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definition of "stubborn" @poster!

Where did you conduct your research friend and what are the parameters you used?

In case you are not aware they are lots and lost of people (men and women) who are not into any kind of relationship for one reason or the other.

If you come across some women with chains of men/boyfriends, dont use that to generalize.

abi?

One of the hardest thing i ever did!

Wouldnt say i blame anybody who is scared of doing that WE SABI OURSELVES!

Will it surprise you to learn that when the HIV Testing Machine was brought to the US,
that President George W. Bush Snr refused to be tested?

His reason was that the knowledge of being positive kills faster than the virus itself!

I no blame am my people!

Godmother:
If you are talking about likes in terms of views, religion and values, then two likes will do great together. But when it has to do with personalities, then I am of the opinion that two opposites people will be better for each other. At least there will be no boring time with each other

Well said!

I like your objectivity!
HOW IS DON COLEONE?

Godmother:
It might be as innocent as she said. Your gf's ccousin probably thought the text was romantic and decided to send it to her boyfriend.Dude, they just paid you a compliment,be happy

Accepted, but what if the girlfriend sent the same text message to another man?
Have anyone looked at or thought about that possibilty?
These people (women) you can never know where you are with them.

Pharoh:
@julian Is that theory applicable to all people or is it not possible for two talkative to be together?

It is applicable where it is applicable: OPPOSITES.

Two talkatives will not have a great time together cuz
who will shut up and listen among them? Probs will breed no doubt!

Ever heard of: "two captians cant captain a ship"?
The same applies here!
we cant be the same, No!

Difference is okay and should be respected too.
To get someone exactly like you is an impossibility except you have to have yourself cloned!
Even if or when you do that, you will not like the result!

Have you observed that weak people are attracted to strong peolpe?
Shortie to tall people?
thin men/woman to fat/huge partner?

I could go on and on friend!

THANK YOU

I no sabi garnish truth!

Most things are not what they seem to be!

[quote author=VALIDATOR link=topic=336328.msg4725327#msg4725327 date=1255443291][/quote]@Poster:
Stop ego-tripping!
You are just one of those people who like to reap where they did not sow!
How are we sure that you are still a virgin? And how old are you anyway?

What makes you feel/think that marrying a virgin insures success in your marriage?
People should stop living in FOOLS' PARADISE and grow up!
The virginity of a woman does not play any signifant role in the marital union:
if a virgin is not cut out for a wife, she will never make a good wife;
if a non-virgin is a wife marital (no matter the number of men that she slept with)
she will make a good wife and make you proud.
A man that lives in the past makes little or no head ways in life!

I for one dated so many girls (i cant even count) before marriage and none of them was a virgin!
Am i missing anything? No SIR! It makes absolutely no difference to me.
A good, reasonable and responsible woman is good, reasonable and responsible
and the state of her virginity does not make any difference, infact it is superficial.

During my last year in school i met this lovely and naive girl who told me that if she had known she was going to meet someone like that she would have kept her virginity (she lost it just three months before we met!).
I told her that it does and did not matter with me!
People, the level of her exposure/lack of it (and the fact that i was the second person to date her)
did not make her a saint!

If you are looking for a perfect woman/man to marry; YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A VERY LONG SEARCH!
Why? You will never find one because you that is lookiing for one is not perfect yourself.

A WOMAN MIGHT HAVE KEPT THAT PARTICULAR AREAS (her virginity) SANE AND HAVE (BIG) FLAWS IN EVERY OTHER AREAS of her life! When and if that is the case, WHERE THEN IS YOUR JOY VIRGIN SEEKER!

GROW UP AND STOP EGO-TRIPPING!

Opposites attracts people.

Why it is so is because they complement each other, Depend on each other,
Attract each other like the metal to magnet;
Like the female and male genitals to each other;
Like males to females,
Like the electric power NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE WIRES!

Inasmuchas we want to be with people that shares the same ideas + opinions like us,
point is that most times we do not really get along well fine.

A talkative needs someone to listen to him;
A quite person needs someone to listen to!

etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc

;d ;d ;d ;d

God is not wicked my friend but i just wonder where you got your statistics!

He (God) is not an eye for an eye God but be sure that as long as He is in heaven that no evil deeds will ever go unpunished!

As an after thought: women/girls that trades their virginity, whose responsibility is it?

Theirs of course because they did it with their eyes (WIDE) open!

@ADMINISTRATOR:

Somethings are not for all to see and hear.

contact me @ theidealman4u@gmail.com

Subject of your mail should be the title of your thread.

Am waiting

All the best

@AMAKA:
Tell them: loud and clear too.

Pharoh:
@julian why don't you create a thread for that believe me it will be an interesting topic to discuss objectively. The poster knows what he has asked and thats why we have responded in like manner. I think you should read up his earlier contribution on other threads and you will know why he asked this question.

You have highlighted so many issues facing the females nowadays but how many of them are even listening to you? please create the thread and invite me lets discuss. _{Invite ebonyeyes as well}

I hear you

I find it really very annoying to see people here not responding to threads objectively:
They either turn it to a joke or a gender battle!

Why can't we reason objectively?

Well, i think what the poster should have asked is:
"why do naija Ladies wait till they are past their prime before they get married"?

Put this way it removes the sting from the post and maybe stop our female folks from seeing it as a gender attack.

Lots of reason abound as to why our women fails to get married until they are past their prime.
Some of this reasons are:

*Some wait for a particular man who had promised marriage and at the end of the day failed to live up to his promise.

*Others wait for the supposedly Mr. Right without looking for ways to make themselves Miss Right.

*Some just felt that it was not yet time until,

*Yet others wanted to "enjoy" the good things of life.

*Some parents also contribute to this as some are bent on a particular criterion for their in laws to be.

*Wicked people also "jazz" young women into not being "attractive" to suitors.

*Others too are generational curses following them.

*Some are in love with their "freedom" until we-all-know-the-answer.

* others set lofty standards for themselves: A college/master Degree, a house and car, good jobs etc before settling down only for them to be disillusioned along the way!

PEOPLE, THE LIST IS (JUST) ENDLESS!

Are you sure you really want our opinion(s)?

The chicks you have been dating, who usually gave the go-ahead?

Grow up

My sister,

If you know and understand the true meaning of the word "LOVE",
you will know that it is NOT POSSIBLE to be "IN LOVE" with two different people at the same time.
Yes you are really confuse because you DO NOT know what "love" means.

You can be "in love" with a person and like (so many) others with different degree of "likeness";
but "love" them? IMPOSSIBLE! And if you think you do, you are mistaken or simply dump!

The guy in the UK you have never met but talk with all the time nonetheless and he seems to be all that our naija brother is not! HOW CONVENIENCE!

My sincere advice/suggestion(s)?

DO A THROUGH SOUL-SEARCHING AND LET US KNOW YOU CONCLUSION(S)

Arkison:
What if the man happened to be an ambitious comedian who also acts in movies and fight for human rights?

YOU ARE REALLY FUNNY!

@POSTER pls answer him:

"What if the man happened to be an ambitious comedian who also acts in movies and fight for human rights?"

Youngnoble:
My name is ugochukwu,24yr old.I am a graduate of biochem.I am a virgin.I need a girl dat wil disvirgin me.I am a boy.My no is 08038922788.I wil b in serious rlatnshp wit d girl

Ugo,

You do not need a girl to "DISVIRGIN" you.
All you need is to get involved in a relationship with the person of the opposite sex
who you like and find attractive and move on from there.

Even if a girl responds to your post, will she just come and say "I AM HERE TO "DISVIRGIN" YOU"?

It seems you have a complex problem when it comes to dealing with women.
Try working on that because that will be the starting point.

If you want a personal info on this send an email to: theidealman4u@gmail.com

Best of luck.

I do not know who you and it (really) does not make any difference!

If you are down with this girl, go on and marry her - PERIOD!

In the affairs of marriage, public opinion my friend does not matter;
because we all know the kind of people we are attracted to and things that makes us happy and fullfilled.

OTHER TRAIT I might (just might) forgive but INFIDELITY; NO WWWWWAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!

This happens from time to time - people not wanting to let go - when it is rather obvious that they should.

I had similar experience that resulted to a HOT WATER BATH but i would not want to bore you with the details.

My suggestion is for you to ignore her completely!

Your mistakes however was reveavling too much about yourself to her.
You should not have told her so much about yourself and your social networks etc.
I would not say that i blame you cuz people do the craziest of thing all in the name of love.

Another mistake is overlooking so many things about her that you noticed from the outset
with the hope that she would change!
People dont just change! They do the things they do not because it is right but because they feel that it is right
and until they feel otherwise, they will continue in that direction.

Dont be surprised if she comes to visit you but i will suggest you dont even stay under the roof with her;
if possible DRIVE her away from your house and go to an unknown place till she leaves.

It can really be annoying when people fails to respond to us they way we respond to them but we must move on and be the best that the ALMIGHT has created for us to be.

You seem to be a very "funny" person.

Was it not the same chick you told us that wanted you to give her money after been apart for over 8 - 9 months and visiting her at the insistence of the mom?
What are you really palying at or is it that you just lack threads to post here?

Alternatively, you seem to like this ex of your and just wants peoples' opinion(s) that suits what you have in mind.

If not for that i wander what is wrong with you.
If you still like this girl make peace with her and move on instead of coming here to paint her black!
And if you are not interested anymore, then there is no reason exchanging calls (if you must, it should be once in a while).

WETIN YOU NO WAN CHOP, MAKE YOU NO CARRY AM NEAR YOUR NOSE!

I am not saying that you should not maitain contact with an ex;
some are not just healthy and we should be sensible to know them and keep awy from them