She is not the first girl that boyfriend had sex with and didn't marry and she won't be the last. Tell her, you accept that you don't like sex too like that but there won't any financial assistance or money involved in tbe relationship. Both can assist each other as the flesh leads.

blowjohn:
What if I tell u that was the plan all along?

Ronaldo was a carefully hatched plan to rock the boat, cause a stir and disorganised the club in order to bring a new owner.


The more u look , the less u see.

u need a brain check

ThierryJay:


Truly Pendu dey try na. That's the essence of his name. Goatessi too try scoring the penalty today. Argentina go still qualify and top the group. The Saudi loss was just a one-off coupled with the draw between Mexico and Poland.

But it's like all games in this world cup will have a penalty, so Terminaldo must be licking his lips right now

Points so far

KSA 3 pts
Pol 1 pt
Mex 1 pt
Arg 0 pt

*modified: 0 pt for Argentina*

Adedotguy:


A timely interview for him before the world cup and January transfer window.

He knows this will happen, he forced his way out of the club though.

From his interview, some of the things he said are true, Truly the Glazers are not helping the club too.

Even as am a man utd fan I like him, I don't want him to play for utd base on he seems too big of himself to play for man utd. And moreover he never wanted to play for utd that is not in uefa champions League.

I remember legend Raul of Madrid when he was close to retiring he would come on has sub and help the team whether they are winning or losing. Those are legends of a club.

Not this over Sabi and proud he � goat.

And did Real Madrid remember him or Kaka foe anything?

lhordspy:
We saw it coming.... What a relieve! Atleast one good news is popping up today afterall.


I foresee portugal also crashing out in the group stage of the worldcup without winning any match or scoring any goal, with Ronaldo having No goal + No assist.

And the valueless Ronaldo moving back to italy to play Seria B .

You are a total unknown figure in any strata of life for now. Why are you so enraged against another man's success who did nothing wrong to you?

You guys just reason anyhow. If there should be any sold match it should have been Qatar and they lost well. The penalty awarded to Messi, was it justified? The way the KSA played, do they look like underdog? Can't you see that beautiful non set piece goals? When Germany knocked 8-0 to KSA then it was not sold right?

ecoco2014:
No excuses but the cancellation of 2 out of 3 Argentina goals in the 1st half told me something was not right about the officiating.

And you think they deserve the penalty?

yahoodetector:
Don't play with Bet Mafia! They know many people bet billions on Argentina.

This was arranged!

E go shock u

Delight2014:

Can we hear your own tactics

Here comes the tactics.

1. Dress well, look good from head to toe.

2. Approach a lot of girls, ideally 3 girls daily.

3. Apply the SIT method on approach: Smile, Intent and Touch.
S- Smile before approach
I- Show your intention by desiring her, look her from head, boobs to toe
T- Ensure you touch her, be close to her when talking. touch could be handshake, a tap on shoulder anything to break touch barrier.

4. Deliver your opening e.g. hi, I saw you from behind catwalking or walking or dancing or sitting etc and I had to come say , you have a nice figure.( remember with SIT method).
She will smile, then introduce yourself. Then say what you are there doing e.g. I just came to buy something before I got distracted by this sexy girl( You are referring to her, now she is smiling and happy) . Ask her what she is up to or where she is going etc. Then, cut off the rapport, SIT method again,tell her you are rushing somewhere and ask her that you would like to see her like tommorow maybe around 5pm to get to know her better.If she agrees to see you tomorrow or maybe she is free another day. Give her your phone to put in her number.( Don't ask: can I have your number). Then, give her a beep for her to have yours. SIT method on the closing and leave. Call her the next day about the meet and tell her the address or location to meet, bar, restaurant ( for me it's usually my home) and proceed from there if you know what to do. If not ask, and I will continue.

Moh247:



Wooing and toasting is kind of outdated this days

Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her you stay around and would love to be a friend and get her number

If she gives you her number call her and make her know it's you and if it's cool to chat her up on Whatsapp

If she agreed , chat her up briefly to know basics about her, hobbies, her kind of music, any intresting thing about her and be funny, relaxed and make her comfortable enough.

Next thing is to ask her if you guys can hangout on a date,

Take her to a simple restaurant, order for food, chat her up and make sure you know if she's single or in a relationship, if she's single then move on to start flattering and teasing her in a funny way to soften her up

After the date chat her up for a day or two then request another date

If the second date goes smoothly, then move on to inviting her to your house


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OP, Listen to this intelligent dude, and you are friendzoned for life!!!

bestdudes:
Hi, Happy Sunday Evening To Everyone.

A few days ago, I created a thread Titled "Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In."

For Those who may have missed it, here is a link: https://www.nairaland.com/7437137/why-walked-away-3-ladies

Most people who commented on that thread were attacking me: some blamed me, some said I am impatient, others said I lack game and so many other things and a bunch of others said the girls are not into me (meaning they do not find me attractive lol). Summarily, it was my fault.

However, I left out a piece of information in all of these and that is the fact that there is one girl whom I stuck with. What this means is that I approached 4 girls, discarded 3, and stuck with 1. 2 ONLINE, and 2 OFFLINE! Please take note.

Background: I saw this girl in church as she sat behind me, like Lady 3 in the other thread, in the company of her sister. We had just closed and it was crowded. I approached her with a compliment on her outfit and told her my purpose which is to exchange contact. I gave her my iPhone to type her number. She did but not without having mine.

As I was leaving, I dialed the number so that I can have it saved later when I get home. I curiously check my call log and didn't see the number... wow...It didn't store the dialed number because there is no sim inside. It is a new phone and I only use it to browse with a router.

I quickly ran back to find her and gave her my android to type the number again. She did, I saved it there and left.

On getting home, I ate and slept off. I didn't call her either and I didn't intend to call immediately.

As soon as I woke, did a few stuff... I opened my WhatsApp. There were a few messages waiting for me and to my surprise, hers was among those. In fact, I never thought that would happen but it did.

I replied to other messages first and hers last and when I engaged her, she couldn't contain the excitement. She told me what her sister thought about me and what I did, plus expressed shock that I came back to find her again, like how did I know they were there (a different location from where we stood previously) as it is one of the biggest churches in Nigeria.

Now, here is where it got even more interesting: She was communicative, outspoken, direct, responsive, and receptive.

Thankfully, she is from my mum's state, so that helped boost the influence and reception some more.

She was just asking me questions, wanting to know a lot about me. You could really feel the desire, energy, vibes, and interest.

At some point, she asked me to send my picture... For those who thought I was some not-good-looking dude, hence the reason those ladies were probably acting that way lol.

She is pretty, much taller than our Lady 3 who was replying with one-liners, with a nice shape than lady 3 as well.

And like they say, the rest is history.

The reason why I am sharing this is that a lot of Nigerian men have been conditioned to settle for anything. Listen up, the moment you know that there are many women out there, you will never settle for anything that does not give your what you want. Having an abundance mentality (something women do not want you to have so that they can mess you up) will save you from girls with repulsive attitudes.

I am a guy who is big on communication, be free, talk to me... once it looks like I am the only one doing the work, I will pull out. I don't ever want to feel like I am forcing myself on someone because, from experience, it never ends well.

See, at no point must you be found trying to manage a relationship with any girl you just met.

Some people feel you must FIGHT to win a woman, fight to convince her, Fight to coerce her... I have done that before and it didn't end well.

Instead of trying to fight as if you are at war with yourself, why not find that one person that matches your energy and returns the vibe? Why not find that girl who is interested in you? Why not find that girl who is willing?

If a girl is not matching your energy, move on to the next one. There are too many women out there than you can handle.

Like I said in that thread, I will keep discarding these girls until I get someone who is interested in me, one who is responsive, one who is polite, friendly, receptive, communicative, and willing. And just because my relationship with this current girl started on a good note does not mean it will end well. It could go North or South, but my point is that I would only go for someone that is friendlier, polite, and open.

Now look at the stat: I approach 4, I discarded 3 for a reason, and I stuck with one. Women are quick to discard a guy, why shouldn't I be allowed to do that?

Women are always keeping their options open, even while in a relationship... so why should you be sticking to just one girl?

I am not saying that you should be sleeping with many girls. I don't do that either but my point is to have as many options as possible. It helps and once a girl knows there are other girls fighting for your attention, your value in her eyes will increase but the opposite is the case if you stick to just one or making look like she is the only one in your life. When you do that, you are likely to get dumped.

The street is brutal, stay vigilant.

nice input

ednut1:
its on my profile page

Please can I send you a pm

ednut1:
ask yourself a critical question who do you know or have seen that those 9ja agents moved to Canada

boss, please are you in Ontario?

an0daGuy:
Inno baba

Keep manufacturing pride in the east, your people commend you

Do quick and take over GTBANK make we show the slackers how to handle the financial economy of the eastern motherland

Even in your dreams. Try start yours

hopman98:
I'd be happy if this guy can clinch apc ticket. For the sake of #NDIGBOS. I don't want igbos to leave Naija. I'll miss my chidera

there are Basira, Funke, Sade etc there

Allegory:

Replied

Thanks alot . Good job. I just replied too. Kindly respond

Allegory:

I’ve followed you, that should make it easier to send a pm

I have sent you the letter. Kindly reply as soon as possible. Thanks a lot

Allegory:

Yeah but with a little more subtlety. Something like even though Ontario wasn’t the first province to issue you ITA, they’ve always been your number one choice of province to stay with your family. Then list reasons why you think you and your family would fair better in Ontario than any other province. The language, the weather, jobs etc. Imo, You don’t have to mention Quebec in the letter for now, let it stay implied. Unless they specifically send you ADR asking you to prove you’ll choose Ontario over Quebec if nominated.

Thanks alot, I have just crafted the letter, There was a time I did a virtual job fair, I said it in there that booths from Ontario were my choicest, please can I send you a PM and show you for you to see? Or if you can give me your email for me to just send it directly ?

Allegory:

You have to answer the question truthfully, lying could get you in trouble. If you have no intentions of submitting your documents to Quebec any longer, you can just answer no. But if you’re choosing to go ahead with both pnps for now, then answer yes.

Ontario let’s you write a letter about why you want to live in their province. I think you should use the letter to show the officer that Ontario is your real first choice. I don’t think applying to another province earns you an automatic rejection

Thank you ma for taking time to assist. The picture attached request for the date that I applied, I applied first before they sent list of documents to send back to them ( which they will get soon). So, in the letter of intent to Ontario, do I need to tell the officer why I had to apply to Québec. How that I received Québec ITA but didn't want to apply but due to no OINP NOI in March for my stream I had to take Québec. That I will be willing to discontinue with Québec once given nomination certificate of Ontario. Will that be fine to say in the letter ?

Joshmuch:
God bless you plenty baba. Please o, I still have another question to you and other seniors. I earlier applied to Québec, though ( yet to submit documents to them for evaluation) before Ontario NOI came, on filling the application form: There is a part that says: "Have you ever submitted or been included in Application under a PNP to Ontario or another province or territory?" Please o, how do I handle this matter?

Any response to this please?

ednut1:
and so They will call FIRS or LIRS to come do tax investigation lol.

God bless you plenty baba. Please o, I still have another question to you and other seniors. I earlier applied to Québec, though ( yet to submit documents to them for evaluation) before Ontario NOI came, on filling the application form: There is a part that says: "Have you ever submitted or been included in Application under a PNP to Ontario or another province or territory?" Please o, how do I handle this matter?

slivertongue:
He should have done it quitely no need to go public. Weldone sha

do your 5k transfer quietly too

ednut1:
lets resist the urge to create imaginary problems for ourselves, wetin concern visa officer with tax breakdowns

Bless you baba o. I was thinking, tax must always be on a payslip. That they might ask if my office is not paying task ni?

Good afternoon everyone, if a person has a payslip without tax reduction break down in it, can it still fly? Thanks

kolasoft:
Tinubu will make better president than Osinbajo because he will hit the ground running once elected

just like he hit running in Lagos

Havertz10:
He is so fixated with the north, guessing that he assumes that he has secured both the south and apc ticket

his biggest shock will come from the south. Followed by the north. May be the Igbos will pity him

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

Just do your best and get one apartment to manage

From your story...it seems she is a good girl but also a runs babe on a low key

And she is seeing you as someone she wants to take a little bit serious

Oil dey your head!! U sabi the game

GraciousWords:


I don't think you can provide a RL or confirmation of duties which you have written yourself even if it is notarized. I may be wrong though so it's up to you. See what IRCC says about self employed applicants...... I assume, same will apply to employed.

Thanks mama, to make it clearer, I submitted the names of two schools. First one is 3 years and 8 months and the second is 6 months ( I just left the second school). But on filling the work experience, I thought it was a continuous till present so I filled the two schools. I already have the reference letter for the first school but the second I don't. So can I submit the first letter since the work experience covers everything and add my pictures taking at the second school with a LOE as the second evidence. This is Québec application. Thanks

GraciousWords:


FAQ 36 and Debbie's suggestion. You should pay close attention to what IRCC requires according to the checklist - page 1. The things you mention above will not show the number of hours worked, pay earned or duties performed.

you have a point, but what if he writes it according to the format and we notarize it?

Debbieeeeeee:

My friend was in this situation and I remember coming here to ask and thankfully she got ppr now without any ADR’s as to employment or anything.
She attached the refusal email from HR stating they won’t give her a letter of reference, requested her JD’s from HR and attached it, attached her payslips, employment letter / contract , I.D card alongside a letter of explanation and that was all.
I hope this was helpful. All the best.

very helpful thanks I appreciate. A really sign of relief. Actually it is a school. They don't have ID card, appointment letter etc. This is all I have: a picture of me with the principal, vice and secretary and students during our project. A picture of me during cultural day in March, bank statement ( but this comes in the owner company's account, not in the name of the school), colleagues who are still there. The WhatsApp message saying he is not ok with the arrangement.So with what I have, is there any suggestions of what else to do, like going to court for affidavit or something.Do I need to take also a Google map of the school?Kindly recommend. Thanks. Also @GraciousWords

GraciousWords:


Sir, if it were me, I would go with OINP only.

The money lost on Quebec is a lot though...if it's too much to let go of, then go for Quebec only or if you feel you are losing out on OINP, then read the application questions and fine print for each to see if applying for both will cause you any issues. I can't confidently tell you to go for both simultaneously.

thanks ma

My good people, please o, if someone could not obtain a reference letter from his place of work and colleagues don't have ID or any for of Identification.How does one go about it?