iSense247:

My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

Old man dey lash your girlfriend while you were courting her while she made you agree to no sex before marriage.You fucking cuck.

She blamed you for it and still manipulated you into marrying her.Men really fell off.Na so you hate yourself.Giving stupid excuses that bla bla the next woman might be worse.You be maaalooooo better cow!!!

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Your wife has psychological issues my dear.Either she is bipolar or she has abandonment issues.

She will still cheat om her next man.Those kind women will never be satisfied.They have a hole they are trying to fill if you are not careful you go suffer.


Or she has a crush on the Co worker already and they have been sexting which resulted in emotional attachment which might turn to love for him.No matter what you do as her husband,Bleep her till the heavens,her heart is with the Co worker my dear.

KanuSE:


Well, you may want to define 'the marriage without absolute trust' - maybe I will get your drift.

Exactly bro.You can trust but not blindly.

Your wife is begging another man money under your own roof.She will open a brothel under your own roof.

They Bleep her under your own roof.You guys just got married ,baba move ooh.

KanuSE:


How are you even able to love and marry the person you don't trust?

Tell me bro!

Lol,in experience humans change.You trust someone doesn't mean that when they want to enter into temptation or trouble you won't caution them or warn them.Nobody is exceptional or different.

You only trust someone based on their previous actions or your Idea of them.You don't know if they will betray you tomorrow.Nothing like trust forever.

KanuSE:


I think Nigerians are just insecure and paranoid.

I like how you use insecure and paranoid to gaslight people when they have doubts or feel certain way about things.

You don't know what insecure or being paranoid means.Dont ever dismiss people's feelings like that.

KanuSE:


Africa Magic don finally wire your brain 🧠...😂

Lol,na life experience ooh.Seen it a lot of times bro.

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

A man and a woman can't be friends,una no deh hear.You have started hiding things from your husband,you didn't tell him the full truth.Na so e dey start.I guess you like him a bit and you are scared that if you tell your husband, you husband might kick against it.


Soon,you will start going on dates with him and you won't tell your husband.You will start getting emotionally attached to him.You will give yourself excuses that he is married.Nothing will happen blablabla

Latter you guys will go on a date get a little drunk and voom you will be on his bed.At first you will say it is mistake but before you know it second,third to the tenth time.

You will become fuxk buddies you will stop giving your husband sex and become nasty towards him because you don't love or respect him anymore.Poor man.

When you later get caught your eyes will not quickly open.Your lover will end up leaving you when the secret comes out.You might not be remorseful because you are still in the affair fog but when it settles you will realise that you have lost your husband and destroyed your family.


Affairs don't start over night,,it starts innocently or unintentionally.Use your sense.

Borntosmoke:


Does what you utter now, show characteristics of a responsible man. A responsible man with good finances will always attract a good woman. . You and Op are the same. You guys views are for Bleep boys, play boys, university boys, Teens not for a responsible man. You even mention torn mattress. Na 2k Olosho unaa dey Bleep

You are still a child sha.So an irresponsible man with good finances won't get a good woman? .No dey decieve yourself.

Money only delays disrespect.Keep seeing marriage or relationship as a business venture.Experience will teach you that all your money won't matter when disrespect sets in,when you don't man up on certain things.Like I said a woman will bang you on your torn mattress if she loves you.

FIND A WOMAN WHO bleeps WITH YOU HEAVY ANY OTHER WOMAN APART FROM THIS IS A GOLD DIGGER


I have made millions and lost them and bro I no be small pikin wey dey talk.Girls will always come but no one can be like that woman who went hard for you out of her heart not for what she can gain.

Borntosmoke:


My own motivation for making money is to help my family and influence people not for one mumu bitches but just get that in your head if you don't have money and you want to start a successful relationship, your are like a person that want to start business with no business plan.

Relationship that women pay their own transport fare to see their men lol.Go hard for them,Bleep them ontop your torn mattress and ugly looking room with no furniture
Women that go hard when they love men....

I don't need much money bro.I just need to be okay.Seen love to know that money just delays disrespect.If she no send your papa your money might make her mellow but if you lose your money ....better shege .

Niggas setting themselves for golddiggers, what if there comes a time you might experience a loss in business,what if you have an accident one day and you can't work .What if you lose all you have due to unforseen circumstances,will she stand by you ?

Nigga said he needs money ...you go see shege.Lastly relationship is not a business.

Borntosmoke:


Money! Money! Money! Money!. Don't waste away your life chasing random girl at bars, parties, beaches to proof you are bad guy. . Hope you know jeff bezos and bill gate met thier wife when they have not yet make it, hope you know the end of their story. Money! Money!. Let that stick into your head!!!

So if there is no woman in this world you won't make money Abi?


You won't ear abi....you won't build houses.

Deegee7788:
Am a lady and I want to speak from my perspective and experience.
We ladies are not disgusted by money, na pride we no like but at the same time guys, dating is a season that leads to courtship then marriage, abi?
Women don't have that luxury of time to date for 10years, court for another 10years before getting married and leaving u afterward to look for another man.
But men should work on themselves early in life. early age of some guys life, na play football, watch Ronaldo and gossip about that girl with Yansh is all they do with their friends. Before u realized you want to be a man, gbam, u are already 28+, you haven't achieved much or nothing.
Pls women are help meet not the head of a family. Men should realize that on time.
As u are going to school now, learn a skill too. We are not saying you should have mOney like dangote but u must be able to show what u have been living for.

I have a younger brother now , he has finished his ND , and I gave him so me money to start business, he returned a diminished amount to me that he can't do business at home . He is 21 years oooooo to worsen the matter , na everyday him dey post gf for him WhatsApp status. That's not his first gf oooo, If the girl leave am follow another person now , him to go dey cry say him chop breakfast. If u advice Dem, Dem no dey hear. Leave women wahala first, unba

Not all women are gold diggers but we all need to see how u have been managing ur life before adding us to ur equation because once marriage has started we are answerable to all ur orders if it a Christian marriage. I don't have time to talk about my fiance . Guys wake up early in life . Women develop wey faster .

Funny thing is that not every man have their shit together at 30 or 35 self.No dey reason say na their fault.Some people's blessing come late while some come early even if you are hardworking and doing everything to survive.

If your have your shit together at your 20s good luck but e no mean say the rest Bleep up.If the woman no fit wait make she go but make she no come back cone tell me say she no love her husband or she dey sad sha.Regardless we move.

The same way women don't have time is the same way men don't have it East in life.It is what it is.

SenecaTheYonger:


Leave the werey. Person wey go still comeback to complain say olosho wey him attract na gold digger then tag all girls as the same.

Omo,I no dey pity any nigga wey woman eat him money dump am if he get this mentality.

ZIMDRILL:


wanted to ask the same, simply becoz by
virtue that he is your father he owns everything of you, being a father is choice and doesnt mean he own anything that a he has, it only applies if he dies without children or wife

children are born out two people making a choice to sleep with each other mostly out of love not a property that creates its worth and own it too

Bro leave the dullard alone.Some people just want to talk instead of them keeping quiet and accessing the situation they end up disgracing themselves.

hansomb:
àbo òró làn so fun òmóluábí, tòbà dé ìnu ré à dí òdídì. Peace out.

Nigga dey drop incantations ,I be like herbalist to you .

hansomb:

Am sorry if your Dad rapes you if you female or maybe he's gay if you're a male or if he rapes one of your sisters or your wife, that's your family business. The way you responding back to me with undue abuses shows that your Dad really mercilessly messed up with your life mercilessly. Remember you are an extension of him i.e his DNA and his blood is part of you, don't go and mercilessly messed up with your children's life like your Daddy did yours. Okay !!! Be a good Pikin.

Watin be this ? the last time you went to the barbing saloon,the barber messed with your brain.

hansomb:

Go jump inside lagoon then, since you can't take go good advice from small pikin. Imagine dieing with the beef of your dad inside grave over worldly things.

Mumu,if you had only said try to forgive and move on I would have agreed.And if you had read what I wrote I said I have forgiven but will never forget.

Adding craps like your father owns everything you have because he brought you to life is very stupid and immature.

Tell that to a girl that her own father raped her or abused her ode.

Una go just open mouth waaa!!!

hansomb:

Your Dad owns everything you have in this life. The life he process for you to come to this life can never be paid back. There's nothing to forgive and the more you put it in your mind the more hurtful and depressed you become. Make peace with yourself and free that demon disturbing you.

I no dey take advice from small pikin wey never see life

Mumu say na demon..Say there is nothing to forgive I pity your offsprings.

My own father sold land that I suffered for years and gave him money to buy .My own dad oooh.People be like forgive him.I have forgiven but I can't forget.I no send am again.

My stepmom told me that I shouldn't put it at the back of my mind that I will inherit my dad's properties. .

My own sister never one day stood up for me,she betrayed me when we were kids.

My mum us late.

Tell me one reason why I shouldn't cut them off?

Borntosmoke:
Pls make money . I'm talking from experience eeenh!!!. Na girls go toast you. No be you go toast dem

Olosho dey toast you and you dey feel fly

Okoroawusa:

And you are a female? How long will it take you to learn that women are at a disadvantage in all spheres of societal existence and it's not just a Nigerian thing?

You are a fool ooh....life is by merit if she can't convince people to vote for her why is she a politician.it is because she is a woman every man should step down

It is a normal thing no need to even post about it

Girls get matured faster than boys normally

They won't be attracted to their agemates or those that they get attracted to might not end up with them.They will eventually go for someone better.

It is how life works.It is just nature.Most my second day school mates are married .I smashed some was friend with some.Life wins in the end.

Septagon:
You guys above saying its too small.u guys are funny.have u converted it to naira?do u know how many games they officiate in three months?do u know abt allowances?

Which kind thinking be this ?

Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.

Women and always claiming to be victims.If her mom dies she will still blame the husband.Which kind gender be this ?

I hope I enter this situation one day.If she move mad I move madder.

Women as usual....

Always making stupid assumptions
Blames men for what happens
Wants to be the victims all the time
Blame another man for whatever happens to his wife even when he is dead already(the guy go dey cry for grave)

Instead of believing most women,just watch how they act.

Women have been complaining since 1622,I no dey believe all these nonsense

And the first thing you need to distract you is another prick ...This one na olosho wey think say she go fit retire.

Nigerian men are stupid to the core ooh.You are the stupid ones that complain that Nigerian women only love money now they put things women like you are still complaining that it is a lie.

If it is only money you have to offer a girl then check yourself my gee.

You go 4CHAN wey be Haven of Racist dey expect dey expect not to use racist words


4CHAN no send anybody papa,dem go call you monkey,babboon,slave,nigger....those guys dey another different world.

It is a small group of women,look at the way she said it as if it is the whole south Korea.Small group of ugly, angry and misguided women who are closet lesbians.They didn't affect birthrate or anything.

And they became mandated lesbians lol,once you see feminism you will see LGBTQ at one corner

Current feminism is trash.

I don't know why men are pained if women want to become feminist.Let them be.Give them their own country abeg.As if women are saints themselves.

Dtruthspeaker:


That is obviously because you live in a noisy environment plus you are spiritually dead.

For me, I was fully convinced they were devils when I went to their wedding. As soon as I entered their compound my soul was shaking exactly how it shakes when I pass Latter Day Saints, Guru Maraji, Ogboni society etc.

Gee, you are dead already if you did not feel these shivers.

Your soul no shake anything.You have already concluded in your mind that they are bad people so your body started reacting.

Or you were just high as Bleep.

youngrichnigga:
Most of the followers are fake/machine followers 🤣😂🤣

As in,how the Bleep do you have legit sub and you no dey gey reach quater of the views.