Christianity Etc › Re: Caption This Picture Of Kumuyi Preaching To Aregbesola by jkbee(m): 10:19am On Dec 02, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Cancels Weekly FEC Meetings by jkbee(m): 11:02am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Myopic! He wouldnt want the Vice to act on his behalf as he couldn't trust Prof of law against himself. In other words His traveling schedule hinder the meeting  |
Politics › Re: President Buhari’s Frequent Foreign Trips & The Cost - Sahara Reporters by jkbee(m): 10:52am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Bubuhari- The Tourist Icon.... How would he know the world is changing if he doesn't travel around the world? |
Education › Re: How I Used What I Had To Get What I Wanted In The University by jkbee(m): 9:30am On Nov 27, 2015 |
thatsincerechic: TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN
Now I am tired... Just as many of you have taken your time to read this story so have i taken my time in writing it. I cannot please you... I am not writing this story to satisfy your sexual urge(this is to those that are only concerned about Bleep) I started out with a good intention of narrating my story to many out there who are going through what I went.. I wanted them to learn from this. Now to those who want a summary, this is a story, stories are usually long narratives. Pls have it in mind that as I post comments I also see comments on this thread.. Majority of which are of obscene thoughts and it's a big distraction to me... Now do this Imagine you were with friends, or should I say students whatever setting you wanted, and you were telling your story and some are throwing one or two sentence which is totally out of order, not what you have in mind because it is not what you experienced. Now how would you feel To those that say I was running out of lies because I haven't mentioned the part where I had sex, pls bridle your tongue because You can not tell my story for me. And to those who say they are bored with the story, just as you are bored, I am also bored because I was no longer seeing reasonable comments as I progressed and i am pretty sure that majority of those that tarried along up till this point are those that are eager to read and enjoy the sex scene. Well, I am sorry to disappoint you, I didn't start my story to ENTERTAIN but rather to ENLIGHTEN you on what is going on in our society. To those saying I was making the stories shorts so i could garner pages, well sorry to say this but I think you are myopic, if you religiously followed from the beginning you would see comments on when I said I was at work. And to the young man, that asked me why I Did not type everything out in a computer and uploaded all once instead, well you see sir, I started this story after a thought came to my mind, I was so motivated that I decided to register as a member on nairaland because I have always been a visitor on nairaland and this is my first topic on nairaland. I actually thought I could tell it peaceful as it progressed and not to be confused at the long run by many of you who wanted a different story.
Since you are not patient enough to know how I used what i had to get what I wanted.... You would probably never know.
My experiences are my precious moments because they shaped me into what I am today, and I won't have it altered because I want to tell a story on nairaland.
At this junction I drop my pen!
# walks out of thread******* BUT I DONT THINK, STOPPING AT THAT POINT HELPS. ITS ONE OF THOSE THINGS IN LIFE THERE WILL BE CRITICS AND ADMIRER, EVERYBODY CANNOT THINK TOWARDS THE SAME DIRECTION. ITS LEFT FOR U TO MAINTAIN UR FOCUS WITHOUT DISTRACTION. BECAUSE IN LIFE U WL EXPERIENCE MANY OF THOSE, EVEN IN UR STORY IT WAS LIKE THAT WT MANY PERSONALITIES U ENCOUNTERED. ALL THE BEST THOUGH.... UR WISH MUST BE RESPECTED AFTER-ALL, NO ONE COMPELLED U B4 U STARTED. #FREEWORLD |
Politics › Re: PHOTO: President Buhari Arrives Malta by jkbee(m): 8:43am On Nov 27, 2015 |
bugzbunny: Just stay there and never come bk We are tired of body odour Baba tourist Baba petroluem Baba one chance  |
Family › Re: My Husband Has Idolised Me And Now I'm Fed Up. Need Help by jkbee(m): 3:13pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
enstack: I had to create a new account just to post this as it's quite sensitive. It's quite lengthy too but I'll be brief. I need mature and friendly advice from people here.
When I first met my husband, it was in a library. We talked briefly and we became close. I have had past relationships in my life so I was careful as possible. I realised that he had no past relationship. He was a typical virgin and was new and I was his first girlfriend. So I felt comfortable with him. He was so kind and loving so I agreed to marry him.
Now it has gotten worse. Everytime he does anything I want without asking questions. At first I enjoyed it but now I'm starting to worry about him as it's getting out of hand. He does not display any act of manliness in the house. He behaves like my puppet or my foot stool. The other day he was watching the soccer game and I just jokingly mentioned how boring it was and I would prefer the faith channel. He changed the channel to the faith channel just like that. Even at work he would be calling me and texting me I am even scared he would loose his job if his employer finds out.
I have no time for myself.. he is always around. Sometimes if I say no to his advances for sex he would act like I am a wicked woman who has cheated him or rubbed him of his right. He would give me the silent treatment for weeks until I give in. On Sunday he insisted on going with me to the salon and it's now embarrassing as every Sunday my mates in the salon would gossip about how my husband is the only man amongst women making their hairs because his wife is there. I try to talk to him but he would feel so sad like I have taken smething away. I don't understand.
If I'm studying at night, he would suddenly begin to romance me and strip me of my clothing without saying anything first when he can see I'm studying. If I rebuke him, he would be very sad. Every time he must have one intimate relation with me everyday and life does not work that way. I don't know if it's immaturity or he is sick mentally. The day I returned home 11pm due to huge traffic jam, I was expecting him to be furious like any other man.. he was with all smiles even offered me water and collected my bag and books. Christ.
I need sincere help. I told his family that I'll file a divorce if this continues as I cannot live like this. It's no longer love but idolatry. I thought it's wives that are submissive.. he is the one submissive. Anything I ask... he grants even silly things. Things that a real man would query before granting.
I am sure that if I ask him to bathe in acid he would do it. I'm sick and tired of this marriage. Just a year. The last quater he gave me his ATM to spend when I went for training in Abuja. When I was spending excessively he was quiet about it until I returned and found it he was broke that i wrecked him. I was wondering what happened to him. Why didn't he talk?
Please Nairalanders what is happening? I love him still and divorce would be my last resort. I need your advice and help on how to fix this because I don't know what to do anymore.
Thank you all. Sincerely, this man loves U real good, He's just the kind of guy wt low self esteem as 'THORPIDO' would say..... If U truly loves him, U should try to improve on his personalty rather than take advantage of him and end up wt guy that wl treat U like trash. |
Education › Re: How I Used What I Had To Get What I Wanted In The University by jkbee(m): 2:29pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
I wl stay glued to my system, even after work I wl continue on my phone. In as much as I hate season film, this SEASONED Tory make sense eehn... we wl surely finish it together. It's now Day 3.... still counting |
Politics › Re: HID Awolowo Was Buried Beside Her Husband, Chief Obafemi Awolowo In Ikene (Pics) by jkbee(m): 12:35pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
How I wish MODERN Ladies wl be faithful to their husbands as the women of Golden Era |
Education › Re: How I Used What I Had To Get What I Wanted In The University by jkbee(m): 12:06pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
LIFE Can seem unfair sometimes, But worthwhile for pple dat won't give up |
Education › Re: How I Used What I Had To Get What I Wanted In The University by jkbee(m): 11:45am On Nov 26, 2015 |
ABEG!!! THIS DON BECOME SEASON FILM, I BET U WL MAKE HUGE MONEY IF U SELL THE SCRIPT TO NOLLYHOOD  Ur Writing skill is superb |
Politics › Re: Hilarious Fuel Scarcity Pictures And Screen Shots by jkbee(m): 12:19pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
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Crime › Re: I Think We Should Be Merciless To Book Haram by jkbee(m): 11:43am On Nov 19, 2015 |
forgiveness is from God but military personalities wl book terrorist appointment wt God |
Crime › Re: Soldiers Ambushed And Killed On Thier Way To Capture Sambisa(photo) by jkbee(m): 11:39am On Nov 19, 2015 |
AMEN!!!  What a country? We shall crush Boko Haram within 3 months now its #DECEMBER. Almost December they are still launching their onslaught  |
Crime › Re: Nairaland: Success Story Of Seun. by jkbee(m): 10:59am On Nov 19, 2015 |
Nothing succeeds like success  As a matter of fact the platform has helped many, I inclusive in term of job and every other facets. I hail Ur creativity and giant stride Especially wt d icons  |
Crime › Boko Haram Is Now The World’s Deadliest Terrorist Organization. by jkbee(op): 11:05am On Nov 18, 2015 |
Boko Haram is now the world’s deadliest terrorist organization.
According to the Global Terrorism Index, the Nigerian sect caused 6,644 deaths in 2014, overtaking the Islamic State (ISIS) which claimed 6,073 lives within the same period.
According to the report, Nigeria has witnessed a 300 per cent rise in deaths from terror acts to 7,512 over the past one year largely due to Boko Haram’s expansion. Boko Haram pledged its allegiance to ISIS in March 2015 and is now known as the Islamic State’s West’s Africa Province (ISWAP).
Since the sect was formed in 2002, was relatively harmless until it became a many-headed monster in 2010 and started to carry out sophisticated attacks. Boko Haram has become a menace to Nigeria, West Africa and the world and this is because its activities were not effectively combatted until it was too late. Dasuki is accused of diverting up to N337 billion worth of funds meant for arming Nigeria’s soldiers.This was disclosed on Tuesday, November 17, 2015, via a statement released by Buhari’s spokesperson, Femi Adesina.
“…Payments to the tune of N3,850,000,000.00 were made to a single company by the former NSA without documented evidence of contractual agreements or fulfillment of tax obligations to the Federal Government of Nigeria,” Adesina said.
“Further findings revealed that between March 2012 and March 2015, the erstwhile NSA, Lt. Col. MS Dasuki (rtd) awarded fictitious and phantom contracts to the tune of N2,219,188,609.50, $1,671,742,613.58 and €9,905,477.00,” he added. “Only my name has been mentioned even when some of the issues were before I came into the government. I leave Nigerians to judge,” the former NSA said in a statement issued in response to the order for his arrest.
Boko Haram’s new status as the world’s deadliest terrorist group is proof that the Nigerian government did next to nothing to stop the sect’s growth and by starving the army, essentially aided its expansion.
Buhari has promised to right the wrongs done by the previous administration but who will account for all the lives that have been lost? Hence Boko Haram makes N4 billion every year from various sources.
May the souls of all the Nigerians we have lost to Boko Haram rest in peace.
cc: lalasticlala |
Politics › Re: Graphic Photo From Yola Bomb Blast Yesterday by jkbee(m): 9:19am On Nov 18, 2015 |
Otenestbestyaho: Fresh meat for okowo soup. Boko haram thank you very much, may God bless u pple as u embark on the mission of killing ur muslim brothers.
I am very happy with this pic, nothing graphic about this, more heads sud roll. My day is made up with this news!!! That's in-humane of you, rejoicing at the expense of others' misfortune. That's unfortunate! May God show mercy  |
Career › Re: When Your NYSC Alawee Is More Than Your Salary (pic) by jkbee(m): 8:36am On Nov 18, 2015 |
Na xooooo God deliver us. But thank God for today  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Reasons Why Your CV Doesn't Get You A Job Interview Or Responses From Hr's by jkbee(m): 11:31am On Nov 17, 2015 |
OGA Ur CVE packaging doesnt appeal to me, mine is not the way U presented it but do gets called up for job am qualified for, even though am currently employed. But Good works... Typographical error counts most |
Sports › Re: U-17 Eaglets To Receive 20k Each (pictured) by jkbee(m): 11:19am On Nov 17, 2015 |
 Ehhhhh...... Ds naa typical One chance!!! Hail Bubuuhari |
Romance › Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by jkbee(m): 11:57am On Nov 16, 2015 |
UR approach was right.....just be sure its not infatuation. |
NYSC › Re: The Romantic Proposal At NYSC Camp By Two Lovely People by jkbee(m): 9:37am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Awwww! Its nice hope they continue their love buddies in faithfulness to one another  |
Career › Re: My Shortest Job Experience by jkbee(m): 1:33pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
 U DESERVES RECOGNITION IN WORLD GUINNESS BOOK! RECORD TIME FOR JOB |
Politics › Re: Photos See What Nigerian Army Recovered From Boko Haram by jkbee(m): 12:47pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
WOW!!! VALIANT People! I pray U enjoy the good of this nation. #GreatNigerianArmy |
Politics › Re: Fayose Buys Handicapped Woman A Wheelchair (Photos) by jkbee(m): 10:21am On Nov 10, 2015 |
agarawu23:
 Well let me commend him for that first of all 
Must we know about it ?
I laughed fayose when he gave a cripple man okada some months ago.
It seems the "asun" "suya" "bread" "fish" etc wey this man dey buy chop for road don enta him medulla . Whether U laughed at him or not, the man is making IMPACTS & touching lives. Sai Baba hasn't done any better. |
Culture › Re: Abdul-Rasheed Akanbi Appointed As Oluwo Of Iwo by jkbee(m): 9:37am On Nov 10, 2015 |
Hmmmn .... No one knows tomorrow |
Education › Re: Unbelievable! See What A Primary School Teacher Is Teaching Her Pupils by jkbee(m): 3:03pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
This is the reason why students are performing woefully, and we blame it on WAEC SORRY CASE! |
Phones › Re: 15 Brilliant Things You Didn’t Know Your Phone Could Do UPDATED!!! by jkbee(m): 11:41am On Nov 06, 2015 |
Interesting  |
Politics › Re: Good News For All By NCC! by jkbee(m): 11:37am On Nov 06, 2015 |
Not only MTHen, when U call GLO customer care line, U wait till eternity before they pick it up |
Politics › Re: Pictured: Obasanjo Pays Homage To Ooni Of Ife-elect + What He Told Him by jkbee(m): 1:36pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
 DESTINY!!! My Time will surely come |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Stoke City Vs Chelsea: Capital One Cup (5 - 4) pens ON 27th October 2015 by jkbee(m): 9:26am On Oct 28, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Fani-Kayode Calls Bayo Shittu A Boko Haram Sympathiser Or A Coward by jkbee(m): 12:22pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
If the man is scared of Bokko Haram dat their party' leadership claimed they have overcome. Then who is deceiving who? With all the entourages and security operatives around these people  #God saves poor masses from deceivers! Lying KINGPIN WHAT A COUNTRY, CHILDISH LEADERS |
NYSC › Re: 10 Special Attributes About This Out Going Batch C-14 Corp Member. by jkbee(m): 10:53am On Oct 15, 2015 |
Unfortunately U couldn't get d so called increase Allawee. Tighten Ur belt for labour mkt, no time for jamboree. Apply where necessary. All the best! |