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That guy down there, that makes me tick

"A wonderful investment opportunity" Are u spreading yahooism?

Its good to have felt both "joy" & "pain". So u can know the value of life.

i'm not happy with this

helooooooooooooooooooo

Of all the men in the world?

@Chucks4real
I was never in support of her going back to her 'ex. I have no reason to go back & forth. Check the posts i made earlier, its not so difficult to figure out.

@ Olanajim

I'm not turning this into a gender issue. I quite understand ur point of view perfectly. There's just a "but" there. Many of our parents have patched things up for long and lived in failed marriages. They simply choose to be stuck to it because of their children. I often hate it when i hear "My happiness are my children not my husband" Things have so changed for us that we don't have to subject ourselves to "backwardness" Many of our parents had no choice and so preferred to stick with an undignified marriage. But we are in the era of choosing a life partner ourselves. She has not married before, so why shld she now pick someone that does not worth calling a husband. She has a right to be happy herself. I think u should put urself in the lady's shoes.

Happiness matters a lot & goes a long way. I'm of the opinion that "many times the angel is better".

@Aj u are really right on this

[quote author=d_oracle link=topic=126221.msg2138148#msg2138148 date=1207814698]Of all the prophets and teaches of Isreal, why did it have to be Jesus Christ?[/quote]Never in his dreams can he be compared to Jesus Christ. Just leave the story of Jesus out of this. I mean is Pastor Chris the only one? How many atrocities have u seen woven round the likes of Oyedepo, Adeboye and some other respectable men of God. He is fake from his head to his toes. I shiver at the sight of men that are so kin of artificial beauty. Talk more of a man of God I'm sure God Isn't proud.

Yes! True God said "Judge not"

But this same God has giving us the brain to decipher good from bad.

"There is no smoke without fire"

Amongst the many pastors in Nigeria why shld it be him always on headlines for some atrocities. There's got to be something fishy.

U give up being scared when u find the right girl u can't afford missing.

I don't have pics joh, i'm scared of snapping myself. The holy spirit just only whispered to me how i look. Or u want ur computer to explode nah! i won't be responsible for that.

Now don't murder this topic

[quote author=®~^Sly^~® link=topic=125822.msg2135488#msg2135488 date=1207747105]------------->[/b]JkPretty

They say ''[b]ladies first'' . . . . . .show us your pretty face. . .it has got nothing to do with being ''Shy''

I am patiently waiting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [/quote]Now u've arrowed me to death faint. So no pics for u.

--------> Back to sender Sly

Not everybody with heads have brains.

Some people are so overwhelmed by fame & popularity. Na dem sabi

@ Sly

Nah! lets say "i'm a shy girl". But i didn't diss the young lady now.

Now u show me your pic & prove your head aint any bigger

Why shld she lie for the fear of loosing u? And so is it better now at this stage & age of life? Did she expect a miracle, people don't cease to amaze me. The fear u run away from always comes back to hunt u.

When i first meet people (especially a guy i think i might get interested in), that is one of the first questions i ask. I'm AS too, and my mum had screwed that into my head since i was a teenager to ask that question first & be sure. And that has helped me a lot not to fall in love with the wrong person. AS peeps are quite fewer in number compared to AA which makes things better for all of us.

The medical solution is a deadly one which is testing the genotype of the foetus while the mother is still carrying it. The result of the genotype will let u know whether to abort the baby or not. And at that u are posed to gamble with the life of your wife, which isn't advisable.

Going ahead to marry her is a wrong idea, altho some people tend to be lucky in gambling. But i don't think u shld plunge in that direction.

i was going to make the diagram analysis but i know u shld have heard this lecture all your life.

Good luck in your decision. You could go to the health section for more help.

Its a pity we can't see plenty people's pics here, we for laugh tire!!! Least we'll see those in the position to yap other people's beauty.

@Topic
She aint bad

More quality actions less talks

why all this insensitive talks sef!

Why should the men always eat their cake & have it. The ex has proved to be everything not worthy to be called a husband yet because she has two kids with him, she shld go back? To what exactly, to abuse? Infidelity in marriage? a glorified husband?

I can't understand why she has to patch things up. Is the reason to be called a "good mother" and then have a life of regret?

For the Ex:
It is only normal to want something u've lost back, many men are jealous and will not want to live with the fact that their ex has moved on in live. They would always want to be the sole heir of their life. For how long will he cope with your friend & restart his randy activities? Do u think he has actually changed? Can your friend cope with an unsatisfied commitment filled with abuse all her life. Why do we have to condone flirtatious habits from men? I can't jeopardize my future happiness to some worthless man. If i were in your friend's shoes, I'm moving on with the new man ready to accept me & my kids.

For the new man:
You don't meet angels everyday of your life, How many men in Nigeria today is ready to accept u & your two kids? How many will do that on this forum sef. Yet is is said that u go back. Go back to what in particular? Oh! the kids, i think that's the best thing your ex ever gave to u. Now take those joys u brought to the world & move on with your new man.


As for those asking "what the mother of the new man will say, marrying a mother of two":

We are talking about a man here, not a boy.

Amongst the many problems Nigeria has got. The matter of contraceptives comes to the mind of the government the most. Hmmn! surely we need to wipe out the overaged people in government or replace their brains with new ones.

Is this topic re-stating itself

Now this is boring!

Chivalry still exists, it could be far-fetched but it exists, even in Africa Nigeria. Yes i can testify to that for sure. A man respecting his partner is one thing and at the same time being courteous and chivalrous is unquestionably rare but a wonderful package.

Do it if ur partner's worth it.

It mustn't die.

As long as its not by force

What has pics got to do with it I make friends here based on posts not by pics.

sillyboy:
It doesnt work believe me. You guys can be great buddies and leave room for friendship "upgrade" when u are still far apart. then when you guys are closer to one another, you can start the relationship proper.

But it's all sh*it. . . . . . . Even relationship with close proximity still sucks, talkless of a long distance one

Exactly!

I bail out of long distance thingy, looks like u are dating an invisible person. Ur imaginative spirit need to be at work here. Lots of imagination to do. And a strong mind too.

nossycheek:
. At 14+ she obviously knows nothing

Nah! i knew a lot at 14, i just knew that having a boyfriend then wasn't quite a good idea. Plus which house would he come looking for me?

@Topic
I just see ur sister's case like wanting to go with the flow. Better u stop her now or report her to ur parents lest she loses count of the people she has dated before long.

Move on with the new guy. Many times the angel is always better.

My Big cousin married a woman that went thru ur friend's predicament. In her case too the first guy she lived with wasn't a legal marriage. She had two kids also & the called hubby treated her like trash. She had to leave before she got killed. She met my big cousin several years later. They both fell in love and they'v been happily married ever since. She has three kids for my cousin now. I could never believe my cousin would marry her, altho u could hardly tell she had drops kids then, but later i saw in her a good woman. And i saw more of what my cousin fell for. She has five kids altogether now & they are all doing fine. My cousin even took over sponsoring the education of the second child from his wife's first union (he as graduated now). I'm sure that woman has a fulfilled life. I'm thinking there couldn't have been anyone better for my cousin.

Once a guy has pushed u to the wall, & u thot it well before u took a walk. Don't allow any sweet talks he comes up with especially after several years turn u in again. Tell ur friend to move on & not look back. My 2 kobo.

Point is most of those remarrying never want it that way. They'lld do anything to have just one marriage. Circumstances changes plans.

I pray to marry once, in my lifetime tho.

Loosers who hide behind the computer, pretending to have a good life

Egocentric people

Haters

Improper dressing (more like color riot)

Talkatives

Lazy people

Backbiters

Dumb brains

Flirts. etc.

Islander i couldn't agree more

Sorry, Islandar & Islander aren't the same person. Note this!

jassie:
A romantic person is actually a liar, a chameleon. He/She tells you what you want to hear even though its not true

We are not talking about sugar coated tongued people here.

@ Topic
A man of Actions with sweet surprises and less of words.