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Ariyke: babes of course u are truly my new found friend bt u knw at times u need to see with friends to cheer u up

thanks I appreciate the kind words
Mmmm...not very true, someone like me I don't have friends around the friends I had in secondary school I lost contact with some and some left the country just a few I have left from secondary school and a few I have in uni at present , the only way I communiate with them is through social media and some times phone calls or text. When I feel down, I just chat with one or two of them and they cheer me up. Though I would like to see them and discuss at large but what can I do? Do I have to start travelling to different part of nigeria because I want to talk to someone? No, it just a waste of time and resources. They say 'if you don't have what you want, you make use of what you have to get what you want'. So cheer up girl and if you really need someone to talk to like face to face don't forget your family members are still there.Hope is not lost, remember that.

Ariyke: I can relate to some of things here always feeling empty no matter how

No friend no foe always lonely at times I think am on the wrong path everything is just so frustrating I wish I could close my eyes and it all go away
Av learnt to put up face no matter what bt am dying inside seeing me smile doesn't equate to me been happy cus there's a lot behind that smile

oh girl I know how you feel. Sorry about that it happens attimes. No friends? What about me?
Just let it out and talk to someone. I am always there just in case you need someone to talk to. Take care

brilapluz: i tink he is entitled to his own opinion about love but in some cases many confuse lust with love or maybe he doesnt understand the REAL MEANING OF LOVE AND LUST.


false...one introduces the other...in this case love begets respect...i give u an instance,if you dont love your parents,its obvious that you will surely disrespect or disregard them..


LOVE--before i define the word love,be reminded that LOVE has a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts but the LOVE that concerns our discuss is TRUE LOVE...is love you have for a person whom you are deeply committed and greatly VALUE !
RESPECT--1.admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements. 2.esteem, admire, think highly of, have a high opinion of, hold in (high) esteem, think much of, appreciate, CHERISH, VALUE, TREASURE

N.B--i never said love and respect are the SAME!

of course he is entitled to his own opinion. Probably he does and probably he doesn't. What is then the difference between the two?
First of all, you are looking at this from one perceptive, it is very possible to respect someone you don't love. The case between a student and a teacher can be used as an example. A student can hate a teacher but still gives him/her respect. Just so that he/she can probably just have good grades and all. Would you say that love is neccesary here? What of the case between an empolyer and employee?

You haven't defined love to me. You defined true love not love.You used the word I ask you to define to define what I didn't ask you to define. Mind you we aren't talking about true love here but unconditional love according to the thread. If true love is what you say then true love itself can fade which most people would argue that it isn't true. Good you defined respect well, so you agree that respect has different definitions?
If you are not saying that love and respect are the same then why are the words admire and cherish both synonymous with the word love in bold font?
So I ask again what is love? Please don't go round the bush,just hit the nail on the head.Thanks

jaybeyblu: Hmn 80 missed calls was better I said he called me none stop for a whole week, heaven would bear me witness. 2am when I wake Up to go to the bathroom my phone is ringing, it was scary my phone was useles for 1 week cos it was always ringin. When I confided in my colleagues at work they were laughing and one was even telling me that I am overeacting that when her man refused to pick she called and gave him over 70 missed calls but he dumped her sha! Later on when I finally picked I told him how can I leave my phone for few mins and get back and I see 80 missed calls does it seem normal to u? He told me that because he is" very very emotional" that's why that for that one week he cldnt eat he wld be bathing with one hand and d other hand he is holding his phone trying to call me!My luck was I never disclosed my house to him, I knew he is a psycho but my friends are thinking I am overeacting hence my coming here. Thanks to you all for your contributions. It really made my day. God bless u!

psycho is an understatement, it is pure obsession not love.
Lolz emotional ko, emotional ni. I know a guy that is very emotional and he doesn't behave like this. Being emotional doesn't mean you should call a person every second it just shows joblessness.
I personally don't like it when someone calls me continuously. If you call me once and I don't pick, am probably not with my phone. If you call the second time, and I don't pick then my phone was probably on silent, and i forgot to change it back to general.But if you try the third time, forget it! I'm probably very busy to remember that I have a phone. Talk less of 80 times? You chop craze ni? Girl you try oh, I hail! Lol. Please ehn tell your friend that said she will call her bf 70 times that she needs help and she should not forget to visit the hospital for proper check up. Please advise your friends too, if they are still desperate they can take the guy. Na wa oh for some people and the way they think.
You are welcome

Haba no comments?

Where is everyone?

Mitchyy, luxanne, thatgurlvixen

joephemzyz: Not entirely true

how do you mean?

brilapluz: I believe dat person is not taking love in its entirety... u cannot love someone that you can't respect....love comes with respect....!

exactly what I was saying but he said that love itself doesn't exist that the love we see now is lust and not love. True but you can respect someone you don't love. True or false?
First of all, what is love and what is respect?

kuje ke? My eyes must be seeing things oh. chai Why!!!

Kuje is far from town what is this man saying? Easier ko easier ni

The general hospital there isn't that good, he doesn't know what he has caused or what he is about to cause, This man is on a jozing level. This is just gonna cause unnecessary panic. So much for a minister

GentleMimi: You hate people who are left-handed? Talk of ignorance,this is the height of it. I hope u will not kill any of ur kids who show signs of it. They did not create themselves that way,their Maker deemed it so.

@ Topic,i heard they are usually intelligent. It would be pure wickedness on the part of a parent to force that kid into using his right hand,as aginst natural use of left.

Don't mind him, he doesn't know anything. He will be part of those people who will force his kids to use right hand.

i have heard of many cases of parents forcing their children who are born with using their left to force them to use their right. it's a normal thing here in Nigeria unfortunately.

MrRhymes101: Comedians r basically happy people, the police should investigate the "suicide" well. RIP sir

not every time.
he was suffering from depression.


it so sad he had to die this way, rest in peace.

mmm....i once had an argument with someone over this love topic.

he said that it is possible for someone to love a person without giving the person much respect.


is it possible?

if it is then i guess that is what is missing in the story above. respect!

if it aint then


i don't know sha, the topic is quite confusing at times.



what do i know sef am not married

rexkexmilan: 14. Who really wrote the plays of
Shakespeare?:
Since there is very little historical
information about Shakespeare, conspiracy
theorists believe that the actor could not
have possibly written the plays but rather
was used as the author to cover up the real
identity of the brilliant poet. Many believe
that Shakespeare himself could not
have had the education to write such
profound works. That the most plausible
author could be either Christopher
Marlowe, Ben Johnson, Francis Bacon or
Sir Walter Raleigh.

mmmm......there was also a theory that Shakespeare could be a woman,

http://marysidney.com/the-authorship-question/

okay oh

it will do them like film trick

hehe this op's story is sounding like all this nollywood movies, where you can always predict what will happen at the end.

Imagine 80 missed calls? op you are you sure its 80 missed calls? if it is,then mehn that guy needs to visit the mental hospital for proper checkup. Some thing is wrong with him upstairs.

@op all has been said, just follow the sensible advice you have gotten from people here. RUN!!


i'm really enjoying the stories here and learning from it too.

#following
*takes a seat, grabs popcorn*

cococandy: The thing is terrible. I've almost given up on the preaching self esteem thing. Because the more one does,the more it seems as if you don't want others to marry.
The desperation is real. And you see pastors cashing in on the desperation to swindle my beautiful naija sisters.

sow a seed for a husband.

Fast and pray this year shall not pass you bye
Any evil standing in the way of your marrying this year die by fire.

Wear a wedding gown to church next sunday by faith and you'll meet your husband.


See evidence.
I used to wonder if such story billboards/signposts were made up by comedians to make us laugh until me and my SIL one day decided to prank call and find out if it's true. And a real pastor picked up the call to convince us how God has been using him to give sisters husbands.
I couldn't hold my laughter

I guess he realized we were just messing with him when we kept asking him searching questions.

omg!!
are those pics for real
cant stop laughing! ROTFLMAO!

freshness2020: After all these intelligence my educated friends still had a salt bath!

show them this when next you see them

nice one o.p

but this is old stuff. asin very old

and we all know that the educational systems all over the world focus just on two intelligence. Mathematical and linguistics.

Quite unfortunate.

Ladystewie: what is this? another conspiracy theory?

mmm....i hate to admit but he actually brought out some points. if you have answers to any of the questions, you can educates us.
@ op it doesn't change the fact that we still have to be careful whether it is here or not.

Obasgilbert: NO! We are just faking it... It's probably a movie.
Meanwhile nor forget to ask Minister of health same question

Did you even read the post before commenting?

he is asking for answers,

please do you have direct access to the minister of health?

if yes, please forward this questions to him and give us a reply

if no, waka pass...it's not by force to comment.

first of i would start with the worst dressed, i will go with ini edo,

the colors of those pants

then the sunglasses chai! gosh....

she just looks odd from head to toe.

hey guys look at rita shoes, its seems like she's in love in with that snickers

would be coming back for more

come on people let's keep this thread moving

like seriously? . so some people actually believed this thingThis is a serious matter,out of ignorance some people committed suicide without knowing Now i know the educational sector in Nigeria is messed up. Both the formal and informal, we need a revolution! So many educated illiterates in Nigeria, i don't know why people are panicking over this ebola issue. The truth is the more you focus on a thing the worse it becomes, as long as you know the prevention and symptoms you should be okay.There should be more awareness on the prevention and symptoms especially in rural areas like villages an the rest.
Anyways R.I.P to the dead and i pray those hospitalized quick recovery.

hello people sorry for the delay

this is going to be different from the normal who wore it better, today we are going to compare outfits.

here we have a picture of Ini Edo, Genevieve and Rita.

which causal outfit are you feeling the most?

and which of them do you feel needs to get a new wardrobe

Let's the comments begin....

Thanks mitchyy. no problem

Lol true. You know guys don't really have problems when it comes to fashion like we ladies.

People! Let's keep the pics coming.

chessguru: i got the software too but how do you install?? thanks

as jay said, first of all do you have winrar? If you do it won't be that difficult. Just extract it, you see two folders click the folder named guess the move then some docx will show click on the one that its file type is application. Then run. If you have any problem you can ask any of us jay and I. We would be willing to help

Wow!
4-0? Mehn guys are not smiling, we spelled Togo so on point!

What of other countries and their games?

Chessguru,I go mention your username tire I know it's hardwork but please ehn biko update. Thanks

*crosses fingers and praying seriously*

We shall not come back defeated like the world cup! Yes, we can do it.

What's the update @chessguru.

chessguru: Do not forget to follow the Olympiads on the tournaments official thread https://www.nairaland.com/1837138/official-world-chess-olympiads-thread#25159661 Round one starts tomorrow with Nigerian male team facing Georgia a Grand master infested team and the female team facing Mexico

wow! Georgia? Mmm,like seriously what's with nigeria and mexico?First world cup now chess olymaid. I wish them luck.

@jayriginal i was able to download the software, it's working perfectly well. Thanks so much.

Thanks yall for the comments
truly sorry with the late response. Happy new month to everyone here.
i guess it's time for the verdict. Mitchyy would you do the honours of giving the verdict

thanks @ jay. Would get back to you

@chessguru lmao! The guy no gree.

Team Nigeria!! Let's go there

JEITO: really? You are the first person I have seen that hates tom and jerry.

abi oh, that's one cartoon that no matter how many times I watch it, I still laugh and enjoy it.