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earthrealm:
pls whats the effective cure for grasses growing btw interlocking paving stones?
i learnt specially inert treated sand is used to fill the cracks, but i think this gets diluted/washed away after some years, thus the grasses stage a comeback, now they r back what should i use to stop them, tried herbicides [suggested by some1, dont know the name] but it didnt last, 2months after they came back again

Didn't they lay polythene before fixing the interlocking tiles?

This is not true love, but foolishness...

Why only NYSC?
Guess the coy is looking for someone to use without pay...

Why do ladies suddenly become scared & furious when they hear the word DNA?

Shows many of them got something to hide....

mikedimeji:
Bros let's correct wrong doing for the purpose of posterity. I definitely will not keep quiet if I were the husband, I will tell him u can't just bagged into my room without knocking and will immidiately order him out my room, his apologies will come later. And I'm sure a right thinking man will do same, no be fight but u it's the right thing to do at that moment

I quite understand your point...But i am sure Op's husband reprimanded his brother, it's natural, every man will do that. but from what i can deduce, i think the op want something a little bit too far. We all have different approach to resolving issues. I think apologies is what this situation deserves & the brother has done that.

bukatyne:
Very true.

The issue here is that u guys aren't seeing what op brother in-law did as a mistake, but as a delibrate act. I am not trying to justify what the guy did, but considering it's the first & we all are prone to mistakes. Making a mistake & being disrespectul are two different things.
I think op should have let go after he has apologized. I see no reason for bringing it up again.

Sterope:
Why are some men very stu.pid?

Can you please point me towards the law that granted Mrs Ambode the power to sack the chaplain? Did she put a gun to her husband's head and demand he sacks the chaplain?

Lol...This is what the op's husband didn't fall for...kudos to him...
Op expected her husband to beat his brother & sent him packing....& later put the blame on the man if she had a gun to his head...So Op husband is wise afterall going by your comment...

mbaboy:
How can u compare Nnamdi Kanu's agitation with what those northern youths did, the ibos have been treated unjustly in this entity called Nigeria and thanks to Mohammadu Buhari for making Kanu a great man

Lol...

PaperLace:
It's a matrimonial room!!! If you don't understand how sacred it is, ask your mother, she is a woman I suppose.

Lol...So because it is a matrimonial room nobody should get close?

Do u know my mum was once rescued by a neighbour right from her matrimonial bed when no one was at home during my NYSC.....

Guess i don't place so much value on these things because of my life experience...
Different stroke for different folks....

Caustics:
its not an insult. he is hailing you.

Lol...

richyblink1:
Lols @the insult part. Never insulted you, not my style. You would have try finding out the meaning of my phrase. It's like saying; egbon ekuse oh

Don't be offended bro....
Didn't understood what u wrote...i understand this one ' ekuse' welldone...
Did my NYSC in yoruba land...understand's only the greetings... ekaro & ekuse...

PaperLace:
I would have thought secondary schools are on mid term break, going by some juvenile comments here.

OP, you reserve the right to feel the way you feel. I will feel the same way. It's worrying that he comes into your matrimonial room without knocking, you didn't set the boundaries before now. He even stood there apologising, apologising while staring at your unclothedness and your husband didn't react? Nawa!!

It should hurt that your husband dismissed it like that. He isn't expected to kill his brother, but I expected him to show more seriousness. They both don't have any much respect for you.

Call the brother and warn him sternly never to enter your room, with/without knocking. He shouldn't even come close to your room. Try to forget about it, I can imagine how you feel _it's normal, but you'll be fine.

Why are some women like this?
This was why ambode's wife sacked the chaplain pastor...Reading meanings to irrelevant things....
The dude has apologized..
This is the first time such a thing is happening...A pure mistake...
The husband should kill his brother to show seriousness?

bukatyne:
It seems your brother in law & husband doesn't accord you much respect.

BIL should have knocked before entering your matrimonial room and hubby should have scolded him.

Anyways, throw it off your mind.... the more you dwell on it, the more you analyze the situation and become more ashamed, embrassed, angry etc.

Just tell your BIL to always knock before entering your room.

The bold isn't true...

richyblink1:
Kai!! People dey ooo! So I should give my brother a medal for foolishly entering my room without respect. Or issue him a cheque for still standing after noticing my wife is naked.
Ony'isi, ndewoo

@bold u don't need to resort to insult bro....
U sound as if u are infallible...We all make mistakes & this is a mistake anyone can make probably as a result of over familiarity in the house. Such a mistake does not necessary bespeaks disrespect, but oneness & a well united home...

But from the way u talk i will advise u to give your siblings some respect, u should ask yourself why the op husband acted the way he did...Spirit of Oneness bro...

richyblink1:
Kindly read well or get a recommended glass. I am male for your information, and married as well. My younger brother dare not enter my room without knocking, not to talk of standing after seeing my wife naked. Except he wants to explain his real intentions towards my wife

We are all wired differently bro...U acting that way doesn't make it right....
See the way u talk am sef...Na people like u they kill their brother because of woman...

Read the op with a recommended glass & see her husband's response....that is how any sensible man should act & not threatening thunder....guess your brother is not trustworthy...

MissIndependent:
Any man should knock when entering a ladies room locked or not.

Lol...Do ladies hide human head in their rooms....

This issue of knocking is somewhat subjective & depends on the relationship....often times i don't knock before entering my sisters room...the door is even always open, just with a door curtain hung on it...

richyblink1:
So you mean the brother in law standing there after noticing his elder brother's wife is naked is cool?
What happens to him walking away so she can cover up before coming to apologise.

Honestly whether he walk's away or stay to deliver his message is the same thing, the mistake has already been done. For me, it was more prudent of him to apologize & deliver his message, instead of rushing out like a kid without apologizing...

U women read unwarranted meaning to everything, it is not as bad as the way the op is putting it....

iyaayi:
my live in brother in law of whom we are agemates barged into my room unannounced this morning. I was totally naked & had to dive under the bed from the shame & shock.
he stood there apologising that he didn't know i was in the room (we had met outside by the clothes line a short while ago).
the most painful part is that my husband who was lying in d bed in the room didn't find it necessary to utter a word.
when I confronted him, he said that shebi his brother had said 'sorry'
I really don't know what to do. I feel let down by hubby's reaction & also ashamed about the whole incident.
pls good folks, what do I do to redress the situation. thank you

What are u hiding from your brother in-law sef?
Do u know if he will be the one to save u in the future regardless of your dress state?
God forbid you had an accident & all your clothes are torn off....will u be talking of being unclad...

The dude has apologized & your husband has already told u that....U want your brother in-law to kill himself because he saw u unclad?
What do u want to redress again....Guess u are looking for a way to cause trouble between your husband & his brother, so he can send him packing....because since the dude has already apologized, i see no reason for creating this thread....other than to cause trouble....

Will being attracted to ladies take care of a man bills & put food on his table?
Rubbish!!!

EgunMogaji:
It's called a groover.

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Thanks

4C2215131:
Greetings!

Observation noted. Will revert.

Regards

Ask your architect if he will be doing the following;
German floor
parapet.

Also ask him if supervision is included. If his answers to the above question is yes, then i will advise u to go ahead with him...

Know that materials are now quite expensive, bag of cement has increased, rods, wood etc...

InvertedHammer:
What is the horizontal line/grove (as shown in the picture below) on the wall called?

Is it made pre or post plastering?

I have seen some aluminium inserts (probably cladding), but just curious.

Any ideas?

It should be during the plastering. There should be a tool for marking out the desired line during plastering

prodigy24:
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Your war threat is strengthening us,I assure you your tribe vs Igbo will not last two days but years u are banking on all the tribes against Igbo,don't worry we won't give any reason to go to war,when we get Biafra, but as soon as we get it,we will bet you for war and you will never see to the end I promise you this.

Some people are very senseless....Lol....
Have u sat down to ask yourself why biafra never succeded during Ojukwu's time....? Because Nnamdi Azikiwe never supported it....
Do u even know what it takes to prosecute a war?
I thought Ojukwu advised u people not to go into war again, because it is expensive?
What do u people have on your land to fight a war?
First go get the support of your leaders before coming to NL to spew trash...
Without the support of your leaders u people are wasting time....
Nnamdi Kanu is a poor man & does not have the financial muscle to pull this through...
International communities are not interested in biafra because your land has got nothing to offer.... Apart from the fake products u people are known for, whatelse can u people offer?

Believe me i sorry for u folks...Thought u people will learn from South Sudan....

dubemcapital:
Yes, I understand some are completely open behind but I prefer it different..

We are still at finial stage of the roof, having designed a channel for the water flow, as the work proceeds I will show more about the Water collection and to the storage tank . But at the sloppiest area have an out let, though we are not done with it yet.... See pics

Okay....thanks

This your roof drainage is not clear to me o....
How do u intend to drain the water? not the slope....
because seem's there is a high wall behind the sloped area

famosh:
Keep deceiving yourself by interpreting the bible to suit your bias!

God bless u sir
This thread just revealled to me we have no christians in this country...
No wonder corruption has eaten so deep....

Roseey0:
Christianity came with Chris, nothing like old or new Christian. plz follow Christ's teaching. Read John 8 again and tell me where restitution was mentioned by Christ himself. Abi Jesus is now a new generation Christian too
Or remain in the old testament and continue to sacrifice bulls on the alter.

When i say modern day christianity, i meant the one u people created yourself...i wasn't referring to old testament...

I asked u a question;
Was op not aware adultery is a sin before committing the act?
Just saw on someone's comment she even did it with a pastor...

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It isn't a must to be a christian
Nobody compelled the op to open this thread...
But if she wants God's forgiveness & that of her man...i believe that is the price she has to pay...

Adam & Eve was sent out of the garden of eden because they committed sin...that was the price they had to pay

Moses never entered the promise land because he disobeyed God....

If your kind of sin warrants paying a price....do it & be close to God...

Roseey0:
There is noo restitution in Christ plz. Christ took it all on the cross.
What restitution did Christ give the woman caught in adultery?
Go and sin no more
That's all..

Istoctober
Plz buy Joseph Prince books and read
You just need to accept that God has forgiven you.

Smh
Modern day christianity...It doesn't really matter syndrome, that is why today's churches condone all type of sin...

@bold...u people just interprete the bible to suit your selfish desires....
answer this question;
Was op not aware adultery is a grevious sin in christianity before she committed the act?

What u are saying in essence is we as christians should go about committing sin & ask for forgiveness?
May God forgive u...

Ishilove:
[b][/b]
You answered the first two, and avoided the last question.

That's you knowing what you should do but battling with your conscience.

Who can condemn who God has forgiven? While you flogging yourself, God is saying 'I love you and I will not remember your past iniquities'.

You realised your wrong, asked God for forgiveness and repented. Now you have to forgive yourself and let go. God has not condemned you so free yourself from the cage you have put yourself.

If you say you want to confess then also prepare yourself for the storm that will follow.

As for your husband, what's up with all these mental fuckery? Are you acting in any way that's making him suspect you?

OMG! U are such a bad adviser...are u christian?
U think God is human we play tricks on?
Go find out what he did to David & Moses in the bible...
Op committed adultery, cheated on her husband, she is still living under the same roof with this man, eating & sleeping with him, she didn't confess to the man whom she cheated on. But went about telling pastors that advised her to keep it a secret & u think that is how forgiveness works? The forgiveness of her husband is paramount if u understand anything abt christianity....

istoctober:
l have asked a pastor and he said l shouldn't confess but am worried cos he told me on Sunday that his uncle who is a native doctor will know if l am cheating on him.

@bold a pastor told u not to confess?
That man is not a pastor...Do u know the meaning of Restitution in christianity?

Oyindidi:
you are wrong

Op is right
Esan men are nice...talking from experience....