Family › Re: Nigerian Woman Welcomes Husband's Second Wife With Open Arms (pics, Video) by johnog4sure: 12:30pm On Mar 24, 2024 |
she has been praying for a 3some |
Romance › Re: Yesterday I Had Sex With A Lady Infected By Staph Aureus. HELP! by johnog4sure: 12:26pm On Mar 24, 2024 |
start using anti viral drugs its most likely HIV |
Family › Re: US Based Nurse Gifts Her Husband Who Brought Her To America A New Mercedes Benz by johnog4sure: 11:58am On Mar 24, 2024 |
this is good news |
Romance › Re: Man With One-inch Penis Opens Up About Life With A Micropenis by johnog4sure: 10:51am On Mar 24, 2024 |
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Romance › Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by johnog4sure: 8:54pm On Mar 23, 2024 |
AyobamiOluwole: So this girl has been coming to my place, eat the best food and all that. I've asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said no. I do give her money without asking her for anything on return because I could see she is not the lazy type and she is really hardworking. I am very much ok with finances and I see no issues with some of her demands.
Yesterday I called her and told her that I'm not happy and that I need cuddle only and not sex(I lost so much Dollars from futures trading that night). She later called and said she will come to my place for that reason. In my mind I was thinking this will go down as sex and all, but I don't really want sex.
All I just needed is someone to cuddle and get distracted with that's all. This is the only time I am demanding something from her.
So she came during the evening time, and later that night we went to supermarket and I got her something's to eat at home for the night. We got back home and everything was going well. We were both on the bed when I reminded her why she came. This is someone I've been doing quite a lot for without even thinking twice out of pity. She wouldn't give in and wouldn't let me know why she can't just allow me to cuddle her.
Mehn, from the loss I had earlier and all that, I got infuriated and called another girl telling to pls come over for the night. Then I told this girl to leave my house since she can be that selfish. I sent her out of my house around 10pm. She was telling me she doesn't have money to go home, I didn't care and I shut my door against her. Though I was scared letting her out on that road and that time of the night but my anger got the better part of me. It was later after getting over the whole thing I confirmed nothing happened to her from someone else.
Pls is there anything wrong with what I did?
Modified: Anger is a bad thing. I am wrong sending her away at that time of the night. This is probably the judgement I'll get 😔 1. Your conscience already judging you therefore go apologize. 2. Futures trading is pure gambling stop it or own one(it's only the house that wins, I am a software developer I understand the algorithms used). 3. Not everybody likes cuddling especially this heat period many Nigerian women don't know how to cuddle men, I don complain tire to my wife. |
Sports › Re: Nigeria-Ghana Jollof War: See Troost-Ekong's Reaction To Super Eagles' Victory by johnog4sure: 10:00pm On Mar 22, 2024 |
Arobaga: Fvck dey hungry me
All these jollof rice war no concern me even me |
Politics › Re: There Is Light At The End Of The Tunnel, And Nigeria Will Smile Again – Tinubu by johnog4sure: 8:09am On Mar 22, 2024 |
Umueme: Amen
While I'm unapologetically OBIdient, I still believe nigeria won't deteriorate under BAT as much as it did under MB. I actually think he'll be better than MB. God will sha see us through. 🤞 I totally agree with, as a matter fact we are still suffering from what that Buffon did |
Romance › Re: Age Is Just A Number - Reactions As 'Young' Couple Set To Wed In Benue (Photos) by johnog4sure: 2:10pm On Mar 21, 2024 |
StUriah: Who taught them how to phuck?
Children of nowadays wan do wetin dem papa and mama dey do in the other room.
That girl go share her toto go reach neighbours and male family members if the guy no do enough to provide for her.
The girl eyes tear no be small. Na the community get am, and marry am for the innocent boy.
I dey pity the young boy in advance.
Shege is on a loading stage... That girl eye just full for experience oh, I dey pity for the poor boy...maybe I judge too harshly I hope I am wrong |
Crime › Re: Again, Court Jails Six For Internet Fraud In Ilorin by johnog4sure: 4:11pm On Mar 20, 2024 |
Moyinoluwa35: your definition of stealing is taking wat does not belong to u, but the man was aware and he agreed for me to file loan I am not judging u oh, nooooo, I dont know what transpired, all I know is everybody have a conscience what is wrong is wrong. |
Crime › Re: Again, Court Jails Six For Internet Fraud In Ilorin by johnog4sure: 3:49pm On Mar 20, 2024 |
Moyinoluwa35: Hardwork does not pay anymore but smart work sir, if not for military work I would have been extremely rich, seriously my advise for people who are struggling 🤔, just gather ur money and pay for knowledge from the right source nobody will come for ur help if u don't help yourself , I got about 3k dolls from my first tax refund stuff from a USA client a real military man I don't know what made him trusted me to give me his SSN and some details like that I login his id.me and I file for better loan , it's just that my first hit I use the money wisely Smart work is the harder version of hardwork and it pays. And my point is because somebody trust you with his sensitive details does not make you smart. That is stealing. |
Crime › Re: Again, Court Jails Six For Internet Fraud In Ilorin by johnog4sure: 2:33pm On Mar 20, 2024 |
Moyinoluwa35: stealing of credit card details is another one, but trust me if you have ssn of ur cl and have the phone number too , you are a rich man if u can file for loan or do tax refund omor u don blow..but aint into that shit anymore I get u now, you would have say you disagree with me not that I'm lying, I was wondering if I lied and didn't know, I had to go read my comment again. There is even this email hijacking, its hard but the money na block! anyways my point is 1. It is ignoble even if u make money 2. Majority of yahoo boys aint doing anything smart. 3. They wont tell you all the stories, it required hard work to succeed wether in crime or in any other thing, if the hard work is channeled to legit hustle you will still be very rich |
Crime › Re: Again, Court Jails Six For Internet Fraud In Ilorin by johnog4sure: 1:44pm On Mar 20, 2024 |
UnstableFC: Everything you said here is a lie what will I gain? be specific, you can say u dont agree with me, but not accuse me of lying I mean... |
Crime › Re: Again, Court Jails Six For Internet Fraud In Ilorin by johnog4sure: 1:42pm On Mar 20, 2024 |
Moyinoluwa35: stop lying sir beside am not into fraud and I can tell u fraud have grade, just one details u can get and login id.me and file for loan can change ur family life if especially the cl have a goor credit score, you can get 13k dolls for just one pull especially if u have a sofi bank account Point out the lie pls, fraud has grade-u mean stealing credit card details? |
Romance › Re: Rules Of Dating People's Wives by johnog4sure: 12:06pm On Mar 20, 2024 |
sulakishop: Another hunger inspired topic I swear premium hunger |
Education › Re: Threatened By Nigerian Islamists, Became A Chess Champ In The US by johnog4sure: 12:02pm On Mar 20, 2024 |
We chess fans/players are asking: " this boy never pass 8?" every year bloggers say he is 8 |
Phones › Re: Subsea Cable: Glo Shades MTN, Others (Photo) by johnog4sure: 11:45am On Mar 20, 2024 |
I wish I can do away with MTN, bunch of ingrates |
Politics › Re: Economic Hardship: FG Begins Distribution Of Grains To States by johnog4sure: 11:44am On Mar 20, 2024 |
is this not fake news? I see Indians |
Crime › Re: Again, Court Jails Six For Internet Fraud In Ilorin by johnog4sure: 11:23am On Mar 20, 2024*. Modified: 11:42am On Mar 20, 2024 |
let me...do this The other day one ignoramus person said "yahoo boys are very smart", I answered her by saying, there is nothing smart about, faking your identity then begging for dollars online, both are ignoble actions. One time I was so broke and I asked one of my old friends for 15k(to complete my rent), that was when he had the audacity to tell to get an iphone and install mingles, I quickly tell him "you want me to do dating scam" he said "guy u even sabi this computer things pass us". Just about 2 weeks later I got a contract to build a bitcoin pooling site later one of my proposal to cbn was approved and within a year or so, I moved to a new apartment, bought a car, a plot of land and started my building project. The society(Night clubs, music, car sellers vio/roadsafety, family, religious organization) should stop encouraging this young folks, there is nothing noble in dating scam, investment scams, altcoin scams, stealing people's facebook, whatsap identity etc. the way some of them suffer before they can make even 100 dollars, you will be wondering if it is by force to do crime, if they had put the same energy in any legit business, they would have probably be better of. There are many ways to earn legit online. Our UX/UI guy who just resumed 3 months ago just got another remote job and he is shuffling both, he averages nothing less than 300k monthly now. |
Family › Re: Dear Men, DNA Test Is Around ₦100 To ₦200k. Don't Be Unfortunate. by johnog4sure: 11:10am On Mar 20, 2024 |
Beverlyjean: And u think u are doing the man if u are unfaithful to him cos he's unfaithful to u... any woman that ever uses that as an excuse is nothing but a hoe ... if u steal from me and i decide to also steal from u, then I'm a thief ... every woman should have dignity for their bodies ... it brings innocence into the world thru giving birth.... a man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating.... just like a broke woman is different from a broke man 100! |
Travel › Re: German-based Nigerian Man Reveals Survival On Expired Supermarket Scraps by johnog4sure: 8:15am On Mar 20, 2024 |
Laird: The statement that when people in Nigeria see him driving a Jeep
Is a Jeep a sign of prosperity or an economic liability.
He didn't even mention coming to Nigeria and opening a business or opening companies but coming to drive a jeep. Ridiculous and mental shallowness I was about saying that, I own a car in Nigeria and its more liability than anything else, plus its normal across Europe to dispose food before expiry and anyone willing can still eat it...come to think of it I have never seen mega shops in Nigeria dispose expired products...this calls for investigation ASAP |
Politics › Re: Three Suspects Arrested In Connection With Killing Of 17 Soldiers In Delta by johnog4sure: 8:06am On Mar 20, 2024 |
Toluwanise247: If they don’t kill 50 to 100 the community leader will not bring them out …. You justify killing of innocent people? this shows howmany Nigerians need mental re-evaluation. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Demanded Return Of Tithe From My Former Church – Abuja Man by johnog4sure: 2:18pm On Mar 18, 2024 |
GreatAchiever1: You always keep emphasising on religious people, I hope you're not one of those who claim "I am spiritual and not religious", because this is exactly what they clamour for, Love, even though they don't seem to understand love. In fact, it is even because of this said love, that if we see one who is going the wrong way, we tend to point it out to them but they will come back and respond to us that we are judging them, whereas we are trying to help them so that they won't damn their souls, but they tag us "judgemental".
You claim I'm not open-minded, I laugh, I'm very much open minded to different things about life, but for the fact I'm open minded that doesn't mind I should be stupid, if any thing is contrary to scripture, I don't accept it, I don't confirm to the ways of this world or this age, because the spirit and sons of disobedience is clearly working overtime to bring his plans to fruition.
You said you don't know what universalism is, but in a quick summary, it is exactly what you've been clamouring for, that in the end, we would all make it to heaven because God is Love and wouldn't want to condemn anyone. This is why doctrine matters and theology is very important, so that one can easily see this is a flat lie from the pit of hell. By the way, what I mentioned previously about harmartiology, anthropology etc is not a book but are branches of systematic theology, there are about 9 or 10 branches I think. You should have a good biblical systematic theology, it will help you. But if you want a brief material to explain what I mean by what the seriousness of sin actually means in a man's life and why God hates it and His wrath must be poured out on it, whether on the sinner who dies in his sin or on Christ who died a substitutionary death. Check out the sermon preached by Jonathan Edwards titled "Sinners in the hands of an angry God", it's on the internet, I could help you with the pdf and audio, if you're interested and having difficulty finding it online.
Its seems you don't even know what universal Christ means, it's an extension of what universalism is. In the atonement of Christ, I believe in what is called the definite atonement, which can also mean Christ's purposeful atonement and I'd summarize it to say it means He died to save His sheep (the elect), to effect reconciliation and redemption for his people, and thus is seen in Christ intercessory prayer in John 17:6-12. Christ propitiation on the cross is unlimited in its sufficiency, but in making atonement for the whole world, this efficacy does not apply to the whole world. So when I say Jesus died for the whole world, I don't mean, He died for all men that everyone who lived will be saved in the end (universalism), I mean all men who are in different part of the world of the world that are in Christ will be saved (Jesus is for everybody).
And lastly, in the 4 gospels, we see that Jesus in His earthly ministry preached about hell and repentance more than any other thing, so tell me why will he preached on hell if at the end all men who ever lived will be saved and won't go to hell. You quote a very good passage on testing the spirits yet you don't have a good discerning mind and I believe it's because of you are confirming to the ways and beliefs of the world. pls read out what you typed here and see how delusional you sound, from Christ for elect and everybody confusion up there. I believe, you are a preacher/pastor, that book you recommended is one of the favourite materials Pentecostal preachers use in imprison themselves and their followers. I should have stopped this when you said if not that white man introduced Jesus you would have perished in Hell. Pathetic, pls sink in your delusion, I am glad that the younger generation are waking up, and saying No to religious captivity. Nigerian churches will soon be deserted as it is now in Europe and America better find something else to do with your life. Bye! |
Politics › Re: Sokoto Governor Ahmad Aliyu Breaks Ramadan Fast With Almajiri Boy by johnog4sure: 11:09am On Mar 18, 2024 |
aybabz101: I have been on this site for over 7 years if my memory serve me well....
Having tried severally to be FTC....but alas, today na today .....FTC....
Instead of him to do the needful by providing these kids with good education, basic infrastructures and providing jobs for their parents to be able to cater for them...
the hypocrite is breaking fast with ppl he is directly feeding fat on their destinies....
Devils in human human flesh = 9ja politicians The oppressor with the oppressed, yet the oppressed dont know |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Demanded Return Of Tithe From My Former Church – Abuja Man by johnog4sure: 10:54am On Mar 18, 2024 |
GreatAchiever1: You just want to justify universalism and probably transdispensationalism which is anti-scriptural and kills evangelism to the ends of the earth. And I know the televangelist you're talking about and I don't agree with his beliefs especially those concerning ecumenical oneness with other religions hence his beliefs in universalism in his later life.
You claim you are well learned in the bible yet you sound like someone whose bent on criticising what you just read, again I believe you have been influenced by some certain false beliefs springing up, hence I read about people who claim to either leave Christianity, "deconstruct their faith" or believe in a so called "Universal Christ" and the way you keep emphasising on Love, Maybe who knows you've read a book called Love wins, which I know is straight up nonsense (haven't read it but from the advertisement of it, I knew it was). You say you don't see love in a god who will create people and then condemn them to eternal punishment, since you claim to be learned go read up on theology proper (doctrine of God) , anthropology (doctrine of man) and harmartiology (doctrine of sin) etc.
There are Christian missionaries who God has used and is still using to bring the gospel to these places, many lost their lives in the process (Jim Elliot, go read about his biography) but still God is calling believers to spread the gospel of Christ to the ends of the earth.
And also lest I forget, Jesus is also coming to judge the world, Matthew 25:31 - 46. At this point its obvious me and you can never agree, just like my earlier analogy of tobacco smokers, this is why we consider religious people dangerous to humanity, they usually strongly believe in genocidal philosophy especially monotheists(Islam, Christianity, Judaism), you are ok with your god roasting billions of people in hell, but you having problem practising LOVE your neighbor as yourself as your christ preached. I dont know what you mean by universalism but I find no fault in LOVE (Galatians 5:22-24, 1 Corinthians 13:5) but I can see many things wrong with Religion, some of which I have pointed out here. I have not read the book you talked about, and I cant think of any external influence to my thought process, materials I consumed even re-enforces my believe in Christ, but I am somebody who is open minded, and questions everything(1 John 4:1-5) something many of you under religious captivity are afraid to do. You further proved to me how close minded you are by calling a book you have not read 'nonsense', and your Christ is no longer 'universal'? he did not die for the world? he died for selected people like you? I will check out those materials you asked me to read, I am not close-minded like religious people I am willing to learn and grow. My point is do away with religious indoctrination, it is man(men) trying to control their fellow men... I wonder why love is a problem but indoctrination is not a problem to you, that is narcissistic. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Demanded Return Of Tithe From My Former Church – Abuja Man by johnog4sure: 9:35pm On Mar 17, 2024 |
GreatAchiever1: Yes all those religion you mentioned that I'm judging, Yes, they will not enter heaven EXCEPT if they repent and believe in the Son, Jesus, This is the will of God. I'm not sure you take time to study your bible to know what you're claiming, you seem to cherry-pick bible verse alot without understanding and it's probably because maybe you may have irritation to the Christian faith because of what some false preachers have made Christianity to look like but that is no excuse to turn away from Christianity and look at it with some sort of disdain.
You say I'm the judge, as long as what I'm saying is what the bible says, then you can call me what you want. And for sinners, we are all sinners that is why we need a saviour and that is Jesus who came to die a substitutionary death for us in order to reconcile us to the Father, but that same Jesus, other religions don't accept who He is, and you claim they will go to heaven, I really don't know who is giving you these false beliefs but I will advice you to desist from such.
I'm not looking for converts, my own is just to preach Christ and proclaim the bible as the authoritative word of God as the absolute truth. And my guy what you claim to say as "truth" is nothing but lies as far as scripture is concerned and is damnable to someone soul. I pray you repent from it and come to the true knowledge of Christ. I don't see any love in a god that will create billions of people then enjoy the pleasure of watching them roast in hell forever, that sounds like description of Satan to me. Even one of your televangelist in his later life preached the truth, that anyone who DO what Christ says even if they have not heard of Christ are fine, why will God place people in deserted jungles in Namibia, Amazon, Cambodia and still roast them in hell because they have not heard of a Jewish man who died 2000 yrs ago, (statistics shows that people who live in isolated place on earth makes up to 10% of our entire population) my brother use your brain! Religion is man made. Talking about me not studying the bible is hilarious, born into a Christian family, went to multiple bible school, became a pastor, etc. Genesis to revelation not less than 4 times (thorough study not reading) read bible in Hebrew, Aramaic study under a rabbi... Why making yourself judge when Jesus himself did not make himself one, John 12:46-47 and John 8:15. What should I repent from? From knowing the truth and exposing falsehood? Abi from using my brain as religious people don't use theirs? Why are you having problem with the TRUTH which is doing away with religious doctrines but embracing LOVE. ? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Demanded Return Of Tithe From My Former Church – Abuja Man by johnog4sure: 7:44pm On Mar 17, 2024 |
GreatAchiever1: You quote Acts 10:34-35, so please tell me why did you skipped 36? These other countries you mentioned, please tell me if their false religions proclaim Jesus Christ as Lord of all. Yes the Lord is not partial, and if they come to Christ in repentance and forsake their false gods, tell me will God abandon them.
Romans 8:35, is the ample ground of the believers confidence in Christ and not for degenerate sinners.
See how you even twisted John 4:20-24 to conclude that one don't need doctrine, infact it's because of people like you who are bent on twisted the word of God in Scripture to mean anything is the very reason why doctrine matters. Even with 36, does that make any difference, Jesus himself said it in Mathew 7:21 emphasis has always been on DO, if you like follow all doctrines, and theologies, if you don't DO, but those you are judging (Buddhist, Islam and Atheist) DO, they will go to the heaven you proclaimed while you will be cast out . It's appalling how you make yourself a judge and know who are sinners and who aren't, so much for your lovely religion. Finally I'll gain nothing twisting anything, I mean why should I, I am not looking for 'believers' or 'converts' it is you people that are always looking for validation by large followership. You see religious people are like smokers, just like tobacco smokers they will see all the warning written on the pack of cigarettes 'smokers are liable to die young' they will still go ahead to buy and smoke. I will always point out the Truth with good reasoning and evidence it is left for you to make your decision. Peace and love from here. |
Romance › Re: I Slept With My Married Ex by johnog4sure: 4:14pm On Mar 17, 2024 |
Uche7779: Hello Guys,
I just violated one of my biggest rules in life and I have been sober ever since.
I got into Abuja on an official assignment, A bit bored, I asked my ex to come over just to have a harmless talk. The first day she came to the officer with her daughter and it was purely just reminiscing and having a harmless laugh. We had lunch and she left.
Two days later, I invited her to my hotel and she came and the unimaginable happened.
I have been filled with guilt, my head is so full with regrets. Another man's wife.
I need help to get over this, who can I talk to please. It appears I am depressed. Can someone please make me feel better. Please! You did wrong, girls plenty Weller for Abuja na, they hang around hotels, this what you should do now if you're truly sorry block her every where then forgive yourself |
Politics › Re: Ounje Eko: Large Crowd As Lagos Discounted Food Markets Begin Sales (Photos) by johnog4sure: 3:58pm On Mar 17, 2024 |
Food subsidy? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Demanded Return Of Tithe From My Former Church – Abuja Man by johnog4sure: 3:57pm On Mar 17, 2024 |
GreatAchiever1: So when Christ said, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but through Me in John 14:6, what did he mean or when he said “Do not think that I came to bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. — Matthew 10:34, what was he exactly saying?
Look, True religion to God the father is only through His Son Jesus, there is no other way and any Christian that is in support of ecumenical belief in one religion saying we all worship the same god is selling a lie. True Christianity do not worship the same God as do other religions do. Now let's do some reasoning if the white man had not introduced your enslaved fathers, how else would you have heard of Jesus? You would have been condemned to hell? Let's reason. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Demanded Return Of Tithe From My Former Church – Abuja Man by johnog4sure: 3:49pm On Mar 17, 2024 |
GreatAchiever1: So when Christ said, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but through Me in John 14:6, what did he mean or when he said “Do not think that I came to bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. — Matthew 10:34, what was he exactly saying?
Look, True religion to God the father is only through His Son Jesus, there is no other way and any Christian that is in support of ecumenical belief in one religion saying we all worship the same god is selling a lie. True Christianity do not worship the same God as do other religions do. I was expecting you to quote that verse, I will answer you, he simply meant 'do as I do' Peter later discovered this truth in Act 10:34-35 it doesn't matter your religious affiliation the universe will judge us by what we DO, still wondering why some black people believe a loving God we throw billions of Chinese, Indians, Jews etc. in hell, just because they don't practice a confused religion called Christianity? The same religion who said nothing can separate you from His love Romans 8:35. Finally do you really know the God you claim you worship? Because Jesus himself said this in John 4:20-24 you don't need doctrines, congregation, fellowship to worship the standard here is TRUTH & SPIRIT you can never know the truth if you're feeding your ignorance with religious lies and falsehood. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Beyond Dancing In Church, Christians Must Develop Personal Relationship With God by johnog4sure: 3:29pm On Mar 17, 2024 |
Bliztzer: Wetin u know about Christianity wey u wan dey challenge?
Jesus said so many things that many Christians refuse or never wish to follow expecially some pastors. Today we have more fake Christians that real one. Jesus said, "when I return will I find any faithful one earth?"
He last command was for Christians go to every where in the world to preach the gospel of Kingdom. Go read Matthew, make, luke and John. 'Wetin I know '? Somebody who was born into a Catholic home, called pastor right from teenage age? Managed several christian fellowship? Managed a church? Ordained a pastor? Almost started his own religious movement (mind u this involve detail research into religion)? This is why you carefully talk to people you meet in a faceless forum. Religious people keep using the words 'real vs false' in their defense, if there is any truth in religion, we shouldn't be have any debate about authenticity, there is no such thing as real truth vs false Truth. Jesus said you should preach? The best preaching is your way of life, you do not have the morale right to tell somebody to do what you are cannot do? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Demanded Return Of Tithe From My Former Church – Abuja Man by johnog4sure: 3:16pm On Mar 17, 2024 |
PoliteActivist: Who are the vulnerable? The vulnerable make the highest percentage in any congregation, they are majorly those who are made to believe they owe God worship, they include regular goers, 'sinners', church workers, etc. |