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Obinoscopy:
I obviously don't know how johnkent looks but I know most gays go after very handsome guys. They also go after guys who are feminine in behaviour and in looks

haha. this is just too amusing.
Anyways, FYI: 90% of gay men do not look feminine in any way.

tpia.:
you mean to say you had more gay proposals in nigeria than in san francisco?

Got it

Amigoz:
Personally I dont go around asking about some1's sexuality.

I take people for who they are.

Love thy neighbour

Thanks

Many think of anal sex as being a gay male thing, but surveys show anywhere from 20 to 40 percent of heterosexuals have at least tried it, and the percentage may be increasing. Some countries have higher rates — a variety of research suggests Brazil might be the anal sex capital of the world, with possibly half of adults regularly doing it. In Central America, the complete sexual experience is known as los tres platos, or "the three dishes": oral, vaginal, and anal.

kushe:
why does everybody keep saying  HOMOSEXUALISM ,is that not outright murder of the english language    

the right thing i.e the right thing folks for the noun is HOMOSEXUALITY. please get an education people and stop killing me eyes.

for me,i chilled out when i found out my mostest favourite news anchor was openly gay i.e richard quest of cnn.i was so disappointed,but hey ,so is anderson cooper and people accept them that way.right now i dont even remember richard quest is gay and he still remains the no 1 reason why i watch cnn and not bbc or cnbc.infact quest means business starts in 3, 2, 1,   gotta go

OMG, i didnt know richest quest is gay. His a great guy thou.

ChinenyeN:
Johnkent, so do you really not know what "bigot" means? Do you not know what the use of the word "bigot" implies? Anyway, I guess it doesn't matter now, considering the content of your last response to me.

Well, u tell me what it means sis

Medlabgirl:
WHY, for pete's sake would anyone want to put his dingle where poop comes out from? Just plain unnatural and depraved is what it is dammit! I hate freaking g"ays.
From a purely medical standpoint, why bust up your anal sphincter so that you lose control over your pooping urges, and have to wear a bloo*dy bum pad to stop your stinking shite from falling out when you laugh or cough or even burp! Pooping now becomes involuntary, Hence the name stinking gay men, DEPRAVITY!!!

I wish everyone could really see the kind of things that live up the anu$. Think about it, why is poo so smelly? If most of these loose a*rse gay men have ever seen a culture of enteric bacteria, I am sure they will quickly rethink their so called orientation, stu*pid a*ss ba$tards!

I am glad to see that most people actually know that NO ONE IS BORN GAY!!!!! Homo$exuals are just a bunch of lowlife losers WITH SEVERE LOW SELF ESTEEM ISSUES who cannot scare up a date with the opposite gender if it killed them!!!; and it is killing them!! If it wasn't something to be ashamed of, then why do they all hide it. I really hate the men, but the women, total misfits!

Did I hear you call me homophobic? Yes! That's my middle name; and you can dunk that into your latte and eat it soggy if you don't like it!

AS for KENT W'EVA, I hope you get hit by a BUS!

haha

ChinenyeN:
That's not the meaning of "bigot". Go and look it up and get back to me.

haha. In this scenerio, how could i be a bigot? And like i said, I am not hostile to anyone regardless of the sexual orientation.
You guys are entitled to your opinions but i think its very unacceptable when some of y'all advocate that gays should be killed or that they shouldnt have some basic human rights that we as heterosexuals enjoy. I think thats bigotry.

ChinenyeN:
Johnkent, even though you weren't directing your comments to me, the kind of display I'm seeing from you is compelling me to just simply say, "I'm not sure you really know what you're talking about". Also, just for using the word "bigot", you have proven that you are just as much a bigot as anyone else.

How could i be a bigot when am accepting of heterosexuals and homosexuals

oisehumen:
Obama is human my dear. Don't be carried away ok.
He needs deliverance too. Please, don't forget to see a good pastor this Sunday for prayers because u need to be freed from homosexuality.

pastor ke. haha

oisehumen:
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It takes a gay to identify a gay. How come they did not give u breathing space? Can't u get the message? .

What right are you talking about? As for President Obama; he is an embarrassment to the Christian fold

I wont let u talk about my president like that u Fing bastard.
His the bad guy cuz his asking for equality for all humans?

~Bluetooth:
summarily,gays are despicable THINGS.i'm talking of where it shouldnt be legalized mr homo wannabe.

Again, in countries where gay marriage is legal, has that in any way tampered with the rights of kids having a decent environment??. Sometimes some of y'alls arguments makes absolutely no sense.

bee444:
@All,

Homosexuality is not a disease and neither is it a disability. It is an obsession, a fantasy, an unrealistic self-deluded possessive natural fallacy.

No one is born with it, but rather, it is an environmental corruption derived from associating with evil possessed people.  Psychologically, it is not heritable. It is a freewill. Humans react to environmental stimuli; according to choice. We behave according to forces beyond our control; a deterministic behaviour.

How many times have we seen people going back to being straight? So often!. We are what we chose to be people!

People who says homosexuality is genetic are ignorant and lack foresight. They know nothing about freewill and its deterministic factors.

Homosexuality is derived from lack of self-confidence, the inability to confront challenges, the often rejection of advances from the other counterpart and from not having the ability to defend self in matters relating to bullies and sexually related incidence.

Haha. Gays turning straight like you can turn on and off a gay switch??
I guess i can ask you a question: Do you think you can all of a sudden start having feelings for someone of same sex if you are really straight?? I dont think so. Alot of men who are on the DL are married and i guess you need to ask yourself why are they still having sex with men?
Do you think its because they're not getting enough sex from their wives or because they are actually attracted to men but are married to a woman because they are trying to please folks like you??

oisehumen:
From your comments, you are obviously one of these lost people called homosexuals.
Repent now and be found alive please.

Haha. I guess anyone that asks for the rights of gays has to be gay too huh?
I guess President Barack is one too? Please guys grow up. We are only asking for basic human rights for our fellow citizens

sleak:
@johnkent,paedophiles also love and think its a relationship,should it alsobecome acceptable.
n talking about naija having the highest number of homos,whereis your reference.
if findout any of my sibling us gay i'l commit him/her to a hospital,side,if i find out im digging some dudes arse,i'l commit myself.

You wont have to commit yourself because u'll probably be suppressing ur feelings trying to act straight.
My reference is myself. It was amazing how many Nigerian men that approached me when i was back there 2yrs ago (single and married men). I live in San Francisco and I've never had such an experience in such a short period of time

eros:
I say kill all them asshole loving retards called homosexuals

Yeah Bigot. I bet your one of them brothers on the DL

~Bluetooth:
children also have a right to descent environment,therefore,the activities of homos would mean tampering with their rights when legalized.forget about religion or morality,common knowledge should tell you that '''homosexuality'' does not conform with normal human reasoning/settings.

haha. very funny. In countries where gay marriage is legal, have u heard of any statistics showing an increase in the rate of kids becoming gays?
If you guys still dont know this, we are born they way we are and gays are born the way as we are. As much as we don't want to hear this, it is reality.

Leave Homosexuals away. For most of you who don't know this, there are more homosexuals in Nigeria than in any other black nation.
As much as we all come on here and bash them, most of our brothers are gay and are hiding it from us because of fear of persecution.
Gays are humans just like us and they should have the right to life.
Some of y'all bigots are advocating for their execution and apparently, y'all call yourselves Christians? I didn't know God said it was okay to kill your fellow human because of his sexual orientation.
Please lets all grow up. There's more to homosexuality than just the act of having intimacy. They love being in a relationship just like heterosexuals.

justwise:
Are you for really? So if you are given 3months visa u can go ahead and stay as long as u want? Please where is your source?

USCIS officer at the point of entry determines how long u can stay and not the visa in ur passport. My mom arrived the US ona visa that expires in a week but she was given an I-94 for 3 months. Again, it depends on who you meet at the point of entry. Some of them are really nice and some of then are a pain in the u know where.

_________:
He never said this. Please read again. He's saying USCIS port of entry officer determines the length of the person's stay which is absolutely true. The officer could deny entry, may elongate or cut short the duration given by Visa officer in Naija.

Thank you

Mudley313:
As long as you apply for the extension before the expiration date of the I-94, you would be in legal status up to 240 days and you will not have stayed in the U.S unlawfully.

It should be applied for between about 4 to 6 weeks before the I-94 expires

But if the extension is denied, then he would have overstayed starting from the day his I-94 expired and he'll have a hard time getting another Visa at a US embassy/consulate

i dont know what happened to my post but anyways, a visa doesnt tell you how long u can stay in the US. United states citizenship and immigration service (USCIS) officer at the point of entry can let ur friend stay for 6 months regardless of when his visa expires.
Your friend can visit the US anytime from now if he wants to but like i had earlier stated, he would have to show why he wants to spend a few wks before and after the conference.
Applying for an I-94 extension is a pain in the neck. It cost about $300 and it takes 3 months to get a response from USCIS.

well, i cant do business with ya then

not parents either. spouse and unmarried children only

would u be able to deliver the passport to san francisco, CA?

oyewsmt:
I don't want to cancell my student pass incase usa don't grant it. so i can go back and face life sqauredly. So, what do u think i can do for now cos i want to apply once again at abuja,  Please ma people i need ya advise

Go back to school in malaysia or keep waiting on a visa u might never get.

haha. $650 for a 2 bedroom apartment?? I dont think u want to live there.

dinggle:
In north & central michigan (Lansing, Kalamazoo, Albion, Battle creek) with $650(all bills inclusive) you can get a 2bed room in an upscale apartment.

U mean ghetto Upscale?

Some of u folks are just not getting it. having an unexpired student visa don't mean nothing because u still can have a valid visa and still be out of status. wat matters is that u have an unexpired I-20 and that you are currently enrolled in sch and taking atleast 12 credit hrs per semester for undergraduates or 9 credit hrs per semester for grad students(permission needed from int'l advisor if for some reason, u cant go to school full time).
Having said that, if the guy asking this question is actually out of status per my explanation, then the only way he could return back to school/back in status is applying to USCIS for reinstatement of f-1 status which can be granted depending on his reasons as to why we couldn't go to sch (illness, hardship, death in the family etc).
marriage is always a last options. Because he is "illegal" in the US at this time, he would not qualify to adjust his immigration status even if he has a ph.D and has an employer that can file for greencard for him. You'll have to be legally present in the US to adjust your status to permanent residency. Exceptions to that rule are immediate families of US citizens( children, spouse, parents).
So, his only 2 options is either getting his f-1 status reinstated or getting married to a USC which like i said is always a last resort. I do not recommend marrying a USC for immigration benefit. IT IS A FELONY and a deportable offence.

Save ur money and stay away from immigration lawyers. they wont do anything for ya but take ur money.
My mom was refused visit visa twice at the US embassy in Nigeria and she got it the 3rd time. we used exactly the same documents each time as nothing changed. she's a retired school teacher, has 4 kids in nigeria and 5 grand kids but each time, she was denied for not having enough ties to Nigeria. go figure.
anyways, they gave her a 6 months visa and she stayed 2 months and went back.
Will ur mom get the visa the first time, probably not but it wont hurt to try. Just keep trying and always tell ur mom that there is no guarantee that the visa will be issued. never promise anything.
Since u're not an US citizen, u can't petition for a family immigrant visa for her so her only chance is through a visit visa.
Copy of greencard, tax returns, pay stubs, employment letter and documents showing strong ties to home is all she'll need for the interview. goodluck. u can e-mail me on kenmartins2@hotmail.com
I stay in san Jose, CA

Possible deportation.