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Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by juleze(f): 12:10am On Feb 05, 2013 |
DailyNews: This is another interesting topic to handle next- ladies, y do u hate ur mother-in-laws so much? Even if she is good? To my grtst amazement, the ladies too aspire to become mother-in-laws in future, yet they pray for the poor woman to die before they arrive? Hence, they are praying that mothers shud not see their grandchildren, y? Pls if u have been having dis wicked and devilish mentality, pray, fast and ask God to forgive u ASAP, n re-position ur mind from now to love and cherish ur mother-in-law. I am falling more n more in love with this thread. Pls let me run to d bed, tomorrow is....goodnight all Guess you haven't read †ђξ MIL thread on NL. Infact, I wanted to 'go and find' a man to marry so that I can have 2 mothers. It was that refreshing. |
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by juleze(f): 11:45pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
Winneygirl: I've always wanted to respond to some comments but I just let it slide, but I just have to respond to this. It's great to meet another lady who loves football and that's why I'll like to encourage you to watch some goalless matches. You can watch a goal-less match and it could be one of your best matches ever. Although I just agree that a goal coming i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ after much work is dope, but a goal-less match could also be more exciting than one with 12 goals i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ it. Man City wouldn't always win Reading. United were beaten by an unknown Barnsley i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ their first match 2 seasons ago. Go figure! *grin* Jay doll i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ †ђξ house. I really love what you're doing Carmiedoll. I know you're influencing a lot of ladies positively. When I was a much younger lady, I had an interested friend, but while checking out if we could be together there were 2 things I couldn't take without being devalued (not physical). I told him that if I take this, he would try it with another lady and if she complained he would tell †ђξ other lady "afterall Jay doll accepted this, so why are you being too difficult?" If ladies generally respected themselves and requested that they be treated with dignity otherwise "no-show", they'll make things easier for another lady if things do not work out. When you lower your value, expect that a man would lower it more than you did, till you become of no value. Be wise! There was something a lady wrote here that described ♍Ɣ situation, aptly, "hopeful but not desperate". I've been trying to put a Phrase to this till I hot on this lovely thread. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Stuck Between A Career With Union Bank And Leadway Assurance by juleze(f): 3:25pm On Jan 27, 2013 |
So how did it go? |
Religion / Re: Will Having Tattoos Send Me To Hell? by juleze(f): 12:38pm On Jan 27, 2013 |
Ghettoguru: Thanks guys for your inputs. God knows if it's within your means to erase it. For example, if you stole something from someone and you hold onto it, God knows it's within your means to return it or apologise. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: In One Sentence, Convince An Employer You Are The Best. by juleze(f): 4:06pm On Jan 12, 2013 |
4reigningqueen: Wow! If I had a school, I'll hire you, pronto! It's not only about knowing maths, but being able to present it i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ a way †ђξ students would understand. Please keep up †ђξ good work. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: If Someone Hits Your Bumper While Driving At Night, Please Don't Stop!!!!!! by juleze(f): 1:13pm On Jan 11, 2013 |
Read i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ †ђξ papers about how a man got killed i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ front of his wife because he chased †ђξ man that hit him. Let's be wise |
Romance / Re: This Is Not Supposed To Be Happening!!!!!!!!! by juleze(f): 2:44am On Dec 30, 2012 |
MsBeauty Aghedo: ..My advice to you is that u to take a one month break out of that friendship. Don't call him, don't see him don't, receive his calls meaning do no communication. After it. U will be able to rate the kinda feeling u have for him... I have tried it with so many guys b4 and it worked. It made me to know that i was liking them becus of familiarity.How did †ђξ guys react to †ђξ sudden change? |
Family / Re: How Long Can Couples Cope With The Problem Of Barrenness by juleze(f): 3:06pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
kayode2: Couples waiting for the fruit of the womb should refer to the scripture to choose an option they can marry a second wife like Abraham did,and God may open the womb of the barren wife provided he keeps faith with God. Every human being want to have offsprings of his own but when the waiting is getting too long the person can adopt,artificial insemination or any other medical option the couple can afford.My advice is that the waiting should not be too long possibily five years maximum . if the problem is with d woman the wife should allow the husband to marry a second wife while the wife adopts shikena. What if it's †ђξ man? |
Family / Re: What Do You Love About Your Mother-in-law? by juleze(f): 1:58pm On Dec 15, 2012 |
chaircover: No one's judgement is always without error, which is why she prayed for a good DIL and she got one. †ђξ woman can get along with anyone, once you're good. That's how wonderful she is. ♍Ɣ cousin's mum can't do 1% of what her MIL does for her, nor can she show appreciation as much as her MIL shows. |
Family / Re: What Do You Love About Your Mother-in-law? by juleze(f): 9:59pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
These stories are breaths of fresh air jor. All †ђξ bad rapping is over-exaggerated. I knew people had great MIL and you've all corroborated this. I've always looked forward to having a mother-in-law, and not just any one, but a nice one. ♍Ɣ much older cousin's MIL is amazing!!! She's like an angel. Whenever I travel for ♍Ɣ annual vacation, I enjoying having her around because she pampers M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥. She would keep disturbing M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ that I should go and eat. If she could feed M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥, she would. She shares very personal details about herself with M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥. We would go shopping together. Her relationship with ♍Ɣ cousin is something else. She would complain that she works too hard. When ♍Ɣ cousin comes back home, she would ask her, for example,"will you eat rice". ♍Ɣ cousin would say "mummy rice o wunmi, it's semo I feel like eating". Anyone who fights/ quarrels with her DIL has fought with her. She begins to side-eye such people. No one must hurt her daughter. ♍Ɣ cousin volunteered to help someone prepare food for a party, her MIL joined her, because (like she told M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥) ♍Ɣ cousin works too hard. She hurt herself while helping her, but and still never stops. Now, she's †ђξ one that sees M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ cousin as a gift to heel instead of †ђξ other way round. I remember, one day, after we both went shopping, and told M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ that she prayed for a good DIL as she was good to her MIL. And God answered her prayers as she got ♍Ɣ cousin. I wondered why she wasn't busy focusing on what she does for ♍Ɣ cousin, instead of how much ♍Ɣ cousin has been a great blessing to her. I realised that she's a wise woman. Better to build †ђξ family relationship than destroy it. †ђξ first time I saw this behaviour was years back, when M̶̲̥̅y cousin was still i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ Nigeria. Was at my cousin's place when she asked for †ђξ bag she had borrowed her some days before then. My cousin said "go and carry that your bag that isn't fine" i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ a jocular manner. It was then I knew ♍Ɣ cousin had struck gold. She had gotten a mother. God bless wise MILs. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Itching Balls For Months Now by juleze(f): 9:25pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
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Health / Re: Itching Balls For Months Now by juleze(f): 9:24pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Hello Joel. First, I'll like you to know that something could trigger offer †ђξ symptoms of another ailment. This means that †ђξ perfume could have triggered another ailment, because this can't go on for months even if it was i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ your blood stream. Secondly, it might be coincidental that it occured after you sprayed †ђξ perfume. Thirdly, except you do not want kids and thereby, do not mind being sterile, you need to run some tests, and visit a doctor for proper diagnosis. Taking all manner of drugs, without knowing which one might be aggravating †ђξ ailment, is a step (maybe several steps) towards sterility. Not all drugs can tell you all †ђξ side-effects attached, so don't be someone's guinea pig. Forget shame, man up and talk with a doctor. You can even pay for †ђξ services of an online doctor...at least I know I can pay for †ђξ services of an online vet doctor, so you can check that out, but forget self-medication or even asking a pharmacist. They do trial and error also. Wish you †ђξ best. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can I Still Get Married After 4 Children? by juleze(f): 2:50pm On Dec 01, 2012 |
My dad gave[color=#990000][/color] out his younger sister in their church, after 4 children (the first should have been close to 30 or more than), so I guess you're in order. Just ensure you tie up loose ends |
Fashion / Re: Is Natural Hair Preferred Over Chemically Treated Hair? by juleze(f): 4:35pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
ItsModella: Oh! I became a junkie alright, but I wish I had known about this method earlier. Wouldn't have bothered with all these shampoos and conditioners I went through pain getting someone to deliver it down here. Purchased GPB and used it once before discovering this method. I intend adding GPB and AOHSR to my mix (added AOHSR last time). Don't need to do a two-step washing and conditioning anymore. Detangles like nothing else and leaves my hair soft and manageable. Got a large bottle of amino acid at Ogunsanya mall, Surulere; it would last me for a minimum of half a year (if I don't add it to food). 1 Like |
Fashion / Re: Is Natural Hair Preferred Over Chemically Treated Hair? by juleze(f): 4:16pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
ItsModella: Your hair's growing real fast. Have you heard of the cherry lola method? Research it. It's a hairsaver. Used it last week and my hair gave me a thank you kiss. By hair seems to love protein though. Would use it weekly for about 2 months. |
Fashion / Re: Is Natural Hair Preferred Over Chemically Treated Hair? by juleze(f): 4:04pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
ItsModella: I used to be really into measuring my hair with a tape rule, but I started using the APL, SL etc. My hair's between APL (ArmPit Length) and BSL (Bra Strap Length) now. I wish I hadn't over-manipulated. Shoulda been mid-back length now. I'm aiming Waist length. What about you? 1 Like |
Fashion / Re: Is Natural Hair Preferred Over Chemically Treated Hair? by juleze(f): 4:03pm On Nov 26, 2012 |
Reply below |
Religion / Re: Gold And Silver Lead People To Hell by juleze(f): 12:41pm On Nov 21, 2012 |
Eby22: Thanks for this. I'll like more clarification on this. Please e-mail me. |
Religion / Re: Gold And Silver Lead People To Hell by juleze(f): 9:09am On Nov 21, 2012 |
Eby22: Hmmm...tell me more about this. I really want to know. A lot of times, I think God wants me to do away with weaves and wigs, but I fight against the nudge, and tell myself nothing is wrong with it. Though I went natural 2 years back, I still use them, whenever I get tired/lazy/want a new look. |
Romance / Re: Something Really Crazy Happened To Me by juleze(f): 10:15am On Nov 13, 2012 |
carefreewannabe: When I read this post, I couldn't help making a loud exclamation of "e don reach this level" Babes, I've worn similar "shoes" before and it wasn't palatable. As much as I strongly believe it's perfect to marry your closest friend, who you can share anything with, and is not liable to hurting you intentionally, attraction matters. I also couldn't imagine hugging him and getting intimate when married. I tried, and could haVe even ignored the reason I gave him (spiritual compatibility), because since leaving my ex almost a decade ago, he was the only one that ran a chance of being as ideal for me as my ex was-easy to talk with, considerate, focused, confident, morally sound. But, I couldn't. My advice- trying beats not trying. Try to see him in the light of being married to him. Give yourself time, and work up some emotions, if you can't, then forget it. About the gifts, it would be rude to reject them. He's still your friend. You can offer to help him screen ladies to know the one that would be a suitable wife to him, as this would reinforce your unwillingness to be with him. Wish you the best...but nothing would make me more glad, in this case, than to see 2 best friends get wedded. |
Fashion / Re: Is Natural Hair Preferred Over Chemically Treated Hair? by juleze(f): 6:34pm On Nov 07, 2012 |
I'm natural and I'm loving it. Wish my hair was full and I had a fore head instead of a 4.5 head , though I BC'd May 19 2010. |
Romance / Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Best Friend? by juleze(f): 10:46am On Nov 05, 2012 |
If both parties had been careful not to have sexual or pre-sexual relations while the 'ship' was asail, then it wouldn't be that difficult. I believe love never ends, instead of romantic love, it could convert to strong filial love. That's my experience, anyway. |
Romance / Re: . by juleze(f): 2:57pm On Oct 26, 2012 |
I had tears in my eyes after reading your story. I have a friend who was in that situation. He tried to move on quickly, but couldn't and they are married now after some counselling. Maybe they don't want children as he lives in the UK, I don't know. One thing I'll like to tell you is this: time always makes things better. It would seem like you can not survive, but never forget that YOU WILL SURVIVE. Time sends some cool breeze that would dry your tears. Just embrace LIFE and GOD. At the beginning, it would be hard, but it would ease out after a while. Sending you lots of hugs. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Share Your Union Bank Aptitude Test Scores by juleze(f): 9:45pm On Oct 14, 2012 |
I meant no one is through yet |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Share Your Union Bank Aptitude Test Scores by juleze(f): 9:43pm On Oct 14, 2012 |
kolaids: Congratulations again to the peeps going through documentation I fall in the category of those that had their medical's at divine medical center and this thread has been of great help but I have some questions regarding the 1st batch that just finished at the training school( presuming they have finished from The information on the thread). 1st: Were they all posted to lagos ?and 2nd: what units were they posted to? if anyone could to clarify this it would be of great help . Thanks Go one is through try. |
Religion / Re: Nairaland Christian Singles Thread (no Holds Barred) by juleze(f): 9:29pm On Oct 01, 2012 |
It's tough abstaining, especially for men, but it's possible. Most of the guys I have around me (male friends) are virgins and they are in their 30's (one for married this year). Once you start, you'll find it hard to stop, even when married, you'll not be content. Please stay strong! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Do Married Women Prefer Sitting beside Their Husband In A Vehicle by juleze(f): 3:29pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
It's men like this I dread o. They can be so petty, and yet they talk about being the head and in charge. I'm sure this woman must have told you to change position in a jocular or respectful manner, rather than commanding/ordering you. She wouldn't know that you're such an unreasonable fellow, who went home in anger over something this trivial, or she might have left the front seat for you. Abeg grow up jare, you'll soon be the head of a home. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How She Changed A Cheating Husband by juleze(f): 1:09am On Sep 15, 2012 |
karpentar: Oh! They truly are still boys. If you watch children play, you'll notice that they are usually not content with 'one toy', but rather covet that of others. As they grow older, they are expected to do away with such habits, but some do not. - Cheaters view women as toys - they still haven't dropped the childish habit of strongly coveting what isn't theirs. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Share Your Union Bank Aptitude Test Scores by juleze(f): 10:58am On Sep 01, 2012 |
forefront_tmg: How long does their TS(Training School) last?6 weeks. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Share Your Union Bank Aptitude Test Scores by juleze(f): 3:53pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
My letter was sent to my box same day yours was sent, but I didn't receive it on my phone, till I was called and informed. The wahala is too much- notarisation for surety and guarantors, signing of bonds etc. donmarshia: I got an offer Letter on Friday! Good Offer, but a training Bond worth 2 million Naira is attached! You must work with them for two years after training or you pay them 2 million! |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Share Your Union Bank Aptitude Test Scores by juleze(f): 5:13am On Aug 26, 2012 |
donmarshia: I got an offer Letter on Friday! Good Offer, but a training Bond worth 2 million Naira is attached! You must work with them for two years after training or you pay them 2 million! What!!! That's serious o. I ran away from the military because of bonds, now this! I had my medicals last week. Can one decide during the training then? Thanks for the info |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Share Your Union Bank Aptitude Test Scores by juleze(f): 2:21pm On Jul 19, 2012 |
I haven't |
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