poyolski:

thanks very much,but he aspect of romance and sex, am not that good in making her fall, how can i go about it?

Question?

Seun:

How about just getting her the damn ice cream?

Perfect answer.

@topic
LOL

I'm having goose bumps

eldee:

There's no such thing as a full-time player
It's just a game. . .and that rule applies to every woman you go after with an intention to 'hit and run'
When you break it, then you lost. . .sometimes you win and sometimes lose

The thing is why the initial mindset to play? Well if u guys are going to keep at your hit & run games try upgrading your skills because many of u guys die at the very first conversation with the lady. I mean its now getting boring, smart girls can detect a player from the ooze of your first liners.

eldee:

It's just means the fun you'll get from that match will be out-of-this-world
That's where players upgrade their tactics, and if need be plan new ones
Just in case didn't know, 'Any guy can sweep any girl off her feet, he just needs the right broom'

And about KARMA, it's just a baseless explanation for ill-luck or poor planning
It doesn't always come araround. .

That broom had better be golden.

Why the brain tackling and constructive effort to win a girl prolly because u want to get into her pants when u can simply walk into a brothel

eldee:

This game is different, it's hit and run
You play it with yor heart locked up, your eyes set on the prize STREET CRED with FUN
And you quit as soon as you know you're getting too attached. . .c'est fini

It's so obvious, love is a different game, a losing one like Amy said
_{That's rule 1 in the player codes of ethics, never fall in love. . .}

Oh! lol lol . . . like u use some chains to belt it? All i'll say is woman come in different categories and i sure as hell know that from a distance u can percieve the aura around the ones u get at and make ur specimen. There will always be some set of women u would only wish u cld smell her breath. . U know those u catch with those cheap thrills.

Lest i forget.

That's rule 1 in the player codes of ethics, never fall in love

Those that made the rules, broke it first

Nah! I don't want 'extremely handsome', I'll make up for the kids And nooooo, i don't want extremely ugly too. Just lie in the middle, be my kinda guy and rock my world

Depends on who is more in love

shanda:

Yea ! no problem. But i'm going to do an irreparable damage to that place.Believe me, I'll wreck the place for her. I've already told her to come over this weekend.

Hmmn! That's if she's not going to be with the other guy

Funny, men that jump and shout about women all the time like they are some lord over them are usually the ones subjected to hit and run They claim never to fall in love just any how, yet they are lusting after any girl that strides across the street. They shout that they are best with hit and run yet they fall victim by the very girl they labeled "The Numero Uno"

@Topic
Two can play the game
Someone will always get back at ya!

ty4real:


Naaaaaaaaaaaa,on the contrary,I think it is nairaland babes that are getting more ferocious in their pursuit of nairaland guys!
Nairaland babes,Una try oooooo!The kingdom of God is by violence and na the violent dey tak am,

Hmmmmn!

tkb417:

@JK
am i seeing clearly?
u and Pataki? when did that happen?
under my korokoro eyes!
Chei!!!! ive been deceived on Nairaland. Now im going to take a leave of absence from work and resume fully here on Nairaland to see all the illegal toastings going on here.

orisirisi. . .i'll see what i'll do to your case

it wasn't me

Nna na wa o!

stillwater:

Is Pataki a spirit?

I'm wondering same ,

Pataki come out here b4 i throw u out, for u mind now u are a spirit tormenting ladies on the Land in their sleep. . . _{or can this be true?}

My Lord?

Yeah agreed premarital sex is wrong, but their are ways u know this things.

Would u be saying, admist all those smashing kissing moments u never felt something jump into action. . . oh pls give me a break!

sistawoman:

How exactly does a woman keep a man that does not want to be kept? If my husband does not want to stay in the marriage because of something unrelated to me then how is that my reponsiblity? How if I am doing all that a wife should do and living up to his expectations supposed to keep him when he is gone?

Both parties have to want this to work otherwise it will fail.

For a man to propose marriage to u. He must have wanted u badly, _{except he was pushed into the marriage out of wish} Soooo he definitely wants u for keeps which makes it an easy beginning. The manner at which u play the affair from then matters. E.g Ur ability to make ur house a home for him to always come back to, the manner at which u keep working on ur relationship so that even as u grow older he keeps getting more attached to u. The truth is when u get the keys to what gets him superglued to u, "ba whahala" cos marriage is just another phase that is soo delicate.

sistawoman:

So if my marriage fails it is my responablity and mine alone? I just can't agree with that. I think both parties have to work equally hard to keep the flame going. If i am the only one tending to the fire then i will fall asleep and it will go out.

whether u accept it or not honey, a large percentage of marital success falls on the shoulders of the woman.

I don't know why i always feel a relationship depends on a guy even tho people say its both of them involved.

My point is no matter the effort a girl puts into a relationship, if the guy doesn't want it to have a headway it wouldn't. So my believe is that relationship (i mean the whole dating exercise) is in the hands of the guy while marriage is in the hands of the woman.

"Fimisile" by Asa

"Forever" by paul play

"No one" by Psquare

"Ifunanya" by Psquare

"Ego" , by (can't recall)

"Olo mi" By Tosin martins

"Oruka" by Sunny Nneji

"African Queen" by Tuface

@Uby40

i would never woo a man , but my point still is, its not totally wrong if a girl does that, some ladies have done so and have gotten the men of their dreams. Some men are simply so tongue tied to tell their feelings. If i meet men in this position, i don't help them to speak. they'v got to let their tongues get loosened. But if another lady thinks "mehn! i like this guy and i know he diggs me too, i've got a job to do" i don't think its wrong.

My other point is no matter what scheme used as a woman, u stilled wooed a guy.

Point is whether a woman woes with God's given talents or artificial talents or Intelligence or what come may, the fact is that a man has been wooed by a woman.

All na skills to catch man

Some men simply don't have the nerve to woe,(They are tongue tied, smiling soo sheepishly and every conversation, even meaningless ones without having the balls to talk d talk. Wiping sweats at every giving moment as if courage will come ) so why not give it up for the women strong enough to get the men they want.

For the first time i'm hearing that guys call their girlfriends "mom" or "mummy". I thot that happened more with married people.

Ok, whether mama, or mum or mummy or aunty
I think the manner at which its called or pronounced does the trick

U wanted to dump her before, so why the silly plot of displaying condoms in ur box? Terrible story combination Lucky lady, she's gone for good!

Thanx to all of u!!!

U are all appreciated.

@Antidote
I love u my sis, lots of hugs and kisses U know i got u, boo

@Twinny
My troublesome brother with the calmest voice, how do u manage that how can i do without u, Happy birthday to u too.

@Busta
thanx sweetie

@JennyK
Thanx honie

@nana
sweet darln thanx so much

@TKB
I aint gonna send u e-rice but real one. Thanx bruv. U are a great, great buddy.

AWWWWWWWWWWW!

thanx guys!!!

I really appreciate u all.

@Bolarge
Thot this was a joke, You are such a wonderful person. Thanx for making my day!

@TKB
Cutie, You are the best. Thanx darl

@Antidote
If my sister's in trouble so am i. We've been so much good sisters to one another. I'm grateful to God that the moral support we give each other has always come in handy. You're the best of the best of the best. Thanx for the shoulders always provided. You are Ace!

@Zignor
Why are u mad? Hope u are good How's Easybaby?

I love, love , love waist beads or chain, it makes u look hot & sexy.

My boo only says "just don't make it show when dressed"

tkb417:

@JK
i dey toast u, u no gree, wetin u wan make i do
na virgin get me now

hmmn! Sha rora.

Chai guys know wetin good, " Announcement TKb In search of a Virgin"

@Topic
I think guys generally prefer working class cos they are more matured and independent. The thing is be a "smart working class girl, so u don't fall in the hands on stingy hunters".

Since u love him then stop asking people's views. Cos for me I'l NEVER!

U know what to do man. Tell ur old girl off & be firm about it.

Why testing

Women don't just hate, maybe there's something about u, ur attitude, ur look or ur colour.

Nigerian women don't hate south Africans, Kapish!

~Antidote~:

Well said, Maybe she did have ulterior motives, maybe not. The point is she stayed for 3 years and dealt with his "playa " ways. Relationships are very difficult, and both partners need to commit equal amount of time to endure it works. Yes, sometimes they work, sometimes they don't. Such is life. But if I decide to date someone, it is going to be for the long hault. Why stay in, endure the hard times, then as soon as things are about to turn around, I quit? It makes no logical sense,

Why are u people thinking she could have ulterior motive. The thing is she could have condoned his flirtatious behaviors simply because she was hooked on him and so in love. But there comes a time when a woman can't take it no more, and most times that's when the guy becomes dedicated & serious. When a woman is fed up, no begging can change things except God wants it to happen.