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this report is just to paint ffk in bad light..

but the niggs Bleep up oo..
why him go forgive that kind wife? that kind olosho when dey sleep with people husband no need forgiveness..

nairalanders just got a new meme

Slymonster:
Is something wrong with abraham. Jorginho is the penalty taker. Why is he stressing. Abi Werner no suppose take am too lol

no mind d yeye child.
him no know say we dey put jorginho for our fantasy league for penalty sake..

BabaO2:
Real winger like who? Dont mention Hudson Odoi that will disappear after 20min oo, we should learn to be patience and accept decisions from the experts

take it or leave it. having a winger in games helps the team in midfield..
brighton were having a field day when dey played against chelsea I the midfield cos no winger to trouble their 2 and 3.
guess lampard heard from me today.
no bad blood brother we win the game conviñsingly..

Lampard better drop mount this time around oo.
Not saying mount is bad but we need a real winger to trouble their defence from wing cos if they ain't that busy theyll add up the midfield numbers hence making life difficult for our midfielders..

Buzx:
Maybe na iPhone 6 you dey use self. iPhone 6 way like 4 people don use with 10% battery life and broken screen. I sure say you dey plug power bank every minute too. Fowl.

I swear, guy I use iphone6s 3 months back.
my guy the only thing I respect about the phone is the camera.
mehn!! the battery matter taya me ooo.
not really a tech guy oo but mehn it wasn't really worth the price hype.

Iambro:
same thing with me, I am 20yrs old
if I should start my own story I won't finish it.
my mom still beat me even tho I do charge.
She tore all my cloth, now I only have one T-Shirt and my bear chest. I can't go out anymore.
I am a terma 1 cadet at Nigerian police academy. when I got shortlisted I was so happy, not because of the admission but because I will be free from abuses.
Not until covid-19 made me returned home.
The one my father did that pained the most was during this lockdown down.
He sent a text message to my friend father that if they see me in their house they should send me away imagine??
They showed me the message and they were really angry at my father.

Right now am fucking depressed. I have tried to commit suicide several times cause i hate the bully and maltreatment in the name of correction. though I am not perfect.

I don't have any friends cause all of them are afraid of me/my parent.

I havent stepped outside for 1 week because I don't have any cloth to wear and they don't care. I pray my school resumes so I can be free from depression again.
I understand the poster plight very well it is what I am currently facing too.

sorry for my bad english.

eyaa sorry bro.
your parents should have been wise enough to stop, since your a cadet, u don't need to scold them.
just be patient with them and yes as much as possible if school resumes, avoid going home as much as possible, let them know you don't want to be with them.(abi your dad too na high ranking officer)?
if so my brother just keep trying and yes learn to react when it becomes too severe so you won't be depressed.
my guy also commot that nonsense called sucide from your head uve gat a lot of people to disappoint with your success..

Righteousness89:


My Brother! Flogging is a form of Discipline
Punishment is a Form of Discipline!

You can't be Under your Parents and do anyhow!

There are Lanlord that will lock you outside for breaking the house rules. If you are not happy, what u do is move out!

As a young man who is passing a phase in Life, knowing the Circumstances around you, you will avoid anything that will bring such stuffs..

Maturity is not just in age or in height!
It's the ability to know what to do and how to do it..

Your Parents are your Parents ! Don't Deceive yourself!

If I visit my dad, and I wanna stay with him, I need to adjust myself to what happens there..

I really don't want to interfere in your comments but man I need to understand that most of us condeming the attitude of the father ain't stupid either.
using cain for a 26yr old guy cos he still stays in his father's house isn't discipline.
if I were to be the father, I'll lock my gate/door let him sleep outside rather than canning him.
the holy book teaches us to respect our parents the same holy book didn't tell our parents to exploit our weakness.
it wasn't his wish to remain in his father house and the old man knows this.
if we had the economy the way our fathers met it he would have been working with a better pay and would have most likely left the house.
the op here might been an over patient person oo cos I'm sure 7 out of 10 people going through what the Op Is going through at that age would have reacted which is bad to the father's self respect.

merieam16:
@op follow this advice at ur own peril

bros I was in the op shoes years back.
I did what this guy did and the story is d reverse today.
then my dad would beat me, call soldiers when dey front of our house(dad was a military officer) to beat me join.
until d day when I carry jack knife to treatment my dad and promised to stab any soldier that interfere.
men I did it out of depression cos my dad was exploiting my weakness.
today me and d old man na partial friend, yeah we were never alike in nature though..

situationreport:
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions

Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why

I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment

I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....

your dad would continue doing so until you dammn d consequences and react back..
was in your shoes years back.
at 21 my dad punished me in front of visitors including children for doing almost nothing wrong.
infact what I did that day was to leave the house when my mom's nagging became too much.
she reported to my dad that I left the house, besides u didn't come home late sef.
it continued until last year @age 23 when I finally reacted.
omo na so d man carry stick for me oo, my anger was too much I took the stick away from him but didn't do nothing.
but I just showed him the hard part of me that day, he tried again some other time and got a messier result.
Now attimes I feel sorry for him cos he knows he can't get me do things the hard way again, rather he begs me indirectly to do it which is something he should have learnt to do on his own but learnt it the hard way.
ill advise you hustle for something oo..
make sure I don't ask him for any penny yes any penny.
@that age of you still stay in your fathers house, it's understandable but if he's still the one funding your bills aside feeding, my brother you still got a lot to do too.

but next time he tries to bully you, no gree am.
it's not disrespect, it's you putting your dad's sense on track .

donbachi:
We go soon hear sey..the fire where these machines dey.don catch fire...dis machine is their common enemy.

learn to be positive attimes.
if you continue with this attitude, even when the real good comes, it'll most like pass.

sammysmiles:
I know a lot of people will think now that you have made sense..... But you never made any sense here..... Giving someone cigarette that the producers tells us smokers are liable to die young or buying some one beer that will later destroy him,,, where is the love there Man next time use a more reasonable and better illustration...

when he said the young mind is more tempted to join the bad group( smokers and drinkers) cos they show themselves more love, don't you think he's making a more clearer point about bad people helping themselves whereas Good people ain't really helping themselves with food, the most basic life necessity??

Blankstare:
A Cigarette smoker without money can leave
his house with faith that when He gets to
the joint his friends will buy for him and for
sure even without begging, his friends will
say guy take one stick. That's Love.
A guy who loves beer without money can
leave his house to a beer parlour with faith
that his gang members will buy for him and
for sure even without asking, his friends will
say guy take one bottle. That's love.
But can a hungry/jobless person leave his
house to a religious organisation with faith
that someone will give him money to come
and eat
Where is the love that we preach everyday?
Have you bothered to ask a member of your
church.religious organisations how life is
treating them? People go through a lot and
only few will voice out.
Someone will sow 1million naira seed in a
religious gathering but beg him for 1k out
side he will say no money.
This is why it's easy for the devil to confuse
young minds to join bad gang because they
even show love more than most people that
preach love.
We the religious people really have to step
up and start practising this love that we
preach. I hope that I am communicating?

your words are full of wisdom.
Thanks for this post.
We should cultivate the habit of guy take 1 plate of food as much as we say take 1 bottle..

chingle5:
Guys I am literally at the point of smashing my phone I don't where I hav gone wrong... I thought it is only on my opera browser the gorilla is only show but it is showing everywhere on my phone even on my mx player... Me I don't know what to do again....

it's an hidden app and It steals your data also.
download data eye from play store and only give internet access to app you use..

namiji2598:
some of us here in the north have graduated 10 years ago and still not Job...abeg make I no talk too much am damn broke

graduate for over ten years and couldn't get a job in the north??

for reaaalll??
I know the market is competitive in the north central but if for ten years you couldn't get a teaching job in the north, you need to meet your village people..

thilese ones never know where dey pain them.

if sahara reporters was a reliable source, Nairaland won't have to include their name in every post and accusations made by them..

Zenithpeak:
Abegggggi..... I saw the news of the marriage on NTA, so, who is feeding the public with lies? NTA or VOA Hausa?

u saw it on NTA news papers headline rather..
they were only reading from papers

my guy I'm as surprised as you too. how this post got to front page still dey shock me like buhari..

state governor's needs to wake up.. but I'm surprised why bayelsa state is on the list

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

I know this day is imminent
A soldier is supposed to stay off social media when you want to complain or register your grievances.....

Use suggestions cum grievance box not social media

Because it will affect the chain of command

your head dey there.
the guy think say military na democracy.
it would have been a slap to the military if he walks free.
protocols needs to be adhered to.

fortunate woman i must say.

Karlifate:
Dat lady wey wear red kom stand lyk "iron woman."

asw
ear.
d stand get as e be

GreaterFuture1:
Also Block people from Quoting you and you seeing their Posts. Maybe Remove the like button ¯\_༼ •́ ͜ʖ •̀ ༽_/¯
And my own personal preference, Using the reddit tree System so that Comments are more Arranged, Organized and Orderly, but that's just my personal preference tho, not a must.

those with unreasonable comments should be shoved to the buttom.
that way the kids who are struggling for FTC would grow up and think well before commenting.

AllOfUsAtManna:
they want seun to compromise nairaland so it'll loose it's anonymity
FYI
Nairaland's features makes it unique and that's why it has lasted for so long and i still don't see its decline in the future.
those guys are people that can't take the heat here.
this forum is the last hope of Nigerians regarding free speech.
this is the only forum where Nigerians can talk without fear
Nairaland is doing well although seun needs to reshuffle his mods especially that know apc partisan mod.

there's possibility of decline which I hope doesn't happen.
check the growth rate of the forum, its not as fast as before. its only a matter of time for the growth to stop then next is the decline.
I joined this forum 2014, it took me some time to start commenting.
people who made comments here as at then were very creative and mature but now the reverse seems to be the case.
I have friends who I've tried so much to make love this forum but only gets pissed of by the tribalistic attitudes of the members.
if you observe, our old legends like tosyne.2much, tonye.barcanista, billyon.aire, even sarrki and the rest have stopped commenting like before.
children's who aren't willing to learn have taken over the forum with their tribalisyic chants.
trust me, if seun refuses to do something about what the members are complaining the most about, its only a matter of time I assure him.
na change of phone number when people no fit change begin crash 2go.
people have tried in the past to rival nairaland but failed, people are still trying and one good day, they'll succeed.

Sanchez01:
You aren't communicating. However, let me clear you on why an Igbo president is a pipe dream, at least for now.

1. The PDP is interested in returning to power and will most likely hand over its ticket to a Northerner because they desperately need to win. An Igbo president under the PDP is unrealistic as there is no Igbo politician with a national appeal. Heck, not even one that can win an election outside his state, even in the South East.

2. The APC will most likely retain the seat and understands that the best way to do it is to NOT hand its presidential ticket to someone of the Igbo extraction. Why? Because the North will aggressively reject the idea and the APC will lose the North. Plus, the North is still interested, leaving the battle to the North and South West.

3. Voting Strength: The South East is the least influential region, politically, as far as Nigeria is concerned, which is why the PDP had taken the region for a ride for over 16 years. Both parties know they only need a fraction of the South East vote and then look forward to appealing to the SW for the decider. Knowing the South East is weak vote-wise, it would be foolhardy to entrust the ticket to a region with low voting power.

4. National Appeal: While Tinubu has mastered the art of packaging and winning, one thing 'his' politicians all have in common is a sound profile and a decent amount of popularity outside their region. None of your politicians have that.

5. The North: I hate to say this, but the North will never vote an Igbo candidate, no thanks to history. The level of distrust is so huge that any party that announces an Igbo presidential candidate, as far as the North is concerned has set itself up for failure. While the South East warms up to the North, the North look toward the South West for periodic relationships, which is why they are unbothered so long they are in agreement with the Yorubas.

6. Absence of power politicians: You all hate the feeling of a Tinubu in the South East but it is somewhat necessary. The absence of one is why there is no unification in the South East. Rochas is to Imo as Gburugburu is to Enugu. Worse is the fact that these guys don't even wield any power even at home. The North will always rely on the West because of the presence of its unifiers, namely Obasanjo and more importantly BAT. They need his power, his influence and his alliance to succeed in the West and he has transcended to the North with the influence.

7. Burnt Bridges: Not sure I should say anything about this... You already know.

So, my good friend, there is no surprise whatsoever in 2023. The election will be decided the day either party hands the ticket to the South East.

PS: APGA would have had a shot at producing an Igbo president but it is primarily an Anambra party, not even respected outside Anambra.

u made reasonable points but only ish be say, na mumu you been dey try educate. but thanks still we the passersby appreciate your words.

Athemisia:
please don't pray for such... I have been in that situation before... you don't even feel the pleasure in the act... it becomes more like work

I swear down. the thing been do me too, the thing no be satin any guy go pray for.
while 2 min is embarrassing, going an hour plus be like site work.
biko I for prefer the two minute.

to the OP, I was like you ( not that I'm fully recovered oo) but here's what assisted me.
squatting.
I started squatting a lot.
and it has reduce the period from 1hr plus to 40min.

Notatribalist:
lol..Well,you got it wrong..It's actually the other way round,you can ask anyone who has live in Ghana.. Life in Ghana is way too expensive. Most goods we consume here in Ghana are actually brought in from Nigeria at a cheap price and have them resell here at a very expensive price..
Talking about the currency, you also got this wrong.. The fact that their currency sound higher than naira is not by virtue of their economic stride..Infact,Ghana economy is a complete mess,if you don't work in Ghana you can die of hunger within a month...Now let me explain why the currency look higher than naira.. In 2007,the CEDI's was so poor that they had to remove 4 zeros from the currency, meaning The 10 CEDI's you see today is actually 100,000 CEDI's.. So in today market your 100 CEDI's is equivalent to 9000 naira, sound so good for CEDI's right?Now let's remove 3 zeros from naira just the same way zero where removed from CEDI's.. 100,CEDI's = 9,000- 000= 9 naira.. Don't forget we only took away 3 zeros from naira oh,not 4 zeros that Ghana removed from CEDI's oh..

So looking at the above explanation you will agree with me that CEDI's only sound powerful on paper,its doesn't reflect on the economy.. Today thing you buy here at the rate of like 100 CEDI's goes for less than 9000 naira in Nigeria.. So the purchasing power purity (PPP) in economy is what can be use to rate economy..
The area Ghana is doing better than Nigeria is the electricity. They have a very stable electricity, beside that no other area my brother.. I am just being honest with you here.

well said.

Alimzy20:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders i need your strong advices.my parents are forcing me to get married !! I'm just 21.I've tried all possible ways to change their mind. it ended in vain.

I'm not in relationship either. What should i do now? I'm still schooling and unemployed too..

my guy your associating with them that's why they keep pressuring you.
assimilate with them and see changes.
while its important to respect your parents, its also important for them to respect your opinion..

adelnehis:
He should go to a private school because public schools won't take it
There are cheap private schools Sha for like 300k or 400k a year

300k cheap??
issokay

Mokason28:

Very soon we will hear the real story... Let me reserve my comment
Truth be told El-rufais son is a bastard

u still dey give Sahara reporters benefit of doubts?

froze6:
just for laugh,I don't even know which 1 to upload self got about 40 different pictures

my guy just do the one you can..