Otitipupa:
She has been staying with us for over a month now. I don’t even know how they met each other, he just brought her one day and introduced her as his girlfriend.

I have tried to tell him it’s wrong being with an underaged girl but he told me to mind my business. I can’t say much to him because I don’t have a job and I’m squatting with him. He is the one feeding me and giving me money to go for interviews.

He is treating the girl really bad. I sleep on the floor while they sleep on the bed. One night, he wanted to have his way with her and the girl said she was tired. I heard him tell her that she is not a real woman that is always ready to please her man. He threatened her he won’t marry her again. She told him she is sorry and allowed him.

He has slapped her 2 times in my presence. He is treating her like a slave. I am afraid to advice the girl to go back home as she might tell him.

The guy is a notorious cultist and I don’t want to step on his toes. Please how do I report this matter anonymously to the right authorities without it backfiring me.

We stay in a akwaibom

She doesn’t have parents? She doesn’t have family?

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

From this plenty story, all I can say is that nobody in Nigeria can use food to stress me. If you too vex, I will cook for you and your extended family.

I login to Nairaland after many months, and this thread is the first thing in the front page. It’s disappointing, how Nairaland used to be a useful site. How this rubbish mode it to front page is what I don understand.

NnolimNzubechi:



He Told Me To Come Back Because I Apologize For Smoking And That I will Never Smoke Again.If 'Not That I apologize He would Not Have Told Me To Come Back

You're 19. You do know that you should stop smoking. Seek help. Work on your mindset.

Ugaboy:
Nairalander, please rate my performance

First and completed Data Analytic Visualization Project... coming from zero to here just in two weeks...I would love to xplain everything in details but I think it not necessarily...this an analysis for U.S Passenger Dataset, I cant rate this so good...I want to xplore some more chart that can carry so much detail and prediction.

Though there is no prediction on this visual...but tell the story of the performance.

The dataset contains Date, Country and numbers of passengers.

With the Analysis, you can make prediction months and days U.S are likely to have more passengers traveling or migrating.

You can also tell the exponential growth, why 2020 has the lowest passengers

Though I have some Machine Learning project on Python, Excel and Statistics (I just choose to share this cus I joined a monthly competition on LinkedIn)

Let me stop here, I see how you all rate a new Barber, graphics designer.
Come and do this for me...man want to feel encourage

Very nice. I just feel your background should have been light. My opinion.

porthouse7:
going hard u help ur matter, what phone are u using?

Allow yourself to be helped bro. My phone brands don't matter to you.

Albert0011:
Good evening to everyone in the house.

Today my cousin sister schooling at uniben just called me this afternoon and was crying on phone that someone just scammed her on WhatsApp.

According to her,she said that she meet the girl on a WhatsApp group and the girl convinced her that there is an investment scheme that she will invest 5000 to get 10000 within 30 minutes.

Because of her naivety,she sent the money to the girl, the girl later told her that the one of 5k is no longer available that the remaining slot available to invest is 10k, so she told her to send extra 5k to balance it. She still sent the money to her.

After everything has been done, she said that my sister must send extra 7k to claim her 45k.
She still sent the money to the girl hoping that she will get the money.

Immediately she sent sent her the money, she started giving my sister excuses and later blocked her on WhatsApp.

Is there any hope that if i report the account to the bank for fraudulent activity.
Can the money be recovered or should i just tell her to forget It and move on?
she has sent me all their chats and evidences.

Moderators should help me and push it front to page.

Sorry bro... But who still does investments via WhatsApp in 2022? No loss is small, but I hope your sister learns from this.

Abetterperson:
My long time crush recently came home big, he brought with him the lastest cars and accessories, I was shocked because this guy is in his late teens.

He saw me one day and offered to take me out, me I nor gree because I nor one die, I Neve reach to see my ancestors, his source of income is still unknown, I asked his sister, she claims he caught one big client and that's how he made his money, I was like big client, as in Yahoo! She reply yes that Yahoo (fraud) is really favoring him.

His family all thinks he is a Yahoo boy but the thing is that one of his friends that hustle at the same office (fraud hangout) is no where to be seen, rumor has it that the guy refused to do ritual and was killed because he knows the secret of their wealth, that guy's family are still looking for answer but sadly the police are not helping, they are busy collecting money from my ex crush.

My ex crush family are all standing tall saying that the devil wants to use people to destroy their happiness.

Just last week my ex crush invited me to come to his Thanksgiving in CHURCH, like what is he thanking God for, for helping him Carry out his crimes. The pastor is not helping matters, why would he let that guy do Thanksgiving in his church, a money from the devil is going to be presented at the alter of God.

Please is this ritual thing even real because people are calling the guy a ritualist.

Current crush is a r!tualist. "Ex-crush" is/was a r!tualist too....

When will you agree to take your eyes away from r!tualists?

donbachi:
Men!
Some of una no go make heaven.ur woman is trying hard to keep u by having a healthy sex life with u.u come here to shame her.
Tufiakwa!

Lol. Just what I wanted to say. But you can't blame the guy na. He doesn't understand what it takes for her to wait all that time for him. She wants to enjoy every second she has to spend with him before he leaves again. Bros don think plenty things.
Anyways, all the best to two of them.

porthouse7:
i didnt buy in nigeria

They said you bought refurbished phone. You're talking "Nigeria". Whether you bought it in Nigeria or not, it is refurbished. It's nothing to be ashamed of nau.

AniwetaluEmma:
IPhone is an identity created by it's uniqueness. People fancy it. Thus creating high market value. That doesn't mean that Android phones are not doing good. There are no significant difference between IPhone and recent Android phones in terms of speed and optimisation.
Considering the performance of the recent Android phones one would keep wondering why a sane person would spend a whopping amount of 1000 dollars on a phone that does the same thing with 200 dollars Android phone.

Leemao .. guy forget all this epistle. Travel outside the shores of Africa, and see that everyone uses an iphone. Everyone! And like I said earlier, people don't spend $1,000 outrightly on an iphone. They have payment plans. Go to apple.com and check it out. You can spread your payment for up to 24 months without interest. So, relax. The owners and makers of the iphone didn't have developing countries in mind when making their devices.

CELEBRITIZ:

Thanks for the correction. I made a mistake

Correct guy

CELEBRITIZ:

I didn't edit your write up baba. I said let me Borrow someone quote. Na quote you want dey fight for . Na wa for you ooo. So because I use am now u dey vex . If I go claim say na me type am nko u go beat me . U be man stop all this attitude

Wow. Sorry o. There's no need to be this aggressive. I only found out that you put your quote inside mine. Anyone who sees that would assume I said all those things you said. Chill. U be man too na. Why all this hot sauce this evening?

[quote author=CELEBRITIZ post=109983339][/quote]

Bro, please if you want to quote my post. Put your quote under my write up. Don't edit my write up.

porthouse7:
infinix hot 4 ba3 last longer than iphone 13 practically, not mouth talk

I'd like to assume you use (or have used) both. Just do a quick excercise for me:

On your iphone, go to Settings >> Battery >> Battery Health.

Check out "Maximum Capacity"... If it says anything less than 100%, then that's the reason why your iphone battery doesn't last.

Please stop comparing an Infinix to iphone 13.

Vinnie2000:


In my Workplace this Evening, One Fine, female Worker started to accost the Guys as we were Leaving.

She was Holding our hands and shoulders, saying Next week Monday is Valentine oo. That we must Buy her Gift, no matter how small.

After her Insistence, my Pal who is Married now Promised to get her Something small.

Me too, Also Promised to Buy her a Gift because who knows 'She might Reward the Givers later'. Lolssss...

BUT SERIOUSLY, IS THERE ANYTHING WRONG FOR A MARRIED GUY TO GIVE A LADY FRIEND OR COLLEAGUE VALENTINE GIFT?

How would you feel if your wife came home on 14th with a gift that her male colleague bought for her, for valentine? Exactly. Stay inside your marriage bro. Don't let all these single people deceive you. Don't deceive yourself either.
Allow that colleague to go and find boyfriend outside. Don't give devil chance to spoil your marriage.

Kingofhoes:


Nah. Even to people outside. Paying $1,000 for a phone is much.

Bro, outside they don't spend $1,000 outrightly on an iphone. They use a payment plan. Like paying only ~$45 monthly, for 24 months.

porthouse7:
i know what u mean, but from pratical observation infinix hot 4 ba3 with 4000mAh last longer than iphone 13 when put to test

Omo! I never thought I'd see the day someone would compare an Infinix with an iPhone 13.

God, these are terrible times.

porthouse7:
scamming people with poor ba3, all iphone user must have power bank

Lol. Not the recent iphones tho. From 11 and up, battery backup has been topnotch. The iphone 13 pro max, has amazing battery. One charge a day and it's good to go.

Maxwell775:
Good day nairalanders. Hope everyone is having a good weekend. I'll be brief.

While I was growing up I love playing football, I'm a very good defensive midfielder, I be correct number 6, I have always wanted to play for Nigeria and other big clubs. But my dreams becoming a footballer wasn't coming to reality so I have to focus on my business full time.

I work from mon - sat, while sundays are my free days but I don't go to church. I'm part of those people that plays ball on a Sunday morning, I'm 31 and I still dey play ball well, Infact from Saturday evening my friends have started calling me against tomorrow's match.

Although my girlfriend have persuaded me to start going to church but all to no avail. I can't remember the last time I went to church. Please note that I study my bible, I pray always, I help people around, I visit homes of the needy. But Its been a decade I went to church.

My girlfriend attends church very well, even weekly service. She is really mad at me, she has invited me to church several times but I would turn her down. Now she said she can't go on with our relationship, she don't want a situation whereby if we get married and other families are going to church with their husbands, that I will be in the streets playing ball, she want her marriage to be built on God's word... Bla Bla Bla

Now My Mother on the other hand, is putting pressure on me to go settle down. Everytime, your mates are married, give me grandchildren, do you want me to die before you marry, I didn't give birth to impotent children.

Guys, please note that my elder bro is married with 2 kids. Abeg no be grandchildren be that?? Why put pressure on me.

My Mother pressure.. My girlfriend pressure. I'm just confused and its getting too much. Please I need advice.

Dude. You're 31, and still harbour a fantasy of playing football for your country? Still glorify playing football on the street over settling down as a man?

I just hope that when you're ready to sit down and make a decision about your future, your "girlfriend" wouldn't have moved on from you. Think about your life man... There's time for everything.

Also, who says that doing good and reading bible can be used to replace attendance in church?

Sigh... All the best to you.

post=109708172:


The English spoken and written by Nigerians,
in recent times, is terrible and getting WORSE.
We look at the writing and comments from Heads of Schools, even private schools in Nigeria and we are shocked and dismayed.
You see things like "why did you CRIED",
when did you BOUGHT it", the past and present tenses never agree.
The same time spent watching BBNaija should be spent learning the Use of English!

CcLib

You're talking as if it's only Nigerians that type with all those errors. Have you taken time to go through a Twitter/Facebook thread dominated by Americans? Have you listened to them talk? Especially in a group? You hear words that can never even make it to slanguage dictionaries. Some of them type so much rubbish, that you have to read six times, to get the gist - most times without punctuations too.

Check Jamaican threads on the internet. Check all these other countries on the exemption list.

We Nigerians have impeccable vocabulary compared to (some of) these people. Put Nigeria on the pedestal she belongs abeg.

P.S. I have signed the petition.

fergie001:


SOURCE

A 28 year old being this childish?

Sophiebabe85:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jruRp5tULzI

Dj Cuppy swim seductively with her guy in the world's highest swimming pool in Dubai

https://instagram.com/stories/cuppymusic/2731362784614580933?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&utm_medium=share_sheet

Half of this video is just "please please please, subscribe to my channel". The other half is what nobody understands about someone going for a swim... Title says "swims seductively". Rubbish. I wasted my data, and my time.

No shame. No shame at all... They wod rather stick to their religion and culture of relegating women to the barest minimum, than give them a chance at life. Simply because they fear that an empowered woman cannot be controlled.

Of course! Why should you control them? Aren't they humans? Aren't they adults?

They keep hiding behind religion.

This bill might never be passed. Sad.
Extremely sad.

So many thirsty boys on this app. Na wa o.

Also, what is "davido's Chioma"? Breakup that happened a very long time ago. Doesn't she have a name of her own?

I don't blame her tbh... I blame the jobless people who are giving her attention. This is exactly how James Brown started. Leave e-touts alone.

Lol. E sure me say na the landlady son be this. The energy is too damn much.
Defender of the universe.

KiNg0G:


I dey type sense.

it take normal human being to understand.



I can bet on my balls the op didn't go there to ask politely or request for the reason why it was locked.

after the fight.

he said he still went to open the well.


that nor supposed tell you say the op get him own for body?


if you get sense You supposed weigh 2 odds



ps
for those quoting me to abuse their father.

quote me and die before the month end

them nor go see your dead body bury.

quote me and see

eddyvilla:
My wife applied many months back and she was asked to pay money. Now she did not apply and have gotten another invite. Anybody with experience with them.

Plaza? In Jabi? No personalized name? Bulk sms?

Dude I don't think anyone needs to tell you... This is a GNLD-like job. Finito!

"Tonto Dike's Ex-husband" has a name.

Stop being childish and petty all because of engagements. It's become disgusting.
Even Churchill's wife has a name.
You can do better than this.

FutureIsFemale:
Nonsense

Since you did not have the intention of marrying Chioma, why took your people to her family and embarrassed her?

May God punish every man that embarrasses a lady with marriage promise.

Back to the topic:

Davido our 21st century Pharisee

God will value twenty naira donated in secret than twenty billion donated in the open

God searches the heart and not the face.

Davido's heart is evil. He is using this donation saga to promote his wacky single he just dropped.

Did you guys see the timing? The time he dropped the single and the time of the donations.

God pass him.

Why are you do pressed?

Smh. You people will eat anything... Tufiakwa!

Which kind nonsense reporting be this abeg? Story that doesn't have head.

Just jumble up everything inside to make the sentences plenty. Without meaning. Y'all should do better please.