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Don't be frightened.just accept the realities.
1.know who u are presently and who u are not not.

2.know your convictions and let the other persons knows the thing u may or will not change your mind about.

3.you will change and ur partner will also change and both of you may either change 8n compatible ways it incompatible ways.


4.from day one,accept the marriage may have to end ,don't be found helpless.try to keep or rent a separate apartment and put trusted relatives there so u can be there whenever u want and make it clear it is yours.

5.accept humans will be humans and have needs and expect human will seek to satisfy unsatisfied needs know that ur spouse that love good food/sex will seek good food /sex elsewhere if the food in the house is not good food/ sex.

6.identify friends and relatives with far better parenting skills than yourself and allow your kids to spend more time every now and then with them at your expenses so they will not be impacted by your divorce or separation if they have to love with such persons.

7.be nice and kind to your relatives especially because they will be ur fallback .

8.if u are not the ritual / fetish type,never say yes to any who are naturally fetish.

9.take the pain out of sex as there is 70perceny change ur spouse will have sex with others.prepare your response and if it will be the end of the marriage say so clearly so the spouse will know it has ended.

10.express your concerns about infidelity .health concerns and danger concerns and bastard concerns and you may make it clear no child is brought into the matrimonial home unless dna shows proof so wife may be aware and prepare for DNA saying child is bastard.

10.u may want to agree any child born by her during the marriage is URS and it's left to you how u handle the DNA negative child.

11.if u want master servant ,boss marriage say so and don't sign English marriage.shows it by doing traditional alone don't wear suits.

12.if u want a fair marriage with fair treatment don't marry persons who are Godless and with a God who is not more for kindness and firgivrness eg Taliban who must cut your head if found in adultery.

14.dont be a difficult ,unenjoyable,boring person to live with


15.realise ur spouse has a right to leave u if he or she no longer has the grace to cope with u and urs.

16.note people's appetite for money,sex,power, control etc before you marry them and accept that some girls love sex so much,there is no one dick that can ever satisfy them no matter how hard u try.

17.expevt to have a bad marriage if your spouse has a bad tongue .


18.be comfortable with how ur spouse will solve problems.mody wife will.just go and Bleep someone that has money and bring money home.they are born again yet they can't wait for God or on God for solutionsb because they know where instant solutions are.

19.make your wife your employee ,be the boss meaning u take all the risks and all the profit but ensure every month you pay her a salary unfailingly.


20.realise women are not as weak genetically ,they live longer without much Ado than men so let long live be your priority and if you notice living with any woman will cut your life short.wisely,nicely,kindly put her away.u may not divorce but don't live 7nder sane roof especially with the wife that must Bleep other men.

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I cannot be a fan of talibans and their ways.but with the shamy show daily aired from bbnaija and from our so called democracy,should we ,like the talibans not look for alternatives.

What is going to be the end result of free for all adulterous ways of free women and the failure of institutions that supports democracy.why will a sitting governor paid to govern tell citizens to defend themselves when their taxes are being spent on an army and police force and the governor and the president are living large on taxpayers money.

The Afghanistan ,like all humans will one day get tired of Taliban slavery and eventually develop the the will to fight for the kind of life they want.

No one should begrudge a warrior who stayed focused for 20 years of his hard earned loot.

The talibans didnt get it on the platter of gold.the afghans need not be told to shake off the Taliban burden.they will be compelled to do so.

Was Bonaparte Napoleon not eventually caged?

Dadinkowa is populated by natives of plateau so why the attack

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These happens all the time.whyy not protect yourself before exposing your ideas.theft of what you can't prove you own in the first place.
Sterling bank has always been a very poor bank ,you need to fight to get what is yours with that silly Bank

Hold on.in the process of time executives beggar will be executive giver.the hunted becomes hunted just be patient

Why are we becoming so unkind.whst good does it do portraying him as a beggar in his last days on earth.and some deliberately put this in the internet to shame the dead

Indispensable85:
Osinbajo should contest 2023 presidential election.

That's how we arrive at our present shore in nigeria.a man limited by tinubu and by the cabal and who can't be his own man be president in 2023 again?

Prayers is innate in every human being as all of us must come across that which is beyond us necessitating our calling for help.
Like every thing connected with God ,who himself is a mystery ,prayer has some mysteries.

The mysteries of prayer largely result from us being able to talk to God in prayers but unable to hear God when he speaks to us in replyi to our prayers.

Once we are helped to hear what God says in reply to our prayers,prayers assumed a different postive form and we begin to enjoy prayers.

Prayers affects you first and enable you to boldly affect the situation.

Once I know I've prayed more than enough on an issue I step out in faith even to ask of men what they cannot do for themselves and they do it for me.


To say prayers is futile is to say there is no God and to say there is no good is to being foolish and to say it is my father's that created the peacock and the orderliness we see in nature.

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She got it .too much on point.the 250percrnt density wig wearing is true.the dirty is true and the post partum belly is too true.
If u.must marry then don't sign any paper o

Dapo abiodun is not an influential politician .he appears to me to be a naturally dull person.in politics you must continually engage your people and I'm afraid the uncouth and uncultured ladi may end up being the governor in 2023.ladi is a populist and can profoundly excite the masses .

Abiodun needs fire in his bone,amosun may be many things but amosun was colourful and influential and amosun affects sagamu better than Daniel that was from that axis. abiodun should engage the grassroot and if he doesn't he will not be a 2bd term Governor

Good one by dss.thevadeniyi guy do not deserve this niceties.wss he not the one that publicly declares he was being directed by a dead head of state yardua.

Dss point will be made by publishing names and crimes of persons in their custody.

joefelin2345:
Prof Osinbajo, eronu epada wa sile koto pe ju. Eni awifun, Oba je kogbo o. Eranti oun ti osele si Ogagun Oladipo Diya o. Eranti ogagun Benjamin Adekunle ati awon miran Beebe lo. Bi anbati fi apari isu han alejo, owe ile to lo niyen o.

It is as if u know exactlu what I want to write.are u a prophet

Let us pray.may we not find ourself in a situation where we are duty bound as a professor of law to take dictations from unsound minded fellows and should we find ourselves in such covet the Divine boldness to exit.

Osinbajo is losing more than the naira he is gaining by all these.this is d same way general diya was repeatedly shown he is a liability and refuse to leave the arena in spite of his wife's many warnings

Like I said .it is the inglorious end of a seemingly glorious career.he is not coming back to the Nigeria police.the only crime in a policeman career is being on the payroll of a criminal.

Please warn your police friends and relatives now to adjust or get ready for the day of the Lord.

And the VC na fellow of academy of science o.and he can't lead he university's research to power the campus.and they have more than a 1000 professor of science.

I've read the 69 page FBI documentation .the gentleman should with his own money fly to the USA and admit as much as its factually correct and save himself ,his family and his reputation from being totally shredded.

let him begins the damage control now.waiting for the igp panel or extradition will only worsen the matter.

if he thinks he has friends within the police ,he should not be surprised that even his team members will now say we no send oga.

The Lesson I take away from this is don't use your office to inflict pain on any human and do not take anything away from any man except by due processes because there is a God in heaven.

The FBI team did a thorough and comprehensive documentation and I congratulate hushpuppi for a a ceptinh the sound advice of his lawyer to do a plea bargain unlike the ex bank Phd md
who after 12years arrogance during trial earn himself the wrath of the judge and got years in Jail.
Criminals please learn from hushpuppi,if you do the crime ,just get ready to do the time.don't allow any lawyer to waste your time and your money and your life in jail by provoking the judge.

Accept your guilt early enough and enjoy the mercy of God and of the presiding judge.

What an end to a seemingly glorious career but I do pray for him to know after seeking the forgiveness of God and the humans he wronged,a new beginning is there for him.

Now is the time for every one to amend his ways before it is too late.

Shalom.

Very stupid girl and she finds it funny.when u won't learn to react appropriately,get ready to go to untimely jail.if that your fell and got crushed to death then she will know next time u call the police.and she get said she get partner.equallly stupid partner.

Why will igboho a war commander try to flee leaving his followers in Nigeria and where is his juju to make him.disaapear into thin air.i don't know why he claim to be so powerful when he can't even vanish .

It is what women must do.womsn must fall in love and open their pussybto be bleeped by a mad man they are in love with.and she will be bleeped anywhere even in the places u consider sacred in the house u use ur sweat to build for years.

Wealth and name don't endure in the hands of women so men seek male but again most male kids are bastards.men forcing wife's to go get male makes wife Bleep other men.

Unless God loves you.man just run Helter skelter on this male kid issue.

Unless u want to say yr daughter should not fall in love or have sex or get Marty, only then will.mam be comfortable passing on his wealth and name to a daughter.

Daughters are fighting back some don't drop their father good name after marriage and some allow themselves to be de- womanised by thinking hard before falling in love with any man

youngmo001:
Before this my tenant paid for the house, there was a complete door net in good condition. Therefore she has lived here for more than 5 years, during the course of those years, she renew the door net which later worn out. Now this year, she decided to park and rent a bigger room elsewhere. During her parking i wasn't at home, when i came back, i saw that she had remove the door net. I told her for removing the door net am going to deduct N5000 from the 8 month rent i need to refund to her. She starts ranting saying she spend N3000 to fix the door net, that i shouldn't deduct her money.

Guys, what do you think i should do?

The door net is part of what she rents from you and obviously after some years it will naturally wear out.

Unless your tenancy agreement specifically talks about her replacing the net or any other fittings and fixtures ,she ought to have call on you to either replace the worn net or get your approval to replace same and have same reimbursed by you.

This is my judgement below

naturally after some years ,some fittings and fixture will wear out and it is the landlord duty to make provisions for fair wear and tear.

She did not damage the net,it wore out by itself and you have the responsibility to replace same just like u have the responsibility to replace the leaking roof.

The new net belongs to her and not you and in any event since you did not put the burden of replacing worn out fixtures and fittings on her in the the tenancy agreement,the burden remain yours.

Pay her full refundable please.

Next time have every thing defined upfront in a tenancy agreement right from the beginning.

When men stop being men.then another will be their son"s father when they are still alive.men should learn to set the foundation.

donstan18:
Lagos is the dirtiest, overrated, frustrating, suffocating, shiitiest, over populated, filthiest, disorganized, irritating and over hyped state in the world.

The presence of celebrities is the only thing differentiating Lagos from Abia and Ekiti state.

A ground for thuggery, traffic, depression, crimes, fake lives, bleaching, oloshoism, infections and all manner of fvckery.

Any honest Lagosian will agree with me.

If you ever leave Lagos to Abuja, Port harcourt or Kano, you’ll understand me better. To even think this is happening to the overrated Lekki makes it more funny.

Tueh!!

Is eko Atlantic City not part of Lagos?

Men should learn to sit parents of bride to witness a written agreement before marriage that the child the bride does not bring to the husband's house cannot be taken away for any reason whatsoever.and men should orice market very well before buying,if ur bride cannot take other men's kids to their father ,please leave her alone.

chris51:
In the first place What are you doing getting married to a mother of two? The children's father is willing to take care of the children.
Why do you want to suffer yourself to take care of someone else's children? At the end of the day the children will still identify with their biological father while you suffer for nothing.
You and your wife should allow the man collect his children.

U get sense o.pls tell ur female single parent

Andrew87:
I got married to my wife. I love her both with the kids but the biological father of the kids is a bit wealthy and left the whole responsibilities to my wife since last year.

This is not funny because I am part of her although we hustle hard but it's not easy. He insists the kids must be with him if he must take care of them but a member of his family informed my wife that he plans to take them away and she will not see them.

Please friends what's ur take on this? Times are really hard.

U sound so stupid and u don't even know it.

A lawyer clever by half is on the loose again and at the end of the day the poor girl wil suffer from the rage of the judge and got hanged.they should ask keystone md o.ma6 she not be arranged before okunnu.

Congrats .fellow Josite.