jaxxy:


ur wife is gone to where? and how? How does ur wife heart go to another when u live under same roof abs see her every day? or is it a distant marriage?

Now look if ur wife's heart goes to another under ur roof then it either of 2 things.

1. u married a hore or a stupid woman or ingrate.

2. U are not a man. in this case u failed in the basics of relationship or took her for granted and focused on smtnelse or got distracted.

women are easy to handle if u know how to. How do u marry a woman and not know how to win her back when u want her even if u bleeped up.

The problem is that you will still blame men for everything.People change as they age.We learn and re learn.Some people change for the worst and there is nothing you can do about it.You have to leave them.As a man accept that you can't solve everything even if you put in your best.

You think good husbands don't get cheated on? Some women were asked of anything was wrong with their marriage but they said nothing that their husband is the perfect husband and father.And this is someone who never had an history of cheating before.

You can never satisfy a woman.That part you talk about taking her for granted is one of the biggest simp line ever.

Always wanna blame men for everything, a woman who is 35 or 40 that is suppose to be an inspiration to other women and her daughter will start cheating and you are saying it is the man's fault.

No dey form God my guy,you are nothing but a man.

jaxxy:


Rekindle the old flame. Marriage is not automatically a success or happy place. It takes work, effort, effective communication and understanding.

Marriage is not a final destination it is a journey and a process.

Ur wife comes back late and can't cook and u think the solution is to nag? Sometimes u have to ignore abit and show the other person u value them. Its not by words bt actions and it's not by picking faults bt not showing any actions urself.

Handling a woman is quite simple if u understand them along as they are not self destruct.

Now u suspect her, overly bothered about her calls to the point u looking for faults more than building the marriage.

How the Bleep do you come up with this bullshit.This one of the most stupid write up I have read.The wife is gone her heart is with another.If you like give her the world her heart is no longer in the marriage.

Win his wife back Seriously?

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

There are levels to cheating
1.Emotional affair.
2.Physical Affair.

If it is just emotional,you will notice and you can still secure your marriage but once it is physical omo forget it.Except you are a weak man you will still beg her or feel you can't leave without her.

From her action's,it has shown that she has checked out of the marriage.One thing you need to know is that most women don't marry their affair partners.To the affair partners they are just sex objects.My guy I know it is hard man up and leave that LovePeddler you call a wife.

She doesn't respect you at all that shows that she has another person she is giving her respect and submissiveness to to.She comes home late.Maybe she is screwing her Co worker.

If I were you I would expose her,report her and her affair partner to everybody she knows and you accept the divorce.

She hurt you and threatened to divorce you on top and you are saying you don't wanna leave her.The moment she started cheating she didn't give a Bleep about you.Stop being a pussy and man up.I know men like to solve problems, this is beyond you and you can't solve this.Send the slut parking and move on with your life.

FOR YOU TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE YOU MUST BE READY TO LOSE IT

What I gathered

1.Her mom was a prostitute she kept jumping from dick to dick
2.He married three men but non of them could keep her because of her hoe tendencies or characters
3.Her daughter is here defending her,checking the daughter well.She might end up like her mother.
4.Never marry a woman from a single mom or divorced countless times.You will live to regret it.

Moh247:



The guy is primitive....

This is 2023 people divorce and re marry


So Kim Kardashian won't marry again?!

In life you either follow the laws written by others to make themselves happy or you write your own laws and make yourself happy


Dey play


.

Kim kardashian lol.We a know Kim Kardashian is a prostitute.Americans who claim to be the most civilised nation in the world are the dumbest.The same nation that supports infidelity on women's part as part of feminism or sexual liberation.

Watin dey save Kim na because she poplar,remove the fame she is just a hoe.

ganisucks:

Don't mind them. I'm sure the incident was at that intersection between Hall 3 and Hall 4. I'm sure it was the ridiculously naive Hall 3 boys that attacked the soldier.

It happened at main gate.Even when the school security intervened.They attacked the security. .They beat up an innocent person already.

Nigeria dey hot.Nothing like naive.You look for trouble you collect.

ruggedtimi:
Possible the civilian drag line with uniform man ..not in Nigeria. When you see a uniform man especially Army. Just give am way make him use ATM.

People are looking for money to withdraw.There is scarcity of cash and everybody don wait for sun tire and small thing fit trigger them.

Because you wear uniform you say make everybody getat!!! .You go collect.

KingAzubuike:

I'm telling you that the actions of these students won't end well. The military don't take stuffs like these likely. Night raid things or dem go just park hilux for one corner dey wait for any unfortunate soul wey go pass by.

Mtchwww dem wan enter the school.How many person dem wan carry.

Corruption go enter.

My nigga it seems you want to die before your time.Even of you forgive your wife you might never trust her again.Any time she do anything suspicious your alarms will scream.This will lead to constant thinking which will result to bad heath for you.

Free the woman my dear.Let her go.You didn't fail in the marriage your wife did.If your wife is not taking steps to make you trust her then let her go.

Most partners who cheat when given a second chance they cheated again and again till they don't care or give a Bleep.She will never stop with what you have written.

elijahozzy:


Why are you selling something you can use to make money out of

Sold already boss....na sapa and debt...I will buy it again

Adamumd:
There's this beautiful lady in my area I've known for years, i asked her out recently and we started dating, she cooks for me, spend good moments together because i was a loner before now and i Bleep with different random girls which i don't like, this lady is clean, sweet and a cool person but she's fucking me and also fucking a friend to my friend even before i met her, same way she is fucking with other guys, sunday evening we were together when a guy called her and she left and lied she was going to a birthday party but i told her it's a lie she was going to meet the guy that called then she later confessed that it is true and asked whether to go or not and i told her to please go... I need advise on how to just keep this girl as a Bleep mate and not get jealous of her numerous escapades because i need the Bleep to while away time but i can't stand knowing that she's fucking other people, she doesn't stress to ask me of money that's what makes the whole thing sweet and she lives around the area meaning i get to see her anytime i want... How do i just stop getting jealous and keep enjoying the free Bleep so i won't end up chasing her away? 1??

Let the bitch go ....let the hoe go....so because she sabi cook and she no dey stress you,you wan turn am to housewife.

Nigga use condom and don't think of ever loving her mumu

Nigerian women are top 3 of the most unfaithful women in the whole world.Nigerian men don't come close.Op don't let any Nigerian woman guilt trip you.Fear Nigerian women they have no values.


Paternity fraud and Nigerian women are 5 and 6.So any Nigerian girl wey dey misbehave just move on na so them be.

Sheistoopretty:
Awwwwn, And his wife might be seating on the train o or sleeping comfortably at home... very romantic man

When will Nigerian men Do something like dis? Nigerian men are not romantic at all.

All dey know is sex sex sex, play draft, go to betting shops to gamble, kill each other because of cultism

Usel*as set of men we are in dis world

Or she might somewhere fucking another man or her boss and later come home telling her husband that she is tired .

He will now say honey I know ,you need to sleep amd rest I will take care of the baby

LosC:
People should be wise enough to discern.
For instance, let me use Otobo’s case. When you doctor something or accuse someone for something the first time, and you discover that this accusation went viral or it gathered momentum, you’ll restrategize on how to push for a second one, using the same method - Knowing fully well that the first one gave you the attention you needed but didn’t yield much result.
Now, when you push for the second time, same accusation but different person, you’re gathering more momentum and at the same time changing the mindset of many towards the accused. People will start doubting the genuineness of the accused.
By continuing with same method, it’ll look like you’re winning the battle against the accused.

You can use someone in your office as an experiment. Gather like 4 people, give them some good cash, then label them a rapist with the backing of a top Director in the organization. By the time two women accuses such person, others will start doubting the accused, thereby causing almost everyone in that office to believe the accusers(ladies).

Because of your hate for the church, you’ve joined the multitude to stone a clergy even when there’reno evidences against him.

Why that particular accusation ?

Why Same tactics.If one won't work they will try another one.Did you see the news where his own pastor accused him of sleeping with his wife.

Did you read the news where because his female member has issue with the husband he gave her a house to stay.A married woman and you expect people not to point fingers.

See ehh I used to go to omega fire ministry before ooh.I am not saying he is guilty. His own is too much.He might have been pure in the beginning but maybe he later put hand for bad thing.

My friends dad is an elder in one of his branches.He told me a deaconess left the church because her son who was also a pastor under his ministry caught the same Apostle sleeping with her daughter in law aka her son's wife.Funny thing it was the same Apostle that recommended the wife for him

Why I believed was that she started the branch together with the first pastor that was posted to it.More than 10 years she was a deaconess.For her to leave .I asked another person and it was confirmed.The whole family left the church.

See ehhhn.......na God dey help person.

oloyede252:
I am a 34 year old man. I have been with my wife for
nine years - married for the last five. When I married her,
she had very traditonal values. We had a lot in common -
both somewhat shy, both non drinkers and non smokers -
very respectful - spiritual rather than religious ,ethically
proper and commited to one another. We've always been
very honest with each other as well. Our physical
intimate life started off rather pedestrian - very
unadventurous but slowly grew as we did into something
wilder and special - however we remained monogamous.
One time my wife got very jealous when I told her I had
visited a strip club with friends and was very hurt by it. I
promised her I would not go to one again. This was
about three years ago.
My wife has since had some revelations and has
changed. Long story short - she suggested to me that we
consider an "open marriage". Apparently at work a fellow
she was attracted to hit on her and she was flattered, so
much so that it brought forth an idea she said she'd had
on her mind for about a year now ... the idea that society
puts too much emphasis on sex and that if we can have
our needs met by someone else other than our partner
that we should go ahead and do it. She said she would
have no problem with me being with other women if I felt
it was right.
I CANNOT sleep or eat. I am in agony. I love her so much
and respect what she has to say but this hit me like a ton
of bricks. I have no interest in being with anyone other
than my wife EVER. I told her I would consider it and try
and be a litle more evolved in my thinking but I don't
think i can. The thought of my wife being with another
man makes me ill.
My wife argues I am being possesive and territorial. She
is being great about this , by the way, she is simply
expressing her feelings and being honest with me - and
given the situaltion I couldn't ask for more. My wife is
prone to quite analytical and is a real thinker and we
have considered this is just a phase she's going through.
But what if it isn't?
I want her to be happy and I don't want to supress her in
any way. But I don't think I could deal with her being
with other guys.
Please help - thank you in advance.

1.She has someone outside that she is either cheating with already but she is just using the open marriage as an excuse to keep banging him.

2.She has lost respect for you big time.For her to have the guts to tell you bro.

3.If she taste another dick forget your wife.You will die early.You will just be a cuck because open relationship hardly favour men except you are huge and very handsome.She will always have men at her back and call.Bro in short you don die.

This nigga na chronic womaniser....most girls headinv important position in his church have been vandalised by him.

atilla:
whats wrong with this guy. guess this is supposed to be a fashion statement but its not working at aaaaaaaaalllllllllllll.
e for kukuma wear lipstick to finish it off

Once them start to dress like this ,them don fry their asshole already.

She probably cheated on him and will get half of his networth.E no easy.

Lolachef:
Wetin dey there?

She's not cheap.

Mumu say she is not cheap.If a dog has that money the dog can sleep with her na.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Easy with the words

Is it not the truth .Jumping from prick to prick just like her mother

Lori Harvey na Olosho na .

Jackanda1:
I have a problem of social anxiety and have been a loner from childhood, i rarely keep friends. I believe i inherited this from my parents.

When i'm around even a small number of people, especially when i have to talk, my heart begins to beat fast, my head goes blank, my voice begins to shake and my body trembles.

I got a job few months ago and i'm required to interact with people, but it has been difficult. Due to the symptoms of anxiety, i have completely isolated my self from people, which has made them dislike and gang up against me.

What broke my heart, was that last week during a staff meeting(20 staff), a coworker got up said that i'm a very timid and fearful person. Though i was embarrased, i have to admit that she is right.

I have listened to all manner of advice but its not helpful.

Recntly, someone advice me to start smoking and i have been condering this option, i'm willing to take anything that would make me confident. I'm tired of been timid and isolated.

What do you think?

Bros don't try what you don't understand.Smoking might help but you will become addicted.And you have created another problem for yourself.

I was shy and a loner.I learnt to crack jokes and talk to people.Start going out,it will take time but you will see improvements.

He is nice to your just to get your wives attention,you are definitely right.


First of all ban that nigga from entering your kitchen.What sort of man keeps friends with a married women and spends all time with her in her kitchen.E be like say the nigga no get work.

Sir,this marriage is your own,Bleep her aunt.Increase his rent or make his life less happy while staying there.You no go know when e go move out.

JASONjnr:
You don't have any business with the said guy but with your wife....

Personally, I'd ensure that she gets the message by all means...

I supposed you know what it means of you give the young lad a quit notice...Your wife will likely continue the intimacy from afar without you monitoring her.

Are you sure they're not ex lovers? And those kids could be his...


If a woman can't understand that as a married person, you have to keep distance from men, then she's never seeing herself as a married woman.


Also check on yourself...Have you been giving her the attention that she needs?

I still remember in our face me I face you where I grew up.There was this married man with kids and this single dude usually comes to his wife kitchen to chat with her,first day,second day omo e turn weeks.

One day na so the married man stroll come out and told the nigga to go home.Na so the matter end.The nigga should mind his territory and stop talking to her frequently.