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HomeTutorsPro:
RIP to the dead.
Condolences to the family.
Is the police still our friend?

Samakus:
Hi guys. It's Christmas morning but let me have your thoughts on this.

Just coming back from early morning Christmas service of my church. I have a friend (a girl] that is just a normal hello/hi kind of friend. Nothing between us.

At the close of service, she met me and suggested that I marry her. Initially I thought she was joking but she reaffirmed her stand saying that she has been given all manner of ģreenlights but it's like I take her for a sister. She bluntly asked that if I like her, I should marry her and that she will provide half of the cost of the wedding. I didn't know what to say cos truly, that's a first time for me.

She knows my woman and I told her so but she's was like, 'your woman can't give you this offer that I'm giving you and it's better you marry who loves you more than you love her.

I don't really like her in a romantic way. I See her more as a friend but this move from her got me thinking.

I love my woman and but I know she's not ready right now either. What will you do if you're in my shoes.

Insults are welcomed too. Based on nairaland way

razible5384:
bro, wealth an prosperity has little to do with holiness/ righteousness...

We4all:
Chioma has calmed down. She looks like a deeper life member.

razible5384:
you that have abstain from sex, what's your networth an how much do you have in your acc?

Nilon:
do you have sex at all?

naijablood:
I started observing this pattern since 2018
I was posted away from my then girlfriend to another state for NYSC hence couldn’t engage in serious relationship through out my service

…But seriously that year was one of my favorite in terms of financial success.
As a serving corper I was also working freelance for two different companies in Lagos. … coupled with other gigs … I was in money.

After service I met a lady and we kicked off a relationship, within 2months of us into the love affair, I lost the two jobs as a freelance was done with service so had to start some money making venture, but was tough, well the relationship lasted four months.

After three months of us breaking up I had a business idea, year 2020, got into it and within two months I made my first million was single for a year.

2021 I met a lady and started meeting … and within a space of 6 months, I was back to square one…

Early this year was tough and depressing, and by June, we were already having relationship problem, hence some space between us.

But from September I notice some positivity, business took off I started saving up and by November I had to buy a property to compensate myself for a hardworking year ..

Now my problem is I’m disturbed , this lady been asking for us making the relationship official .. but I’m scared loosing it all … I keep getting back to the ground when I’m in relationship…

But will I be single for life … I’m just lost.

Sweetplum:
I don't condone irresponsible lifestyle. Stop carrying hookups. Hold your body till marriage. Both you and the girl are sinners. Also, your story be like made up one.

StoneLucifer:
Women have been useless from time immemorial. The reason it was so easy for Lucifer to penetrate their fish brain.

inumidun2010:
Oga go and rest and WAKE UP AGAIN... Even ANGELS announced the BIRTH OF CHRIST... Who am I not to CELEBRATE HIM...

Iamfrank:
The issue is getting married to the right person... I think people change when they get married that is causing the increase in divorce

SLAP44:
A president in waiting.

Starboytwo:
Imagine how Lagos go be if na Super Eagle achieve this feat. Everywhere go tear.

Winnin009:
Do you think the female breasts is a sexual organ?

Ckonnet:
This crowd can overthrow any government on earth.
If you know you know!!!