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Hahaha! and it made front page. Nairaland has turned into kids forum!

Here in portharcourt, majority are sitting at home. God bless BIAFRA!

Stevecyes:
I nairalanders, i need a wise council from you guys. I have this girl am dating and i love her immensely and i presumably believe she love me to.
But she's always turning the corner and expect me to apologize to her even when she's the one that wronged and hurt me.
She's this egocentric type, hard to acknowledge that she's wrong footer.
I have tried to make our relationship work for good but she's not helping matters at all.
I don't have to go through all our past issues here but the recent one ensued that i called her and she did not picked the first call and when i called the second she did pick it but she was speaking incoherently to my understanding and there was lots of musical noise on the background, and i was forcing myself to hear her better but i couldn't. she soon dropped the call and i called back few minutes later like three more times but she didn't pick it.
So for days and weeks i was expecting a call from her but she called not, and it got a month plus; non of us called each other.
I have fed up with her act and i told myself i shouldn't call her until she calls even though at times, my heart feel tempted to place a call to her but my head said to me Steve, don't do that.
Sometimes later she messaged me on facebook and this is our conversations.


From her,
Good day, Steve because you called me the other I didn't pick that made you to feel relax after knowing I was sick?
No wahala i no die I dey alive.


From Me,
Listen Sylver,
I hv passed some things in life.
Don't play mediocre on my intellect, Am too farther from that trust me, I'm.
You re here now telling me u were sick when i called u theñ!
Truth be told,
1, U neva told me u were sick prior to the last time i called u dat u did not pick my calls.
2, U re now telling me u were sick back then, but the first call i gave u, when u picked it, there was a lot of music noise on the background and people's voice too, so how come someone who claim to be sick be sitting or going out on such gathering, function or a party.
3, When i called u again immediately after u first picked it and dropped it, u didn't pick it again on the subsequent ones.
4, OK, u said u missed my calls; isn't it? Why didn't u callback or equally flash back to me when u later saw those missed calls so as to prove to me that u didn't deliberately avoided my calls.
All this while, u didn't see a reason to communicate wit me, and now u re talking so as to make me the victim 'culprit' again. I won't be this time around.
If u really hv a soul, just forget making me a victim OK. In as much as i like and cherish u, i won't bow to your egocentric tendencies.
5, listen bae, i can remember vividly good, the previous time we had a little misunderstanding prior to your last birthday. We didn't talk, call, text or even chat to each other for over some good number of months. But immediately i saw your birthday is around, I didn't hesitate to text u and congratulate u on your birthday and equally call u even though we haven't spoken for months. That's what love, respect and homage is. No total hatred. When u remember your friend is having their special celebrative period, u call or perhaps text to congratulate them even though u guys may not be in tune.
After i congratulated u on your birthday, I called for a truce and i begged u for forgiveness and told u that we can't continue to be so low on each other even though i knw the fault wasn't from me. Which we eventually mended and we became in good tune again.
6, But these time around, I had my birthday last month and u cared-less to even to text me let alone to place a call to me to wish me happy birthday... Friends were calling and texting me and each time i gat one, i looked forward expecting it to be u but non came from u. TOO BAD. "U RE MEAN GIRL".
7, During our preview conflict, u were saying some bad words against the person of me cos I was trying to make u see reasons wt me and for us to call a truce. Words like, "U HATE ME WITH PASSION" I SHOULD STOP DISTURBING U" THAT U WILL BE THE LAST PERSON TO WANT ME BACK".and so on but i simply told u that I will not retaliate back on the same footing, cos i still respect & admire u even though we may hv our differences, and that i will be the last person to talk ill of u or cause u just because we re having a rough path. Just go back and check that particular chat history.
8, listen bae, psychology says When one feels he's deliberately being ignored, distant from hashed against or rejected, he get a bit traumatised, it's not just mental, it's physiological and it actually blocks your feelings a bit from that person because your brain doesn't allow you to resolve the problem,". When one is personally being distant from, it is a shock to your body and it stays in your body in the sympathetic nervous system," your brains remembers it, your heart remembers it.
there's a trigger mechanism and the heart flies up way over the bar. This is the sub-conscious brain in action, when the two hemispheres are not connecting.
"Whether it's a person, situation or event, your brain will be searching previous experiences - positive and negative - to make sure that you're safe. When it searches, it finds you were in this position before and ended up being ridiculed, embarrassed and humiliated, and thus tries to protect themselves..
When one is been withdrew from, that soul 've been traumatised - and you don't simply overcome that. It takes a long time to get over."
So i think there's a mental block, or an existing trauma at work that eventually stopped from calling back all this time cos i was a witness to it the first it happened between us...
U don't even care to try and mend bridges and resolve the issue cos to u, u think is men that hv to beg ladies and not vice versa even when the damn problem in question is from the lady....
Plz i think i hv said enough.
I'm tired of having a relationship that the two parties aren't both trying to make it a worthwhile phenomenon.


4rm her:-
See am not interested with all this ur stories
U said i didn't tell u I was sick ,I did not wish u well on Ur b'day, I was partying when u called me, I drop call on u.no problem I have accepted it all.
Case close.


4rm me:-
Very well then...
And very well closed.
Just take a look at u, too proud of yourself.
No remorse, nothing.
Gosh!!!
I neva knew u re dis mean.
As u said "case close".
I finally said, " VERY WELL CLOSED"... BYE.
Anyway, I wish u d bex in lif Good luck
I don't force myself on people, if your class is higher than mine, i change my school. I am not an option but a choice.


4rm her:-
Same wit me.
Good luck too.
I should be very proud of myself because i lack nothing.
Please stop disturbing me.
I will never in this earth ask u to accept me back.
I hate you with passion


4rm me:-
I will neva use because of the heats of the moment to lay despicable and bad utterances on who i once considered my great friend.
Hating me with passion is not a perfect channel to lay ones grievances on opinion.
Hate me as much as u can, but be rest assured that i hv never for once hated u since i knw u even up till dis moment that u re making me to hate ur attitude, i will not hate u but will eternally be fond of our good time together all through the year.
I will forever be proud of u and also be proud of our good time together.
U were once my Swthrt, and i knw u will always be in my hrt.
I don't hate u!
I neva hate!!
And i will neva hate u!!!
But if hating me is your best description of me now, and that equally make u happy....
Then continue to hate me with passion for the rest of your life But hear me loud, I WILL NEVER IN MY LIFE HATE U OR SAY ANY BAD THING AGAINST U...
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!
............................................................................
Now the advice i want from you guys is, should i still go ahead and apologize again even though there's no iota of remorse from her own part at all? Thanks

Lol! men are you kidding me? apologise? for what? abeg free her, she doesn't love you, she doesn't deserve you, she doesn't respect you. If you decide to apologize then I can bet you that this same thing will repeat itself again, you have your own self worth man, don't let a lady who's not worth it ridicule you, come on man. man up!

[quote author=LesbianBoy post=56992860]I am sure this "pulse nigeria" is owned by a yoruba man! Rubbish! [/quoteBros every thing should not be tribalised now, Why are we this divided? come on! the hatred is too much!

Pritypussi:
APC is our only hope.. we'll keep praying for them
PDP killed this country and even Reuben Abati admitted it. GEJ ruined Nigeria big time

slow and steady, Sai baba will wash Nigeria clean again

Saibaba will wash ya pussycat clean again

Pritypussi:
APC is our only hope.. we'll keep praying for them
PDP killed this country and even Reuben Abati admitted it. GEJ ruined Nigeria big time

slow and steady, Sai baba will wash Nigeria clean again

Saibaba will wash ya pussycat clean again

sbashir10:
I'm sure both you and your brother are mediocre, and the alacrity at which he was shut down by your ill fated arguments shows that.

At first neither both PMB nor GEJ caused it, we're in recession because of our over dependence on oil, and when global oil price dropped, during Buhari regime, we we're unable to cope because GEJ left little or nothing in our Foreign reserve.

Saudi arabia enters recession with over 300 billion dollars in foreign reserve, and were however able to maintain it's economy.

What is Buhari fault in this his fault is fighting corruption that has already been engulfed by GEJ administration, Stealing is not corruption crooner , I'm sure he should be awarded for that statement.


It's either we take it or leave it, we're in the situation we are now, because we've not been saving when oil was selling above 140 dollars per barrel, your so called GeJ was busy drinking in Aso rock while the likes of dasuki were looting our reserves.

Buhari is on the right track but at the wrong time, our economy needs to be diversified. most advanced countries has their economy diversified into many sectors like Agriculture, production etc.


take a cue from india, Malaysia and Singapore, Thailand etc...... We cannot just face oil alone, what has happened to the pyramid of groundnut in kano, Cotton of zaria and Ginger of Southern kaduna, cocoa of south west, oil palms etc...

BMC Spotted!

fratermathy:
Big lipped and ugly toothed Governor without any tangible trajectory for the development of Delta State!

#Urhobo nationalism is on the rise and many Urhobos are getting wiser with each minute. We have set our mind to the task of bettering our condition in this nation. We demand an all Urhobo State. As the most populous ethnic group in current Delta State, we have the numbers to populate our own state. We ask for resource control for this new Urhobo State, as well as true federalism. If you can't provide us with this, then grant us our independence as the Federal Republic of Urhoboland!

Urhobo demands for equity and fair play. Although we won't tow the path of the Biafran noisemakers or Nnamdi Kanu, we will get our demands one way or another. We need an Urhobo State without Igbos or any other ethnicity.

Ihwo r'Urhobo, kpani' odetionye? WadooooO!


N.B: It should be noted that Urhobos are not part of Biafra and do not partake in Nnamdi Kanu's terrorist activities. We are peace loving Nigerians who believe in the rule of law in everything.

Nairaland won't help you man, go to your Lga, mobilise, go to media houses, other social media and then some persons might take you seriously,.

fratermathy:
#Urhobo nationalism is on the rise and many Urhobos are getting wiser with each minute. We have set our mind to the task of bettering our condition in this nation. We demand an all Urhobo State. As the most populous ethnic group in current Delta State, we have the numbers to populate our own state. We ask for resource control for this new Urhobo State, as well as true federalism. If you can't provide us with this, then grant us our independence as the Federal Republic of Urhoboland!

Urhobo demands for equity and fair play. Although we won't tow the path of the Biafran noisemakers or Nnamdi Kanu, we will get our demands one way or another. We need an Urhobo State without Igbos or any other ethnicity.

Ihwo r'Urhobo, kpani' odetionye? WadooooO!


N.B: It should be noted that Urhobos are not part of Biafra and do not partake in Nnamdi Kanu's terrorist activities. We are peace loving Nigerians who believe in the rule of law in everything.

Lmfao

godunia:
Country... .... Biafra
Religion... .. . Judaism
Ojokwu go de weep for what has become of his dream. I wish these children did not bring religion into this movement. if something is wrong with Nigeria and you want to leave what's wrong with Christianity?

RIP ..English

Most of my Hausa friends who supported him during the last election now hide their faces in shame, he's a total failure, he has failed woefully!

Happy dictatorship, nepotism, tribalism, religious extremism,Godfatherism,marginalization,division day. I hope you all enjoy it.. The future looks bleak for Nigeria. pathetic!

HungerBAD:
This Maxi Igwe Ifeany is a very intelligent man.

Shut up!

banqalee:
Update:She has refused to go with me to report to the police,saying she doesn't want to raise the issue.She's in church now and can't come to see me because her shoe is tight.Something is not right about the whole picture.
I am broken.Maybe I should just break up with her.

guy she played you. come on! don't let her use your head like that, you ain't a weakling man.. man up dude!

Nbote:
Jus read if from anoda news source online... But some ppl jus don't learn.. Of all d places to urinate its close to a mosque he chose to do it knowing fully well how extreme these ppl can b about such things. I'm not in any way lauding d actions of d worshippers but some of us need to learn to use our head in avoiding confrontations dat would lead to such knowing fully well dat if anything happens dey'll walk free and u'll bear d loss whether u like it or not.

guy just shut up! Does it call for killing? people like you should live in the forest. pathetic!

baby girl, can we please exchange country? I dey plan comot from this contraption, you dey enter. I pity your life

fastgyal:
that's why I suggest people take flights, these roads are scary. RIP

Madam not everyone can afford flight.

WhistleB:
Nigeria will be great again.

With these thieves at the helm of affairs? you are in dreamland.

Hahaha. Aboki Mumu no be small. make market women no catch you. bunch of idiots

This is no news now. Most Nigerians knew already. Apc is the biggest scam in the history of Nigeria. We can't wait for 2019 to boot them out.. nonsense government

gberra:
Back from Rehab

Like you!

gberra:
Back from Rehab

Like you!

Chai! God abeg why you carry me come this kind forsaken country. Nigeria has lost it!!

Adebowale89:
these people and north are birds of the same feather


dem don turn this coward as hero but which kind of heroes surround this small region, huh?


its easy for arsenal to win champions league than thinking of achieving Biafra with this cyborg


who knows him before Biafra? now he had gain the regional recognition he's hoping for


I lost my respect for his struggle the day he left that prison without the other guys

a lots of young developer lost their life in the cause of this scammer.


my sympathy goes to the brainwashed follower

Afonja no one needs your respect.. you are supposed nobody when it comes to biafra struggle.. so swerve!

godunia:
The lives of those girls worth more than that amount. Life is priceless, people will go to any length to discredit this effort made by government. The country had more money under Jonathan, how many girls gained freedom despite the money handed over to Boko Haram? What matters to me is that the girls are free. When you are a parent, you will understand the plight of the parents of these girls, if your child was kidnapped and you have the money to pay ransom, won't you no matter the cost? Meanwhile that report is rubbish, read it well

BMC zombie spotted

mmsen:
Countries negotiate with terrorists all the time.


We Do Negotiate With Terrorists
Let’s stop pretending we don’t, and craft better U.S. policy to protect American hostages.
http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/politics/2015/05/negotiating_with_terrorists_let_s_stop_pretending_we_don_t_and_craft_better.html

BMC zombie will never see anything wrong with his pay masters

Buhari has killed so many innocent souls both directly or indirectly.. He's gonna reap what he sowed. Those innocent blood are crying!

Batch 2 Stream 1

Why are most Nigerian girls so obsessed with marriage? when they see other people getting married, they also wanna rush into it without proper planning and after they start complaining of domestic violence. isorite

ElsonMorali:
Wow. I'm so touched. How I wish and pray that all the girls will be recovered and that their lives will all return to normal.

Thank you Mr. Mustapha.

For those who will come here to shout scam!. May God visit your family with the same scam before the end of this year in Jesus name. Amen.

Since it is a scam I'm sure you can all say Amen.

paid BMC zombie

Guy, for your own good, forget that girl. This is the same thing a friend of mine also passed through, but now he's happy, no more careless spending, she doesn't love you.. no go dull yourself unless she use charm on you

SCAAAAM! SCAM Government! SCAM femi adesina! SCAM garba shehu! SCAM Mr liar lainus Mohammed, Major SCAM Mr Vegetable Buhari

hahaha. so una dey surprised? na tay tay I know say chibok girls whatever na scam plus na abokis dey sponsor Boko Boys. naija in hail thee

No one is perfect!