₦airaland Forum

davidif:
KIZZYAKA
[size=18pt]ARE YOU CRAZY?!?!?!?!?[/size] OR DO YOU EVEN WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. Please don't decieve Nigerians into coming here on false hopes. I have seen Africans in perilous situations because of these nonsense.

Do you know how stupid that sounds. If a girl from sierra leone or rwanda came to naija looking for citizenship would you marry her? Gosh, people don't think at all. Do you know HOW RARE IT IS FOR A YANKI PERSON TO MARRY A NAIJA? or have we forgotten that we are not the most good looking people on earth. It is very rare for a yanki person (especially a good one) to marry a naija person and the ones that do are usually UGLY AND FAT or those that can't find any men or women. If you see situations like that then you should beware of that marriage, or don't you know how extremely tough if it is to be a relationship with oyinbo people (especially if the person is crazy)? I don't think you know, because if you did you wouldn't want to mislead our people. Even if at the end of the day, you marry the person, do you think that your visa status would just automatically change? or don't you know how long it takes?

Omo if i sound a little angry then bear with me but what is pissing me off is when i see naija students who came here believing all the numerous untruths that they have heard from people when coming here.

Look at this one!!! because they told you that they are doing well does not necessarily mean that they are. I have Nigerian friends who came here and who thought America was heaven, now they are finding out the true reality that IF YOU DON'T HAVE MONEY DON'T COME TO THE US TO SCHOOL. Yes, there are some very lucky few who get assistantship (for grad students) but what happens when your proffessors says that the department doesn't have funding anymore and you lose your assistantship. Then you have to leave school and spend the next 20 years of your life washing dishes and mopping offices for a living while your friends that stayed in naija are building houses and buying cars.


The bible says that one must always be dilligent in ALL THINGS and that he that is the most dilligent would always prosper. The problem is that Nigerians love to leave everything to chance or 'divine intervention'. God gave us brains to plan also. So if you don't have your financial house in order, THEN DON'T COME TO YANKI.

ow11:
Horrid experience! BUT I just have a question, Italians did not start spending euros until 2002, How would they offer you euros when you cannot cash it?

George_D:
bros, you don try am before?

tensor777:
God never created anyone to be a gay People

cool zil:
This goes out to all the F-1 Visa chasers dreaming of crossing 2 d US, you can start saving now to actualise your dreams, my brothers and sisters try 2 think deeply b4 traveling abroad!! even if you are lucky 2 jump the 1st hurdle, Visa, i doubt if u would be able to jump this one, payments of bills, fees without facing hell e.t.c im sure u dont want to end up cursing America when u finally realise the strict policies and how independent you are expected 2 be. These are the common symptoms experienced by those already infected in the system,

1. Dropping out of School
2. Exploitation and stress from illegal work
3. Debts
4. Crime & Fear of Law enforcement
5. Inability to cross US border
6 Expectations 4rm friends and family @ home ( naija thing !!)
7. Visa expiration and openess to deportation.

tensor777:
@agathamari

How come your imagination is so filthy?

No2Atheism:
Stop assuming that every guy wants a Mouth Action.
Stop assuming that every guy wants anal sex.

The very idea of Mouth Action is alien to Africans.
The very idea of anal sex is alien to Africans.

Those things were brought into the African psyche through pornography and non-african cultures that infiltrated our midst . . .

Deep Sight:
And i am sure the statisticians have video cameras in all bedrooms of the world to observe the amount of heterosexuals that have anal sex as opposed to the amount of homosexuals that do so? ? ?

Besides should the analysis not be according to ratio and percentage? Of course pretty much all homos have anal sex, so that should be like almost 100%? ? ? What per centage of heteros have anal sex? Can you guess? Can it be any where near the per centage of homos that do so? ? ?

Abeg think twice before you post.

posakosa:
make sure u really know what your uncle does for a living---- like the real truth.

No2Atheism:
Homosexuality has always been a non-African thing . . .

Even a particular building was dedicated to Homosexuals . . . in ancient Greece . . .

So in reality Homosexuality was something alien to Africans . . . until Africans became infested by Europeans . . .

African culture does not condone nor permit such a perversion . . .

Africans even in ancient times were not reported to be into such nonsense . . .it was mostly the non-Africans that brought such perversions into our midst . . . hence why even in America you find that most African Americans are opposed to homosexuality and most homosexuals in the West are people with with non-african origins . . .

Superego:
The million dollar question I recently asked on a forum, and I will re-present here.

ANY ONE WHO ARGUES THAT HOMOSEXUALITY IS NORMAL OR OK, SHOULD SIMPLY SUPPORT HIS/HER CLAIM BY PROVING TO US THAT THE ANUS IS A SEX ORGAN.

I promise 50,000 Naira today to whoever can prove it is!

Once this cant be done, then there need be no further discussion.


You see, this is the lie made by advocates of this unfortunate medical condition. They are akin to people advising that obesity is normal since it's all about eating. No! the Obese ,  we love them, but we tell them the blatant truth, that u are fat and either loose weight or die. Same way we can love the homo'sexual'. Notice the "", since it has not yet been proven to be a 'sexuality', yet tell them the truth for their health.

This free book is a great read as it for the first time analyzes from a medical and religious point, everything about homosexuality. A good friend of mine wrote it, and once u read it, u know all the right questions and answers. Every Mosque and Church should have a copy.

yeyeruzi:
Were they counseled because they slept with kids or they had lust for kids
With gay men around, pedophilia will increase for we will have more boys being raped and more girls being raped by the same sex.

Without gays and bisexuals, boys will be safe with men and girls will be safe with women. Now mothers and fathers have more to worry since gays can be pedophiles. We've seen cases here!


Wow !. Trying to remove the word pervert from the dictionary. Not all gays would agree with you.


If you take a Google search! You find men and women desperately trying to track their biological fathers and termed their mothers as selfish; Oprah even had issue on her show. Now Lesbians can make things worse!
More perverts, More problems!


First we have rapist who rape sisters and mothers! Men and women felt concerned and would do anything within their mights to protect women.

But
now we have new problems. straight men now have to watch their own backs and try to identify homos.

And more problems
straight women had to watch their own backs too from females and try to identify lesbians!


Now you talk of homophobia? You say you are not gay. If you happen to be raped, like some case here, would you love them or fear them and be more careful of them for they had to your problems?

More perverts, more problems!

highpappy:
Can someone get a scholarship while out of status(not F-1) in the US?? Pls anybody with info shoud pls sharee it as am about to drop out of school.
anyone??

agathamari:
what about infertile men and women? can they procreate? nullifies that argument or are you gonna ban them from marrying to?

yeyeruzi:
Your prayer is that more broken homes should be among the heterosexuals so that you and your gay friends can have their children to raise or rape! You said ,"all heterosexuals are only good at giving birth to the kids and not taking care of em."

Heh heh, Its nice to know what you even think of heterosexuals who even support your being.

What other cleaner, non-devilish, ways can you have children?

Answer my questions, if you can:
pedophiles whether they are gay or not are judged as criminals. Can you tell what cause pedophiles to be attracted naturally to children and why it was regarded as a crime when they can't help them selves?

Why are they not protected when they have no control over their lust?

yeyeruzi:
Do the American psychological association consider pedophilia a disease ? They are thrown in Jail.

If you have a male relative that sleeps with his very own consenting adult daughter as lovers, would you give them the thumbs up? I guess you would or is it non of your business?

You have not said what causes pedophilia, homosexuals where one is a crime even though they can't naturally help it.


how do you, as a gay, intend to procreate? Lets hear it from you

yeyeruzi:
That is in your dreams. But to be frank, if that is the case, should I accept abnormally as a normal thing because I have gays in my family and friends or try to help them find a solution to their abnormally?

I suppose, with your intelligence, education and understanding, accepting or concluding that there is no way out (neglecting research for a cure or solution ) but to accept homosexuality blindly is the right thing!

Let the gay seek for help and show the world they are not ready to live with such abnormally and the world government would help in finding a cure/solution.

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yeyeruzi link=topic=344556.msg4842212#msg4842212 date=1257113854:
That is in your dreams. But to be frank, if that is the case, should I accept abnormally as a normal thing because I have gays in my family and friends or try to help them find a solution to their abnormally?

I suppose, with your intelligence, education and understanding, accepting or concluding that there is no way out (neglecting research for a cure or solution ) but to accept homosexuality blindly is the right thing!

Let the gay seek for help and show the world they are not ready to live with such abnormally and the world government would help in finding a cure/solution.

Gay folk dont want u to love them or accept them. All gays dont care what the world thinks about them because they are happy in their own little world. All they re asking for is basic human rights. The rights that u have as a heterosexual. How hard is that?
Again, homosexuality is not as disease as much as you would want it to be. There isnt any cure.
I guess there is a cure also for being heterosexual.
Although alot of us have different views on this topic, we need to be tolerant of individuals who dont share thesame religious beliefs wit us.
Gays are humans just like us and if we cant be tolerating of them as christians, then i dont even know why we are christains in the first place because the first thing i learned as a kid in the catholic church was LOVE LOVE LOVE and if we cant love one another regardless of sexual orientation and religious beliefs, then we have a huge problem.

yeyeruzi:
So does mother and her 18 year old boy incest mate!

If you don't want help, be in hiding. gays can join secret gay clubs and arrange for a fake wedding with lesbians and homos. No one will be sexually frustrated.

We are not ready for gays mixing with us. Not yet. Never!

jmoore:
@bawomolo, stupid evolution theory. Scientist that are atheist who push God out of the scene. It is only your father that descended from apes not mine. Not all scientist share all the scientific claims you are stating.

agathamari:
harvard is $$47,215 per year including fees and r&b. most schools put thier tuition scheduals on thier websites.

justwise:
Good question

bawomolo:
Did i tell you i was gay. Take a look at my profile pic and read my past posts then ask me whether am gay.

http://www.news-medical.net/news/2006/10/23/20718.aspx

it isn't natural right? now who is the silly kid spewing nonsense?

lol but what you care what that book of fiction called the bible says right.

Theblessed:
[b]Hmmmm! For we not to get judged, we must not judge! Judgement is for God Almighty. Remember, he created homosexuals too and the only one QUALIFIED TO JUDGE and CONDEMN them - not YOU and I.

What if your son or daughter or your only child, niece and nephew is a homosexual, what would you do? Kill them? Disown them? Exclude/Isolate them? Spit at them or what? All these are wrong and won't change a thing in your life or their lives. So, be tolerant, inclusive and accommodating of others with difference. Even God did not exclude them in his creation, why you? Abi, no be God created them and put them in this WORLD called EARTH as you and I? Or did he put them in different globe? Therefore, if you can honestly answer these questions then, you'd know there's nothing to be afraid of, for JUDGEMENT IS FOR THE LORD!

To me, God himself would have to explain this CONDITION to us. Why we are all the same in image (God's image) but different in our characters and behaviours (understand the devil has a hand in these things but I need to learn from the creator himself why? Sure, people all over the world would like to know too). And for those, who are unforgiven about this, remember, all sins carry EQUAL PUNISHMENT, no matter how grave they seem. So, if you'd never sinned then, you're most qualified to condemn this group otherwise may I ask that we, live and let live!!! [/b]

jmoore:
Whem will people stop being fools? No one is born gay! It is the same group of scientists that say that apes are the fore fathers of human beings that still saying that some people are born gay. If you accept that people are born gay then you accept the one that says he was born a rapist. The fact is that views will continue to differ because of the way we were brought up and our beliefs in God. Many will know the truth when they are dead.