DonFreshmoney: In Benue you will hardly find a 20 year old lady that hasn't done abortion or have a child.. 20 yrs is even high... Benue na my hometown but the only career or job those young guys do apart from farming na kpanshing... even their streams in the rural areas, guys and girls bath naked.. why wont they kpansh without condom after seeing each other?
In all relationships that ended, it is always women complaining that they were left, or the men were on the wrong or men messed it. My question is, are women always innocent in case of a break up? No, this is a clear answer. In some cases, women are the wrong and led to the man leaving them. What I know, women always play victim. They might even push the man to going away so that it will seem like it is the man who left or the man was on the wrong. Tactics women often use are: -
1. Rationing sex. This is a sure deal breaker. A man who was used to getting constant sex is suddenly denied. Slowly, such a man eventually reaches a breaking point and “cheats” thus giving a woman the perfect excuse to go.
2. Being overly demanding. This literally chocks the man until he feels he is not a man enough for her and simply bails out. 3. Living beyond her means making the man feel useless.
4. Nagging. No man ever wants a nagging woman and this is a sure way to push the man away.
5. Flirting with other men openly and when the man raises an issue he is told, “they are just friends, you are just insecure, you are just too protective, it is just casual friendship, etc.” but she knows what she is doing.
6. On the flip side, a woman who knows she has a very high libido might become overly demanding to the man making him feel not a man enough and thus the man literally runs away from her.
7. She begins to dress unattractively so that the man gets pissed and embarrassed to be with her. With time the man begins to notice other more attractive ladies and it is a matter of time before he leaves.
8. She cheats on him, and throws the blame to him e.g. you are never there for me, you do not satisfy me, etc.
9. She begins to compare him with other men often richer men until the man gets tired of her and bails out.
10. If she gets married with a child, she begins to get in touch with her baby daddy something which men really hate. Very few men can survive this.
11. She begins to slowly cut off communication and when the man asks why, her reasons are she is busy. When the man pushes further, he is labelled insecure. Within no time, the man is tired and going away. The girl is smiling But after all these, they often cry foul of being dumped but they engineered the entire process. So, men, be wary of the above and much more. When a woman wants you to leave, she will craft a way out for you such that you will seem like ‘the bad one’. Be wise........
ochejoseph: Gov Ortom Wake Up: Benue COVID 19 Palliatives In Kano Markets (VIdeo)
At this difficult time in our Nations history Benue state should not be in the news for Shameful reasons such as this .
At a time when our people are hungry , evil men and women are selling off food items donated to them as Palliatives by the coalition against COVID-19.
When i initially saw this news i felt it was an attempt to blackmail the state Government until details emerged that evil men and women within the government are responsible for these travesty of Justice.
“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”- Edmund Burke
This is a direct call the Gov Ortom to Wake up from slumber before evil men rubbish him and his Government, its a disgrace that Benue is selling off her COVID 19 Palliatives. This Palliative must be returned in full and shared to the needy and those who truly needs them. For....
Thus says the Lord of hosts: ‘Execute true justice, show mercy and compassion everyone to his brother. Do not oppress the widow or the fatherless, the alien or the poor. Let none of you plan evil in his heart against his brother.’” Zechariah 7:8-10.
SPOLO: So i met this bae on FB and we got chatting though she is far from me and we agreed to meet when she travels home during december period.
So she pleaded me to help her with MTN airtime which i took the one i had with me before and she said it was already used so i agreed that maybe i have used it before. So i went to Get another one and sent it and this girl said the code ain't correct......she was now trying to say am playing her i said see no problem next time.
I kept the airtime till yesterday i called MTN customer care to confirm if it was used already or if truly the pin was incorrect .
So the customer care agreed to help me check so i called the serial no. For him and he checked and confirmed it was Loaded exactly the time i sent the card to her that day.
Then i knew she loaded it but babe want to scam me so that i will sent another one. Who knows she migh have als loaded the other one i sent before i sent another.
D card is not an issue o but dam such attitude is bad....i just dey Look her profile and shook my head
jodpoundz: like yesterday she was asking me wether i saw her sis, something that she could just call her phone like isnt that uneccesary
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what are you waiting for? that's the greenlight you need. I think what you lack is COURAGE to talk to her. just have this in mind when you ask her out, either she accept or she didn't. the fact remains that she won't kill u.
jodpoundz: Experts on wooing babes pls i need your help, there is this girl i like i didnt know she like me until she told my brother bluntly that she like me about a month ago, but i dont know how to go about it becus i dont know wether she meant it or she just said it on a casual basis, she look strict on a normal day and i dont want to get the embarrasment of my life cus am not sure wether she feel the same, but i notice these days that she wear tight dresses when ever am around and she like asking me uneccesary questions maybe just to have a glance of my face but still am not sure, experts pls i need your experienced advise i dont want the girl to slip off my radar pls. abeg mature minds.
What are the unnecessary question she's asking you? I want to know before I'll advice you.
marisdgreat: Did u even have sense at all? A young boy on duty as a fuel attendant was killed by one of the soldiers and u called him a miscreant. chai may ur family members be affected and someone will tagged them miscreants.