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Both of them are not serious! Differences in religion --llet alone denomination, should never be a ground for marital issues or divorce! Didn't they discuss it before marriage?

Samantha125:
The best husbands in Africa indeed...🤣🤣🤣

And they'd come back asking SA men for help whenever things don't workout for them and their best men in Africa...🤣🤣🤣... Always expecting SA men to come to their rescue.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dxtFgKeAEB8?si=JNJNo2dm3ZIXGZxJ

SA men that have not been able to help themselves Mind you, I specifically mentioned Igbo men in my post because they're the best of the best in taking care of their wives! Check marriages between Igbo men and SA ladies, you'll see that in most cases, the SA ladies are happier!

Samantha125:
You mean these SA ladies?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HaesWqB_-U8?si=qMVnprH1U2amwjDH

She was threatening to have your brother arrested after only giving her $20... ... Girl wanted more money and when we tell you guys of how they're only after your bag, you'd accuse us of making up stories due to jealousy...

I knew I'd see you here! If not that I'm taken, I would have asked to marry you so that you'll come and experience the peace, love and care we Igbo men are known for so that you can stop being jealous of your lovely SA sisters who are enjoying their marriages to Igbo men.

We are the best husbands in Africa!

As if he believed in heaven and hell in the first place! Just another deceiver who uses religion to cover up his atrocities in and outside politics!

obinna58:
Earth population is not enough for you. overpopulated African populating even more and more

Population is not a problem in this part of the country! Our people are fast adopting western lifestyles whilst we lack quality healthcare. Life expectancy is abysmally low! What does that tell you? We need to keep reproducing to avoid an impending extinction!

This is what I keep telling them!

Once a girl is up to 18years, should look for a husband, marry and after that you may consider going to school and chasing career

I love the USA!

I love the state of Israel!

I love Donald Trump!

I love Benjamin Netanyahu!

Say no to terrorism!

Cheating

Disrespecting me and my family

MissTemi1:
Death shall take your soul. I see u being buried

Death is an inevitable end for all mortals! While I'll die and be buried at my ripe old age, I see you dying miserably in your youth before this year runs out!

#i see the spirit of death hovering all over you! It didn't just stop with you but your loved ones! Death is seriously knocking on your doors this year!

She's among the lucky ones who manage to live long in this our hellhole country where healthcare has been bastardized by the government!

If you go to the developed countries where healthcare is a top priority, they have a large population of old people! In such countries, living up to 120years is not uncommon, but here in Nigeria, life expectancy is abysmally low. Good thing is that even the political class is not spared. Check the number of serving senators and members of house of representatives that have died from 2023, you'll see that many of them were below the age of 65years. This is not a coincidence but a reflection of our failing healthcare system!

Go to our public hospitals in this country, many of them are more or less like slaughter houses due to gross shortage of health workers, lack of modern equipment and an increasing decline in standards!

It doesn't take much for government to fix these problems but they've shown little to no political will to revamp the system! We train healthcare professionals but fail to engage them upon graduation until they're poached by working nations such as the US, UK, Canada, Australia, Europe and even Saudi Arabia! It's a shame!

RIP to you, mama! You were lucky!

They're members of the Nigerian chapter of the world terrorists network!

I expect the US consulate in Nigeria and antiterrorism groups to take note of those guys involved in the protests and treat them like terrorists they are!

Say no to terrorism!

kiddaz:
You are always fond of defending these girls, be like you no get experience with them cos if you do you wouldn't be doing this superman thing always. See forget her story of the guy making a video without her consent, its all lies. That's even difficult to do because you can't predict the angles she would be in to get it clear. I met a girl and she came out of town to see me. This is a girl getting ready to marry someone in the next month oo... I did not know until she came over. We were playing before the match and I was doing something on my phone with one free hand when she asked "are you making a video" which I said no. then she suggested we do it and keep it recorded. Na she even set the phone for better angle, climb me, dey grind like prnst* and after the show she watched it and requested we do more. I had no issues. After she left I still deleted it. A girl getting married in a few weeks did all this oo so what about the ones who no even get serious guy? I don't even want to mention the video sex with different women some whom I later got to find out were married with kids and I had to run. You better stop defending them. Most women love nasty things but pretend otherwise to guys like you that they are pretty little princesses while in reality they are just the daughters of Lilith

Abi o. You might be right that some of them do those nasty things on their own volition.

Serves her right! Next she'll be careful with the kind of men she dates. Many of you ladies choose to date and marry some senseless douchbags for whatever reasons best known to you.

Sirchiboy:
I no get money.
Shishi.
Givee job so I fit hustle the money

Like I said before, you'll start receiving blessings from the universe when you have done what I told you to do. It'll not be potent if you do it with money someone dashed you. Hit the streets, go to construction sites and hustle the money.

Sirchiboy:
OK sir, send me money let me do it now

Do it from your little savings, even if it is your last money. That's how it works!

Sirchiboy:
How does this thread relate to me.
If actually you care about me then run 1 mm for me to take your words seriously

For you to start receiving blessings from both God and men, you have to first cultivate the habit of caring for your parents and loved ones!

From the little resources you have right now, buy a tangible gift (eg a wrapper )and take it to your mother, give it to her with your whole heart and receive her "thank you" and blessings. Extend same to your father and ensure to maintain that by giving them gifts from time to time. Completely erase that thought in your mind that your parents' not giving you heaven and earth is the reason for your financial misfortune. When you have done the above, you'll start receiving blessings from the universe!

Make you no go kpai your parents one day because you blame them for your life's predicaments.
Sirchiboy, I have told you severally that you can never make it in life by this continued blaming of your fair mother and your father!

Your parents owe you nothing from the moment you become an adult at 18yo. Many men from that age of adulthood don't even wait for hand outs from their parents anymore. They start hustling and even providing for the family!

One secret of successful men is that they take responsibility for providing for others especially for their parents and loved ones! That is why I keep warning you that your blaming your parents instead of taking responsibility for your life would rather keep you poor and stagnated. To think you're 50yo yet don't know all these things is pathetic!

ChilliPepper:
What of if the man come do DNA test and the pikin come be him own?

He'll be sure that the child belongs to him. He'll trust and love his wife more, a win-win for the man and his wife.

His days are numbered unless he's ready to toe the path of peace and shun terrorism.

P1PrinceKT:
Surah At-Tur (52:20)
“Reclining on thrones lined up, and We will marry them to fair women with large, [beautiful] eyes

Surah Ar-Rahman (55:56–58)
“In them are women limiting their glances, untouched before them by man or jinn —
So which of the favors of your Lord would you deny?
As if they were rubies and coral.”

Surah Ar-Rahman (55:72)
“Houris confined in pavilions.”


I believe in Hurul iyn.

Because it's mentioned in the Quran. And I am Muslim I Follow Quranic teachings....


What is your problem again?

Hmmmmm.....so this 72 virgins stuff is actually in the Quran? I used to think it was just fabricated to taunt Muslims! Wonders shall never end!

Y'all were bragging before now about how invincible Ayatollah was! The likes of madridguy, freestuffng and their cohorts were telling us how impossible it was for Israel and America to kill the grand terrorist! Alas, he has been eliminated and the world has gotten rid of an evil man!

boxypane:
War is scary. Whatever the crimes of the Daugter and other members of his family was.

Their crime is that terrorist ideologies run in their heads and bloods!

Kudos to the American and Israeli forces that carried out this operation to rid the world of the evil Ayatollahs!

Anything to remove terrorists from the surface of this earth is noble and commendable!

What's this one saying

Government should make DNA tests mandatory before birth certificate is given out to the child's parents.

This is a cheering news!

Kudos to the State of Israel!

Kudos to the USA!

Kudos to Benjamin Netanyahu!

Kudos to Donald Trump!


Finish all the terrorists!

Go Israel!

Go USA!

Finish them!!!

I honestly don't know what is wrong with ladies! They'll abandon the guy who truly loves them and ready to go the extra miles for them and literally force themselves on the men who care less about them. When they start seeing shege in their marriage that is when their brains reset.

President Trump, please look the way of Nigeria! We need your intervention to split Nigeria into 3 manageable nations so that that the people can be free and establish true democracy! We need to build a nation we can be proud to bequeath to our unborn generations!

Splitting Nigeria would help to stop the mass migration of Nigerians to the west and curb the desperation of Nigerian youths to acquire wealth through fraudulent and illegal means. When a better country that caters to the needs of the people is built, youths would no longer be desperate to acquire wealth through illegal means!

We need a new nation because Nigeria is gone!

Every Nigerian is a potential kidnap victim, so your last paragraph is one of the major reasons Nigerians are running away!

Also, there's a lot of uncertainties about Nigeria's political future! The southeast (Igbos) have been repeatedly denied the presidency of Nigeria and even told that they don't belong. Our youths are systematically marginalised and denied jobs and promotions in Nigeria. They have to work extra hard to even gain admission into public schools in a country that is supposedly theirs !

Given the foregoing, it is a smart move for Igbos to relocate their children and families abroad where they could have a level-playing field to thrive. Many of them have succeeded in making names for themselves in various walks of life abroad; from education to healthcare, entertainment, research, armed forces etc. They were able to achieve such feats abroad whilst they could not in Nigeria!

So you see? The gains of japa is far more than whatever disadvantages there is in it.

Reading through this epistle, several clues gave it out as a fake story but many nairalanders who responded earlier didn't even notice that it's a made up story.

You escorted your wife to the airport and saw her take off alone yet you said she confessed to traveling to Ghana with a lover!

When you claimed you called her friend, the tone you said her friend responded to you is not typical of a friend. If this story was true, I'm sure that immediately you called the friend and started asking about the wedding, a typical Nigerian friend would decode that something was amiss and tried to play along to cover up for her friend.

Etc

Peter Mbah of Enugu State


Alex Oti of Abia State

The federal government should rise to the challenge of fixing our healthcare sector to reverse this ugly trend. We have all it takes to provide the best healthcare services to our people and even earn forex by extending our services to people from all-over the world!

Government needs to be intentional about improving healthcare in Nigeria. They need to speed up some initiatives already on ground such as the MEDSERVE established to provide expert healthcare services for those with critical conditions like cancer and severe cardiovascular diseases. If this is done and people can readily access such high-powered services in the country, the bulk of the expenditures on forex would be reduced.

There's also the 'japa' syndrome which has seen many health workers leaving the country in search of better opportunities. Government has to put incentives in place to encourage our health workers to stay in the country. This can be done by ensuring that attractive pay packages are available for all cadres of health workers and that a system is put in place to ensure a continuous replacement of health workers who are retiring or resigning from our hospitals and other health institutions. Many of our public hospitals are currently suffering from a gross shortage of health workers and this places so much burdens on the few available hands since hospitals run 24-7.

Government also needs to ensure industrial harmony in our public hospitals by keeping to agreements it enters with any of the professional groups in our hospitals.