₦airaland Forum

As baby mama?

gwama:
I prefer Baby and Career, this is two priority for woman.

The two can't go together,you need concentration ,if you are not putting the concentration needed in marriage or career,you will not succeed.

GoldenEstacy:
In my own opinion, both are important. It's better that one finds a partner while pushing a career. Both can go together, especially if you meet a partner who wants you to also grow.
I personally, will try to manage both and settle with the person.

Talk true oo,you guys look alike.

mysticgal:
Eeeeeewwwww

Talk true oo,no dey form feminist Oo

Twoclans:
Career

I love to foot my bills ,the only man I have ever been a liability to is my father .

Is that your son on your profile? you should be a proud mom,very handsome child

mysticgal:
Basically, life has a way of putting human beings in a frying pan so I’d say career.

This is because I have always wanted to be financially stable before risking a relationship aka marriage and also considering how much and bad the country is, career is very much needed.
However, if you choose career, there is a slim chance that Mediocre Nigerian men would come by. They hate overly independent women and have a love hate feelings for ‘gold diggers and slay queens’ I.e, they love subservient women....it boosts their ‘egos’. You may even meet some who think them marrying you is a supposed blessing or people who expect you to work and serve their needs and that of their families.
But then.:::..... you have to choose a succinct path in life.

Then if you choose marriage, forget, career or better still, prepare to work twice, thrice or quadruple as hard as your career mates. Once you give birth to one, two, three or how much you want, mahn, that’s how much hardwork you’d put in .
If you have a supportive spouse, the load becomes lighter, unsupportive spouse, 10times that freaking birth, career load and May God help you.


However, life is all about balance, you can have all. It depends on how you handle it, but then balance is key


Caveat: May The odds be in your favor

My kind of woman .

safarigirl:
Career

Once I have established myself, I can enter marriage knowing I have something to offer my partner. It is hard to find footing in your career after marriage.

I don't want to be anyone's liability, so, I would rather I have built myself to a reasonable extent, before joining forces with anyone

Manage ?

LilMissFavvy:
Well.....I would only chose him as the very last option after I have searched everywhere, then I can manage him.

Wie geht?

Joystark:
Damn.
This isn't nice at all

You are first a black man...Tribalism don scatter us.

Igbodicool:
Nigeria should discuss their corporate existence together or go into Oblivion; they should as well call their unprofessional Police men to order.
I am first an Igbo before Lugard concubine Nigerian.

guy go work hard,build a skill,develop yourself ,women are attracted to success,you don't need to chase after girls they will find you if you are ok.

JayCynic:
I need some advice from the pros in the section, I'm a reserved guy(not shy though) and I've been having difficulty trying to move to girls, startup convos on the go. It's always very difficult especially in Akwa Ibom State where Uyo girls are always carrying up their noses in the air and acting irritated for no reason. I've had cases where I grew the balls and said "Hi excuse me, can I talk for a second?" And they just walk past, it's crazy. I hate SM relationships as they are phony and fake. I'd really appreciate y'all advices even from the ladies (if any) and share your own methods and experiences

You nut.

NaijaDonCast:
my nigga STFU

Na this one whiteman take destroy you.

NaijaDonCast:
Thou art committed an act of blasphemizm against the son of man thy ways are dark and unrighteous, thou trying to breach the portal of the spirit realm between mere mortals and Gods(Immortals) your soul is mine...finish her FLAWLESS VICTORY

elected official to where? Maybe your village

MrBrownJay1:
so this elected officials thought of NOTHING better to do than the above rubbish, abi?!?!?!

is that gonna stop the monkey from terrorizing the neighborhood?
is that gonna better the lives of people in that area?

: am sorry if I was offensive didn't mean to.

Thatssobeyonce:
Okay sir

some people don't really know when someone is playing around.

lavylilly:

She is she.

tellwisdom:
Who's she?

I was just beign sarcastic. you are very beautiful

Thatssobeyonce:
After calling me ugly?

You didn't get the joke..

Thatssobeyonce:
After calling me ugly?

Selling your nigeria used honda that one is iron casket .

NOTMYPOWER:
Rape is no joke. That’s a warning to other comedians.




Selling my Nigeria used Hyundai Sonata at reasonable price. Check my post .

For you to even notice such ,I can tell you a tribalistic

maxiuc:


See as Hausa cap full everywhere

A northerner becomes a president you will see him gather his fellow northerners around him but a southerner won't do do same

The problem has always being the South against the south

Throw back as is in 2yrs ago :

Davabhz:
See throwback pictures of Rema when he was in a group.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2flCUDTNgw

You will ask thesame question 100 years from now cos our ancestors were dancing just like this generation is dancing soapy.

SultanOfAbia:
Imagine a Giant Tank of Hard Steel that Float in the Sky
Where was our ancestors when white people where coming up with this mind blowing inventions..
Even This internet was created by white man
Damnnn..

Trailer wey oyinbo don condemn ,not even road worthy naija boys go import am.

naijadrivablog:
Millions of Naira has been lost as a trailer-load of beer fell at the Oji River axis of the Enugu-Onitsha Expressway, just a stone throw from the border with Anambra State.

Eyewitnesses say the trailer was trying to negotiate the fair part of the expressway when its bucket pulled off from the body and fell with its contents – crates of beer.


More photos:

Source: https://naijadriva./2019/11/27/bad-roads-trailer-loaded-with-beer-falls-at-oji-river-axis-of-enugu-onitsha-expressway/

Nobody will respect you like this.

AmuDimpka:
You can deny it . .. but Igbo is amazing they build their cities and villages also

Am not from the west or North,when people brag with any little thing is called inferior complex.

AmuDimpka:
East is more developed than South West except Lagos

Go to Eastern cities and villages abi you want make I show you ... There is no city that has high scrap buildings like Onitsha .. not all those brown roofs in ibadan ... O don't even want to talk about North

Igbo are amazing ...

Develop the east ,mr developer.

AmuDimpka:
Igbo are developers

Story!

binarymachine:
The love for the good and expensive life has driven most ladies into wanting everything luxury. They want to live in beautiful mansions in posh areas, they want to ride in nice cars, eat good food, use expensive gadgets, buy expensive dresses and wear expensive make ups and hairs etc. This pushes them to move towards persons who they feel can provide all these and sometimes hurting the ones who can’t. Hence the notion that ladies love money.

However there are ladies out there who do not really care about the financial security a man has to offer. This set of ladies are not limited only to the rich ones but even the broke ones. There are broke expossed girls who are not moved by life and all of its luxuries and flaunting it just to get them to notice you is a deal breaker for them. Yes! they exist. There are ladies who are looking for simplicity, honesty and love. All they want is someone who will show them love and care, shower them with attention and affection and stick with them no matter their flaws.

Everyone loves money and everybody needs money, however, not all ladies you come across are so impressed by cash and luxury. Even if they may desire it, not every lady makes it a deal breaker. Women also need love and affection, attention and quality time. Sometimes a simple compliment or gesture is all that is needed to kick things off. That lady you see around looking all sexy and serious, just say hi and let her know she looks beautiful, tell her the shoes are pretty, offer to get her a pack of pop corn and you might just be surprised how things will roll.

Purge that mentality of “all women love money” and all they want and care for is cash. You will be spending a lot of money on women and attracting the wrong ones. All men love money too, everybody does. We all want the good life and financial security, stop picking on the ladies.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/16/not-all-women-want-money/

Your country men?ooh you think am from gold coast or rhodesia island?

FrLukas:
I am sure that's an exaggeration.

throwing shades at my countrymen, are you?

You mean you don't have regard for 100 million Nigerians.

FrLukas:
I have very little regard for humans who bleach their skin.

Panic

NaijaDonCast:
after God fear women, they are always double faced, if you looseguard them don japa leave you

You just tooo ugly for liken..wow! I dont want to meet you in my entire life,even if you give me your number I will reject it.

gloriaunobi:
Don't worry we will survive it