₦airaland Forum

happiness32:
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The road projects are also extended to LGAs and rural communities across Kogi
Governor Yahaya Bello turning Kogi into a construction hub

You want the truth and nothing but the truth. Come to Kogi and see things as they are. Good or bad judge it yourself

I know comments are deliberately put here to create disharmony between ethnic groups. We need to be careful.

What exactly is tribalism in the Igbo character. There is none whatsoever.

Lies. I hope it is not the diversion before emergency rule

I know it will come to nothing. Obi is far up in the credibility ladder. He is too clean for any local reproach.

Adoption must be in the interest of both the adoptive parents and the child. It should fullfil the desire of the parent to raise children and for the child, protection and care untill adulthood. People must however understand the implications of adoption. It requires mental and spiritual maturity to really play the role a biological parent would play. Because there are many ways the adoption can just go wrong. The child could grow and not fit the expectations of the adopting parents in terms of looks, handsome or ugly, healthy or not, intelligent or dull. Maturity will determine how the adoptive parents will relate with their adopted children in such challenging times. It's quite possible at such times the feelings of regret and "had I known better" will set in. Spiritual maturity is key. Not having a child is enough burden and having to adopt without adequately caring for them amounts to adding guilt to the situation.

truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

This is super.

Because they will be alone and exposed.

mrvitalis:
It's not bowing igbos never bow what yorubas did in ilorin and what Hausas did is bowing

Greatest response of this century. You simply said the truth.

Whatever I am sure the engagement will be more in the interest of Russia than Nigeria. Russia is self sufficient in oil and gas so I wonder where their interest is. Maybe solid minerals. I hope whatever it is the licences are not sold for peanuts prices. They should remember to have Nigerians who understands Russian vet the agreement before signing.

Ikillbrokehoes:
These boys are hardened drug addicts that live a reckless life, they spend so much time on frivolities than checking their healths, I've been around guys like that, and I know what they are capable of doing.

the way young boys are exposed to drugs these days is so alarming.

I once came across the troop in the airport. They obey no one and seem ready to fight airport staff who are legitimately doing their job. It even took and army officer in camouflage to intervene and even do so in an overtly polite manner for the young men to be pacified.

What will you call men who are celebrities. Male prostitutes

As far as am concerned this UGM actions will favor APC politics. If all others are scared away from the polls the elections will still take place and INEC will still announce results. That's why i am beginning to be doubtful that IPOB has anything to do with the UGM saga if their interest is still pro SE.

Good news. More of this

ezugegere:
I told somebody that if a 'repentant' Boko Haram commander contests the presidential election against a non-Muslim, majority of core-northers plus the Tivs and Muslim Ebiras of the middle belt will vote for the Boko Haram commander. Those guys are something else

What you said is very true but few will understand. Those people enjoy their life of servitude

End times shark

Shame on those Nigerias hell bent on voting this president.

techwaya:
Miyetti Allah has vowed not to obey the anti-grazing ban enacted by southern governors which will commence September 1,and southern governors has vowed not to backdown on the ban,FG has shown they are in full support of Miyetti Allah since it's a Fulani government anyway so we kmow which side they will take.

Let's assume the ban has being enforced on September 1 and Miyetti Allah refuses to comply with the ban since they doesnot recognize the law,in the southwest Amotekun starts chasing out all the cows and herders,in the east ESn and south especially delta mobs starts chasing them out things might turn bloody and of course FG will wade in as a peacemaker and of course we know which side they will take.either Miyetti or the governors someone has to backdown..

Mind you ESN is not an agent of SE governors. The governors themselves will fashion out their strategy which I doubt they have any

poiu44:

Do you still recommend egunje for soldiers

[quote author=Poiu11 post=105273367][/quote]Tell us please. Is it true. I want to visit mississauga

Musiwa back. Can this be true

tensazangetsu20:
I was watching a documentary today on CNN about the Talibans capture of a major city in Afghanistan. The first thing they did was to get all girls from age 12 and above for the commanders and various members to get married to and it got me thinking. The Taliban and the various terror groups in the north all share the same ideology. No amount of weapons or super intelligence can defeat this guys. I mean the USA poured in over 20 billion dollars in Afghanistan. Sent in high end weapons, trained the Afghan troops yet they still lost the war. 20 years gone, thousands of Americans dead and the war was lost.

If a whole America couldn't defeat the Taliban what is the fate of the Nigerian army in winning the boko haram war. They are even recruited into the same army and people in the south are just sitting down. Whether people like it or not. Those guys will take over the north and when they do what happens to the south. I mean people make a lot of noise on social media but we all know southern tribes aren't used to wars or warrior like in nature compared to the north that has known and fought all kinds of wars. Even if the country divides as people want it to. Will independent southern nations have the resources to fight the terror groups in the north. With Afghanistan under taliban control it will become a training and funding ground for all forms of terror group.

I have always predicted southern Nigeria to be like congo or Liberia in the future but with what's going on in the north it might be much worst than Afghanistan and Yemen put together.

Majority of the Afghans share same ideology as the Taliban but align with USA because of the availability of US dollar. This is the only reason why USA failed to defeat them.

ademusiwa3r:
This is how public schools are funded
So you create crisis, for public schools..


That why you have boko Haram, because public schools are no more funded and have no military officers in them


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Musiwa must have attended a military school

May Nigeria not fail. I really love this country.

Emmadoc:
Why do the Igbos think every tribe in Nigeria hates them? Honestly it baffles me a lot.

They think no other tribe is up to them, it makes me wonder if there won't be any form of dictatorship on other minor tribes that decides to join them in their quest for Biafra, when it is actualized.

You will not be asking these questions if history is still taught in schools.

Honestly i don't understand why to some people Nnamdi Kanu must die.

Abiola's son Kola alluded to that in a television appearance. Why this extent of hate is inexplicable.

In4matic:
How more industrious can you be than the Chinese? Does that change the fact their still aliens in Nigeria?
So we should allow the Chinese,and Indians unrestricted access into Nigeria because they're "industrious minds"?

Come on, be logical dude.
Can the people of Southern Cameroon Saunter across the border to come and start claiming rights? Afterall, they were formerly in Nigeria?

Modified

The bolded is the key word. Betterment of Nigeria.

Tell me why will NIGERIA pursue the betterment of Biafran people's interest than bettering her citizens?

But the Chinese are even more remote to Nigeria than the Igbo who is capable of delivering to the same scale as the Chinese if not more. What we are asking Nigerians is for them to be fare to the Igbo even as much as they have been to other non Nigerians including the Chinese. Will you dare to touch a Chinese property in Nigeria?

flokii:
They will have to put them up for sale at very cheap price for indigenes that can afford else ownership will automatically transfer to the government of that nation from which they were evicted if they fail to dispose them off. As my people would say.. won ma lu ni gbanjo ta ni

Which property jero get sef? na rent dem rent house come jampack the whole place with their relations from village.

The reason Pa Awolowo returned their properties was to reunite and lessen their burden and losses from the war. Alas the people of Niger Delta especially Port Harcourt no send them o, they meted the right punishment by seizing and converting all the properties they left behind. shi shi dem no see till date.

Typical mindset of the blackman that Nnamdi Kanu frequently speaks about. Lack of productive thought is the bane of blacks. It is the main reason for our backwardness. A positive mind will welcome the industrious spirit that produced those properties so for more development. Separation should not be seen as quarrel but as a way to better the lives of all parts of Nigeria.

Beyond what ever one might think about Nnamdi Kanu it is very clear that the SE is treated as an enemy with or without IPOB activity. IPOB activity has only made that hatred to become more obvious

networkgenuis:
I take all these soul stuff with a truck load of salt.

LOL

networkgenuis:
Sleep paralysis happens when the part of your brain in charge of consciousness wakes up or sleeps before the part that’s in charge of movement. Sleep paralysis episodes are always characterized by hallucinations; this explains your weird experience. There’s nothing spiritual about it as far as I know.

Don’t let anyone take advantage of you by playing on your fears.

This could also mean a manifestation of unbalance between the soul and the body housing it.

While in my university days I experienced a very strange one. Though I am very used to sleep paralysis as I experienced it regularly when I was younger. This time I was wide awake and fully conscious of my environment just that I could not move any part of my body. I felt a hand squeezing my balls with such intensity that it made me struggle to shout but I couldn't . In my mind I wondered if it was one of my room mates trying me with an expensive horseplay. After a few seconds I came to. The turmoil I had experienced during the sleep paralysis had given way to complete quiet and still in my room. It was 4am and two of my room mates were reading their books quietly and completely oblivious of what I experienced. I still felt the pain in my groins all through the day. There is something about sleep paralysis that cannot be explained just by intellectual reasoning alone.