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Nonsense!
This man must think that we are all f0,,,0*lz. You sent your cult colleagues to go and disrupt the lawful gathering of Peter Obi and other ADC members and now you think you can bamboozle us with this lie of internal dispute?

A known agbero that only benefited from the crude politics in APC to become governor via rigging!

Okpebholo has unleashed his cult colleagues!

When I said it that Okpebholo demolished NBM house in Benin because he belongs to a rival cult, some people doubted me!

That's the same man that claims he's fighting cultism!

This is why Nigeria has remained in perpetual state of underdevelopment and corruption. You can't claim to fight a perceived vice while on the other hand you're encouraging same because you want to benefit from it. It doesn't work that way!

Merry100:
You get. They can't stand successful women. You know what, they leave their environment, and run to the village to find a wife, or chase women selling fruits and peppers on the street. As long as she is successful, whether they are attracted to her or not, they take to their heels.

You just like spreading falsehood just to feel good! Men are not afraid of any so called successful women! They just go for what they find attractive! Before most ladies achieve success, they must have overgrown that age of youthfulness and sexiness. That is why most made men don't marry such ladies but would rather go for the younger girls with everything still intact.

Merry100:
Next time, don't justify ego with myths. Use data.

You are confusing "still capable of reproduction" with "fathering healthy children." Fertility isn't just about making a baby; it is about the probability of a healthy pregnancy and a healthy child.

Male fertility does decline with age. The idea that a man's fertility is unaffected until 70 is false. From 35-40 onward, sperm motility drops, DNA fragmentation rises, testosterone gradually declines, and time to conception lengthens. By the mid 40s and beyond, advanced paternal age is linked to higher risks of miscarriage and certain neurodevelopmental conditions in offspring, including autism and schizophrenia.

Yes, men can father children later in life; but that does not mean fertility is unchanged. A 25 year old and a 55 year old do not have equivalent sperm quality or reproductive risk profiles. Ability ≠ optimal reproductive health.

Biology is clear: aging affects reproduction in both sexes. Men produce sperm continuously, but continuous cell division increases mutation rates over decades. Yes, women experience earlier fertility decline because women are born with a finite number of eggs. The decline is gradual, not sudden, so most women conceive naturally well in their 30s.

Why not stop spreading weak sperm and putting innocent children at risk?

I'm sure that even you might have been given birth to when your dad was already above 50! My dad had 9 children and about 5 were given birth to when he was already 50! This is also obtainable in many homes! Some of our brightest siblings were born when our dads were in their late 50s to early 60s. In fact, it took the intervention of older siblings and other concerned relatives to prevail on many fathers to stop birthing children at their older ages. This fact disproves your claim that old age has significant effects on a man's fertility or on the health of his offsprings!

PappyRome:
The earliest people start seeing DNA test as something that is not real especially in a country as backward as Nigeria, the better for people to live in peace with their family.

It's surprising when you here some certain things about DNA results and people are just quick to accept it. How can you be with a woman that will give you 3 kids and later you say DNA test shows all are not your kids. Does it make sense? How can a woman live with you for so long as to give birth to 3 kids under your roof while these pregnancies are not yours.

Hospitals have been the biggest scam so far so if you still believe this DNA stuff is 100% accurate then you must be a total FOOL

You're making no sense!
Some ladies marry for convenience because the man is rich and can sort her financial needs. Such ladies might not even find the man attractive at all and for this reason, they decide to select genes from other men they consider as handsome and attractive. They make babies with the men they find attractive while relying on their husbands for finances!

It seems you have not yet come to terms with the fact that many women are cruel to the marrows. You still see all women as innocent and weaker vessels. You'll still learn!

Host78:
A man will go for beautiful.

Working class? It's except that man is in doubt of his ability to cater to the family alone.

If you put a very beautiful model who is jobless and an average working class woman, 90% of men would pick the pretty face with all things being equal.

Men would only consider a lady's job if he's convinced he can't take care of the new family alone.

You're very correct!

Men prefer beauty, sexiness and youthfulness than a lady's money, education and connections! Only men who are looking for a lady to upgrade them go for a lady's money! Most made men don't care about a girl's wealth, education or social status provided he considers her beautiful and sexually attractive

Merry100:
Social and cultural norms influenced marriage age patterns. Historically, men were expected to be older than their wives due to financial stability and inheritance norms, which reinforced the trend of men marrying younger women.

Many stereotypes about fertility and older wives are rooted in ignorance and outdated beliefs, rather than biological necessity. Recent research shows that fertility is a shared issue, with age affecting both men and women. Even a healthy 20 year old woman could face challenges if her husband is 40 or older, because male age can impact sperm quality and pregnancy outcomes.

In modern, urban, highly educated, and egalitarian societies, the age gap in marriage has shrunk and continues to shrink. For example, in Sweden and Norway, up to 20% of marriages feature wives older than their husbands.

Globally, about 60-75% of marriages have the husband older, 10–20% are about the same age, and 15-25% have the wife older.

In high-income Western countries, husband older marriages are 55-65%, with wife older marriages around 20-30%.

In regions like South Asia and Sub-Saharan Africa, husband-older marriages are more common (75-90%), while wife older marriages are usually under 10-15%.

Men marrying women older than them is far from rare especially in enlightened environments.

Stop spreading falsehood here just to make yourself feel better. Old age has little to no effects on a man's fertility! A man should have reached the age of 70 and above before the supposed effects of age on sperm manifests and this effect does not even stop him from impregnating a fertile woman!

This is different from women whose fertility starts declining as early as 30yo in some cases.

At a time we are trying to discourage men from birthing too much children, this fallacy you feminists are spreading will only end up encouraging men to continue birthing even at old age in order to prove virility and this would definitely have negative effects on population!

After 65 years of independence, Nigeria still tops the charts in all the negative indices of modern life!

Electricity, healthcare, security, economy etc are still nothing to write home about in this country!

What a shame!

I laugh at those of you who are seriously responding to Mr cocck ! That's a good way of knowing those that just got registered on NL recently!

Veterans already know the guy!

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delpee:
People married with low incomes in the past and worked hard together to build their homes successfully over the years. The problem may be that most people want perfection before committing to marriage now. Sadly, it means more people will stay single longer or never marry.

Spot on!
People have simply become greedier than before. The other day one guy was crying here that he's depressed and contemplating suicide because he has only 10 million in his account and two plots of land in his late twenties!

That's the kind of mindset youths of this generation now have! We have been so brainwashed to believe that we must be bastardly rich before marriage! In the past, people married when they had little to nothing and then build wealth with their better halves. It is said that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God. This statement translates to mean that when two people come together in marriage through love, they think up ideas together, work together and build wealth together because like the saying goes; two good heads are better than one!

HowDareU:
Please stop this nonsense of stereotyping people (both male and female alike) as failures even if you the OP will not admit it. Marriage as not an achievement.

Now, as a married man, if you can't

1. Instill moral values on your kids, you are a failure
2. Pay rent, school fees, etc, you are a failure
3. F**k for at least five minutes (bedmatic-wise), you are a failure
4. Have peace of mind as a married man, you have failed.

What am I trying to emphasize? Marriage is not for everyone. You can be a failure even as a married man or woman.

Stop stereotyping single people as failure all because they are happy being singles.

Marriage is not an achievement OK, whether for people in their 30s, 40s, 50s or 60s?

Please don't marry o, you hear?

By the time you are in your 60s, lonely with no wife nor children of your own, you'll be filled with regrets and miserable, that is when you will understand that marriage is a great achievement!

Only those who failed in marriage or cannot get someone who agrees to marry them use that line "marriage is not an achievement"!

davidtemi:
Stop saying marriage is not an achievement.
It is an achievement for me and I love my family 100%

Only those who are unlucky to get someone marry them claim that marriage is not an achievement!

If getting a partner who loves and accepts to go through life with me while birthing my offsprings and propagating my genes is not an achievement, I wonder what else is!

Ubanz:
They're still young women, I don't understand why they should be so desperate.

Young women? Would you honestly allow your sons marry women who are in that age bracket

They most likely rejected men that proposed marriage to them when they were still young believing that they would get a man at the snap of their fingers whenever they want

Girls,! Once you hit the age of 18, try and get married if a responsible man comes to ask for your hand in marriage. You can plan yourself well and have both marriage and education concurrently. You'll be saving yourself alot of embarrassment and pressures in the future.

A word is enough for the wise!

nurudeen181:
But they said she's in her apartment

I know. Just saying what others go through when they are broke and living under same roof with their parents.

buttlover:
I believe her family and neighbours caused her death. Too much hate speech, gossips and family hating on your financial incapabilities can make one run out of the community. I am far away and healing.

Honestly, I pity anybody who is of age but still remains under same roof with their parents! The embarrassment is usually too much!

This generation of ladies are hell bent on destroying the marriage institution which is the foundation upon which society is built!

From the beginning of time, marriage was supposed to be between a man who LOVES his wife and a woman who has taken an intentional decision to accept and submit to the man! The woman's "love" was never intended to be a basis for the marriage because love is expected to come majorly from the partner who bears the bulk of the family's responsibilities and which happens to be the MAN.

It is because of the great responsibilities marriage places on the man that even God admonished the man to love his wife while the woman should submit to her husband! These things are simple logic! But ladies of this generation would want to confuse themselves with their so called love (love that shies away from responsibilities). The feminist groups who advise these ladies are the ones planting that senseless thoughts about the non existing "mutual love ' as a basis for marriage!

They forget that love is hardly mutual and that if people are to wait until they found 'mutual love ', they might eventually not find any until they grow old and less desired.

SpencerForbes:
She is clearly mentally ill, no two ways about it. The crazy part is that she’s actually beautiful, and I’m sure she has thousands of simps in her DM daily. She’s probably used to all that toxic "dominant-submissive" B.S. and thought she could live that lifestyle forever.

It’s a good thing she’s facing a jail term to serve as a deterrent. These feminists will be busy raising "bad boys" and toxic teens, then they’ll turn around and blame all men for the "patriarchy" they created.

If they wanted the dominant -submissive kind of relationship where the lady is the dominant, they could easily get adult males in their clime who'll be willing to do that with them!
This one is just a weirdo who probably has pedophilia as her fetish

ibedun:
When your country borrows money from IMF and World Bank, you are forced to sign away your rights and other terms that are detrimental to your people. It is how France, Britain, Europe and USA maintains power over us. Ghana had to allow US military bases on its territory when IMF refused to bail out the economy and currency crises about 15 years ago.

We need to postpone having children until we sort out or political and economic problems.

If we postpone having children like some of you ignorantly say, we'll be setting ourselves up for extinction! Even countries with sound healthcare are still confronted with the challenges of under population and existential threats let alone one with a very poor healthcare system! Average life expectancy in Nigeria is 54years for women and 48years for men! What does that tell you

THINK

The death rate in this country is growing worse on daily basis!
Why do we hardly hear news like this from the developed countries It's simply because they take their health sector seriously unlike Nigeria that has left our healthcare sector in ruins since independence!

To attain the age of 70yo is now a luxury in this country. Too bad! This is just a reflection of how bad our healthcare system has become! Nigerians need to rise up and demand that the government should fix our healthcare! It's a shame! Stop playing politics with our healths!

Go to our public hospitals in this country and you'll be confronted with an age-long decay that has left these hospitals running like though they're slaughter houses where people go to die instead of getting cured of their ailments! From gross shortage of staff to lack of equipment and infrastructural decay! Things are going from bad to worse as the days pass and this is really unfortunate!

RIP to the dead man!

Nigerians are a very funny set of people!
I expected that all Nigerians who have suffered hardship since the inception of this administration would come out en masse and support the oppositions in protesting against that electoral act amendment bill but alas all of them chickened out and left the few guys who protested against the bill.

That clause that permits manual transmission of results was deliberately inserted so that they can capitalise on it to rig the 2027 elections! Election rigging come 2027 would have been effectively checkmated if that clause was not added! I expected even the organised labour and every other Nigerian to come out and protest but everybody just shied
away but when the elections are eventually rigged next year, they'll not let us hear something.

Kudos to the likes of Peter for Nigeria, Sowore and other guys who stood gallantly in opposition of the bill. At least they tried!

The man just wanted to intimidate the gym instructor. I'm sure that lady I'm seeing is not underaged, so unless a case of rape is established against the guy, he didn't commit any offence!

The lady must have filled in her bio data and indicated her age before being allowed to gym, so all the instructor needs is to present her filled bio data forms and this matter might just be turned against the man.

This usually happens to me after watching a comic film, especially one acted by Osuofia and/or late Sam Loco.

Even while alone, I'll be smiling to myself when I remember some funny scenes in the movie.

Gerrard59:
That is the problem - not grateful or happy where he is. The OP does not appear to be grateful for what he has achieved, and rather than being strategic about how to succeed or generate bigger revenues, he goes ballistic about other people's successes and how women disgust him. Yet him wan use masturbation finish himself.

I don't know how therapy works, and I am not too sure if it even works on Nigerians living in Nigeria, but he needs something similar or to become closer to his creator if he is religious. Something tells me he resides in the Lekki-Ajah area or Warri/Benin City axis.

Exactly! Many people don't even have a quarter of what he has yet they're happy and contented.

Op really needs therapy asap

These are the people's senators while all the other ones are rubber stamp senators who live at the mercy of APC and Tinubu. What a shame!

I'm particularly disappointed in that man called Kelvin Chukwu! A man who benefited from the people's sympathy votes to be in the senate when his brother was brutally assassinated by the tyrant of that time. We had all thought that he'll go there and stand with the people but alas, he is being used by the powers that be to oppress the people. You're a shame to your family and Nkanuland in general, Mr Kelvin Chukwu!

Even the roads in your village are begging for attention! The road linking Amorie to Uhuona Ugbawka is in pitiable state and you've been there doing nothing about it! You're failing those of us who supported you to be there!

What a disgrace you are!

gistray:
10m is less than $7k

Standard Rolex is $25k

I can't even afford 2016 honda accord.

Before I buy anything I always have 4x the cost of the thing.

Only a fooool will think he's made it with 10-50m networth.

Well I don't expect anyone below 28 years or 5 years out of university to understand me

I sincerely have 0 interest in women right now... I genuinely want to be in a relationship but the women these days are disgusting.

Even runs girls disgust me.

Anything female disgust me

Obviously, your problem is GREED and if you don't work on that by living a life of contentment, you'll continue being miserable even in the midst of plenty! And mind you, mazturbation is NOT your problem! The majority of guys who have attained reproductive age without being married (even some married men) do it and are still doing well in their vocations! Don't let anybody guilt trip you!

IPDGP:
You were raped and first thing is to come online and publicize it,
Somethings should be kept private.
Abi u wan use this too trend

Publicising it will help her get help fast. I wish the 1di1ot that did this to her is caught and incarcerated!

I wonder what some guys enjoy in rap1ng girls! Forced sex is the most tasteless kind of sex ever! It's better to mazturbate than to ra?pe! Only the lowest of guys do that!

Nothing beats sex between mutually consenting adults with great chemistry between them.

I completely support the ban because from experience, those stuffs they package in sachets and sell to people are highly poisonous!

As a guy man, I have tried some of them on a few occasions and the experiences were unsavoury! It's better for a guy man to take just a few bottles of beer and chill than taking those packaged poisons!

tunjijones:
This Enugu government is trying not like the Cho Cho Cho one in Abia state without any evidence.

Because the Abia governor never join APC?

Kudos to governor Mbah for his intentional developmental strides in Enugu state. We are seeing his workings!

Authoreety:
Juvenile delinquency taken to the extreme..


Hope he gets what he deserves

This one is not juvenile delinquency because the culprit is no longer a juvenile

Na because of men like that guys dey join street.

That kin thing nor go happen to me o but if it happens to me, I go use street settle am. That man don prize be that and anybody wey prize suppose ready to pay!

I fit no even do am anything on the spot. Na coded them dey take treat that kind fvckup

This is how my girl and I will be. I want to model our marriage like that of Omosexy and her husband. I'll soon buy my girl a Lamborghini and the plate number will be customised to "NnwaSexy"