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FamilyRe: What's The Most Petty Thing You've Ever Done To Your Partner Or Ex Partner? by Joy1706(op): 2:08pm On Jun 18, 2015
DukeNija:
Lol cheesy

Lol but I hope you know u r a wicked person. Pls address dat
Hahahhaha! I won't say wicked.......maybe just mean
FamilyRe: What's The Most Petty Thing You've Ever Done To Your Partner Or Ex Partner? by Joy1706(op): 9:51am On Jun 18, 2015
Cutest001:
We had an argument he smashed my phone on the floor..
When we settled it, I stole his gold chain and sold it angry
Really petty cos I didn't need the money for anything
Hahahahahaha!
FamilyRe: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Joy1706(f): 9:50am On Jun 18, 2015
dinachi:
What is this vulture doing here? How did you manage to wade through the terrible odour from your rotten puccy to make it here? grin grin
Association of brainless twerps!(ABT)
Here he goes again! And the only word he knows is puccy. Puccy will definitely kill you. Expand your vocab and we can chat. Till then, IGNORED!!!!!
FamilyRe: What's The Most Petty Thing You've Ever Done To Your Partner Or Ex Partner? by Joy1706(op): 9:48am On Jun 18, 2015
DukeNija:
I swear to God in heaven. If you try dat with someone like me all in the name of Anger, what I will do to you as revenge will scar you for the rest of your miserable life. You are such a lowlife i swear. Gosh I'm so fcking pissed.
Someone like you? Dude who are you? Stop saying stuff you can't do abeg. Mtschewwwww. Abeg shift
FamilyRe: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 4:52pm On Jun 16, 2015
InvertedHammer:
Fact: Some men sleep with their maids.

Women in denial say: Blame the man for lack of self control, using a maid encourages child Labour, etc.

Jesus said: Do not put the Lord, your God to temptation.

Solution: Don't bring another lady into your relationship, be it a maid or whoever. Blaming the men for this despicable act or the wife will never solve the problem. Many women will still lose their husbands to the maids.

If your hand will lead you to sin, cut it off. So says the bible. If the maid will be the "temptation" in your relationship, why not err on the side of caution and let her go. Women can take this simple logical advice or risk losing their matrimonial bed to that young blood (with well-rounded melons) especially when madam with flabby brea.sts starts looking more like a bag of yam courtesy of child birth.

A word is enough for the wise. Protect your home.
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That's an insulting way to talk about women whose bodies go through the wringer to bear your kids. What's wrong with some of you guys?
FamilyRe: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 4:49pm On Jun 16, 2015
agarawu23:
oh sorry!
did I hit your nerves?

But my wife isn't complaining. everybody has his/her own way of doing things and I personally don't like career women.

Don't judge me with my post miss .
it's my opinion smiley
Hope you marry a secondary school dropout o and make sure none of your daughters go to the university because as you said you don't like career women. They must remain in the kitchen if not you're just a hypocrite
FamilyRe: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 4:40pm On Jun 16, 2015
Hazardd:
yea, the man only have the right to eat as many soup he want because he is the source of money for the soup...
You see your life? If you now lose your job and your wife becomes the breadwinner, don't expect your wife to be nice and faithful to you. She'll definitely treat you like a houseboy
FamilyRe: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 11:05am On Jun 16, 2015
Maximus85:
A lazy one is identified!

I will take my cars to the carwash, I can't put my life in the hands of a so-called driver, so I'm gonna drive myself, mowing my lawn if I ever decide to grow one will make me live longer. Its an exercise to my borrrrry. I need no gateman, my gate will be automatic.

When it comes to cooking and catering to your children, No one can do it better. You can decide to leave your bed chores though, cos there are millions of hotter ladies that can do it far far better than you.

Go learn my dear. It will be easier for a man to poke the housemaid than Kabiru the gateman penetrating his wife with his shaft.
You will take your car to the car wash, and your gate will be automatic ba? You're a hypocrite. Aren't all these things meant to make life easier for you but ur wife commits a great sin by getting a maid to assist her with the chores. If a woman doesn't suffer, you guys won't be happy. I cant deal with your hypocrisy. Abeg! It's easier for a man to poke the housemaid than the the gateman doing madam? Ok na. Tell that to those men who don't know their raising their gateman's spawn.

And who says there aren't men who neglect their wives' sexual needs? There are equally millions of hotter and richer guys out there to service madam
FamilyRe: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 10:32am On Jun 16, 2015
All the guys here are just typing rubbish as if their brains have been removed from their heads. If a woman not doing all or most of the chores is justification for the man screwing the maid, then I guess a woman is justified for stepping out on her husband if he cannot provide for the family. The husband will bear the blame for the wife cheating on him since he can't step up to his responsibility
FamilyRe: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 10:26am On Jun 16, 2015
Cyriloha:
well spoke dear but sometimes I blame wives for that........you can imagine were person called herself a wife will be sitting doing nothing all duties on the maid alone including serving food for the man and some other things
How many wives do you know who sit at home doing nothing? Most women that go out everyday working their butts off.
FamilyRe: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 10:23am On Jun 16, 2015
Maximus85:
If she's too lazy to carry out her responsibilities in the house, she should be ready to see the maids help her with her bedroom chores as well.
If you're too lazy to open your gate,wash your car, drive your car and mow your lawn.....be ready to see your gateman, driver etc. help you with your bedroom chores as well
FamilyRe: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 7:37am On Jun 16, 2015
ogele:
The day my wife will stoop so low to allow the maid to be making my food and serve me the food, dressing our bedroom, that when I will also stoop so low to convert the maid to my mistress. So if she can cook and serve me food what else.
Ah! See this one o. It's you that will lose your home na. Besides, who knows if madam will not already have been knacking your driver or mai guard.
FamilyRe: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Joy1706(f): 10:45pm On Jun 15, 2015
5minsmadness:
Abeg answer my question or sit down. Why should a woman not be hit if she provoked the man?
Why should a woman not verbally insult a man if he provoked her?
FamilyRe: Will You Allow Your Wife Wear This? by Joy1706(f): 5:03pm On Jun 15, 2015
solid3:
That was gross naw. Are you so intolerant and could go overboard just cos someone expresses their opinion? You need a chill pill.
I apologise
FamilyRe: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Joy1706(f): 12:51pm On Jun 15, 2015
freecocoa:
Did you not see the "hypocrite" he wrote? He also made a snide remark by asking if she'll marry the OP, Why didn't you call him out on it but chose to attack her and the women folk in general.

If Pineapp and joy were to get into a brawl now and she got beat badly, it's very obvious who you'll blame because you think she brought it on herself by calling him anuofia.

Men and women should control themselves, verbal abuse is never justification for physical abuse please.
Thank u free cocoa
FamilyRe: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Joy1706(f): 12:50pm On Jun 15, 2015
mrsmith11:
I can never defend a man that hits a woman.I wasn't making any comment regarding the post because someone already posted an organisation "project alert" and that was the aim of the thread to get info about an organisation

It was the anuofia she said I was replying to. However some women can avoid abuse if they know how to talk to ther spouse or stop cursing
Oga please there is no excuse for a man to be physically abusive. If he could call someone a hypocrite, why shouldn't I call him anuofia?

Thanks
FamilyRe: Will You Allow Your Wife Wear This? by Joy1706(f): 10:35am On Jun 15, 2015
solid3:
If she doesn't buy it in the first place how will she wear it?

Is that suppose to keep the baby from falling or what?

Did our mum wear that when they conceived us?

This is what will make a baby have oblong head, then they will begin to run up n down.
Who is this primitive mofo abeg?
FamilyRe: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Joy1706(f): 10:31am On Jun 15, 2015
Pineapp:
Will you marry her??

Hypocrite!!!!!

Madam, assess yourself and find out what you do that pisses him off..
If he was like this before you married him, then you saw fire and jumped into it.

One sided stories touch the heart.
Will you bring her back to life if he ends up killing her? Anuofia! The person that needs assessment and evaluation is her psycho husband
FamilyRe: When Is It Actually Okay To Leave A Philandering/cheating Husband? by Joy1706(op): 10:15am On Jun 15, 2015
Timbuktou:
Boy, you don't know shiit. The advise wouldn't be like that because bothe genders are held to different standards and different responsibilities, different roles, different expectations. You have a lot of growing up to do. Seriously.

You would advise Toke to move on! Buhahaha. You would advise a relationship 'expert' who has advised women to leave their cheating partners to move on to move on? Boy, watch and learn. Not everything you read or are told is true and real.
So what would you advice her to do?
FamilyRe: When Is It Actually Okay To Leave A Philandering/cheating Husband? by Joy1706(op): 10:12am On Jun 15, 2015
iykedare:
Op,why don't you answer the question first.
It's so easy to advice other people to do what you can't do.
What would you do if you find out that your hubby cheated on you?

Most people will advice other people to leave the marriage that very minute but these same people would stay pray and fast .

I've heard that very toke makinwa tell people to leave their cheat boyfriends. why is she not doing the same now?

Always give the kind of advice you sef can follow.
A perpetually philandering man is a NO NO. I ain't up for any baby mama drama.
FamilyRe: When Is It Actually Okay To Leave A Philandering/cheating Husband? by Joy1706(op): 10:10am On Jun 15, 2015
coogar:
so what do you advise?
toke should leave her marriage? is there any guarantee she would find happiness in her next relationship? grin
Do you think she would ever be happy in this relationship? I would rather be single and happy. Besides, there is every possibility that she could get it right next tme
FamilyRe: When Is It Actually Okay To Leave A Philandering/cheating Husband? by Joy1706(op): 10:01pm On Jun 14, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Nah, this is just another one of those numerous "what if scenario" threads from a sensation seeking thread starter.
Really? Taking toke's predicament for instance, most of those commenting were advising her to forgive and make sure she doesn't give room for Anita to come in and take over her man.
FamilyRe: When Is It Actually Okay To Leave A Philandering/cheating Husband? by Joy1706(op): 9:28pm On Jun 14, 2015
edwife:
It's actually okay to leave when you feel that you have had enough,"enough" can be immediately you find out he cheated,the second time or whatever.

It's all in your hand,your life-your decision!
True sha
FamilyRe: When Is It Actually Okay To Leave A Philandering/cheating Husband? by Joy1706(op): 9:27pm On Jun 14, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Nobody dishes out such daft advice in this day and age. Not even an im.be.cil.e.

And if any parent does advocate such for their daughter, such parent(s) deserve to be strung, drawn, and quartered. Slowly and excruciatingly.
My dear, I see such advice every darn day
FamilyRe: When Is It Actually Okay To Leave A Philandering/cheating Husband? by Joy1706(op): 6:31pm On Jun 14, 2015
cococandy:
It's never ok.

Stay and Pray until he changes.

If you get AIDS, carry on and pray until you die and continue the prayer in your grave.

*bangs gavel.

Court rise!
The court is adjourned.
Hahahahahaha! No be small tin
FamilyWhen Is It Actually Okay To Leave A Philandering/cheating Husband? by Joy1706(op): 6:24pm On Jun 14, 2015
The man runs after everything in skirts, the woman is told to turn a blind eye. He impregnates one of his side chics, the woman is told not to leave her home for any woman and is even told to bring the baby into her home to raise. He infects her with STDS, she is told to use condoms and to do periodic tests. They also never fail to emphasise that she must never deny him sex. He goes as far as bringing his mistresses into their matrimonial home to sleep with and she is still told to turn a blind eye and pray till she can't move her jaw again. We hear all these advice from men and sadly, women too.
Where is one supposed to draw the line? When is it okay to leave a cheating husband? Why do we advise women to swallow all these bullshit? Abi, is it just me that finds a philandering man intolerable?
FamilyRe: MouthAction In Marriage by Joy1706(f): 8:57pm On Jun 13, 2015
GogobiriLalas:
See these gal, you think sey na London you dey hmm? Ok na let's start, from now on, no more houseboy, no more driver, if you have to go anywhere, drive yaself or take okada; and if I even see you say hi to my driver or gateman, I'll rub pepper in ya eyes...and btw mtcheww to you too...good day! #slammingthedoorwithaloudbang
I be correct naija babe....so? No more housemaid either. If I see u say hi to any gal 4 dat matter, I go rub pepper 4 ya preek
FamilyRe: MouthAction In Marriage by Joy1706(f): 4:06pm On Jun 13, 2015
GogobiriLalas:
No problem, carry go, we shall see who is the champion anuofia
Why are u hyperventilating? Abi na only men sabi cheat? Mstchewww. We shall definitely see.
FamilyRe: MouthAction In Marriage by Joy1706(f): 3:59pm On Jun 13, 2015
GogobiriLalas:
If she finds her husband's kini so repulsive, she should allow her house girl to help her do the dirty job
And since the husband finds her kini so repulsive, his driver can as well help him to do the dirty job
FamilyRe: MouthAction In Marriage by Joy1706(f): 3:57pm On Jun 13, 2015
vicben27:
u go ready to pack ur load go back to ur papa house b dat!
Pack go where? Abegi! Story 4 d gods. As soon as I said I DO, that house became my house. Shikina
FamilyRe: What's The Most Petty Thing You've Ever Done To Your Partner Or Ex Partner? by Joy1706(op): 12:55pm On Jun 08, 2015
unpredictedone:
whaaaaaat!


that's obviously what should be tagged "FIRST CLASS WICKEDNESS"

but

wait ooo

wetin that guy do u sef
It was wicked sha but I was mad.

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