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This is why it is important to carry out DNA tests immediately after birth so that in the event of confirmed paternity fraud, the man would take his time to decide whether to accept the child as his before bonding with the child.

The psychological effects does not only affect the child in question but also the man! Many men; including myself, love children so much. Discovering that the child isn't theirs biologically after years of bonding can have devastating effects on the man as well as the child.

So, to prevent such psychological trauma, paternity should be determined early in life before the man and the child could bond. The man would now decide acceptance of the child or rejection. I know there are many men that would still accept such child regardless of paternity.

I hope he'll remain loyal and submissive to her o! Whites don't have forgiveness in their dictionaries o. Any major disloyalty from you she'll kick you out if you're lucky or shoot you if you're not so lucky.

Those people dey get crase for head o

Whites can only marry blacks for two reasons:

1. Domination and Control
Blacks generally have this inferiority complex when they're with a white man or lady as the case maybe. This makes it easier for the white partner to establish total domination and control of his/her black partner. Of course, they can't get such level of subservience from their own race, so the control freaks among them look for black men or women to marry. So as a black guy or lady dreaming of marrying whites, just know what you're signing up for and be ready to know your place and submit.

2. Fame or wealth

A white man or lady may also consider marrying blacks who have achieved fame or wealth and who stands out among fellow blacks eg, football stars, musicians, business moguls, politicians etc.

It is rare to find a white man or lady who is genuinely in love with his or her black partner. They'll rather stick to their race when love is the yardstick for marriage ie for those of them who are not homosexuals

Many families give birth to all girls nowadays, yet nairaland pseudo feminists would argue that the number of men and women in Nigeria is equal. Aside that many families now birth all female offsprings, men also face more risks and crisis thus dying more than women. So, we have far more women than men in Nigeria!

Anyways, happy birthday to you "dorling", many more successful years ahead.

The level of evil in Anambra is mind boggling! This is what you get in a society where money is worshipped! Money is controlled by the evil spirit called mammon and those who worship money also worship mammon! This explains why such people are full of evil just like our Anambra brethren

sleek214:
But these guys made some money na, why are some of them looking this way? Make Una forget all this talk of " I played/represented Nigeria, Nigeria suppose look after me" we all represent Nigeria in different ways... Civil Servant dey represent Nigeria, Teachers dey represent Nigeria, entrepreneurs dey represent Nigeria in their own ways...

Civil servants receive pensions and gratuities when they retire!

I support that our footballers should be taken care of when they retire. They should be receiving pension at least. These are men who used their youthful energy to play football for Nigeria. They should be treated like retired soldiers who also served the country with their youthful energy!

Kudos to you Taribo West for speaking the truth to power. This is why many Nigerians find it difficult to be patriotic to this nation

This is the kind of problem we see in a country where the government does not take issues of pharmaceutical regulations seriously! A country where the government thinks it is proper for untrained person to open and sell medicines solely for the purpose of profit-taking.

In the west from where we learnt orthodox medicine, problems like this rarely exists because they thoroughly regulate medicines use. The flow should go from doctors-pharmacists and from hospitals to pharmacies and vice versa. We shouldn't have untrained people sell medicines indiscriminately just for profits for whatever reason! If anyone wants to argue about economic benefits to the traders, there are several other commodities such traders can sell and not medicines. We shouldn't sacrifice the lives of Nigerians for the economic benefits of a few individuals!

The problem of indiscriminate sales and use of over-the-counter sex enhancers reminds of similar problems which many Nigerians and government don't seem aware of; this is the problem of antibiotics and antimalarials resistance! In Nigeria, many antimalarials and antibiotics no longer work in treatment of malaria and bacterial infections due to misuse fuelled by unregulated use. Antibiotics and antimalarials fail overtime in nations where they're used indiscriminately. Nigeria does not produce many of these drugs but are not conscious of rational use.

So, in solving this problem overall, government should tighten regulations. Patent medicine dealership by untrained people should be scrapped while qualified and regulated pharmacists should dispense these medicines under strict prescription by trained prescribers like medical doctors, dentists and other licenced prescribers. Medicines should not be sold just for profits! In stead, rational use of medicines should be prioritised and practiced in the country. By so doing, we can have how medicines are used in checks and prevent not only the problems of public health burdens from adverse effects of medicines but also the economic consequences of subsidising antibiotics and antimalarials most of which are imported from other countries since we don't produce them.

Ganjafama:
Because a girl rejected you years ago and finally accepted you when she's in her 30s, you wanna waste her time and jeopardize her chances of getting hooked. You gonna learn the hard way. 😎😎😎

Let her bring on whatever trouble she wants to bring, I'll put her in her place without hesitation. I'm not in the league of weak guys that fear women.

Sex is better enjoyed with a willing lady. It baffles me that some guys resort to raping, especially children for crying out loud. Bargain for consensual sex with adults and allow kids grow.

EbereGod:
It's fallacious to say that all men cheat.
Truth is, women cheat faster than men.
Gone are the days when women were sexually reserved, these days, many don't care.

Many Nigerian men who cheat pay for it through cash or kind, so this translates to a transactional deal when the " seller" gets the top deal.

When I see guys who brag about their sexual spree, I laugh. You're not really enjoying, she is.

Only unreasonable men brag about sleeping with women. Reasonable men understand that it is actually the ladies who USE men, not the other way round. They use men to satisfy their sexual urges and also use them for financial gains! For this reason, wise men don't allow themselves to fall so easily for women instead, they make the women earn their love and gbola rather than giving them out so cheaply.

Two months is too early to give up on government job in Nigeria. The processes of government employment in the country take long. Some take as long as a year. So, I'll advise you don't give up yet on the polytechnic job yet

goran3310:
Homosexuality is most pronounced among the black population. That's what researches say. Some research also says that the majority of single mothers are black women.Furthermore.Again research says that the majority of interracial divorces are between a black man and a white woman.So much for the quality of black men.All of what I have said is readily available on the internet and easily verified.You have to educate yourself, gather knowledge and information. The Internet is not only for watching porn and engaging in Internet crime.

The way some of you just quote the so called "research" like they're error-proof! FYI, some "research" are done and published with predetermined results because they're intended to promote an agenda

LilMissFavvy:
How will a man show up when you make zero effort about your appearance. They say she's all dressed up, but I can't see the dressing .

As for the Nigerian man, he's got nothing good to offer. Go for guys from other countries.

Keep consoling yourself. Nigerian men are the most sought-after by women of all races because most of us take very good care of our women. On the other hand, guys from other races (especially whites) usually don't dig Nigerian ladies if they're even heterosexual at all. Many of them are homosexuals thus making your fantasies of dating white men a tall dream.

KingWarri:
Omo that kind revenge na for small pikin... Let her be and move on.. no go make that girl kpai you oh...

She no fit do anything to me. I am bigger than her in everything.

Peacecore:
I dated a girl during my secondary school days. When I left for University, she got married. When I came back I saw her pregnant. She felt so bad that she invited me for a private meeting. When I arrived, she started crying, seriously confessing that she shouldn't have accepted the marriage but the whole family was on her neck and besides, the guy was madly in love with her. She was shocked to hear my response when I told her that she took the right decision. I told her that I had 6 years to study in school, and other years to settle down before thinking of marriage. I pleaded on her to channel the love she had for me to her new babe which she confessed that it was difficult to do. Up till today, she feels a different way when she speaks with me.


Though you may be 19 then buh still have miles to go. Honestly, I don't expect her to leave a seemly ready-to-marry man for a Jambite owing the fact that their time moves faster than clock, and besides there's no guarantee that you wouldn't have dumped her after all these years. The longer the relationship, the better it loses it's taste and interests.

I'm a guy but my candid advice to you is that if you're really uninterested in her to the point of marriage, let her go. Time is no longer on her side. Murder can be committed without weapons/Chemicals.

Buh if you really love her, she's still within her fertility age. If you're not too sure of that, then send some cells upstream and wait after one or two months for results before going on with the union but be as fast as possible in order not to keep her waiting, thank you.

Marriage to her is a no no! I can't marry a lady who chose another guy over me and thereafter got dumped by the guy after fvvcking her and committing series of abortion. I have my spec in women and she's no longer attractive to me due to her age. Right now, I can be in a room with her and not touch her because I don't feel anything for her anymore. I want her to decode by herself that I'm no longer interested in her. I can't tell her!

You people have not seen anything. Men of this generation have become wiser and would not subject themselves to slavery in the name of marriage.

@peacecore

Why you dey laugh? You think say na nowadays wey 14 years old children dey rush through sec school? I was already 18 when I finished sec school and by the time I approached the girl I was already 19. Boys of my age were already having girlfriends.

I'm not surprised that some simps and women wrappers here are typing jargon to defend women as usual. If the reverse was the case, they'll even applaud the lady. I don't care what any of you think sha, I just have to take my full measure of revenge. If she likes she can come for war let's see who is going to win.

softy:
She is like a live cobra or mamba snake cut in the middle.......................you wanna learn in a hard way

at bolded, for your future peace sake, for your unborn children sake, for the spiritual peace of your future wife, for continuous prosperity coming your way in the near future: LET THIS LADY CARRY HER WAHALA GO! DONT have anything to do with her, her spirit, her body, her existence. SHE is going to be the CLOG in your wheel. It is going to be disastrous at the end. Fleeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Nansense talk. Reverse the gender of the girl and myself, I'm sure you will even hail her. Y'all find your voices and condemn the man when he's the one dumping a lady. I don't bloody care all what you typed over there. If karma really exists, then I'm her own karma.

Dogalmighty17:
You were proposing love after you finished secondary school? That was not love you were proposing sir. You were proposing foolishness.

You're the one displaying foolishness here because a secondary school graduate is old enough to have a girlfriend. You think it's now that children finish sec school at 14? I was an adult when I finished sec school and I started working immediately.

Bigcowhorn:
All those people you see they poor acid or pay cultists to kill this is how it starts


When you affect somebody's life you dey mind bending way such that the person cries every day and every night payback must come

And when that pay back comes the person dishing it out to you will not care whether he or she lands in prison


Good luck!

Nansense! It's her own revenge she's getting.

Racheal45:
Bro Abeg pity am
Tell am the truth mak he no the way forward as early as possible

I no go tell directly. I go just dey give the hints but if she no code, that one concern am.

Don't mind the hypocritical society op!

Ladies want to cherry pick the traditional aspects that fit into their selfish agenda. That is why they're quick to remind us that traditional men are meant to provide for their families but fail to also realise that traditional men are free to have multiple wives and concubines!

That is why I call Nigerian ladies pseudo feminists! Because when it comes to who provides for the family, they go traditional and remind us that men should provide but when it comes to any aspects of traditional men -women relationships that favours men, they contest it with feminism.

I have always said that any man who toiled and passed through the humiliation of ladies rubbing it on their faces that they are not worthy to even have an e....rection when they're broke, does not owe his wife faithfulness in marriage. He's very much free to use his money and acquire as many women as he wants. After all, even the holy books recognise and support polygamy and men having multiple women.

So disgusting!

Pukeso

Nice one. Kudos to Peter Mbah on this one

There should also be a means of checks and balances to avoid abuse of the transport scheme

emirate9:
is it just siofra and jennyclay

No. All of them

canada123:
True , but vocation stuff or truck driving I know it’s just an example , but it’s off for me , like might make me more depressed , cause I would just dislike everyday of my life doing that. I just want a job that makes me think , use my brain, challenges me , and then I save enough money and go back to my tech and startup dream. Which I did at 20.

Hence why I’m into tech roles and hoping on Google to get back to me

Interviewed at Twitter, was rejected , Facebook was rejected, Accenture same , Scotiabank same , CIBC same , and so many big big companies can’t even remember them .

You just need to get something doing while you wait and prepare yourself very well for future interviews. I'm not implying you should give up on your tech dreams but in the interim, get something doing. Then try to find out why you have not been getting jobs you were interviewed for before, work on them and keep trying. I'm sure you'll get your dream job soonest. If there are additional tech skills you need to acquire, acquire them so as to have an edge in your future interviews. Those who persist are those who win at last.

You said you once worked and that despite not liking the job, you felt useful like a man. The problem seems to be from not getting the kind of jobs you want. In that case, I'll advise you to try getting such jobs for the time being while you still try your luck in getting your dream jobs.

I learnt that driving heavy duty vehicles pays well in the west, so why not give that a try? If you don't already know how to drive such vehicles, try and learn. You're just 28 and still has a long way and alot of opportunities ahead of you so, stop entertaining the thoughts of death. Instead, reinvent yourself and delve into other vocations that may not necessarily be engineering. You'll be surprised how you may come to love the vocation and have your story change for the better. Thank goodness you're in a society where hard work is rewarded regardless if it's white collar or blue collar job one is doing.

Arise and shine, young man!

DoctorStanley:
And suppose some of those "school mates and work colleagues" are females? How'd you feel if you were her? And will they be there at 2am or so.
This is the person closest to you.
Can't you see OP is right?

So what if you marry someone from a different professional background, would you still be talking about discussing your academics and work with her? Op is not right! People have been marrying from different social class and have done well in marriage.

DoctorStanley:
Language is also man-made but if you don't speak same language you can't communicate. Simple.
Imagine, you can't discuss with her your higher academic stuffs and school experiences because she can't relate

I don't need to discuss my academic stuff with her. There are school mates and work colleagues to discuss with. I'll definitely discuss matters she understands with her and trust me, there'll be a lot of things to discuss.

SamuraiXXX:
You're talking rubbish, what Siofra and Jennyclay were doing was just lighthearted fun and not bullying unlike what some idiats here do especially that buf_fo_on Ediko5

You are the one talking rubbish because we all read posts from Siofra and Jennyclay. Besides, who said that what guys say in retaliation is also not light-hearted?