Act like a rich man while going

They go turn the matter upside down

phemy36:
He has met his destiny finisher���

Nickymichy:
I was running from a guy I thought I saw on my way home from work because I need to give him some money he lent me..I ran into d house only for me to c him waiting for me in d sitting room.d embarrassment was too much

Davash222:
You get entertained when you watch football, I get entertained when I watch Wrestling.

Sunnyshinylight:
#Talk_Is_Cheap

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife.
You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: When I was 25, I was talking about making billions before I marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can I really take care of her?
But right now She's married with Four grown up children. The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together.
So please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Stay away from abortion.
Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..
Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life, with a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion? buy the latest Car in Town? marry Sharon stone type? but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.
Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you settle down.

With a good determination and focus with your wife by your side, we will succeed by God grace....Amen!

DEDICATED TO ALL SINGLE PEOPLE

seguntijan:
By Moses Ochonu

In the early to the mid 2000s, as the quality of Nigerian university education plummeted and graduate unemployment soared, many Nigerians began seeking foreign degrees, especially advanced degrees, to gain an edge in the employment market.
Back then, foreign, especially Western, degrees had great purchase and enjoyed a social cachet. Holders of such degrees, regardless of their socioeconomic backgrounds, had their pick of jobs. Even when their numbers increased in the late 2000s, they still frequently rose to the top of interviews and hiring lists, with employers automatically according them priority consideration on account of their foreign training.

Today, there is a saturation in the number of foreign degrees being paraded, and there are many holders of foreign Masters and PhDs who are unemployed or underemployed. Such degrees have lost their worth; their holders their advantage in the hiring process.
The deluge of degrees, both local and foreign, and dwindling opportunities have equalized the terrain. Everyone, foreign or local graduate, is now in the same pot, scrambling for the same opportunities and being subjected to the same scrutiny. Employers now have the luxury of insisting that every graduate, local of foreign, prove their skills, aptitude, and suitability for the position they’re applying for.

Those who thought they could bypass the broken Nigerian university system now have a different experience from that of the first millennial cohort of foreign degree returnees.

First, their foreign educational adventure now gives them little to no advantage.

Second, they, too, like local graduates, meet the sons and daughters of the rich and powerful in NYSC camp and watch as these children of privilege, regardless of where or how they obtained their degrees, go from service to choice jobs without going through any rigorous hiring processes.

Third, they now realize that unless there is a fundamental change in the political economy to expand opportunities for those without political connection or privilege, your foreign MSc or PhD will no longer open any doors for you as the children of privilege continue to monopolize available white collar jobs and send the children of regular folk scrambling for N-Power and other dead-end jobs.

Fourth, if the scramble for foreign second degrees was meant to make up for the widely acknowledged inadequacy of the local first degree and make employment and personal professional fulfillment easier for holders, the present absence of hoped-for opportunities should cause a realization that we need to fix the Nigerian university system so that the first degree is a quality credential that equips young Nigerians with the critical thinking skills and the aptitudes to be competitive and employable not just in Nigeria but elsewhere.

There are no short cuts in life. And short term personal work-arounds are just that. The acquisition of a foreign second degree is not a solution to a broken tertiary education system. And it no longer guarantees any socioeconomic advantages. We have to insist on our universities getting better at teaching, mentorship, and research.

https://educeleb.com/rise-fall-foreign-second-degree/

Wakemeup:
Hi. Glad you are taking initiative and not waiting for employment.
I am sure you are a good cook.
First things first, take some time to study the industry you want to go into.
There are lots of them on Instagram. Start by understudying them and take you your time to find out their loop holes. Find what they are not doing and doing it very well. This will give you some leverage over them when you start.
It cost nothing to do an I depth research. A lot of people are lazy about it. Be armed with all the
information before you start.
Find out if you want to do majorly events or a dine in and events. Dine in means getting a conducive space for people to come chill in....
Creat a social media handle different from your personal handle. Post photos of your work and use relevant hash tags.
Remember, take good photos of your food. It has to be visually appealing for someone to want to make an other.
You can take free courses on food plating on youtube.
You can approach your friends to give you free shout out on social media especially those with more than 2k followers and in exchange give them free food.
Always pay for your services...
I wish you all the best Sir.
It will be worthy put down all your ideas on a book or diary for easy referrals.
Talk less about your ideas and get to work.
Stay away from people that will kill your dreams before you actualize it. God bless you son.