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Politics / Re: NDLEA Arrests Drug Dealers, Recovers Substances, Cash En-Route Australia, China by Joshumoto(m): 1:24am On Mar 28, 2022
The babe own na him weak me she don take style pass Pablo Escobar See weed na She be major Connect according to Tommy
fergie001:
2 drug dealers excrete 165 wraps of cocaine in NDLEA custody

Agency intercepts consignments going to Australia, China, Qatar, Ireland, Thailand; seizes 2,293kg substances, cash in Rivers, Ogun, Enugu raids




Femi Babafemi
Director, Media & Advocacy
NDLEA Headquarters, Abuja
Sunday 27th March 2022



Politics / Re: Kidnapped Pantami’s Son, Alamin Isa Ali, Found At Bauchi Checkpoint by Joshumoto(m): 1:33am On Mar 27, 2022
Ransom wey them don pay finish since yawa people quote author=SATANICALLY666 post=111362250]

https://dailytrust.com/breaking-pantamis-son-found-at-bauchi-checkpoint-hours-after-kidnap[/quote]
Romance / Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Joshumoto(m): 1:32am On Mar 18, 2022
The post enter them woto woto grin grin ;Dquote author=GooodHardDick post=111099494]Who else also noticed that Nairaland females ain't commenting? grin

The post really pain dem no be small [/quote]
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Joshumoto(m): 2:16am On Mar 15, 2022
Come madam wetin be your own na people like u your boyfriend dey kpokpo anyhow u go come here the form hard babe wetin u fit do if a man lift a hand on u natin joor. Guy dey tell u say no one is above mistake u dey here the cap rubbish. Abegi find one place park well jarequote author=Candidlady post=111015722]


@bolded
Meaning you might still SLIGHTLY SLAP her again since no one is perfect! What an excuse!!

You beat her to stupor then come at us with NO ONE IS PERFECT like that he goat that killed his pregnant wife.. Y'all are beast


Sir move on.. Again nobody charmed her poor girl saw the red flag and decided to go
°°°iam so happy for the girl°°°° if only she could stop dating men aka beast

Change your topic to : I broke my girlfriend's heart [/quote]
Family / Re: I'm Scared Of Marrying Her by Joshumoto(m): 1:55am On Mar 15, 2022
Guy thank your God that she is showing signs of more to come when u finally marry her, guy shun the babe Abeg before she put u under her armpit na play play we dey take know players guy a word is enough for the wise quote author=bewov post=110994495]Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" shocked Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here[/quote]
Career / Re: Sex Scandal Hits MTN As Female Employees Accuse CSO Adebiyi Of Harassment by Joshumoto(m): 1:31am On Mar 04, 2022
Hmmmmm na wa ooo with the kind of money this dude they touch he can sleep with any kind of girl he wishes to why soil his hand with his low level offices babes. Men their niggar is stingy him no wan spend money him like free kpekus see where e don land am now .Enquiries go soon start now bcoz of awoof kpekus see wetin u wan lost FOOL. quote author=kirajustice post=110722895]


https://politicsnigeria.com/sexorsack-scandal-hits-mtn-as-female-employees-accuse-chief-sales-officer-of-harrassment/[/quote]
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Visit Me While I Was In Prison After All I Did For Her! by Joshumoto(m): 2:50am On Feb 18, 2022
Guy u dey ask for advice na wa for you abi u no dey see road. It clear the babe no love you one bit she is in for what she can get from you guy kick her f**king ass away from you joorquote author=darkstar6971 post=110293737]Hey Nairalander pls I'm here purposely for advice.

I have a girlfriend of mine which we have been together for quit long time and we share everything together even reach a level of buying her an iPhone 11 while I'm managing my Samsung phone...

So one day some incident happened to me that led me to prison for almost 4 months yet for all this period this girl has never tried to pay me a visit...

After winning the court trial, this girl came to me and knelt down asking me to forgive her for what she did yet I have been forgiving her for the previous mistakes.

Guyss pls I really need advice. Is she manipulating me or is this love?[/quote]
Crime / Re: N10.9 Billion Worth Of Properties Seized From Military Officer by Joshumoto(m): 1:06am On Feb 16, 2022
[Choi Aboki don finish military almost all na them na wa ooo quote author=etokhana post=110255850]https://twitter.com/officialEFCC/status/1493658991351771136?t=6rctp56Lplmeb46R7zXIpA&s=19[/quote]
Romance / Re: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by Joshumoto(m): 2:33am On Feb 15, 2022
;D2[b][/b]You don kill me with laugh the last part
luizpippo:
A bag of rice is 26k, while fish and meat are sky high.
Normal office work for most females is 35k tops per month while transportation from it is around 15k.

But some charges 10 to 15k for short time which may not be up to 4 hours, remove TP from it and if they get this 3 times in a week, then you think they would want to do any white or blue collar job when red collar job is more profitable?

Some even gets satisfied by the guy.

Imagine runs girl expecting to be sucked and wants to cum!!!!

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Politics / Re: List Of 5 Worst Governors In Nigeria (Opinion) by Joshumoto(m): 3:04am On Feb 05, 2022
My Guy u Forget Ben Ayade of Cross River State that guy na SCAM
blamingthedevil:
Is he right?



https://mobile.twitter.com/xagreat/status/1489220842248716292
Nairaland / General / Re: FPSO Vessel Explodes At Escravos, Warri by Joshumoto(m): 1:26am On Feb 04, 2022
This is what happens when you hand over facilities to we Blacks e no pass like this Short Cut is the answer. If u find out the root cause lack of proper safety procedure. quote author=lalasticlala post=109914538]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x4Ab2Ylrqvk

Eons Intelligence:



https://twitter.com/eonsintelligenc/status/1489142559788130304?t=H6l80lytk0m-OYl_rtd0jQ&s=08



https://twitter.com/BusinessDayNg/status/1489150838392168452?t=DKq6TiHNz5JG2LVebSYsyw&s=19[/quote]
Health / Re: How Do I Treat This Ailment/infection? Please Help. (photos). by Joshumoto(m): 12:58am On Feb 04, 2022
That thing is not an infection is ur hair growing inwards thus ur gain is growing inside ur skin it normally happens to people with thick curly hair u can minimize it by the way u cut ur hair. U can use Neo Presol it helps to stop the itching but not cure it bro good luck
Politics / Re: Ortom: I Have Document, Fulani Want To Takeover Nigeria by Joshumoto(m): 1:41pm On Aug 31, 2021
kenzysmith:
This Orton is now over doing things

Guy why u go talk like this over doing things how?
Family / Re: What Is That Thing Your Neighbour Does You Don't Like? by Joshumoto(m): 1:25am On May 18, 2021
grin
greggng:



She kept fucking and making noise...even a passerby will here her moaning during sex....I begin to wonder if her kind of sex is different from how I do it in my own room
Crime / Re: How They Sell Girls For Prostitution Using Night Clubs And Hotels by Joshumoto(m): 1:09am On May 10, 2021
Babe you harsh ooo
Pochettino:
We women are cheap sluts that love money more than our lives.
We still won't listen!! My roommates are on their way out in skimpy spaghetti like dis despite seeing this. I pray they are kidnapped to Algeria desert.
Car Talk / Re: How I Was Scammed At A Fuel Station by Joshumoto(m): 1:52am On May 08, 2021
Na guy you be stupid people
pocohantas:
I have been hearing of this scenario that plays out in fuel stations, but I didn’t know my day is coming.


Health / Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Joshumoto(m): 1:37am On May 08, 2021
Guy you no want make that place heal na wa for you ooo
Chisaedhor:


Its not easy bro. 3 months for what na cheesy
Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello: APC Has Performed Far Beyond PDP’s 16-Year Achievement by Joshumoto(m): 1:42am On May 05, 2021
Politics / Re: Femi Adesina: Past Political Leaders Want To Overthrow Government by Joshumoto(m): 1:27am On May 05, 2021
Politics / Re: Insecurity: Where Is The $1 Billion You Withdrew To Purchase Arms – Wike by Joshumoto(m): 1:16am On May 05, 2021
HellAnus are you sure of what u just wrotepost=101384908:
Wike is a fool

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