₦airaland Forum

QuinQ:
But can she take back all the pussy she gave him? Suppose she contracted HIV in the process?

mrkings84:
So who caused the downfall of marriage??

Man or woman...

For me o, as a man. I think na woman kill marriage!!

QuinQQ:
So is this a good or bad thing?

MasterTeeUSA:
I am for real. If he can, he does not need to offer N5m and his actions and behavior should be enough to find him a reasonable girlfriend that is ready to settle down. Would you offer N5m for someone to have baby for you? Does the whole thing not sound weird to you?

MasterTeeUSA:
at 42yrs old...he has come to this. I doubt he can have children...he will just use...lets keep trying and keep having s*x for free...if you dont have his baby, no money lol...this smacks of desperation or fraud. Oga, go and adopt a child or children. You doubt he can have children at just 42? Are you for real?

lenghtinny:
How dare you call Interns students

You definitely have limited knowledge on how the healthcare profession works

Solcampbell:
Perhaps he doesn't know who an intern is. I believe he's confusing students on clinical postings with interns.

AngelSlay:
While the concern for patient safety is valid, the conversation also needs balance.

Interns in public hospitals are not simply “students being used to replace staff.” In many healthcare professions, internship is a compulsory transition stage between classroom learning and full professional practice. Doctors, pharmacists, nurses, medical laboratory scientists, physiotherapists, and others cannot become competent professionals without supervised hands-on experience with real patients.

The real issue is not the existence of interns — it is poor supervision, understaffing, and weak healthcare funding.

Public hospitals in Nigeria are often overwhelmed. Many facilities are dealing with staff shortages caused by migration of healthcare workers, delayed recruitment, poor salaries, and inadequate government funding. In that environment, interns sometimes end up carrying responsibilities beyond what should normally be assigned to them. That is a systemic failure, not proof that internship itself is dangerous.

Completely removing interns from direct patient interaction is also unrealistic. Healthcare is learned through practice. A medical doctor cannot become confident by only observing from a distance. A pharmacist must eventually interact with prescriptions. A nurse must handle patients under supervision. The key phrase is under supervision.

Many of the fully licensed professionals being demanded today were once interns who needed experienced mentors to guide them.

Rather than calling for an end to interns participating in patient care, the focus should be on:

Ensuring proper supervision by senior professionals

Hiring more permanent healthcare workers

Improving hospital funding

Creating clear boundaries for what interns can and cannot do

Holding hospital management accountable when interns are overworked or left unsupervised


Blaming interns alone risks targeting young professionals who are also victims of a struggling healthcare system. The solution is to fix the structure that forces them into roles they were never meant to handle alone. Patient safety matters, but so does building the next generation of competent healthcare professionals.

tonididdy:
Dem say na musician CHIKE awilo d bam bam scatter the tunnel wey make erosion carry the marriage

On a serious note tho...I HATE men who sleep with married women! It's a NoNo in my books

cyberbro:
Personally, as a 30+ guy, I wouldn't date such age, but I observe that some of those youngins are sometimes the best. Some of them could be really mature for their age. I don see many 30+ dey behave like JSS1 student, aswear!

If you love her, do the wise thing and marry the girl and start a family with her... no let anybody come gaslight you.

Panda7:
I opened this thread to help enlighten Other young guys on relationship choice and how your choice can positively or negatively shape/define your future. As a 30year+ old man there is some reason why you should avoid dating a lady under 24years old as they say love alone is not enough to keep a marriage or relationship.
Once you clock 30years as a man, you are no longer a kid neither are you getting any more younger and these are times you should seriously be planning on raising your own family for your own good and a better old age.
I see guys in these categories date a girl who is or just barely 20years and I frown about it. Reason is except you are keeping them for just fun or you both live in the villages (I mention village because girls in the villages tends to legally marry and give birth earlier than those in the urban areas) So my reason is that girls around these age are not mentally, psychologically or even physically ready for marriage unless you have money to woo her family and also be able to keep and control her.
So if you go ahead to invest your resources and time to date a lady who is lesser than 24 years then you should understand that the chances of commitment and reaping off your investment is quite and very slimmer which means you might have to wait till your late 30's to get anything tangible. Secondly, girls at these age will mostly never mastered demanding skills which would help you both in raising a family.
But being with a lady who is up to 26years, she is already thinking about settling down, must have acquired working skills and have learnt one or two about life.
Your opinions are welcome.

dominique:
A lot of Nigerian girls that size get married to talk slim men. The lady in question is not that big

TotoSuckker:
What if the husband is not doing a good job of satisfying her, do you expect her to die in silence?

bobogogo:
Never call any woman an angel.
You are still fresh in the game.
I wish you the best.

Lovit:
Las las na the woman go lose

The politician will now avoid her to protect his political image; he can't even wife her. The husband will definitely divorce her

JOAofAfrica:
Blame your wife not the man.