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In the book of Genesis, we were told that the devil appeared to Eve in the form of a serpent and persuaded her to eat the forbidden fruit that God Almighty had commanded them not to eat.

“For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, that your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil”. Genesis chapter 3:5.

When you read down the same chapter of the book of Genesis, you will see how Eve gave in to the deceit of the devil by eating the fruit and giving to her husband – Adam – who also ate.

The same chapter goes further to talk about how God came down in the cool of the evening to fellowship with them – Adam and Eve – only for Adam to hear of His presence in the garden and ran to hid himself.

One may then wonder why God in His omniscience didn’t intervene when the woman was being deceived by the devil.

I have also asked a similar question but mine was anchored on the fact that God being all-knowing must have known Adam and Eve (or at least Eve) would not take heed to the commandment to stay clear off the fruit located in the middle of the Garden but still He allowed the fruit to be there!

The Almighty God works in mysterious ways and His ways and thoughts are as far apart from ours as the heavens is far away from the earth.

Prophet Isaiah puts it this way:
“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.” Isaiah 55:8 – 9.

The disobedience of Adam and Eve paved the way to the coming of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ! (Genesis 3:15). Through the coming of Jesus we were restored to God.

Yes! When He (God) allows some things to happen to us, it is usually for a purpose. Sometimes it is to teach us perseverance and dependence on Him and sometimes He (just) wants to manifest Himself in our lives and circumstances so as to take all the glory!

As you read through this piece of writing, it is my sincere hope and belief that you will be encouraged, vitalized (or revitalized) and will come to the understanding that everything works out for good so that His name alone will be glorified.

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@poster, what is your point if i may ask

Some people are just trying to make something else out f this post.

The essence is for our ladies to know some of these trips and know what to do about them

keep it coming people!

Y not tell her how you feel and make her understand the need to wait?

it is not love brother!

Have you ever heard a man say something like:
"I am not ready for a serious relationship"

Or

"I want my freedom."

If you have been close in a relationship with a man and he pulled away,
then of course you have heard this before.
Men say this stuff all the time.
Do you know what a man really mean when he says these things?
Do you know what to do that can instantly change a man's predictable behavior of withdrawal or resistance?

If not, then it is time you stopped listening to what a man will say to you about himself and his feelings and start paying attention to what is going on inside his heart and mind!

Men I knew well would be telling women they had been dating or in a relationship with, that they were not ready for a "real" relationship but what did they do as soon as they were single again?

They would start meeting new women, go out on dates, and once they found a woman they liked and were very attracted to, they would spend most of their time with this one woman.

Not only that! They would do something else, they would stop dating any other women they might have met and move into relationship with this new woman even though they had just ended a relationship with other women they felt strongly for because they did not want a "serious relationship."

It almost did not make sense when I first started to recognize this pattern but keep in mind, even though these things do not always make sense to women, but they make perfect sense to the men going through them.

You know why? I will be right back!

Email: theidealman4u@gmail.com

It happens all the time!

for me they are always deducting N50 from my account for callerz tune even when i cancelled the stuff!

Someone should do something please!

Please i will appreciate an elaborate response to my email if possible please. Links, report and ebooks will be apprciated greatly.

thank you all

He who the cap fits, should wear it

It does but very difficult to fine

what exactly do you want?

Remember it is not possible for her to agree with 100% all the time.
If that happens, you would not be needing her

Hi friends,

Please I need your help in the selling of my ebook.

It is relationship-based.

Your help will be highly appreciated.

Thank you

something is really wrong with her

wetin you hear?

fool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Your likes end up not getting settled with a reasonable woman and blames it on one woman in the village!

grow up!!!!!

Apart from your foolishness, i see a very high level of insecurity!

I think the 2 of you are suffering from insecurity.
For him: he can not make up his mind and move on with the present.
For you: you are afraid that he might go back to the ex.

The thing is that you should understand that if they ended the relationship on a good note that there is nothing wrong for them to still keep in touch. Keeping her picture is not an offence but what i find funny is the pictures been in his computer! this means that his mind has not been made up.

Since you claim to have decided to give him time to heal, do just that and see what happens.
If he gives you attention and treats you the way you should be treated, why worry about secret or no secret call?

Finally, be confident of yourself and wish for the best while making plans for the inevitable!
He has not given you a ring; ring is not in anyway a sign of a guy been serioous with a girl (JUST HAVE THIS IN MIND)

what would you have done @ poster

una don start again kwo?

Sister,
I never knew you could be like this though
take heart sha.
I dont mind a private advice if you can email me @ theidealman4u@gmail.com
or
0806 922 0002

Where i am it goes for 8m people call me on 0806 922 0002

It is a good venture alright but you have to bear in minds the location of the place and all that

kids are here again

You do noy need anybody's advice: Just let her go and look for sopmeone else.
She is not worth the trouble.

adekanbicv:
I need a lady between 25 to 45 years of age for a very discreet relationship. Please note that I do not promise marriage, as we have to define the relationship between us. Complexion and tribe do not really matter. If you are not BUSTY, please no need to get in touch.

The person has to be OPEN-MINDED and MATURED too. PRETENDERS should stay away interested mail,.princeadekanbi@yahoo.com

nothing person no go see here!

@poster; are they no busty chicks where you are located?

abi you bi one of them slackers ?

Do not worry, we are here with you and for you.

contact me at theidealman4u@gmail.com

jingoma:
My Experience: Beautiful Chicks are easier to toast than the "so-so" or ugly chicks. Case n Point- Beautiful chicks admire your confidence as most guys are scared to approach them but the other category (girls) are defensive because they lack self confidence and immediately assume you are after just one thing therefore give you a lot of static. Try it walk up to a beautiful chick with confidence tell her how she caught your attention and you will like to know her some more, bring her down, Done! You’re in

To buttress this point: You don't really have to "toast" a girl.
When you meet anyone (girls now) that attracts your fancy,
try starting a conversastion with her.
You can start the talk with the wheather of the day, fashion, your immediate environment,
the government - anything at all - depending on the situation.

Having done the above, ask of her opinion(s) about some of the issues you raised.
No matter what she said, dont criticize or ague heatedly!
You can also aske where she came from as in her state etc.

Dont be in a hurry to ask for her name, place of residence and phone number;
just let the moment present itself if you know what i mean.
If you play your card well she might even volunteer these info F.O.C
try not to start a discussion with how wonderful she looks etc as they are used to that!
Give them lines that are not common and make them wonder!

Dont say too much about yourself and the things you do (occupation) etc.

If you have been where i am coming from you can just set the ball rolling
and you see them doing the rest of the work!

for more info send a mail to: theidealman4u@gmail.com

HAPPY HUNTING!
I DON HANG MY BOOTS - SINCE!

Women wearing padded bras, Why do they do it?

Godmother:
Why not ask her then.
I dont really see the problem with you both having the same tribe. I mean, its rare to even find people of the same tribe hooking up these days.
The religion thing could be a problem, though. I think you both should sit down and talk things through. If she loves you like you love her, you might be able to reach a compromise.

Interesting! I am beginning to like you.
Y not answer the question i asked about DON COLEONE?