₦airaland Forum

Guys are simply retaliating what they have taken for so long from the ladies here. Before now, ladies were abusing and disrespecting guys on this forum, especially guys who are financially struggling aka broke men. You needed to see the likes of Siofra, Jennieclay and co mocking broke men. Then came the red pill movement led by His Excellency Mr Ubunja who opened our eyes about women and their antics. We then learnt the red pill and adjusted quickly.

The ladies saw they no longer mattered to us and started campaigning against the red pill and crying about how we denigrate them on the forum. But they'll not tell you how they started the gender war.

Shawarmagirl:
OP, I will agree with you on this. Aside this 4 noble men, present any other Igbo politicians like Umahi, Uzodinma, Rocha's, Soludo, Kalu, and present Belo Turji or Sheakua, the Igbos I know very well will vote the duo instead of the other Igbo men.

Lesson: Igbos don't vote base on sentiment or tribalism. They votes base on competent.

Remove Soludo from the list!


Professor Charles Chukwuma Soludo (C.C.S) is a presidential material from the southeast!

Stop downplaying his great performances in Anambra State because you can't cover that which everyone is seeing.

DoctorStanley:
Believe the OP, life is complicated enough without marrying someone you'd then have to brush up. Besides, she could feel she had no need to be "brushed up", infact feel that as an insult - if you felt she wasn't good enough did she force you to marry her??

We're the ones complicating life for ourselves. Social strata were man-made ideology and it doesn't take much for people to adjust into new social class. It's all selfishness of humans that make them think they're in a "better" social class.

Kobojunkie:
His purpose is clearly to have a woman he can train/manipulate in the way he desires, something that rarely ever works out for them in the end.

It is not about manipulations but avoiding a situation where I'll be married to a so called educated lady who would tell me that "her money is her money alone while mine is for us". I'll rather marry an uneducated young girl whom I'm sexually attracted to and then provide her needs with my full chest.

DrMB:
Go ahead, marry outside your class, if you like dancing on quicksand. Attraction sparks, but relationship lives in shared maps, qualitative development, intentions, values, habits, and worlds.
Ignore the terrain, and when the storm hits, you’ll rediscover yourself alone, carrying burdens you never bargained for.

A man doesn't need a woman who is too smart. That is what the red pill teaches. My education and smartness will do for two of us.

DoctorStanley:
The OP has a point. It's not just you, it is not fair to the girl. Poor girl will be insecure which will lead to unreasonable jealousy. You can't discuss certain things with her because she doesn't speak that "language". You'd also be embarrassed by her grammar and lack of polish in certain circles.
The OP had a point

I'll simply brush her up and teach her English. Besides, in this time and age, most Nigerians irrespective of educational status can manage to speak English.

I'll date and marry outside my social class if I get attracted to a good girl who is not in my class. As a graduated professional, I can marry a village girl who hasn't gone to the university if she meets other things I desire in my woman, after all whether graduate or not, women still expect you to carry the family's financial burdens. So, why should I care about the educational background of the girl I'll marry? Of what benefits would that be to me?

Gboss247:
Are those countries earning 500,000 as minimum wage in there local currencies?

The amount they're earning has much more purchasing power than ₦500,000.

EmperorIsaac:
The same power that admonishes that, "...the worth of a man does not consist of the abundance of riches he has..."

When it comes to wealth, Christians are ready to speak from both sides of their mouths. Even in Bible, it was stated that '' it is easier for a Carmel to pass through the eyes of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God". But today's Christians would do anything to make money and then try to justify it with same Bible. They'll even make it seem like because of their 'righteousness', God is blessing them with wealth even when it is clear they're doing evil to acquire wealth.

I have argued with my Christian brethren that if the so called antichrist, 666 and mark of the beast is real, they do not even need to stress themselves much before everybody aligns and get the 666 mark of the beast. All they need to do is to make having the mark the only key to wealth and even the hottest Christian would take the mark and try to justify it with the Bible.

oluayebenz:
As a family, you cannot survive in those countries with those minimum you see up there.
Na confirmed slavery.

Those countries is crazily expensive

I have families who have been surviving there and even sending money here on the minimum wages! So, you cannot tell me what I know.

ewa20buredi100:
And they will use their heavy taxing system to suck it out of your wallet.

Do not judge a book by its cover.

Even with the taxes (which are still utilised for their benefits), they still earn and save more than Nigerian workers!

These countries reward hard work and is worthy of patriotism from their citizens. Minimum wage in Nigeria should be at least 500,000k especially in the present economic conditions.

Brandiebird:
Are you aesthetically pleasing? I doubt a young woman in her 20s could find a man closer to his 50s than he is his 30s; sexually attractive if he hasn’t aged well.

Regina Daniel did that and many other young girls have been doing same. When Regina Daniel got married to Ned, ignorant folks were castigating her but I think that was the best decision of her life and her mother; having experienced life and marriage better, advised her rightly to marry Ned.

Wise girls look out for men who can take good care of them and their offsprings and that category of men fall within the age range of 40s and 50s. Such men have experienced life enough and would be more gentle with her, love her more and providing for her would naturally flow as the man would not hesitate to take very good care of her. It is easier and better for a man to spend on and provide for a much younger girl than a woman in his age range. For me, I'll see women in my age range the way I see guys and providing for such women would be like providing for a competitor or a fellow man.

Dangote group should subject their drivers to drugs tests, especially tramadol! Those Hausa drivers abuse tramadol and other CNS depressants like Benzos. These drugs cause drowsiness and sedation which is why they readily sleep while driving and go off track; crushing unsuspecting pedestrians in the process.

Just some days ago, I was arguing with some people here in the southeast and they were defending this crime of drugs peddling. To think that a lady was among the loudest of them defending it says a lot about how deeply the crime has permeated the minds of my people and it's unfortunate.

Government really has a lot of work to do in educating my Igbo brethren about the dangers drug addiction poses to the society. I also think that the problem can also be traced to the fact that therapeutic drugs business is poorly regulated in the region with people freely operating the open drug markets. Some of these people don't really understand the difference between the therapeutic drugs and the drugs of abuse, so they lump the both of them together and feel that since they're allowed to deal on one, they should also trade on the other. So, I believe that a lot can be achieved in the war against drug peddling and abuse if therapeutic drug markets get tightly regulated.

omenka:
Look above and see the comments of people that were getting excited, just YESTERDAY, that the PDP is trying to bring their saviour to its fold.

The same people above who see nothing wrong with this see everything wrong with Nigeria, another sovereign state, declaring a hostile body whose leader once publicly declared "I will go to Abuja and bring back the President's head", a terrorist organisation.

I didn't read the body of the article and wouldn't waste my time trying to, but one thing I know is, these same Gringori supporters will tomorrow support this same PDP and completely forget they celebrated its "declaration" as a terror organisation.

Anything that puts the country in bad light, they support, YET, they tell you they know what's best for the country. How ironic.🤡🤡😅

But Nigerians were not suffering this much during the period PDP held sway! Can't you now see why it is natural for people to prefer PDP to APC What was the purchasing power of the naira during PDP's era compared to now? Everything under APC have gone from bad to worse and that is why people are calling for PDP. APC promised a change for better but is now offering hell to Nigerians!

Many of these Dangote truck drivers abuse tramadol and one of the effects of the drug is drowsiness. This explains why they easily go out their way and hit pedestrians on the road.

In a country that has refused to strictly control drug abuse and misuse, things like this are some of the consequences.

That's very courageous of her. This is how mortals should take the reality of death and prepare for it because it is inevitable. But the sweetness of life would not allow most people to accept the reality of death with courage like this woman has done. It is well.

Rest in peace in advance to her.

South Sudan must learn from Nigeria where Lord Luggard lumped Christian south and predominantly Muslim north together against their will and ever since the country has known no peace. US and Israel should help us split Nigeria into Southern and Northern divides, then they can send Gazans to Northern Nigeria.

After all people from Northern Nigeria have shown solidarity with Gazans since the conflict with Israel began. So, I believe they'll thrive together with the Gazans since they share the same religion. That would solve the problem once and for all.

lathrowinger:
What could be the reason of banning it. Or is there something we needs to know?

ChatGPt goes against rational thinking but promotes the culture of copying other people's thoughts which is detrimental to invention and development

Nnamdipapa:
If you already have an HND, why university? Shouldn't you be focused on skill acquisitions to solve real world problems? Most university graduates do not know their left from their rights. Have you asked yourself what a university degree will add to your life?

Who says "most" university graduates do not know their lefts from their rights Maybe such university graduates are only in your cycle. Myself, as a graduate of the great UNIBEN, I definitely know my left from my right and so do my school mates and other university graduates around me.

esthel:
You are stressing your mental health because everything you mentioned here can still be medically resolved.

Easier said than done. Many couples have done fibroid surgery yet, no child is forth coming.

Not only putting a moratorium on establishment of new universities, some of the existing ones should be merged with others to make them more functional!

This is the problem men inherit from women when they allow the woke mentality get a better part of them. If you had married a much younger girl, she would have gotten pregnant before fibroids overtake her reproductive system. NATURE DOESN'T SUPPORT WOMEN WAITING LONGER BEFORE HAVING CHILDREN

Meanwhile, this problem is very common among the woke wannabe southern Nigerians. Many couples are battling with infertility issues due to fibroids.

As you don enter the wahala, na to manage carry the cross and pray for God's intervention.

If only our politicians knew that stacking up money in banks and underground vaults would not save them from untimely deaths, they would do things right and set up a functional and corruption-free healthcare system.

How many times do we have to tell them??

Fenrir:
Seriously?

Someone feels insecure
Someone feels inferior

What race of men is currently asking black and African women all over the world "what do you bring to the relationship?" Its not us fella

It might be American white but its not European or Australian white

However it is all black men and all African

You seem to forget we still believe in traditional marriage and not that nonsense you call traditional marriage, thats a wedding and no more, marriage is everyday and every year after the wedding

The man protects and the man provides
Hes the safety and security
He pays the bills and keeps the roof over the heads

The woman brings the feminine energy that keeps you wanting to come home
Shes the peace
She gives kids
And guaranteed regular sex

You are silly silly men, well boys pretending to be men

Forget the banters we throw here with our women, an average Nigerian man is still more traditional than any European man. The problem we have with our women is that many of them seem confused about what they truly want, that is, if they really want to be traditional and play the traditional feminine roles or they want to adopt the woke western feminist ideologies.

Things would smoothen out in our relationships the day our women make up their minds on which divides they want stand.

Justice well served!

Special attention needs to be paid to the employer-employee relationship in Nigeria, especially in the private sector!
Some employers now see their employees as slaves they can humiliate just anyhow they want.

I don't even think Mr Martins himself got his federal job on merit! This underscores the rot in the federal civil service. Almost everybody got their jobs through one unjust means or another. It's either they got the jobs by paying for it or they used the connection of a politician. Both are the same because they entail giving unjust favouritism to one applicant as against others.

Tests and interviews for federal jobs these days are done just to fulfill all righteousness because the outcomes are never considered in making the final selection. Even before the sham they call interviews, they would have shared the job slots among themselves.

Pray for a total turnaround in our healthcare system and research institutions. That God would provide us good leaders who would prioritise healthcare, invest in the sector, employ more health workers, buy sophisticated diagnostic equipment and also subsidize the anti retroviral drugs....

A man should be at least 20-25 years older than his wife. That way, they'll age together and the man wouldn't have any needs to go outside in search of younger girls to cheat with. Nature favours men marrying much younger women! At their young ages, women's fertility and sexual attractiveness are topnotch. It is this "woke" generation that are trying to change the course of nature.

I can never marry or date a lady who is my age mate let alone one who is older than me. Never! I'll rather remain single than do that.

seunlayi:
They are often better.

Come this corner. Wait, if Tiwatope pick you for a relationship, you go run away? Talk truth, Na just me and you dey online

If I tell you say I no go gree for Tiwa Savage, you no go believe me.

But truth be say, I go choose a younger and fresher girl below 25yo over Tiwa Savage anytime any day! That is the way my sexual attraction swings. Hope you understand?

An old woman with wrinkled skin and stretch marks still looking for someone who just has money when much younger and beautiful girls are everywhere Abi rich men no get choice again


Rich men don really suffer in the hands of Nigerian old unmarried women! It is well!